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Hi ladies! Just wanted to stop in and give hugs where needed! Hang in there and remember there is light at the end of this crappy tunnel called active cancer treatment. Today is my 4 year cancerversary! There have been so many days when I thought I would never make it this far-convinced I would never see my children grow up. While I am by no means out of the woods, nor will I ever be, I do have some hope now that maybe I will be around for awhile. I still get freaked out with unusual aches and pains, but as we all know that is just a part of life now. Thanks to all of you for the great support and information these last 4 years!! I think I am going to take the kids out and get a big fat Peanut Buster Parfait from Dairy Queen!! That's about the fanciest dessert I can get in this little town!! -
Congrats TifJ!!! How wonderful!! I today is my 1year cancerversary!!!
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Congrats Gram!!! Hoping all is well with you!!
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Congratulations Tif and Gram. Best wishes to keep going for many more years
Does anyone think people on the "outside" understand why we celebrate?
I was finally given a 6 month appointment for MO. It will be my first one after years of 3 months or less.
Titan, where are you?
Hi to everybody, Jan
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Jan- my husband doesn't even get it. I mentioned to him this morning that today was my 4 year anniversary and all he said was "oh, yeah"? I think he just tries to act like I'm cured and that we will never have to deal with it again. Maybe we will, maybe we won't. I don't even try to talk to about my fears or concerns anymore with him. It's not that he doesn't care, he just doesn't understand what it means to me. Thank goodness all of you get it!! -
Tif - Your DH sounds like mine. Frustrating to not be able to share fully with the one you love.
Cancer: Where getting older is a time to really celebrate.
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Tif andGram, so happy for you both. Celebrating with you.
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I hope everyone is having a great Labor Day........:)
I have an odd question for you all. I was diagnosed 3 years ago the first time and a year ago the second time. Some days I am feel like I could care less about anything and then the rest of the time.......If I want something done, I want it NOW, because I fear I won't have "later". Anyone else feel this way, and does it get better?Also, I have to have a uterine biopsy done and I understand it hurts like hell? Anyone have one? Any advice?
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Hello everyone! I'm just checking in. I almost never come to the boards anymore, but I feel it's so very important to check in with everyone so you know that many of us who aren't here are out living our lives. Today marks 4 years. I'm so anxious to check in next year! I'm doing well, and burning the candle at both ends like I always have. I've noticed some things I don't like as a result of all I went through. I'm sure it's a combination of things... chemo, bilat ooph, instant menopause, and whatever normal aging I would have had anyway. Things that bother me are: I'm at -2.1 for osteoporosis (-2.2 is considered osteoporosis); My close vision is pretty much gone (and of course I'm in denial and so far refuse wearing glasses unless I'm digging out a splinter or threading a needle); I can't type as well as I used to (I used to type 70 wpm with almost zero errors... now I find I sometimes mix up letters.. not often, but some); I have difficulty trying to think of a word or phrase to use especially when describing something (that about drives me nuts too, since I will usually sit staring off into space until I think of the blasted word!). I wish all of you the best.... you're in my thoughts and prayers!
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Thank you Angelisa! I am happy for you!
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Angelisa congrats and I almost mirror your thoughts
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Stupidboob,
I concur with your thoughts. I go back and forth between feeling like an old sage who is wise and patient with life and a much more self-centered me who feels like I need what I want now just in case there is no tomorrow.
On my worst days, you might consider me reckless! I'll find myself driving 90-100mph on the highway or staying out at a bar (I rarely drink) way too late and doing foolish things. I'm not sure if it's because I just don't care anymore or if it's because I feel invincible, but it's the closest I come to feeling like I'm 20 years old again with no worries. I'm sure it's unhealthy...but it still happens every now and again. I'll wake up the following day and be back to age 36 going on 70.
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TiFJ,
Congratulations on 4 years! It is good to hear from people who are closing in on the end of the high risk 5 year period!
Hugs,
Peggy
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Congrats TIFJ!!! I sure do hope and pray we will all get there. Success stories like you give us all a bit more hope, I think anyway. Big hugs!!
Stupidboob and Radical, I also have the same thoughts. Ugh! Cancer sucks!! But Rad, please slow down on the highway. Hahaha! There are other things besides cancer that can hurt or kill you. Plus we wouldn't want you to get a ticket or put in the slammer. Hahahaha!
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TifJ - Congratulations! We are both on the same timeline. I was diagnosed 4 years ago on labor day weekend. What a contrast this past weekend was to four years ago. And for the first time, I didn't even think about it being my cancerversary going into the weekend. It wasn't until I was at a concert Friday night when my daughter said, "Mom, I'd much rather be at this concert with you then having the conversation we had 4 years ago!" Wow, I didn't think that would every happen. That's not to say that breast cancer isn't on my mind very often, but I was encouraged to realize that it doesn't consume me as much as it used to. Time is a great healer. Congrats to all those celebrating these milestones!
Kathy
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TifJ and KSteve: Congrats on your milestones. So good to hear you're doing well.
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Hi, everyone.
Question, please. I was diagnosed with Triple Negative Breast Cancer on June 16th, 2014.
I had never heard of Triple Negative Breast Cancer, so I did a lot of reading.
Something, I read about on this site really interested me, it is called: MammaPrint Test.
I would very much like to have this test. Not for helping me decide whether or not to have chemo
because I already made that decision.
I'd like to know how likely my cancer is to return. I will be having my 4th and last Taxol treatment on
Sept. 11th, then I will have 4 A/C treatments along with a double mastectomy.
And I am already worried about this cancer coming back someplace else. Ugh, as if we don't have
enough to think about :-(
Weeks ago, I asked my MO about this test and he said it is *not* for Triple Negative Breast Cancer.
I know he is the professional, but I wanted to ask all of you here, if any of you had this test?
Any information would be greatly appreciated!
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Luah - Thanks and I see that you're approaching the magic 5-year mark. I know my onc says 3-years is the big celebration for TNBC but something about 5 years sure does sound awesome
I guess we'll just keep doing what we're doing!
lyndawerner - I did not have the mammaprint test. Hopefully someone will come along soon to answer your questions. Congrats on just about reaching your halfway point of chemo. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other! Good luck with your upcoming surgery.
Hugs,
Kathy
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Thank you, Kathy :-)
That is GREAT news about you hitting the 4 year mark! All I can say is, WOW!!
I can't wait to be able to say that.
Take care.
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Hi, Stupidboob..(Love the name! I am not that clever. LOL )
I can certainly understand your feelings.
I feel like you do almost everyday and I was just diagnosed on June 16th, 2014!
Sorry, I do not know if it gets better.
But, considering what you have been through you have earned the right to feel however/whatever it is you feel.
Have a good one!
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Congrats to all who have reached those important milestones. We all rejoice right along with you and look forward to our own in the future!!Ladies, I will soon be seeing my MO after rads at the end of the month, and have been emailing her regarding various post treatments to prevent recurrence. I recently asked her about Metformin, as several of you have been prescribed it by your MO's. Here's a link she sent me from the Nat'l Cancer Institute re Metformin. She says there was a discussion at ASCO as well, that indicates the data is not yet in. She thinks there may be a role for metformin but suspects it would more likely be beneficial for women who are overweight with insulin resistance. http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/research-updates/2013/metformin/print
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MomMom,
I found it interesting that it said: "At the 2012 San Antonio Breast Cancer Symposium, for example, Italian and U.S. researchers reported that several metformin derivatives they had developed potently blocked the growth of breast cancer cells in the laboratory, including cell lines of triple-negative breast cancer, and caused the cells to die." So it is possible that the type of metformin currently available for diabetes may not be of the right formulation to help with TNBC. I am taking metformin just because there is nothing else we can take medically that MIGHT help us (like Tamoxifen, etc.).
Thanks,
Doreen
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for those on metformin, what do they want to see your glucose numbers at.....around 100 is the norm, yes? below that? Thanks
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Hi everyone! I may not post much but I'm certainly a lurker...lol....66 months out on Sept 20th...I remember my onc telling me that treatments will change from the time of my treatments 5 years ago..and yes they have changed somewhat..."they" are finding out more and more..just wish breakthroughs would happen faster than they are...
still dislike hearing that tn is hard to treat..blah..blah...but remember alot of us are still here and doing fine....BC almost seems like a dream to me now....I remember hearing that exercise is excellent for tn's...urging you all to walk/jog...if you can...I think it really does help...mentally as well as physically...I started doing this approx 5 years ago....think I'm addicted now....at first I was like..wow..I'm going to have to do this the rest of my life..but you know..it's good.
Love to you all....
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Titan, thanks and beautiful!
Recently started metformin and glucose level (tested for insurance reasons only) was 87. Slowly increasing dose until get to 2xday 850 mg each dose. Now at 850 in morning and 425 eve. No side effects/symptoms noticed so far. Mo prescribed it on my recommendation of researching it further and she felt it was worthwhile. She even spoke to an endocrinologist about it and he felt it was ok. I'm not diabetic and she said with a healthy pancreas it should not adversely affect blood sugar
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Titan, I dont think you can ever be called a lurker here, you STARTED this thread didnt you! So glad youare doing good.
Thanks for the info Lisa
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Titan: So nice to hear from you! Lurker, ha... you're the one who brought us all together, and I am still grateful for that five years on. Hope your family's all doing well. I still try to walk/jog 5 km a few times a week... plus we have a mountain nearby for cycling and skiing. I agree, it IS great for mental as well as physical well-being.
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Thanks everyone!Kathy- it is a wonderful feeling not to be consumed with breast cancer, oh I think about it with every unusual ache and pain, but I don't constantly think about it like I used to!
Early congrats to you Luah!! 5 years is absolutely awesome!!!
Hi Titan!
Lynda- I did not have, nor was offered, the mammosite test.
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Tif, CC, and Titan.....congrats on your anniversaries! I love hearing that kind of news.
Titan, thanks for the reminder about the walking and jogging. I agree that getting daily exercise is such a good thing. Not only does it reduce the risk of recurrence, it just feels so darn good!
Ally, I'm really happy for your pCR. Whenever you are feeling aches and pains from the chemo...just think pCR, pCR!
Lynda, it will be interesting to see what your MO says about the mammaprint test. I think with TNBC, most MO's don't do that test because it's not particularly useful in terms of determining treatment plans.
I'm happy because my hubby and I just spent the last couple days on a short vacation to visit friends in KY and go hiking and checking out caves. The weather was wonderful and I even had moments where BC was far from my mind. That felt wonderful. I need more days like that.
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My daughter turned 7 on Friday - we had a wonderful stress free pet party and hello kitty cake. The guy brought snakes, frogs, a 70 lbs tortoise (the kids got to ride him), rabbit, guinea pig, hamster, chinchilla and ferret. It was just a great bday party.
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