STFU (Shut the F*** UP)
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hmmm, I have an ENT apt Tues before Turkey day and will be dang happy to get past that thing. Have a nice....problem, two invites for Turkey dinner. First one is with a long time pal, great cook but her hubbie drinks like a fish and I am reducing my alcohol in the past years. The other is my great neighbor who has given my rides to all sorts of doc appts, likes wine (like me) but not lots. Really would like to go with my neighbors but need to figure out how to get out of the first one?
Suggestions as to excuses? either way it should be a nice week. Great idea Fire !
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Grr...so aggravated with my MO's office. Have had an appt set up for today for months. Last nite, I get home from work and a message on the answering machine saying " We have to reschedule your appt tomorrow cause Janeesha (the PA) only sees Dr. What'shisname's patients on Thursday, not your doctor's patients. She sees them on Tuesdays.
Would not be so bad but hubby had an accident with his car and we are down to one so we rented a car so I could go this f$%#ing appt today! Sometimes doctors think we have no lives. Then they knew I was pissed by my message last nite so they call me this morning and say "Ok, keep the original appt! Well, I am at work now and the appt was in 23 mins from when they called me and I am an hour's drive away! WTF???
Ok, I will STFU now. Just annoyed as hell cause this appt was made in JULY! Ugh!
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good morning
PTS why don't u go to both parties????have a little bit of each treat.
April...oh U poor thing...now what R u gonna do????
Me im makin a banana bread soon
Goin to the dentist...yeah the good old dentist cause one of my bottom teeth hurts...3ok on a full moon..such fun...NOT
I also have an appt.the day before thanksgiving with the 2nd.opinion dr...but I'll ge at our party...
Don't have any idea what I'll be makin yet...
BBL
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Hate when that happens April, I've had that happen to me recently, no fun!
I had an issue this week for an appointment this week. Was supposed to see my plastic surgeon this week but had no ride. So I had to reschedule it for next Tuesday. Hoping that when the plastic surgeon sees me next week, she will green light the reconstruction.
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boy does my spelling suk
I hope everyone understands what I'm sayin.lol
Dentist at 3pm today.grrrr
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One of the reasons I love my neighbor hood is that I have several folks in my life, neighbors and such that will help me with rides. I think it took the dang C to get me to open and ask for help! Then again, economy means a few folks are unemployed or early retired and available.
FK, can not do both turkey parties as one is north and one is south of me and I have bad memories of spending the day driving between houses as a kid. Will pick one but do not need to do so yet.
Rainey day so been chasing dust bunnies around my house, dang but there are a lot of them!
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Proud, about the turkey party invites, I would do the one that is closest to you. You want to be able to enjoy your day without all the hassle that involves travelling all over the place.
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MOmmy, that is exactly my thought. My one invite is to a pals house that is north and while a long time pal, she never comes to my house as she is afraid to drive on the NJ roads (or that is what I think), I am expected to go to her house. It gets tired after a time!
ok, so I have just spent 3 hours chasing the dust bunnies around my upstairs and deserve a break. At least it is now clean-er
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Proud, I would go next door (based on how you described your two invites). The excuse I use is extreme fatigue and diarrhea.... it really works. I tell people I can go from constipation to severe diarrhea in under 20 minutes, which is the truth. No decent human expects people to drive to them when you have the big D. They also should understand if you accept the invite from next door, because you can always scoot home if need be.
April, I would go to the appointment today... even if you don't show up on the time they assign you.
I asked my DH to work on where we go for Thanksgiving. It will be my 2nd following chemo infusion, so I won't be up to cooking for a crowd. Maybe we will just stay home. Don't know yet.
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I'll be cookin all week
Everyone is invited
Some GF stuff but lots of other goodies
Not gonna tell all CAUSE
we r havin our own party here....THE ENTIRE THANKSGIVING WEEK
It's right around the corner sooo im planning now...even tho my Halloween stuff is still decorated on my door and around my apt....
Maybe later I'll take them down....
Ok I'll STFU now
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Poppy, good thoughts on the choice
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gonna make stuffed peppers to honor our beloved VEGGY
Next Sat.will be a yr.that she passed away..
That's just one of the things im gonna make
My new advitar is the first time we met
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I would pick the neighbor n say that she has been there driven u here n there n want to repay her by attending for tg, also not sure about the ride, cause not sure how u will feel.
Hey everyone hope u r doing well..
Me, ok, was up like 1 1.2 days just slept 24hrs. Omg the steroids...well it is what it is, weather is 50s getting cold n windy tomorrow, rained all day today
Bbl
ME
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Beautiful picture FK! I cannot believe it is almost a year since we lost Veggy!
Blondie, hoping you are doing as well as you can be toots...xoxo
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Since I'm a relative newbie, I didn't have a chance to meet Veggy. Based on your posts, I know she must have been a wonderful person. I am sorry you lost your friend.
Poppy
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Blondie, thanks for your opinion, I am leaning towards doing just that. I really think holidays should be stress free!
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I am havin problems agin with this damn site
Freezin up...just here
Just went down to smoke and I saw snowflakes
Grrr
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Lol snowflakes
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good morning
Blondie how's the sleeping goin?
We only had snowflakes
It's chilly tho
The fire will be starting right now
Anyone needs to warm up go to the bonefire
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just wanted to let all my sistas no I'll be goin away for a few days
I'll be in Vermont with Sharon(Veggys friend)
She needs company to make this long trip and I need to get away
Her GS is goin in for surgery
We will be there for VEGGYS first yr in Heaven.
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FK, I hope you enjoy your trip to Vermont. I know it will be bittersweet, but you and Sharon will be there for each other.
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thanks
5 hr.ride
Tryin not to think about my back sitting all that time
Not gonna even think of my stomach
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Its going
Nope
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I'm here in Vermont
It's beautiful here
Been here yrs.ago but I really forgot what it looked like
The weather is the same as PA
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Love it Alyson! FK, Vermont is beautiful as is all of New England. I live in CT and we had a spectacular fall this year. PA has a lot of beauty too and plenty of mountains for fall viewing.
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I don't want to go home tomorrow
The only bright side is im gonna see my little baby
It's freezin here
Much colder then PA
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meant to tell you that, you are in ski country now!
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