So...whats for dinner?
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Minus, I give out little bags of pretzels.
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I had the day off and came down to Sharon's school. She put me to work as a TA helping physics students.
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Minus, I don't turn the light on. When we moved here 20 yrs. ago, I bought the miniature chocolate bars (that dh and I like) the first few years and got stuck with them. For a number of years I delivered treats a day or two prior to Halloween to the few small kids who lived close by. Now one of those kids is a senior in high school.
I'll never forget the delicious popcorn balls one lady in our neighborhood made every year when I was growing up.
DH and I went through a soufflé period. We bought a balloon whisk as recommended by Julia Child and a pretty soufflé dish. We made some delicious cheese soufflés. That dish hasn't been used for a soufflé in a long time! Maybe I'll get out Julia's book and re-read that section for inspiration.
Nance, I'm envious of the comfort food weather. It was hot and humid here today. I played golf without a lot of enjoyment and even considered quitting.
I have a yen for salmon so went to Fresh Market and bought some Pacific salmon. Plan to review Alton Brown's method of searing on both sides in very hot cast iron skillet and then resting the salmon for 5 min. under alum. foil. I think the cooking time is 3 min. on both sides. There should be some leftover for salmon salad since the piece I bought is almost 1 1/2 lbs.
One side will probably be sweet potato oven fries or baked sweet potato. And a salad.
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Dinner was soup and sandwiches tonight. Didn't feel like standing on my feet and cooking!
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It was wonderful! The two of them stood in front of the assembled family and spoke from their hearts. I should not have stuffed all the tissue boxes into drawers. They were very much needed. It is moments like this when you see completely unadulterated love. It was incredibly emotional for everyone in the room.
The schedule on the other hand, was not followed even a little bit. My kitchen help didn't come at 3pm. I didn't see her until 4:30. I was still in front of the stove, sweating 30 minutes before the service, and guests were already arriving. So, I had 20 minutes to shower, dress, organize my bag for the restaurant.... my hair was never touched. I think it was standing on end with frizzy ends going every which way. The justice of the peace didn't show up until 5:40 for a 5 o'clock ceremony. Because the kid was running so far behind at her hair appointment, we were running around lighting the thousands of candles. I was left to figure out where the flowers would live.
And then, besides my hair, it just all worked. Toasts were made with champagne. The "nibbles" I had spent two days preparing were munched with gusto. The stuffed mushrooms were a huge hit. Turns out his Grandmother used to make some just like this and everyone had a nostalgic moment. The cheese puffs, gorgéres, were scarfed! And then the cabs came, and we were off to the restaurant. His family, so scared of French food, loved everything. The wait staff replenished waters, and topped off wine, and managed to be right there without interfering.
This morning I served them pancakes with sausage. They put the furniture back and were off to Provincetown, leaving a ton of dishes for the two of us to finish. I don't have many photos yet, but here are a few:

p.s. those are the same pearls I wore for my wedding, a gift from my parents that my grandmother had been given as a young woman when she was a student at Smith. And now they are hers.
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Susan, it sounds lovely. Wonderful picture!
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Oh Susan - I'm sniffing & tearing up just reading the story. How perfectly beautiful. Of course the food went well - you are a food goddess. And how fantastic that you have been able to pass along the pearls. Thanks for sharing. Wish I lived close enough to help with the dishes.
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susan - so happy for them, and for you and yours! Your DD looks beautiful and confident (love her dress and the pearls being handed down - awesome tradition) and her groom looks like he knows he is a lucky man - yay!
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Almost forgot today's daily roo - this is me today feeding Julia a snack:
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Lovely photo, Susan, and what a beautiful New England day you had to enjoy this important event! It sounds like it was wonderful albeit a few early on timing issues. Glad the restaurant choice worked out and that the "outlaws" enjoyed that. Hope you have time to reminisce and recuperate this weekend!
Headed to NH today and when we arrived I was able to get a great fire going in the woodstove so we could be warm. Tho, as DH pointed out, it would have been cheaper to turn on the electric heat. ;/ I do like the challenge of getting a good fire going. Maybe I was an arsonist in a past life!
For dinner DH grilled a NY sirloin, which I had marinated in a teriyaki sauce. Sides of carrots with tarragon, a garden salad, and grilled garlic bread with a bit of my roasted tomatoes on each.
Please bear with me on this....Had a MO appt yesterday......am a bit verklempt. She would really like me to try the AIs for the next two years. We had to ditch Tamox after two tears of trying. With her blessing, I've been on meds vacay since April. I am terrified and resistant to going on an AI given my very bad SEs to Tamox, which were all related to my body's reaction to estrogen manipulation.......no sleep, eruption of serious skin allergies, significant brain fog (scary!), etc., and it seems illogical that stripping my body of estrogen could be kinder or anything other than a continuation of those and other SEs. My poor hands are already a mess, and AIs are known for causing hand and other joint pain, which is why MO avoided them for me initially. My neighbor has gained a lot of weight on hers,and can't walk more than 10 minutes before experiencing serious leg muscle pain. Yikes, what would I do with my exercise program?! Is there anyone out there who takes them and has no deleterious SEs? Unfortunately we tend to hear the problem news, and not from the folks who fare well. The decision is up to me....my oncotype was 4, stage and grade are 2s. I so don't want to go back into that (for me) dysfunctional med zone, but I hate to be irresponsible. Hating cancer a lit tonight! Thanks for listening to my meds worry rant. I can't seem to think about much else right now.......:/
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Oh....sweet photo, Special! Fun!
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Lovely photo of happy couple! So glad that the wedding was wonderful!
SpecialK, you look great with your weight loss. No wonder you're willing to omit some foods like dairy!
Lacey, I took arimidex for 5 yrs. Or 4 yrs and 10 months. I cheated on a couple of months. I had no major problems but was still happy to stop taking the med. Weight control was an issue but I did lose weight on WW while taking arimidex. The last thing you want to do is quit exercising. Exercise helps with the SEs. I read all the advice and took the KEEP MOVING advice to heart. I took my pill at night along with a benedryl as a sleep aid and had no problems sleeping. You could give the med a try for a few months and then quit taking it if your quality of life is too disrupted. It's probably better not to read the discussion forum because the people who don't have problems usually don't post.
My salmon filets last night were a bit too thick for Alton Brown's recipe. They were rarer in the middle than I would have preferred but still tasted good. There was a thinner filet (3 all together) and dh ate it. He mixed up a tartar sauce with mayo, dill relish and horse radish. We had sweet potato oven fries (out of a bag) that were very tasty and a tossed salad. I've stopped buying tomatoes because they have no taste.
We'll both be working at the Madisonville Wooden Boat Show all day so dinner is a question mark at this point.
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lacey - I have taken both Arimidex and Femara, started on Femara and developed a trigger thumb, then switched to Arimidex, was good for a year, then had some of the same issues, so switched back to Femara since it is the med the doc likes. I learned several things - exercise decreases any joint pain and the more I moved the better I felt, sometimes switching manufacturers of the same drug can make a big difference - I took two different makers of Femara (letrozole) and felt very different on the second one - much better - the additives and fillers can have different effects, and the anti-inflammatory diet I started in January allowed me to lose weight and I have no joint pain at all.
carole - thank you for noticing!
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Lacey, tamoxifen is a very different drug, I would give one of the other AIs a try. With your exercise program, I doubt you would experience the same problems. Like others, the amount of joint pain I have is directly related to how much exercise I get. Mine is aggravated by arthritis, but on the whole, I find letrozole annoying, but tolerable.
More comfort food tonight -- chicken and "slicks"!
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Love the Roo.
Dinner tonight is Shepard's Pie.
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She is so sweet - she is blind so must be hand fed, and she is so tiny and adorable I wanted to put her in the car and bring her home with me.
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I can definitely appreciate the urge to roo nap that little cutie, Special!

Thanks for your supportive info, AI taking sisters! I am just so worried about ruining my qol, which I have worked so hard to improve over the past year and a half...with some success. But I feel like the arthritic joint issues are always on a banana peel as far as becoming intolerably painful, and at this point have been able to avoid shoulder and/ or knee surgery. Just don't want to go there..... You are right, the threads are full of bad side effect stories....I wish there was a thread where people reported success.....e.g., no bad joint pain, no weight gain, no cog fog, no vag dryness/infections, UTIs, skin issues, allergies, moodiness, etc. I know I am asking too much, but am beset with worry about further reduced physical and mental functioning. Nancy, I admire your continuing to cook and bake so much with arthritic hands. I feel like crying from the pain some days.....and that was true even when I took celebrex.
Anyway, it all seems like a big crap shoot.....since we don't know if any of those renegade cells are lurking anywhere, to know how important it is to follow this regimen. Also, Carole, I assume since you take benedryl for sleep that it is safe with the AIs unlike the contraindication with Tamox I've read about. Congratulations on completing your AI years.

Think I'll take a long walk and admire the northern foliage to try to clear my head. Again, I so appreciate your support!
Oh, another good distraction....., I just saw Lidia B. make a corn walnut cake on a PBS channel. Looked really interesting, but I couldn't find the recipe on her web site...will research further. Yum!
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Pat,
My seven years of aromasin were not without their trials. But, it was never bad enough to stop. For me, bone pain was my primary complaint. Strangest thing I have ever felt. I didn't gain weight at all, but taking my weight off was not happening. Then again, I am not as determined as you have been. Moving always made the bone pain less. Can't speak to brain fogginess. Was it the chemo? Was it the AI? Was it just being shell shocked? Obviously, it didn't work for me, but that is a different thread.
oh... and the first 18 months were the hardest part. Everything kind of equalized after that. Of course, that was right after all the chemo and rads, so who knows what was causing what.
*susan*
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Power of suggestion. I had CREATE.tv going last night as I pushed some data and they did a chili. Well, you know what I had to make today, right? It was like Super Bowl Sunday in the kitchen as this huge pot of chili cooked. And, surprise, it was pretty darn good! Of course, I modified the recipe to up the heat and flavor. Mr. 02143 thinks this is the best chili I have ever made, so I need to make some notations so I can make it again!
Lots left for the freezer. This winter will require some fast suppers.
*susan*
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Susan so glad it was a beautiful and wonderful day for you. Congrats to your DD and her new DH! And I'm watching Lydia on Create today too. It's a marathon. She's been on all day but I just watched her now.
Special Thx for the roo pic!
My AI is Arimidex. I've been on 2 years. The biggest is my trigger finger. It's gone from a nuisance to a pain. Quite literally. Once it locks I need to use my other hand to pry it open. It hurts when I'm not using it. Also I think it's a part of my low magnesium problem. But if everyone of them has issues, then I should stay with the one I know. I thought the trigger finger was nothing until lately when I can't grab a strainer or twist a can opener without it locking and prying it open again. But sleeping is pretty good so maybe it's just a bother and not a problem. Sigh. LOL life.
Tonight was scalloped potato and squash with ham cubes. Um. I love putting butternut squash with the potatoes. The flavor is so good.
Much love.
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Thanks for your AI input, Susan and Moon. Decisions, decisions..... And I am particularly perturbed to think that for all of your seven years on it, you didn't get the benefit, Susan. #€%!&#!!
Glad you are able to sleep, Moon! The trigger finger thing is just so odd. I already get that sometimes now. Looks/feels like a horror movie posture! I have invested in all sorts of interesting (and useful!) contraptions to open cans and jars, which keep me cooking.

Yesterday, we had a good long walk to a local organic farm stand, then to the lake, where the color is pretty, if not brilliant. Then for dinner, we ordered pizza, or I should say, DH did......and he snuck in an order of crabcakes as well. I didn't mind. Pretty amazing that this local joint has decent pizza and crabcakes! I made an arugula salad to accompany mains.
Today is DH's absolute favorite day on our beach! The forty-something guys do a lobster fest......steamers, king crab legs, two lb. lobsters, and corn. We are slated to have bright sun all day long, so the forecasted 60 degrees should feel fine. And I'll bet someone rigs up a TV feed and screen so no one misses the Patriots' game while chowing down.
Susan, I envy your chili stocked freezer.....way ahead of the game (so to speak!).
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Thinking leftovers today!
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Lacey, I would love to join that lobster fest on the beach! What a treat!
Moon, the trigger finger sounds like a major inconvenience not to mention the pain.
Dinner last night was individual 10 in. pizzas from a local Italian place, Isabella's. I had the spinach pizza with herb oil sauce, tomatoes, feta cheese and mozzarella. It was delicious. The crust was good, crunchy on the bottom, but wouldn't have passed the test for those who insist on a paper thin crispy crust. DH had the Isabella Suprema which had pepperoni, ground meat, Italian sausage, onion, peppers, cheese, and tomato sauce. He likes the traditional tomato sauce on his pizza and almost insists on Italian sausage. I prefer the veggie pizzas (minus onions) with olive oil and fresh chopped tomatoes.
Tonight's dinner will probably be take-out again, maybe from a burger place. DH and I will again be working all day at the Madisonville Wooden Boat Show in the Woodworkers Guild tent. Children line up at the tent to make their own little wooden boat out of many parts that the woodworkers, including dh, make during the year. They can make a sailboat, fishing boat type, or a gunboat. You should see some of the boats! The men assemble the parts the children select. Spouses assist the kids in picking out sails from a wide spectrum of colors, tie down the sails, write the name on the bow, etc. There is a huge tub of water outside the tent where the boats can be floated. It's fun but a tiring day. The boats are free but the parents are generous in putting money in the donation jars.
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Just thought of a wedding story that I should share. The groom's mother has two sisters. One of the sisters, the oldest, had never been to our house before and since they all arrived 30 minutes early en masse, they had plenty of time to meander around the first floor of the house. So the oldest aunt, D., sidled up beside me while I was in the kitchen doing something, and asked "Your pantry. Can I take pictures of your pantry? it is one of the most beautiful rooms I have ever seen." And then she did. A whole series of pantry photos which I will probably never see.
Makes the hour of time I spent making the pantry look organized and well-ordered completely worth it!
*susan*
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Lacey, that would be my favorite day on the beach too! Arthritis and the AI means I can no longer knead bread dough but rely on my mixer. My knife skills are still ok so far and opening lids and jars are out of the question.
Carole, the pizzas sound wonderful!
Susan, please take pictures of your pantry to show us!
Food and Wine informs me that it's Gumbo Day, so that's what it shall be, along with a baguette. Last night I tried my hand at bear claws, although not with my own dough (frozen puff pastry). Still pretty darn good. Next time I'll make my own.
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And I would imagine that YOUR pantry would be photo worthy! I must see it one of these days.....;) Did the sweet marrieds take a trip?
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Auntie, those bear claws look delicious!
Susan, nice looking Pantry? Oh oh. Does that mean I have to clean mine? I'm having the Christmas Progressive Party - dessert part at my home. One more thing to do. Sigh. LOL
Carole that's sounds like a wonderful day. Even if it's busy. I'm glad the weather cooperated!
Lacey, I'd be over in a minute! Lobster and crabs are some of my favorite things. Expensive around here though.
I do have one of those electric jar openers though. It works well.i have a couple of gadgets to. Those were all I used to need but I use the jar opener when needed as DH is never home..except for the fact I don't cook much and so don't even open jars too often. LOL. As for the trigger finger, it is like everything else, it comes and goes with some days better than others. But when it comes back it kinda takes me by surprise. LOL I have a Tea ball that you squeeze to open. That one sets it off every time. I'm trying to teach myself to use my left hand. LOL.
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Pictures of the pantry! Please, please!
Moon, you sound so good-natured. Your complaints never sound like complaints!
Nance, what kind of gumbo did you make?
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Carole, chicken and smoked sausage with some andouille thrown in.
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