I may decide not to do chemo and radiation

resigned
resigned Member Posts: 36
edited January 2015 in Alternative Medicine

I posted in the Chemo forum which was very helpful and I just found this one. I'm doing all the research I can to decide if I'm going to go through with chemo and radiation after my mastectomy. I've just been diagnosed with stage IIB/IIIA, it's still not clear. I haven't heard back yet after 4 lymph nodes were removed except that my doctor said they were all full of cancer but he got all the cancer. He wants me to do chemo before my surgery and after. I have many masses in my right breast. I believe that chemo causes cancer and many other illnesses not just side effects but my oncologist says I have to do it. I think there's another way and I'm going to try fasting along with supplements, acupuncture, etc. My family is pushing me to do the chemo, I'm 48 and have a 10 year old son and everyone keeps telling me that he needs his mom. I'm very frustrated because I want to do what's right for me and my body! I'm just looking for info if you've had experience with alternative medicine. I'm a massage therapist and I'm very knowledgeable about natural healing but I would appreciate any first hand experience. 

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  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited August 2014

    naturalhealing,

    Your desire is understandable. No one wants chemo rads etc. and in the end, it is certainly your choice and not anyone else's. Once you completely understand your disease and it's particulars, then you make your choices. Please read Beesie's posts on the other thread you started for clear objective views. Stage III is a very different beast than stage 0 or 1 and that needs to be at the top of your decision making process. Wishing you the best.

  • pearlady
    pearlady Member Posts: 882
    edited August 2014

    naturalhealing I understand your desire to avoid chemotherapy and radiation, but am concerned that you don' fully understand the situation.  Even with Stage 1 cancers and chemotherapy, there is a 30% recurrence.  Also you don't say whether you cancer is ER/PR+ or Her2nu+.  Those factors should definitely be a consideration in your decision.  In the end it is your choice only, but I have known women who rejected all traditional treatment, including tamoxifen and aromotase inhibitors, and did alternative only and had recurrences.  Of course I'm not saying that a recurrence wouldn't happen with treatment, but you really need to understand all the factors of your particular cancer and perhaps go for a second opinion also.  I also do some alternative treatment in addition to standard treatments.  My onc believes very strongly in certain alternative treatments, but always with the traditional treatments.  The alternative treatments that I do definitely help me to tolerate and chemo better and minimize side effects.  Prayers for you on your jouney.

  • inga6060
    inga6060 Member Posts: 56
    edited August 2014

    There are so many alternitive things.  If you have access to an integrative Dr.  He can order a "greek blood test".  Greece has the only lab in the world, that can take your cancer cell and test it against all of the known treatments out there, scientifically proven of course.  Whether  it is natural or conventional.  then you know exactly how to treat it.  The cancer tutor website is extremely helpful and is highly respected.  I am currently taking poly mva.  It alone has an 80% success rate.  I also take turmeric, quercitin, vit c, and genestein.  All of which were on my blood test as being the most effective against the cancer I have. I also take a few other things to support my kidneys and liver.  I am a big fan of apple cider vinegar.  It actually balances your blood ph.   Which is crucial for cancer.  Alkalinity is important.  But balance is more mportant.  My saliva ph is near perfect and urine is actually too alkaline.  I am still stage 4 cancer.  Ph is extremely important.  Get some strips at your local health food store.  Hope this helps.  I just didn't want to destroy my body from what western medicine had to offer.  the cancer has crippled me.  But I would have been dead by now if did traditional treatments.  I can tell my body is healing.  I am on a way longer road than you are.  Stay positive.  This is just a little bump in the road for you.

  • juneping
    juneping Member Posts: 1,594
    edited August 2014

    naturalhealing - I didn't see any DX info from you and agreed with a poster wrote that you need to know what kind of BC you are dealing with. 

    Have you done the onco type test? I have am integrative doc who originally urged me to do chemo. Then I showed him my onco test and he read the graphs he didn't care my score and he said it made sense for me to skip chemo. It only helps me 2%...

    Regardless....we all have to make some life style changes. Are you active? My int doc told me to exercise everyday...and plant based diet. 

  • AlaskaAngel
    AlaskaAngel Member Posts: 1,836
    edited August 2014

    The only personal experience I have, is after doing chemo, in that as a stage 1, by chance and choice I never did trastuzumab "back when" I was diagnosed, and I also chose to do a very abbreviated course of tamoxifen, and then chose not to do any AI even though I am HER2 positive and HR+. I have thus far not recurred at 12 years out.

    My main purpose in posting here is to suggest that regardless of which route you choose, discuss and consider the use of metformin. My understanding is that chemo does not work on stem cells but metformin can.

    A.A.

  • resigned
    resigned Member Posts: 36
    edited August 2014

    Thanks every one.  I need to go through some paperwork, and I'm still waiting on some tests. I know i need more info. I've been vegan/vegetarian for 30 years and I exercise every single day. Im' still learning all the lingo. One doctor said I was hormone receptor negative, one doctor said I'm not. 

  • AlaskaAngel
    AlaskaAngel Member Posts: 1,836
    edited August 2014

    Some research has indicated that even mildly positive HR may benefit from HR tx. So some docs (and patients) believe it is best to use it "just in case", even though it may not work for all. Some docs don't.

    Hope that is meaningful in some way to you,

    A.A.

  • rozem
    rozem Member Posts: 1,375
    edited August 2014

    naturalhealing - perhaps you can use your alternatives during (check with your MO) and after treatment to help with side effects and building your immune system back up.  I know this seems counter intuitive - kill your immune system with chemo and then try to build it back up,  but these drugs are all we have right now to deal with this disease. As another poster stated, these are drugs that have been tested by thousands of brave women and we know that they can prevent reccurance, not in everyone of course because there will always be a percentage who reoccur anyway.   Cancer is a tricky beast, if you have positive lymph nodes (and in some cases even if you don't) your cancer has already learned to travel, and as such can set up shop somewhere else (liver, lung and bone the most common).  Now is the time to hit it hard to kill anything that may have escaped the breast. 

    I had a very healthy diet prior to this mess too, worked out, maintained a very healthy weight etc and I still got cancer ( zero family history or risk factors) just goes to show you can do everything right and it still happens.  I had a complete response to chemo given prior to surgery - zero cancer in breast or nodes.  Do I have SE? yes I suffer from "chemo brain" but that may also be related to menopause and tamox and achy joints (again tamox) but other than that I feel great, tired but great!  I have an 11 year old and a 14 year old and I know how difficult this is with young children - but they are the reason I pushed through even when there were days that I wanted to give up

  • edwards750
    edwards750 Member Posts: 3,761
    edited August 2014

    natural healing- Totally agree with a lot of points here. Having said that I wouldn't consider not doing radiation which wad my treatment plan. I had 33 RADS. My skin burned a little and I had some fatigue but all in all not too bad. Thing is there are no treatments that don't come with risks but they are our options right now and there are truly thousands of women who have endured the brutal side effects and surviving years later. 

    There are no guarantees but I for one am not willing to play Russian roulette with this disease. Too risky. 

    Btw I did have the Oncotype test. My score was 11. That test determined my treatment. 8% chance of recurrence. 

    Inga - I am curious why do you say you would be dead if you had undergone traditional treatments? 

    Steve Jobs' decision to go the alternative route cost him his life. Just saying. It convinced me. 

    It's still your decision, your life. A second opinion is a good idea. That many nodes involved is a concern. 

    Good luck, 

    Diane 

  • juneping
    juneping Member Posts: 1,594
    edited August 2014

    natural - there's a book you should check out. Anti cancer - a new way of living. It's written by a doc who had brain cancer twice and was able to stay in remission for 20 years. He's pro chemo just want to put it out there.

    But his book and his video which is available on YouTube. He had some studies on diet and exercise and I am not sure vegan or vegetarian is the best diet for us. I've read a lot of cancer patients turned vegan or vegetarian and the cancer  returned. We need a balance diet.

    It's a tough call....I struggled with the decision as well. I read the book what you doctor might not tell you about BC and that's how I made my decision. My job needs me to be very sharp and use a lot of brain....so that I also put into my consideration. I do not want to be a mediocre at my job. 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2014

    Hmmm...naturalhealing:  This post sounds quite different than your other post.  You mentioned on that board that you had "clear margins," yet now you say you have not yet had surgery.  On this one, you say you "haven't heard back yet" about the lymph nodes, but then say they were "all full of cancer" but that the surgeon got all the cancer.  I'm pretty confused at this point, so I just want to add that I hope you get ALL the information about ALL your pathology before making a decision, and make SURE you understand what you're looking at, because I worry you might still be a little confused about all the terminology.  Having four lymph nodes "full of cancer" is a different story than it sounded on the other post.  So I hope you are completely informed before deciding. You don't have to listen to family members who are not as informed as you will be, but your docs will know the score (but they don't know you or your body or your beliefs).  So please pay attention to the good and the bad that chemo might bring...and all the best to you in this difficult decision.

  • juneping
    juneping Member Posts: 1,594
    edited August 2014

    i want to add that if you do the alternative method, make sure have a reputable doc do it with you....it's def not a DIY thing.

    The Schachter Center is pretty good, I've talked to them but i can't afford it. they've been around for 75 years or since 1975....

  • Denise-G
    Denise-G Member Posts: 1,777
    edited August 2014

    Two years out from treatment, I often thank God for being Stage 3a (one node away from Stage 3c)  and getting the book thrown at me.

    If I would have had a choice, I probably would have said no to a lot of things.  I trusted my team of doctors and the Tumor Board of 40 experts that told me what I needed to do.   It wasn't easy, that's for sure.  But I am doing well, and thank God every day I listened to my experts.  That's why I hired them, that's why I paid them, that's why I traveled many miles away to find a top Cancer Center. 

  • placid44
    placid44 Member Posts: 497
    edited August 2014

    Naturalhealing,

    Your pathology report will state whether your tumors are hormone positive or negative. I'm not clear on why your physicians would say different things about that topic. Unless the multiple tumors were an issue?

    If four lymph nodes were full of cancer, then it is likely that some cancerous cells are circulating in your body. That is what the chemo is for. Removing all of the cancer from the lymph nodes during surgery still leaves the possibility that some cells got out before surgery.

    I was very glad to have chemo as an option. For my type of cancer, it is the treatment most likely to be effective. I also did BMX and rads. 

    Best wishes.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited August 2014

    naturalhealing, are you familiar with CancerMath? It's a website
    where you can input your age and the details about your diagnosis, and
    then you can input various treatment plans and compare results.

    The
    info that you've provided in your posts and/or on your profile
    indicates that that you are 48, you have a 4cm tumor and either 3
    (according to your profile) or 4 (according to your post here) positive
    nodes. Your profile indicates that your cancer is grade 2. You don't yet know your ER, PR and HER2 status.

    When
    that information is input into Cancermath, the results suggest that
    without chemo, you face a 42.9% chance of dying from this diagnosis
    within 15 years. With chemo, your risk is reduced to 19.3%.

    http://www.lifemath.net/cancer/breastcancer/therap...
    I find that the Pictogram results are the easiest to understand. Where
    is says "Display as" under the chart, select "Pictogram.

    These
    results are just a guideline; you will get better and more accurate
    information about your risk from your medical oncologist, who will also
    take into account your ER, PR and HER2 status, which might either lower
    (if ER+/PR+/HER2-) or increase (if triple negative or HER2+) your risk.
    But these results from CancerMath aren't likely to be far off.

    I
    appreciate that you looking for support from others here who have made
    the decision that you want to make - women who have passed on chemo and
    rads. But frankly, what anyone else did isn't relevant to you because they faced a different diagnosis and a different
    mortality risk. Some of the women who responded to your post in the
    Chemo forum were Stage I. If you were Stage I, with a 1cm tumor and no
    positive nodes, according to CancerMath, your 15-year risk of mortality
    from this diagnosis would be 8.2%. Chemo would be able to reduce this
    to 3.7%.  A 4.5% reduction in mortality risk from chemo... given the risks and side effects from chemo, that's enough benefit for some women, but not enough for others. But your diagnosis is very different, your risk is much higher, and the risk reduction benefit that you would get from chemo is significantly greater - 23.6% (again, just according to CancerMath). 

    That's what it comes down to - a benefit vs. risk assessment for each treatment - based on the specifics of your diagnosis. The key to figuring out what to do is understanding your diagnosis and your risk, and
    understanding the actual amount of risk reduction you will get from
    these treatments. That's information your medical oncologist
    should be able to provide.

  • resigned
    resigned Member Posts: 36
    edited August 2014

    Thank you for all the infomration and i'm sorry if I am getting some of the lingo wrong I'm still learning. My doctor told me he got all the cancer when he took out 3 of my lymph nodes. He did a pet scan before he took the lymph nodes out and they found nothing. He's really pushing for chemo before the mastectomy but I keep coming back to the fact that I don't want to take the risk of all the things that can happen after chemo. AT first i said yes do whatever you have to do but now i'm researching more and i think there are alternatives. thank you all for posting. 

  • Hindsfeet
    Hindsfeet Member Posts: 2,456
    edited August 2014

    Naturalhead...I understand your reservations. My fourth dx was stage 1A although realistically because they couldn't see it all, I probably was stage 3. The cancer had gone down into the hiler limph nodes under the sternum. The PET scan a few years ago showed nothing but a tiny spot...1.8 C...although the biopsy was 2 C. On my records the biopsy doesn't count so they pretty much dx me according to surgical path report. Because the right breast was my 3rd cancer in that breast I did go ahead with a mastectomy and Herceptin for about 5 months. I quit because it affected my heart negatively.

    Unfortunately, it seems that the hiler lemph nodes exploded and shrapnel went all over and now I have wide spread stage iv cancer. The problem is you don't know the tiny mets that can't be seen on a scan until it is too late. If I were to go back and do it over again, I would have done at least radiation to the chest. I would have chosen it over the mastectomy. It would have killed the micro-mets that weren't seen with the PET scan a few years ago.

    I am a natural girl as well, but I have had to swallow my pride and accept conventional treatments along with natural to live. I chose not to do chemo early on and even at stage iv I'm not doing chemo. It might give you a little more time, and even put a cancer into remission. For me right now my decision is quality of life. I am doing radiation, Herceptin/Perjeta, hormone blockers, and bone building shots. My dx is fairly new so I'm not quite too familiar with the names of drugs and etc.

    Definitely, if I were in your shoes I would get rid of the tumors, and do radiation. Radiation was something I did not want to do, but learned it is necessary to kill fast growing cancers. For me now it is good to do both conventional and alternative. I spoke recently with a doctor who said those who did both faired better.

    I hope you have a good oncologist, who listens to you, and is able to walk you through this difficult time. I am very fortunate to have a woman oncologist, who listens to me, and cares. She is not forcing me to do chemo yet has given me a plan that is working for me...hopefully.


     

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited August 2014

    Natural, you say:

    "He's really pushing for chemo before the mastectomy"

    Please have a good and full discussion with your doc about why he wants the chemo before surgery. Also make sure you have a chance to discuss this with an oncologist. Seek a second opinion just to be sure. In any event, you need the full pathology report, a final verdict on the hormone status etc before making a decision about treatment.

    Then you say:

    "but I keep coming back to the fact that I don't want to take the risk of all the things that can happen after chemo."

    Chemo is scary for sure, but you can't let yourself be ruled by fear and make decisions based on emotion. It is really hard when you are bombarded with DX and loads of information to keep a clear head. Talk to your doctors, try to ignore friends and family. 

    As for the risks of chemo, they are definitely real. However, and this is a huge however, if your risk of dying from the cancer is 40% or more over the next 10-15 years and that risk can be reduced to half or less with chemo, then it is worth it. It is worth it because the risk of serious complications from the chemo is much lower than your risk of dying from the actual cancer.

    One of the advantages of doing chemo before surgery is that you can easily measure if the chemo is working. If the tumor shrinks, the chemo is working. If the tumor doesn't shrink, the doctors can quickly switch to a different tactic, saving you unnecessary treatment. Also, when you can feel that it is working, it is much easier to get through. In my case the tumor had shrunk to half after 2 chemos. After 4, it was reduced to a few millimeters in each direction.

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited August 2014

    Hindsfeet, very good and thoughtful advice.

  • DiveCat
    DiveCat Member Posts: 968
    edited August 2014

    When your surgeon said he removed all the cancer (and this would just be in the lymph nodes, as it seems you still have multiple tumours in your breast which may or may not all be the same cancer) he means what he could observe in surgery and what came back on pathology. Neither he, nor a PET scan can guarantee there aren't cells circulating in your body that are looking for a new home. It is impossible in surgery to "get it all" in that sense. Not having mets now show up on a PET scan does not mean you are not at risk for mets in the future. Mets can occur weeks, months, years..even decades later. The chemo is to try and target any of these escaped cells that have not yet had chance to find a new home and multiply to point they become metastatic lesions and tumours.

    If your doctor wants to do chemo first, it is usually either as they want to try and shrink the tumour(s) to get better margins, and/or they want to be able to monitor the response to chemo. My mum for example had chemo before surgery, and they switched the regimen after 2-3 cycles as they were not happy with the response; the next chemo cocktail got a much better response.  There are ladies on here with triple-negative cancers who have known before going into surgery that they had a complete response to chemo.  While no guarantee against recurrence, the chances are higher they have significantly reduced their risk (triple negative cancers are generally more aggressive, with higher risk of recurrence especially in the first couple years, but also are more likely to respond to chemo)

    Chemo is NOT always recommended; when the risks of chemo do outweigh the benefits for example. I have seen women on here upset their doctor won't recommend them for chemo because of this. But as Momine said above when your recurrence risk is high, and chemo can drastically reduce that, the benefits do outweigh the lower risk of side effects. You have not specified what side effects in particular you are concerned about, but you should know that not all chemo regimens have the same side effects or risks, and there are ways to also manage side effects, etc. I just hate to see you reject something if you are at high risk of recurrence without complete information as you fear side effects (that can be managed) or for your quality of life (which may not be as affected as you fear). I've seen too many loved family members and friends with metastatic breast cancer and now that has very awful "side effects" and really impedes on quality of life (and finally, results in loss of your life). Chemo brain has nothing on brain mets, fatigue has nothing on needing a hip replacement or wheelchair at 50 because bone mets had destroyed your hip and/or spine, or example. I just hate to see you close the door on something that may give you a very good chance to avoid that outcome.

  • lightandwind
    lightandwind Member Posts: 754
    edited August 2014

    Natural healing. My diagnosis was in 2012. I was stage 3. I had a large 6+ cm tumor that was ER+/PR+ HER2- grade 3 w/ a high mitotic score (rapidly dividing) w/ 5/25 lymph nodes positive.  I did not have chemo though it was recommended by my docs. I did my own research and made my decision. Since my cancer was 97% estrogen fed and I had severe estrogen dominance issues, I had the tumor (mx) and the ovaries removed. I changed my diet dramatically. I was on aromatase inhibitors for 1 1/2 years. I have also taken many alternative treatments. I may be lucky but so far, I have not recurred. I am living my life and feeling good. Even if I did or even if I do recur, I know now deeply that I have made the right decision for me.  No matter what happens I will not regret not having chemo when I was diagnosed.

    I believe many chemos feed cancer, and do not kill off stem cells. The body emits proteins in its wake that encourage the growth of cancer. I believe it because I have done my research. I am not against all conventional treatments, but by and far, I believe that many chemos do more harm than good.  I have read articles about how some off label pharmaceuticals have been more effective at supporting the immune system and killing cancer than chemo.  

    For me, I knew the truth. that I had seen so many people suffer horrendously and die following chemo. Coupled w/ the research I had done,  I had to be true to myself, so in this way, I really didn't have a choice. I decided long ago to be true to myself.

    If I had been HER2+ I would have likely chosen the targeted treatments in addition to various alternatives. I believe that soon chemo will be a thing of the past. It is my understanding that new and better treatments, treatments that support our immune systems and better support our overall health are on the way. Just my 2 cents. 

  • SelenaWolf
    SelenaWolf Member Posts: 1,724
    edited August 2014

    Naturalhealing... you've received lots of things to consider, including getting additional medical opinions and finding out more information.  This is all very good advice.  I would advise the following while you are trying to muddle through all this:

    1) Write down all your questions about your diagnosis and go over each- and every one with each oncologist/doctor that you consult.  Take another person with you to the appointment (a second pair of ears can be invaluable during this overwhelming time) or ask to record the session.

    2) Write down all of your concerns about conventional treatment and discuss each with whoever you consult.  You need to receive reliable information about conventional treatment vs. complementary treatment (conventional + alternative) vs. alternative treatment only.  Ask for specific information about the benefits/risks of each course IN YOUR CASE.  One Stage III woman's needs may not be the same as another Stage III woman's needs.

    3) Keep an open mind, and check your emotions and preconceptions about chemotherapy at the door.  Some of the chemotherapies used in breast cancer treatments are derived from natural sources: Adriamycin is an anthracycline antibiotic closely related to the natural product daunomycin and is derived from soil-based microbes; and Taxol is derived from the bark of the Pacific Yew tree.  Yes, these drugs are both processed in a lab which makes them - technically - synthetic, but many natural therapies are, also, processed in a lab which makes - technically - makes them synthetic, as well.

    4) When you find out what type of chemotherapy is being recommended, ask for product monographs on each one that is being recommended for you.  The product monograph is the complete documentation of each drug, including active ingredients, inactive ingredients, chemical structure, potential side effects, etc. and discuss each one with everyone you consult.  As many pointed out above, you need to consider each one for YOUR particular situation.

    5) Many cancer centres, now, offer an integrative approach to treatment, combining aspects of both conventional- and complementary/alternative therapies.  Explore this if it is offered by your treatment centre.  While a conventional oncologist will concentrate on the conventional therapies, an integrative oncologist can provide you with a good overview of both conventional and non-conventional therapies; how they interact and complement each other, etc.

    6) If you decide to go the all natural route after taking all this into consideration, make sure that you understand the risks completely.  Many natural remedies - like conventional ones - can be dangerous if used inappropriately and some, when combined with others, can produce serious side effects or can negate what you are trying to attempt with the first remedy.  As someone stated above, this is not the time to go-it-on-your-own.  I have studied the use of herbs for years and have found that, just because they are "natural" doesn't mean that they cannot be deadly, dangerous or completely ineffective if not used properly. 

    Whatever you decide in the long run, being fully- and completely informed about the ramifications of your decision can help ensure that you will encounter few surprises along the way.  Never forget; no matter what you choose - chemotherapy or no - your body will naturally recover.  It's what bodies are designed to do.

    Good luck.

    Disclosure:  I was 50 years old when I was diagosed with Stage 2, Grade 2 IDC, ER/PR+ HER2-, 1/7 nodes positive.  I did opt for surgery, chemotherapy and radiation (I had a lumpectomy, so radiation was a given) and three years later, I am in fabulous health; cycling up to 50km a week; hiking regularly; gardening; swimming; playing basefall; and enjoying life.  My heart is fine, my lungs are fine, and my immune system is working marvelously, and I am part of a clinical trial exploring the use of Metformin to reduce recurrence risk.  I am currently taking Tamoxifen to reduce recurrence and have experienced very few side effects. 

  • lightandwind
    lightandwind Member Posts: 754
    edited August 2014

    Adriamycin is extremely toxic and can be life threatening causing congestive heart failure, liver malfunction, life threating bowel issues.

    The safety data sheet lists it as "toxic" a "carcinogenic hazard", a "mutagenic hazard" and a "reproductive hazard," and warns that it "may cause cancer."  It's important to know the facts.

  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited August 2014

    And what is an existing, not hypothetical, cancer?

  • sandcastle
    sandcastle Member Posts: 587
    edited August 2014

    NaturalHeal......You, were right in Moving this Topic to the Alternative Thread....and that is what it should be about.....Liz

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited August 2014

    We agree, Liz. 

    Thank you all for offering your helpful and thoughtful advice to Naturalhealing, and for remembering that if you do not necessarily agree with treatment options being discussed in a certain forum, you're encouraged to read elsewhere.

    Thoughtful and engaging posts are always welcome; judgmental and condescending posts are not.

    Thank you for continuing to keep Breastcancer.org a welcome, safe, and open place of discussion.

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  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 5,712
    edited August 2014


    Natural...it is your choice whatever you choose to do, make sure you do research and ask all the questions you have to all the professionals and whomever you trust...I am sure you have time to make those decision and some may be reversible...

  • juneping
    juneping Member Posts: 1,594
    edited August 2014

    liz...agreed as well. it's pretty brutal to read on the other thread....

  • HomeMom
    HomeMom Member Posts: 1,198
    edited August 2014

    I don't know, I am borderline stage 2/3 and there is no way I would have passed up everything my docs suggest to cure this thing. I am looking into changing my lifstyle and holistic therapy afterwards, but I haven't seen a success story yet of bypassing chemo etc. When I say success, I mean they lived to old age and died of something else.  That's MY goal.

  • Meow13
    Meow13 Member Posts: 4,859
    edited August 2014

    I haven't seen anyone bypass chemo when it is recommended. I think I'm the only one who felt that chemo wasn't the answer. My decision may have been tainted with a couple experiences one with a very good friend who had a rare cancer and died young at 35. It was the harsh chemo that caused her tumors to resist and grow out of control with in a month. Two months later she died. Another was my neighbor whose brother had surgery to remove colon cancer less than a month later he was dead from the chemo. God help me but I could never take poison.

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