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  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 5,972
    edited November 2014

    hmmm, I have an ENT apt Tues before Turkey day and will be dang happy to get past that thing.  Have a nice....problem, two invites for Turkey dinner.  First one is with a long time pal, great cook but her hubbie drinks like a fish and I am reducing my alcohol in the past years.  The other is my great neighbor who has given my rides to all sorts of doc appts, likes wine (like me) but not lots.  Really would like to go with my neighbors but need to figure out how to get out of the first one? 

    Suggestions as to excuses?  either way it should be a nice week.  Great idea Fire !

  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 3,257
    edited November 2014

    Grr...so aggravated with my MO's office. Have had an appt set up for today for months. Last nite, I get home from work and a message on the answering machine saying " We have to reschedule your appt tomorrow cause Janeesha (the PA) only sees Dr. What'shisname's patients on Thursday, not your doctor's patients. She sees them on Tuesdays.

    Would not be so bad but hubby had an accident with his car and we are down to one so we rented a car so I could go this f$%#ing appt today! Sometimes doctors think we have no lives. Then they knew I was pissed by my message last nite so they call me this morning and say "Ok, keep the original appt! Well, I am at work now and the appt was in 23 mins from when they called me and I am an hour's drive away! WTF???

    Ok, I will STFU now. Just annoyed as hell cause this appt was made in JULY! Ugh!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

    good morning

    PTS why don't u go to both parties????have a little bit of each treat.

    April...oh U poor thing...now what R u gonna do????

    Me im makin a banana bread soon

    Goin to the dentist...yeah the good old dentist cause one of my bottom teeth hurts...3ok on a full moon..such fun...NOT

    I also have an appt.the day before thanksgiving with the 2nd.opinion dr...but I'll ge at our party...

    Don't have any idea what I'll be makin yet...

    BBL

  • M0mmyof3
    M0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,696
    edited November 2014

    Hate when that happens April, I've had that happen to me recently, no fun!

    I had an issue this week for an appointment this week. Was supposed to see my plastic surgeon this week but had no ride. So I had to reschedule it for next Tuesday. Hoping that when the plastic surgeon sees me next week, she will green light the reconstruction.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

    boy does my spelling suk

    I hope everyone understands what I'm sayin.lol

    Dentist at 3pm today.grrrr

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 5,972
    edited November 2014

    One of the reasons I love my neighbor hood is that I have several folks in my life, neighbors and such that will help me with rides.  I think it took the dang C to get me to open and ask for help!  Then again, economy means a few folks are unemployed or early retired and available.

    FK, can not do both turkey parties as one is north and one is south of me and I have bad memories of spending the day driving between houses as a kid.  Will pick one but do not need to do so yet.

    Rainey day so been chasing dust bunnies around my house, dang but there are a lot of them!

  • M0mmyof3
    M0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,696
    edited November 2014

    Proud, about the turkey party invites, I would do the one that is closest to you. You want to be able to enjoy your day without all the hassle that involves travelling all over the place.

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 5,972
    edited November 2014

    MOmmy, that is exactly my thought.  My one invite is to a pals house that is north and while a long time pal, she never comes to my house as she is afraid to drive on the NJ roads (or that is what I think), I am expected to go to her house.  It gets tired after a time!

    ok, so I have just spent 3 hours chasing the dust bunnies around my upstairs and deserve a break. At least it is now clean-er 

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,805
    edited November 2014

    Proud, I would go next door (based on how you described your two invites). The excuse I use is extreme fatigue and diarrhea.... it really works. I tell people I can go from constipation to severe diarrhea in under 20 minutes, which is the truth. No decent human expects people to drive to them when you have the big D. They also should understand if you accept the invite from next door, because you can always scoot home if need be.

    April, I would go to the appointment today... even if you don't show up on the time they assign you.

    I asked my DH to work on where we go for Thanksgiving. It will be my 2nd following chemo infusion, so I won't be up to cooking for a crowd. Maybe we will just stay home. Don't know yet.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

    I'll be cookin all week

    Everyone is invited

    Some GF stuff but lots of other goodies

    Not gonna tell all CAUSE

    we r havin our own party here....THE ENTIRE THANKSGIVING WEEK

    It's right around the corner sooo im planning now...even tho my Halloween stuff is still decorated on my door and around my apt....

    Maybe later I'll take them down....

    Ok I'll STFU now

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 5,972
    edited November 2014

    Poppy, good thoughts on the choice

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

    gonna make stuffed peppers to honor our beloved VEGGY

    Next Sat.will be a yr.that she passed away..

    That's just one of the things im gonna make

    My new advitar is the first time we met

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 5,712
    edited November 2014

    I would pick the neighbor n say that she has been there driven u here n there n want to repay her by attending for tg, also not sure about  the ride, cause  not sure how u will feel.

    Hey everyone hope u r doing well..

    Me, ok, was up like 1 1.2 days just slept  24hrs. Omg the steroids...well it is what it is, weather is 50s getting cold n windy tomorrow, rained  all day today 

    Bbl

    ME


  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 3,257
    edited November 2014

    Beautiful picture FK! I cannot believe it is almost a year since we lost Veggy!

    Blondie, hoping you are doing as well as you can be toots...xoxo

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,805
    edited November 2014

    Since I'm a relative newbie, I didn't have a chance to meet Veggy. Based on your posts, I know she must have been a wonderful person. I am sorry you lost your friend.

    Poppy

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 5,972
    edited November 2014

    Blondie, thanks for your opinion, I am leaning towards doing just that.  I really think holidays should be stress free!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

    I am havin problems agin with this damn site

    Freezin up...just here

    Just went down to smoke and I saw snowflakes

    Grrr

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 5,712
    edited November 2014

    Lol snowflakes 

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

    good morning

    Blondie how's the sleeping goin?

    We only had snowflakes

    It's chilly tho

    The fire will be starting right now

    Anyone needs to warm up go to the bonefire

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014
  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

    just wanted to let all my sistas no I'll be goin away for a few days

    I'll be in Vermont with Sharon(Veggys friend)

    She needs company to make this long trip and I need to get away

    Her GS is goin in for surgery

    We will be there for VEGGYS first yr in Heaven.

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,805
    edited November 2014

    FK, I hope you enjoy your trip to Vermont. I know it will be bittersweet, but you and Sharon will be there for each other.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

    thanks

    5 hr.ride

    Tryin not to think about my back sitting all that time

    Not gonna even think of my stomach

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 5,712
    edited November 2014

    Its going 

    Nope

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

    I'm here in Vermont

    It's beautiful here

    Been here yrs.ago but I really forgot what it looked like

    The weather is the same as PA

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 4,308
    edited November 2014
  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 3,257
    edited November 2014

    Love it Alyson! FK, Vermont is beautiful as is all of New England. I live in CT and we had a spectacular fall this year. PA has a lot of beauty too and plenty of mountains for fall viewing.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 8,046
    edited November 2014

    I don't want to go home tomorrow

    The only bright side is im gonna see my little baby

    It's freezin here

    Much colder then PA

  • proudtospin
    proudtospin Member Posts: 5,972
    edited November 2014

    meant to tell you that, you are in ski country now!

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