new neck pain
Two weeks ago, I developed a strong, severe pain that started at my neck. It was very odd because I didn't have any form of trauma at all to get it started. I was sitting on my couch reading a magazine, and when I sat up, I felt the pain in my neck. I got so bad that I ended up going in to the urgent care clinic because the pain was so bad I was crying. It was much worse when I tried to lay down in bed, which didn't make sense to me at all. Isn't rest supposed to make pain better, not worse? The doc at the clinic did an x-ray and said that he didn't see any breaks in the bones, and gave me a script for a muscle relaxer (which hasn't done much except make me tired) and a painkiller. I can't take the meds during the day because I'm a teacher and I need to be awake! I do take them as soon as I get home, but I don't notice any improvement over time. The painkillers take the edge off, but the pain has woken me up 3-4 times every night since it started. I started looking up the symptoms and of course, mets fears are looming. I can't figure out why it hurts so much, and the fact that laying down makes it worse rather than better worries me. Is there any way it could be mets if the xray I had didn't show anything? Or is it just that the clinic doc didn't know what to look for? I tried calling my doc during my lunch break today, but of course I got the voice mail and they didn't call me back today despite my urgent request to do so. Can anyone tell me if I should be concerned, or if I'm just being paranoid? And what else could it be?
I think part of my fear may be heightened because a friend of mine died last week after a long battle with stage IV colon cancer. I must admit that I'm really scared. Anyone who could talk me down, I'd really appreciate it!!!
~Shelby
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Shelby,
I have been suffering with neck and shoulder (in the back area). Mine gets aggravated by simply sitting or walking and it gets worse at night. My MO scared the heck out of me by ordering a CT scan followed by an MRI. All this right before my daughter's wedding. But it is not MBC… I have a bone spur and a torn tendon in the rotator cuff. Kinda common as we get older. My ortho doc took several X-rays specifically looking for the bone spur and he found it. So try not to let your mind go to the dark side. But I would tell your MO so that the right tests can be ordered. Take a deep breath and try not to worry. I am of course not a doctor, but if you read some of my posts from May of this year you will see that I was in the same state of mind you are. Your situation really sounds like mine. I am having arthroscopic surgery on 10/6. Hope I helped…it is much more likely to be an arthritic problem than MBC.
Jenifer
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Shelby,
It's a shame that we have to think that every new pain could be progression. My mind goes there as well. Arthritis of the neck can be very painful. I would start there. So many women develop arthritis after treatment. Best wishes to you.
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Thank you for the replies, ladies.
I think the main reason I posted is to find out if this is a typical presentation for mets. It's hard to find information like that, so I'm hoping maybe to hear that nobody ever had their own mets start out like this.
I guess it would be great if I had arthritis. (Who says that other than someone afraid of mets?) But being only 41, it seems to me that arthritis would be unusual at my age. Wouldn't it?
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Hi txstardust! Someone on another thread just had her pain confirmed to be arthritis at the ripe old age of 43, so certainly it's very possible. Hoping for only good news for you too!
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I have "mild" (?) congenital spine problems. It's a family thing. My Dad had it, my brother has it, my cousin has it (and he bought into the surgery recommendation which does not have a great prognosis for lumbar problems so he's had multiple surgeries and is still in constant pain and on disability). I told my doc I didn't want to fuse my spine. So, while I once needed a cane to stand in lines, succumbed to a handicapped parking placard for a year, and often walked bent over and sideways - I am still operation-free at 55. I have scoliosis, arthritis, herniated discs, and severe central canal stenosis. So I'm just explaining that I'm no stranger to back pain. I would think yours sounds like a "pinched nerve" by the way you describe how it happened as you sat up. Sometimes my problems start when I strain myself. But more often it is a slight move or none at all. My first pains were in my neck/shoulder area, as early as Jr. High. I might sneeze, or flip my head over to dry my hair - and the sharp pain would start. People made fun of me in school when I said sommersaults hurt (not diagnosed until my twenties when the x-ray tech couldn't understand why she wasn't getting a STRAIGHT x-ray of my spine. I require meds for MRIs because I can't lie on my back well (though I'm a lot better these days). I once had someone come up behind me and just gently surprise my by touching my waist and my back "went out." I leaned over into my car's trunk and my back "went out." I turned over in bed and my back "went out." MOST, but not all, of these were lower back. But my neck does it too.
I haven't found much help for the pain, I just soldier on because we have to. I'm so sad to see my daughter also has it (scoliosis, a prominent vertebra, and slumped shoulders--and she's already showing symptoms). I just tried to strengthen my muscles in the area--I don't know if it worked but I've been a lot worse than I am now.
The reason I'm going into all this is to say that a quick pain like that can be a lot of things, but I've personally found it to be an impinged nerve. Unfortunately I don't have much to suggest because I'm still dealing with nerve pain/problems in my cranial nerves (Which can be due to cervical impingement as well) - but I just wanted to say that there are a number of things that could be taking place other than mets. So best luck to ya. Hope you get some relief.
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Shelby,
There's a wonderful woman on these boards with mets (chrissyb) that devotes so much of her time to us lower stage ladies. She is a lovely women and has helped so many with their fears. I've included the link below. I'm sure she would be more than happy to answer any questions you may have. I've spent a lot of time reading the boards, and it's not uncommon to develop arthritis after treatment - no matter what age.
Here is the link.
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Whatnow, I too have scoliosis, quite severe, but never had surgery! However, since rads, it has been giving me a lot of troubles!! I've been looking into a new brace called Spinecor! Just thought I'd mention it in case you didn't know about it! Google it! It may be very helpful to your daughter!! I'm in the process of looking into getting one for myself!! I have a double or "S" curve and was borderline needing surgery as a teenager, but I'm 50 now and still have managed without surgery but this latest pain is a little difficult to live with!
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