Stage II No Chemo, Tamoxife-Radiation & Alternative Treatment

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Is
anyone out there with stage 2 breast cancer, 1 out of 5 lymph node affected
and chose not to do chemo and tamoxifen?...it was a very difficult decision for
me to do chemo or no chemo then tamoxifen or no tamoxifen?...finally I decided
not to go the chemo route. Doctors told me I have a 50/50 chance of it
coming back... and the doctors scare the daylight out of you because they say
if it comes back it will be fatal. But even with chemo they can't
guarantee it will not come back...that's also a 50/50. It's a total crap
shoot. it's very much an individual thing..each cancer is different, each
treatment will have a different effect ...no cancer and no individual is
created equal. I decided not to do chemo based on the fact my body is not
strong enough and I don't think I could of handled the ravages the chemo would
of left on my body. I'm seeing a wonderful Traditional Chinese Doctor
who's helping me immensely. Not just from a physical standpoint but
emotianly as well. I am in the process of helping my body get strong with
weekly accupuncture sessions and taking a specially made tea for me. So,
instead of weakening my body, I want my body to get strong so that it can
fight the cancer for now....If it does come back then by then my body will be
able to handle the chemo.

I believe our bodies can fight cancer if it is strong enough. But somewhere
along the line something goes wrong and our bodies can no longer fight it.
Whether its our immune system that broke down or we live an unhealthy lifestyle
that catches up with us. But then again it also happens to people that are the
picture of health, like I was. I just got a book called "Naked
Imperfection" by Gillian Deacon. She was this all natural vegetarian, yogi
practicing runner - the least likely person to get cancer and she was also
diagnosed with this crazy disease. the book is a best seller and it is a good
read. Cancer is random, there is no rhyme or reason.

Then it was a question of Tamoxifen? I decided not to do it since
again, did not like the side effects. Going with radiation. I know my
body can handle that and it has least amount of side effects. Just started my
sessions, total 31. It will be a long month.

Since I've been diagnosed with cancer I have done a lot of research making
sure I am making the right decision for me. So far I am feeling pretty good,
improved my eating habits, meditating more doing all the right things. I
have started a blog and am chronicling my journey, which helps.
Funny I probably would of never thought of blogging, that just
happened. Hopefully I'm just not helping myself but others as well to feel a
little more positive.

I look forward to hearing from people who may be going through the same
painful decision process or experiencing a similar situation. I am a big
fan of alternative healing as well so hope to hear from some people that are
doing that to compliment whatever healing they chose. By the way my Blog
address is

http://blog.listen2hiddentreasures.com/blog/

Also, I live in the Burlington, Ontario area and I would like to host a circle if you
will, a place for women coping with breast cancer, where we have a chance to
get together and talk about our journey, our feelings whatever we may be going
through. Drop me a line if you are interested in being a part of a women's
circle with breast cancer. I got the idea while I was sitting waiting for my
daily radiation treatment.I started
talking to this wonderful lady with a beautiful voice who said “Szilvia maybe
you should host a get together, a tea party for ladies with cancer”.She could be on to something ….All wonderful ideas
start with a little spark.

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  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited October 2014

    Sorry that you are having to deal with bc. I can't address most of your concerns, but I can speak to one. Doctors are not trying to scare the day lights out of you when they speak of a distant recurrence , i.e. Metastasis. (Local recurrence in the breast is different) The ugly reality is that those with metastatic bc will almost always die from it. Currently, it's estimated that only 1-2% with mets are actually cured. More are living beyond the 5 year mark that was so often quoted and we hope that new tx will increase survival time or provide a true cure.

    Your decision is not an easy one and I wish you the best.

  • tiff2talk
    tiff2talk Member Posts: 7
    edited October 2014

    You are not alone.  I have also decided against chemotherapy and Tamoxifen. I was diagnosed with Stage 2 breast cancer of the right breast.  I chose to have a right breast masectomy via laser surgery by the most amazing surgeon in New York.  2 of the 7 lymphs nodes taken out was cancerous.

    BTW, I believe my cancer was caused by the birth control pill I was on for 5 years prior to being diagnosed.

    Instead of chemo and Tamoxifen, I choose to eat mostly organic (no soy and no milk), exercise/walk 5 times a week, lower my stress levels by working less, and stopped taking birth control pills.  I have an infrared sauna to detox the toxins in my body and a chi machine to increase my circulation and lymphs.  I even bought an organic cotton mattress, since most of the chemicals that mattress are made out of like polyurethane foam, disturbs your hormones and are very toxic.  

    Cancer is scary. And it is an individual choice and there is no guarantee.  I feel comfortable with my decision.  I commend you for following your heart and taking your health into your hands.  Your life is your responsbility.  Feel free to send me a private message :)

  • Racy
    Racy Member Posts: 2,651
    edited October 2014

    Very intelligent posts here, ladies!

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited October 2014

    Hi szilvia11,

    Thank you for sharing your story, your thoughts, and your decisions on your cancer treatment. 

    Your idea to host a circle is great and there is an active thread on 'get together's' here where you can find other ladies in your area.

    Check it out Here

    warmly, the mods

  • GiGiL
    GiGiL Member Posts: 928
    edited November 2014

    Hi there Szilvia11. I am Stage II also. I had no lymph node involvement. Chemo was mentioned to me, but not urged. I did do radiation and I am glad I did that. I have had some lasting effects of that, but nothing I can't handle. I do Qigong, meditation, follow a careful diet keeping sugar to a minimum. I try to exercise regularly. I am still working on that. I drink a smoothie every morning in which I include turmeric and black pepper. More and more research is showing that turmeric can actually destroy the blood supply to tumor cells. I should probably add some turmeric tea every day, and more green tea as well. I also try to do a long fast between dinner and my first meal of the day, in order to starve any errant cells - although I firmly believe there are none. I believe our minds are very powerful and we can either think sick or we can think well. I choose well. I vibrate health. I am 65 years of age, and I have a hard time believing that I have enough estrogen in my body to feed a tumor. I feel the misery of no hormones already. I have not taken Tamoxifen or any AI's. I understand there are those that would not agree with my decision, but I have read tons of research and I really can't find enough to convince me that chemo or tamoxifen would improve my situation, and it certainly is not going to improve my quality of life.. I use meditation daily and visualize health. I believe we all have to choose our own road in all of this. What is right for one person might not be right for anyone else. It is our body after all and our choice to make.

  • edwards750
    edwards750 Member Posts: 3,761
    edited November 2014

    Hi Szilia - guess I will be the lone dissenting vote. I chose to do Rads and take Tamoxifen. I did my homework too and decided not going that route was too much of a Russian roulette mentality for me. I also had the Oncotype test which also offered even more of an incentive to follow the prescribed treatment plan.

    Had chemo been the treatment of choice I would have done that as well knowing the SEs can be brutal. There are no guarantees whatever route we take but one thing is certain it is our life thus our decision. Make sure you don't second guess yourself and don't look back.

    Diane

  • readytorock
    readytorock Member Posts: 199
    edited November 2014
    tiff2talk - curious as to why you think it was your BC? I was on BC for 22 year and would love to blame it on that - I quit the day I was diagnosed
  • readytorock
    readytorock Member Posts: 199
    edited November 2014
    Szilvia11 - I am Stage IIA with one lymph node - I chose to do EVERYTHING possible (chemo, Tam, Rads, shutting down ovaries) You didnt say your age - maybe that was a factor

    Did you have Oncotype test? Mammaprint? I did both, and while I could have probably avoided chemo, I didnt want to have to live with making the decision

    I am so at peace now and starting chemo tomorrow!

    Best to you!
  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited November 2014


    Hi Szilvia,

    I can't speak to your treatment options as I was Stage I and no chemo was offered.  I did try Tamoxifen and stopped after 6 weeks due to the side effects.  I also tried an AI for a week and stopped taking it for the same reasons.

    I can speak to the idea of a get together with other survivors.  I've been to many gatherings over the past 7 1/2 years in the US and in Canada.  It's a rewarding and fun thing to do.  If you get the chance to meet other gals from BCO, I encourage you to go for it!  The lifelong friendships you make are awesome.  I met my first survivor sister shortly after my diagnosis and we have remained close friends over the years.  A couple of years ago, I hosted a gathering for  the weekend at my house in VA.  We had 13 BCO sisters attend and lots of husbands and friends.  It was the best weekend ever.

    hugs,

    Bren

  • labelle
    labelle Member Posts: 721
    edited December 2014

    No chemo was offered to me, even w one node positive, due to low oncotype dx score (11). I'm still wrestling with radiation (but will probably do it) and with the Tamoxifen or ovarian removal so I can have Aromatose therapy (because I'm very close to menopause this is an option) or no hormone therapy at all (the estrogen is going thanks to mother nature anyway). No advice here, but I definitely understand wrestling with the treatments possible pluses (real) v their possible drawbacks (also very real) and no guarantees being offered either way.

    Diet, vitamins, exercise and mother nature's abilities to heal are all being calculated in the mix by my poor worn out brain. Our choices are anything but easy. My surgeon told me in the old days it was easy, women w BC just had radical mastectomies and then they were sent home to live or die (no other treatment options existed). Choices are better, but they are also difficult to make.

  • SamUK
    SamUK Member Posts: 1
    edited December 2014

    Hi all - I am actually doing some research with individuals who have declined some form of conventional cancer treatment as Szilvia discribes. This is for my Masters of Psychology at the University of East London in the UK.

    The purpose of the research is to not judge these decisons but use my research as a platform to better understand individuals experiences so the medical community is more aware and open to hearing these stories when they encounter those who may want to take an alternative approach.

    As Szilivia describes these decisions are difficult and not always an easy subject to talk about, however, if there is anyone who would like to share their story, I have a couple of places left. The research takes place in the form of a 60 min interview usually over skype.

    It does not matter if you have declined conventional treatment, then restarted it at some point, or stopped completely, the research is purely to try and understand your personal experience with the decisions you have made.

    No personal or identifying information will be included in my findings as all the data will be anonymised.

    If you are interested, or simply want more information feel free to email me via my university email u1253567@uel.ac.uk or sam_eddy@hotmail.com. Absolutely no pressure either way and anyone who decides to participate is able to change their mind at any point as I understand this is a very personal subject.

    For anyone who is interested I will be able to email you an invitation letter from my unversity that gives you more information about the study.

    Thanks for reading.

    Sam



  • Lucy2014
    Lucy2014 Member Posts: 13
    edited December 2014

    I have not opened the envelope sent by the surgeon for 'recommended treatments' after lumpectomy and ALND (2 sentinels positive, 13 ALN negatives, ER+ 100%, PR 60% (moderate). I know they wanted me to have ch radioth and taximophen when last spoken. I don't know if the letter said the same.

    My results seems similar to yours and amazing your were not suggested chemo. May be not so similar: grade 2 and my tumour was actually twin tumours (embedded in muscle - breast line)



  • labelle
    labelle Member Posts: 721
    edited December 2014

    In my case the Oncotype testing seemed to be the deciding factor indicating not chemo was needed or would not be beneficial due to the genetic make-up of my tumor, despite min node involvement. Did you have this test? I think it can be very helpful in deciding treatment options. I met w the RO yesterday and am inclined to go thru w radiation, although I am planning to pass on the superclavical portion he's recommending. I have Hashimoto's and basically I'm pretty sure my thyroid is trying to kill me, therefore I'm trying not to piss it off. RO says w radiating the superlavical regions there is no way to avoid some scatter to my thyroid so that part won't happen.

  • katcar0001
    katcar0001 Member Posts: 621
    edited December 2014

    Hi Labelle,

    I have been following your posts with immense interest as we have a similar tumor. I have not received all the results yet--oncotype, hormone receptors, etc. I am also 51 (turned 1 day before my surgery) and do not want Tamoxifen or chemo. The only differences between us are that my two sentinel nodes were negative, and I had to have a mastectomy because I am small breasted, and the tumor was too close to the nipple (so no rads). I am really confused what course to take. I have already started taking DIM because I had been on BHRT, and I think it had something to do with me getting this cancer or at least growing it. It may have been there 10 years for all I know. I wish there were clearer answers--you are so right about surgery being the only option a few years ago, and the path forward now is not so clear. And there are so few current studies on our type.

    Thanks for sharing your experiences so far. ~Kat

  • labelle
    labelle Member Posts: 721
    edited December 2014

    In some ways our diagnosis are similar. I did have a tubular carcinoma removed (7 mm/ .7 cm). I too am 51 years old. Strangely enough both of the two surgeons I consulted w who both viewed my breast MRI also thought I had DCIS (cribiform) around the tumor, but when they did my lumpectomy, no DCIS and no one has explained what happened to that. It seems they took out a pretty good chunk of my breast to get what wasn't there-pathologist found only benign calcifications around a tumor that was also smaller than they had thought. I guess I could be pissed about it, but I did get very clean/wide margins. Or maybe my body cleaned the DCIS up on it's own. Hmm.

    About 8 months before being dx w bc I switched to a strict Paleo diet (no processed foods, sugar/dairy/gluten/soy) lost 20 lbs, felt great, finally got my thyroid and vitamin D levels stabilized. I'm so glad I made those changes when I did as everything is challenging due to how this dx of BC has messed with me psychologically-I just feel worn out 1/2 the time and all I've had so far is surgery and cooking Paleo involves a lot of work and careful planning.

    Removing processed sugar alone is challenging-many people write they've cut out sugar, but unless you are making your own breads w/o sugar, most commercially prepared bread products are full of sugar or corn syrup or something like that.

    Still, node involvement is often a game changer. It has certainly given me pause. The low oncotype score makes me feel good about no chemo. I lost my mother to breast cancer about 8 years ago. She did everything-chemo, lumpectomy, rads, tamoxifen but died w/in 4 years of her diagnosis with an ER+ tumor, despite an initially good prognosis. So I know choosing conventional therapy holds no guarantees and my mother suffered as much from her treatments as the disease. Obviously, tamoxifen did not help my mother. The ability to metab tamoxifen properly (about 10% of us don't) tends to be hereditary, and while there is a test for this it isn't regularly given and my current OC won't order it for me and even if she did request it, my insurance probably wouldn't approve it, so given my mother's experience there is no way I'm going to take it and deal with the side effects w/out knowing if it is doing me any good at all. My mother had mets to her liver, or they think they were mets. Like many women who develop liver mets while taking tamoxifen, my mother's were never biopsied, just assumed to be mets from her breast cancer, not a new primary. Despite the fact that tamoxifen causes liver cancer in labs animals, when women taking tamoxifen get liver mets it is often assumed not to be a new cancer, so I don't think we really know the true risks associated with tamox and liver cancer. Anyway, I'm not going there w/out knowing if I can metabalize it properly.

    Hormone test done a couple months ago show me being on the border between pre-menopause and menopausal so ovarian removal to maybe use AI therapy is something I am seriously considering. Many studies have also shown having ovarian removal, if you are premenopausal, confers about the same benefits as chemo (for ER+) and since I'm not doing chemo...............


    But truth be told, I think I was on the path to cleaning up my BC already. I believe years of not so healthy eating, combined with probably years of not having enough vitamin D and my thyroid being a mess left me wide open to BC. Now I'm better, but the rads are going to happen. As far as I'm concerned removing my ovaries is hormone therapy and if I have that done, that may be it.

    I am considering natural bio-identical progesterone therapy at this time, per recommendations of an orthopedist. Never thought I'd go to that type of doctor for cancer therapy, but he's the only one talking to me about diet, exercise, etc.

  • katcar0001
    katcar0001 Member Posts: 621
    edited December 2014

    Thank you, labelle, for sharing more about your own diagnosis as well as your mother's heartbreaking story. I cannot imagine doing all those harsh treatments for a "good prognosis" cancer and still succumbing. My mother also suffered much over many years during her complex disease process, including leiomyosarcoma, and died at age 34. She had very little QOL for much of her young life. After reading about your mother dying of cancer to the liver, I did more research on Tamoxifen, its carcinogenicity, its relationship to liver toxicity and liver cancer. That was the final "no way" moment for me. I will refuse it. I am also leaning toward an oophorectomy and maybe an AI once I am postmenopausal.

    However, what I really need is the result of my oncotype testing. That part and whether I will need chemo is still an unknown. I thought at first I had pure tubular, but the latest email from my doctor said IDC (tubular and solid), whatever the solid part means. The initial pathology report after the core biopsy said tubular and some DCIS, so I am confused now. I feel better about my mastectomy decision now, and I think it is good that you got wide margins, even though what the surgeons thought was there was not found.

    One thing I can tell you is that I won't ever touch bioidentical progesterone or estriol/estradiol ever again. I started on progesterone 3 years ago because I was estrogen dominant (ratios were off, even though I had low estrogen). I also gained huge benefit from progesterone supplementation that helped my obstructive sleep apnea by tightening up the muscles of my throat. Now that I am off it, I am waking up gasping for air again. I started the estriol/estradiol cream about a year ago. I am convinced that either it or the combination therapy caused my lump to grow to the point where it was finally noticeable. Or did it cause it altogether? I will never know.

    I really would not know what else to change about my diet or lifestyle since I have not eaten much processed food in years, eat a balanced diet of organic vegetables and free-range organic meat when possible. I could cut out red meat entirely, I suppose, and add more vegetables. I am underweight, if anything. I do not have any thyroid problems at this time, although thyroid problems seem to run on my mother's side of the family. Perhaps I do not get as much vitamin D as I think I do, even living in Mexico, as I am fair-skinned and always cover up or wear sunscreen. I plan to get my levels tested. One thing I can do is exercise more. I walk for about 45 minutes 3 times a week but will increase that to 5 days and add more intensity.

    After poring through these boards and reading tons of stuff on the internet, I am more confused than ever, but Tamoxifen is off for sure. Talk about a Catch-22; damned if you do, damned if you don't. I am not looking forward telling my opinion to the oncologist.

    I will keep you apprised of my decisions and hope we can help each other through this murky process.

  • leggo
    leggo Member Posts: 3,293
    edited December 2014

    Labelle, what you said above....ditto. I find it super disturbing that so many "assumptions" are made in diagnosis and treatment. I've never been comfortable with "since you have bc, we can assume this is mets" theory. Seems really irresponsible when dealing with cancer, considering how specific the treatment options are. I remember bitching to my onc about it, who completely understood, but explained they can't be biopsy-ing every little thing. Me...."why not?" Him..."cost". I don't want to accept that explanation, but I guess I have to...but I don't. 

  • labelle
    labelle Member Posts: 721
    edited December 2014

    It does seem irresponsible, almost like the OCs are helping cover up any primary liver cancers being caused by Tamoxifen by not looking for them/automatically assuming they are mets from the BC. The insurance companies don't help, aren't willing to approve biopsies because either way you are being treated basically the same, but I think we should be looking closer so we do someday know which are mets and what % of women taking Tamoxifen are developing new primaries. It would seem to be an important thing to know, but of course the people profiting from the cancer industry don't see it that way at all. I'm not saying no one should ever take Tamoxifen, but this is a blind spot in the research (purposely blind maybe) and I don't understand why we can't/shouldn't be tested to see if we are going to respond positively to/are able to metabalize Tamoxifen before taking it. If not, we are not getting the protection we think we are instead some of us are opening ourselves up to the side effects w no payoff in reduced recurrence rates.

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited August 2016

    I was very iffy about tamoxifen. I did not like the SE profile, especially since my aunt had uterine cancer and my mom had ovarian cancer. Thankfully, my surgeon, who is also my main doctor, agreed with me and supported my decision to have an ooph and go on femara instead. I was on the cusp of menopause anyway and for lobular cancer, femara is more effective than tamox. One reason my doc supported me was that he was involved in the study comparing tamox and AIs. The results had not yet been published at the time, but he knew what they were going to be.

    My point being that I think it is important to find a doc who will explore options and find a solution that works for you. Hormone suppression appears to be very effective at keeping the beast at bay and there are other ways to do it, for example surgically or chemically induced menopause, than simply tamox.

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