Starting Chemo October 2014

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  • Mulligan
    Mulligan Member Posts: 205
    edited October 2014

    Welcome Yurmani, lots of ladies here with great info and tips/tricks. I notice you will be doing Taxotere and Cytoxan like me. I would recommend also going to Taxotere/Cytoxan thread it's still very active and lots of helpful info for SE and how to minimize them. Good luck!

  • Mulligan
    Mulligan Member Posts: 205
    edited October 2014

    Welcome smkbow. I bought my wig online and still haven't had the courage to try it on. I'm counting down the days when I will need it. I have 2 older boys and 2 younger girls. The boys are ready to shave their heads as soon as I give them the green light whereas my lil girls laminate about how I won't have my pretty hair anymore, funny how kids react differently huh? Good luck!

  • kerensa75
    kerensa75 Member Posts: 83
    edited October 2014

    Welcome new ladies :)

    Sorry I have been missing, my direct sales business has been keeping me busy this weekend. Back to my day job today so have some time to catch up.

    Smkbow, goodluck today!

    I'm going to go look at wigs today on my lunch break. Try some on and find a new look.

    I hope you ladies that have started already are feeling ok today.

    I asked my 14 year old if she was going to let me borrow her dress up wigs (anime cosplay stuff) and she told me that wasn't funny. I told her I could either laugh about it or cry about it and right now I was going to choose laughter to get me through. she still didn't find it amusing...

  • Ly5486
    Ly5486 Member Posts: 5
    edited October 2014

    Mulligan thanks for that.  I got my port this morning and it was no problem. Chemo  starts on Thursday. 

    One day at a time is how I'm going to try and manage. 

  • wendeeB
    wendeeB Member Posts: 40
    edited October 2014

    Hey Yurmani!  Sorry for welcoming you, but you've found yourself in a great place for support and info.  I heard so much of that too, "Oh its a fibro (oops wasn't a fibro), oh its DCIS (with a tiny bitch hiding in it).  ". This entire thing is completely surreal.  

    Is anyone having trouble with their Neulasta?  Dear god my body hurts.  I've taken the loratadine and Advil, but I am still faced the majority of the day with all over bone pain.  I feel off and on feverish/hot but not enough to call.  I just broke down and took two of my pain pills left over from my lumpectomy.  I had them all left. 

    Any advice?  Please.. Help....;p

  • Mulligan
    Mulligan Member Posts: 205
    edited October 2014

    Wendee for the neulasta pain, what's worked for a lot of us is to do Claritin (not the Claritin D just the reg one) the night before and 4 days past the Neulasta shot some use up to 7 days. Some women use Aleve along with Claritin.

    Ly good luck on Thursday!

  • Tobycc
    Tobycc Member Posts: 789
    edited October 2014

    some of us started late Sept....you may want to check out that thread also!!!, hugs

  • BookLady1
    BookLady1 Member Posts: 253
    edited October 2014

    It is Chemo Eve for me! Not feeling very festive, but it helped to look back over the comments and advice from y'all. Thanks... Linda

  • Yurmani
    Yurmani Member Posts: 23
    edited October 2014

    Thanks for the kind welcome. I am curious does anyone keep up with their blood work? Specifically white cell counts. The reason I ask is that I had blood work done in August, prior to the lumpectomy, and my wbc was 8.1. Last week, before any chemo or meds - it had dropped to 5.9. I've been nauseous and tired and can't explain why it would drop. Anyone else experience this?  My fear is that my counts will be too low for chemo this friday. Any suggestions,  explanations etc. welcome!  It's all been like a huge puzzle that you go through quests to get the next clue! Lol Thanks to everyone!

  • Mulligan
    Mulligan Member Posts: 205
    edited October 2014

    Yurmani, if it helps my wbc was 4.57 and they let me start chemo. This was also my 1st treatment. They do blood work right before your chemo infusion so if there's any concern for them they will know then and may modify or stop the chemo. 

  • Yurmani
    Yurmani Member Posts: 23
    edited October 2014

    Thank you Mulligan.  I got some Claritin tonight at the pharmacy just in case Neulasta is in my future plus I figured it would help my allergies anyway. I'll just wait and see how it goes Friday!.

  • Sjacobs146
    Sjacobs146 Member Posts: 770
    edited October 2014

    I'll be joining you ladies soon, just found out yesterday that I will have four rounds of Cytoxan and Taxotere three weeks apart starting around Oct 25.  I live in a Boston suburb (Metro West), if anyone out there has a recommendation for where to go for a wig, I'd appreciate it. 

  • jojo2373
    jojo2373 Member Posts: 662
    edited October 2014

    Hi Ladies - just wanted to provide some words of encouragement!  I am part of Sept Chemo 2012.  We all made it through and relied on each other for support and still do today.  I did dose dense AC-T, surgery, and 33 rads.  You can do it!  

  • wendeeB
    wendeeB Member Posts: 40
    edited October 2014

    Thanks Mulligan!  I've been faithfully taking loratidine and Advil with minimal relief.  Called the MO and she said to up my Advil and take the pain pills PRN.  I took 2 pain pills and finally slept without waking 9-4 woo hoo. 

    cats saying hey

    This is one of the videos I watch daily.  Cracks me, and my kids, up every time.

    Blessings to everyone


  • ml143333
    ml143333 Member Posts: 658
    edited October 2014

    Went to chemo class yesterday and thanks to reading here, I already knew most of what she told me.  She was really nice and I had some questions even she couldn't answer so I need to contact my doctor.

    She did tell me that when having sex, that we needed to use protection but she didn't know for how long.  I asked for the entire six months, just after chemo?  Question number one for the doctor.

    Question two was can I clean the chicken coop?  I know we have to be super conscious about germs.  So...another question for the doctor.

    Question three was if I can get a flu shot.  I work in the Radiation Oncology department at a local hospital.  I don't work directly with patients, but walk through the department several times a day. 

    Question four was if I should be taking supplements or vitamins.  She really didn't know as she said all physicians are different.

    Question five was if I could get an order from the doctor to have blood drawn from my port.  She said that is definitely a question to ask him since my veins are so bad on the one arm.  She said there is a law that only RNs can draw from a port and the lab techs for weekly blood draws are just that, techs.  So...another question for the doctor.

    I have started getting my chemo bag ready for the 17th.  Gosh - can't believe it will be here so soon.

    My mom is taking me to get my port in on the 13th.  My husband has taken off work for everything so far and I want him to be able to take off at Christmas to spend time with the kids since I will only be able to take off Christmas Day and the day after..

  • kerensa75
    kerensa75 Member Posts: 83
    edited October 2014

    those are some good questions ml, I am curious about the sex thing, I haven't heard that one yet. I have tons of questions for my Dr. also. I ride public transit to work and I am worried about getting sick with my immune system being compromised :(

    Welcome Sjacobs, I hope you can find answers to questions here along with some comfort :)

    I put my chemo bag together last night for my first treatment tomorrow. I also get my port placed tomorrow as well.

  • hyphencollins
    hyphencollins Member Posts: 109
    edited October 2014

    Hi everyone.  I want to welcome (well, sadly welcome) all the new members!  I'm sorry you are here but look forward to getting to know you all.

    Felt pretty good today.  You couldn't pay me to drink a cup of coffee or eat most anything except bread, cheese, or cereal, but otherwise I'm feeling fine.  

    Ml- let us know what your doc says.  My MO said to get the flu shot but make sure it is the one with the dead virus.  I think the nasal spray vaccine has live virus and so isn't recommended.  It's great you had a class!

    Sjacobs- I'm also in MA.  Where are you getting your tx?

    Book lady - good luck tomorrow. Will be thinking of you.

    Trek girl - any news?

  • hyphencollins
    hyphencollins Member Posts: 109
    edited October 2014

    Oh also sjacobs- I heard Dana Farber was a good place to go for wigs.  They have a store there that includes wigs.  

  • HollyD
    HollyD Member Posts: 49
    edited October 2014

    I'm on day 6 post infusion. I'm dog ass tired like PMS from hell. Taste buds definitely numb but things don't smell as bad as they did on day 3 & 4, which were THE WORST. I was so out of sorts, could not think straight, skin crawling, hungry not hungry, cold and hot, I hated it. I felt mentally ill! And so tired but couldn't sleep. I ended up taking Xanax for sleep and left over tramadol from surgery because I found my expanders to feel more uncomfortable than normal. I haven't had pain in them for weeks! And now after the chemo it's seemed to make them hurt, has this happened to anyone? Also, does this fog lift at all and will I get any energy back before my 2nd infusion or will it be this tiring throughout? I guess that's for ladies that started end of Sept ;) I've been eating warm cream of wheat with butter, jello, applesauce and cinnamon toast, definitely not the usual but I'm happy to have my appetite back a little. My tongue is definitely numbey and no taste. This weekend I could not smell food at all without wanting to barf, but each day seems to improve. I'm already dreading my 2nd infusion weekend.

  • kerensa75
    kerensa75 Member Posts: 83
    edited October 2014

    hyphencollins - glad your still doing well after treatment 

    Hollyd - sorry you have such horrible fatigue :(  I hope your nose is kinder to you the next weekend!

    Hope you ladies have a good night tonight

  • Yurmani
    Yurmani Member Posts: 23
    edited October 2014

    Hollyd...hope you feel better - I'm planning on working throughout treatment and I work 3rd shift!  Could get interesting with fatigue.  

    Hyphencollins bread, cheese and cereal sound like me on a normal basis except add a glass of wine with the cheese! Lol I had a lumpectomy so no experience with expanders and such. I start treatment on Friday and am planning to work Sunday, Monday and Tuesday nights next week. Hope that works out. Hope everyone has a restful night! Thank you for the warm welcome! 

  • okkim
    okkim Member Posts: 46
    edited October 2014

    went to chemo class tonight. It helped give me a more can do perspective. Husband and daughter worried about me working (elementary school counselor) but I need the relief my job gives me. By the way she said that if your oncologist writes a script most insurance will pay for a wig. Right now I'm planning on going the scarf route. PET tomorrow with first chemo Thursday.

  • Yurmani
    Yurmani Member Posts: 23
    edited October 2014

    Welcome okkim!  I wish I had a chemo class!  I got a couple wigs last week. My insurance will cover 1 in a lifetime.  Seems conservative but I'll take it! Lol I plan on going the scarf and hat route myself but figured I may want to have the appearance of hair at some point over the next year! I work in a pediatric sleep lab and I am hoping to be able to work through this as well. An elementary school counselor seems demanding but hopefully you have coworkers to help you when you need it. Children seem to be constantly sick in the winter so that worries me. Keep us posted on how you're doing - I'm one day behind you! 

  • smkbow
    smkbow Member Posts: 6
    edited October 2014

    Thanks Mulligan. 1st chemo went ok, fog head. On day 3, still not awful. I did get a wig, took my daughter and friend. I am going as Mrs Uncle Fester for Halloween since I will probably look like him by then.lol. My daughter was a great help. We bought infinity scarves and it was quite comical trying to figure out how to wear them on our heads.

  • smkbow
    smkbow Member Posts: 6
    edited October 2014

    ml

    My MO recommended flu shot. I got killed virus before I got my port. I also work in health care, but I am not allowed to work due to direct patient care.

  • wendeeB
    wendeeB Member Posts: 40
    edited October 2014

    smkbow, if you don't mind, what type of work do you do? I'm a physical therapist and obviously have direct patient contact. My MO said that there was no problem with me continuing work.

    I'm  6 days post nfusion as well. My tongue is nasty, & I have diarrhea. But other than that I guess I'm okay. I ended up having to take painkillers, as I mentioned before, for the  neulasta bone pain. But that's only at night right before I go to bed and its help me sleep at least six or seven hours in a row. 

    Gym on Monday, walked on Tuesday, Wednesday is my normal day off from training. I'll go back to the gym tomorrow. All things considered, only moderately sucky!  Keep our heads up and keep in mind that were kicking this things ass!

  • ml143333
    ml143333 Member Posts: 658
    edited October 2014

    Kerensa - My MO said to use protection for 72 hours after chemo so that the chemicals don't get to my husband.  He said I should be fied after 24 hours, but wanted 72 hours just to be safe.  He laughed and said he never had a patient ask this question because most say they aren't interested.  LOL

    Hyphencollins - My MO said to get the injection not the nasal mist and to not let anyone in the house get the nasal mist because there is a really small chance that I could get the flu.

    I have to say that my MO is absolutely the best!  I met him last Thursday for the first time.  Yesterday, I sent an e-mail with my questions to his team and he called me last night at 8:00 to answer my questions.  What a great physician!


     

  • Grammy863
    Grammy863 Member Posts: 15
    edited October 2014

    Hi everyone! I start chemo tomorrow and am getting so nervous. T

  • HollyD
    HollyD Member Posts: 49
    edited October 2014

    newest side effect now is back pain, which is making me even more tired! Could that be neulasta causing this? Also my expanders are quite sore, more so than they have been in the last several weeks since post op healing. No redness or anything, just that I can feel them more so now and their uncomfortable rockiness 😣 I hate complaining, but I really want the energy to go outside!! Hopefully one more good night sleep and some Tylenol in the am will help!

  • mbcs829
    mbcs829 Member Posts: 5
    edited October 2014

    finally starting my chemo tomorrow 10/09. My chemo coordinator said i will start with AC. Im also seeing a new oncologist in a different center and just learn that i belong to the Arm 1 in the Kaitlin study . I will try to keep you posted while i am in this study.. but today i will psych myself up for the long road! 

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