New Here with ILC

LauraW68
LauraW68 Member Posts: 100

I just joined but I am scheduled for a bilateral mastectomy and
sentinel node biopsy (right) with immediate reconstruction on October
24. I am 45 and was diagnosed with ILC, stage 3, ER+/PR+/HER2- in
right breast on September 24. I'm having the left breast mastectomy as a preventative measure. I am still waiting for test results to
come back on the gene mutation. Those should be back this week
sometime. My surgery will occur just 20 days shy of my 46 birthday.
I've always wanted a breast reduction... just not this way.

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  • SoutherMother
    SoutherMother Member Posts: 111
    edited October 2014


    Hi LauraW68,   I am new to lobular cancer too.  I am waiting for more scans to determine stage 3 or stage 4 before they start treatment.  Waiting is tough.  Let us know how your gene mutation test went.  I will be interested in what your chemo regimen will be too.

  • lisa137
    lisa137 Member Posts: 569
    edited October 2014

    My ILC was diagnosed just over a year ago, and my BMX was a year ago tomorrow. You're in for a tough year ahead, no kidding about that, BUT probably not as rough as you most likely imagine it to be now. My best advice is to always be kind and patient with yourself, rest when you feel like you need to rest, sleep when you want to sleep, join the "group" of ladies here who start chemo the same month you do (they will keep you sane, seriously,) stay hydrated, read all the wonderful tips for getting through it that are on these boards, vent and whine and complain on these boards when you feel the need (because believe me, we GET IT,) and always let your doctors know about whatever specific complaints and problems you have--often they have something to help you. Don't be afraid to ask for something for anxiety/depression if you need it, and prepare to watch a lot of HGTV and kids' movies, lol.  

    It goes by faster than you think it will.

  • vlnrph
    vlnrph Member Posts: 1,632
    edited October 2014

    Be sure someone does pre-op arm measurements. Any surgery can leave you at risk for lymphedema and it's too late to get baseline comparison data once swelling begins. Hopefully you will never have to refer back to that information but it's good to have on file.

    If the genetic test is only for BRCA 1/2 (since results are expected so quickly), keep in mind that several other mutations can now be detected using panel assessments. Your counselor should be advising you on what kind of additional options exist since the field has become so complex recently. You probably qualified due to being so young or maybe family history was significant. Just be aware that a negative result, while a relief, may not be the end of the story.

  • LauraW68
    LauraW68 Member Posts: 100
    edited October 2014

    As of right now, I still don't know my gene test results. They were delayed due to insurance approval.  

    Tomorrow I go for my pre-surgery testing.. EKG, etc. 

    Thursday to get marked for surgery.

    Friday is my surgery.

  • sgreenarch
    sgreenarch Member Posts: 528
    edited October 2014

    Laure, just writing in to wish you good luck. Know that you've got a community of sisters here if you need anything. 

  • LauraW68
    LauraW68 Member Posts: 100
    edited October 2014

    Thank you.  The pre-surgery testing went fine. No hold ups on anything so that was good. 

    Hopefully the appt with the plastic surgeon on Thursday will be the same.

  • ILCMom
    ILCMom Member Posts: 18
    edited October 2014

    Good luck!  The anticipation of surgery was the worst for me.  The recovery road is long.  The tissue expander stinks but I hear once the implants are swapped in it gets better!

  • ganzgirl2010
    ganzgirl2010 Member Posts: 235
    edited October 2014

    Hello Laura just wanted to wish you luck tomorrow Winking

  • First_Wild_Signs
    First_Wild_Signs Member Posts: 23
    edited October 2014

    Hi, 

    I was diagnosed with ILC last week. I felt a lump, went to the breast clinic, refused mammogram, had an ultrasound then ultrasound guided biopsy, then an MRI. 

    I have not received the results from the MRI but I have an appointment with the breast surgeon on Wednesday, Just wondering if anyone can advise me about which questions I should ask her? I assume that I will receive my path report but I don't know what to expect after that regarding ILC. Also should add I was DX with IDC in 2009 the same breast and had a lumpectomy. No chemo, No rads, Oncotype score 6, 1.5 cm. clean margins, 0/3 nodes. 

    Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.

  • ILCMom
    ILCMom Member Posts: 18
    edited October 2014

    good luck!  And keep us posted! 

  • mommacat4
    mommacat4 Member Posts: 215
    edited November 2014

    Hello everyone, I am new to this diagnosis and everything involved. I am struggling with some of the terminology on these posts but I figure I will learn soon enough. 

    I think the support you offer one another is amazing. I am glad I found this website. 

    I should find out tomorrow when my surgery date is. I will be having a bi-lateral mastectomy w/reconstruction.  I am very nervous for obvious reasons.

    I have noticed in many of these posts that several woman have also had ovary removal. Is that typical with this type of cancer and treatments? I am pre-menaposal and don't really know what to expect. I don't even have a treatment regimen scheduled yet. I have only met with an oncologist once. 

    Lvnrph, thank you for the advise on the arm measurements, I would have never thought about that of course until it was too late. Lol. 

  • momand2kids
    momand2kids Member Posts: 1,508
    edited November 2014

    mommacat4

    Not everyone has their ovaries out-- alot would depend on what you and your onc decide.. I was pre-menopausal at dx and in all of my conversations with oncs at 2 major Boston hosptials, my doc and my gyn, no one thought that taking my ovaries out made sense, but that was based on my situation.  Every situation is different and everyone's desire to do less or more is different.  You are already dealing with alot, you don't have to make that decision yet.  I remember thinking at first I just wanted them to "take everything" out-- but I settled down after a while and realized that removing body parts was not necessarily the way to go for me-- but for others it was the right decision.  I would suggest you deal with what is in front of you--surgery, pathology then treatment. You will then have time and information that will help you make any other related decisions.

    All the best

  • Momaich
    Momaich Member Posts: 11
    edited November 2014

    Hi LauraW68, our dates are similar. I'm 47. I was dx same week in September and had surgery on October 23. Starting chemo next week. I just had the cancer side mastectomy and reconstruction surgery but now I'm wishing I waited on reconstruction because the tissue expander hurts and I don't want to be on pain meds until the rest of my treatment is complete.

    My breasts are not reduction sized, but I thought it was funny when the plastic surgeon asked me if I wanted to be bigger after reconstruction. I just had a picture of myself looking like Dolly. It had never occurred to me that I would be asked that question.

  • LauraW68
    LauraW68 Member Posts: 100
    edited November 2014

    Hi Momaich! I am now a little over a month out from my bilateral mastectomy and TE placement. I'm doing great! I start chemo tomorrow, December 1st (4 treatments of AC @ 1 every 2 weeks then 12 weeks of Taxol @ 1 a week). I will have radiation down the road as well as be put on the pill Tamoxifen for 10 years. Sometime after the chemo and radiation, Ill be able to finish up my reconstruction process.

  • mommacat4
    mommacat4 Member Posts: 215
    edited December 2014

    LauraW68,

    it sounds like your treatment and mine are going to be the same. They told me mine will start in January because doc wants to run some tests first.

    Are you going to have a port put in or how are they going to administer the chemotherapy?

    I think for me it will be better if they do the port but I will talk to my reconstruction surgeon this week about how that might effect his work.

  • LauraW68
    LauraW68 Member Posts: 100
    edited December 2014

    I had my port put in on Nov. 21st. It was used today for the first time. Everything went great with it.

  • RobertaL
    RobertaL Member Posts: 6
    edited December 2014

    I was diagnosed with ILC, 1.3 cm, stage 1c, grade 2, 100%ER+ 5%PR+, HER2 negative, BC on October 9th. I was supposed to have my surgery on October 21st, but my surgeon canceled it because I have a health condition that causes nerve tumors to come on my skin and if I was to receive radiation, there is a high possibly that they could cancerous. I met with the Radiation Oncologist to discuss this issues and she told me she would never due radiation on my unless I had a lift threatening condition. I finally was able to have my surgery three weeks ago, a lumpectomy per surgeon's recommendation. He was able to get clean margins. I saw my Oncologist yesterday and she told me I had an 8% chance of reoccurrence with chemo and HRT, a 10% with just HRT, or 20% with doing nothing. I have decided not to do the chemo because it scares me too much. I decided I didn't want to do the OncoType test because I was told that if it came back where it indicated that chemo would help, I would have to do it. There is only a 2% difference and it's not worth it to me. I hope I have made the right decision with not being able to do radiation. I'm really scared.

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