How vain are you?
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Yorkie - thank you so much for the pictures - and the story about how the street animals are treated. I really truly enjoyed hearing that part!!! -
We used to use an entire carry-on just for "drug store" stuff; shampoos, conditioners, sun screen, make-up, etc. They'd never let us do that now!!! We used to travel for 2 weeks or more at a time so needed all that stuff rather than buy at a hotel. And who knew in Turkey (3 weeks with Rhodes) where we'd find shampoo! The banks wouldn't even cash a travellers cheque, but funnily enough, a pharmacy did in the next town. We were in Marmaris Bay at that point.
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Barbe, there was a great salon across the street from out hotel. I got a travel size shampoo, non-damaging to my color of course, there. Also had to find some face cleanser and moisturizer after I ran out. No problem. There was a Clinique store nearby too. Istanbul is a very metropolitan city. It is clean, feels healthy and peaceful. I keep comparing our experience there with the horror we witnessed in New Delhi India. Travel truly opens one's mind.
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GG, seeing those content and well cared for street animals was the most important and heartwarming part of my trip. Some people would say "weird," but that's how I roll!
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i guess I do too. It made me feel so good to hear it. Quite a change from capturing and killing them if no one will adopt.
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GG, yes, that's how it's done in our country. In third world countries they are left to starve or die of disease. Both options bad, bad, bad imo.
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We found Turkey to be the cleanest country we have ever visited. At the gas station, they come out to the car with a tray of coffees!! You could eat off the pavement there it was so clean. We were very impressed. Oranges sold by the side of the road were an amazing flavour and I can't remember if I mentioned that the honey there is made from pine trees but is sweeter than ours.
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how can i move to turkey?
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I agree with everything you said Barbe. I think that's why they care so well for their street animals. They want them to be as clean and healthy as everything else in the country! The only real negative was traffic congestion. They are trying to deal with that by building a city wide subway system. They have a good system right now but it has a limited range.
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Apparently Turkey is one of the only self-sufficient countries in the world. If you drive a car, it can be made in Turkey for example. Plus, their youth (not sure of girls) have to serve 1 or 2 (?) years in the army when they are 21. Good discipline!
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Yorkie, we were there in March of 2010. It was the perfect time of year to visit. The tulips were in full bloom! Beautiful! And, yes, it is an extremely clean city especially when comparing it to Cairo, Egypt, which is where we were living at the time. I'm attaching a photo of me enjoying what I used to really enjoy pre-cancer! Ah, those were the days!
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Amy, great photo! I haven't been to Cairo, but I compare it to New Delhi India, which we visited last year. The differences were astounding. New Delhi was filthy with desperate animals and people clinging to life all over the streets. That place truly is hell on earth. India has many wonderful sights and a beautiful culture, but it must get a grip on the grinding poverty that is in plain sight everywhere.
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My husband travelled to Mumbai several times for work and said conditions were horrid. I had several Indian friends living in Cairo and they all said Egypt was extremely clean in comparison and they preferred living in Cairo. I could not and still cannot fathom that! I have a couple of expat friends from Cairo who've moved on to India (oil and gas business) and they've had a difficult time adjusting. My empty-nester friend does not spend much time there. India is definitely not on my bucket list for travel destinations. I saw extreme poverty in Cairo and it was heart breaking. I can't imagine it being worse even though I know it is. I definitely feel very blessed!!!
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Having been to India, and traveled all over the country, I do think it is one of the most fascinating places I've visited. The extremes are, well, extreme! It is a place where the most hideous and the most gorgeous things can exist almost side by side. It's history and historical sites are legendary and if you love food, it's paradise. You have to take it for what it is and accept things that ruffle our western sensibilities. I love a Turkey too, BTW. Come to think about it, I love every country I've visited. I might not want to live in all of them, but they each offer something that enriches me.
Caryn
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Smokey eye success!
Been experimenting and neutrals - particularly grey - are the way-to-go for me. I bought this at the pharmacy, largely because it was on clear-out (therefore, if it didn't work, I wouldn't mind getting rid of it):
It's a 12-palette in shades encompassing white/peach for highlighting, caramel and grey for base, and taupe/mink/charcoal for contouring. There's a really glittery gold highlighter than I didn't touch with a barge-pole. I used the nude peach for a base and the grey for contouring, and the charcoal as a liner both upper- and lower, and voila!!! I have a softer variation of a smokey eye that doesn't make me look like a raccoon.
[But I don't have a cell phone so I can't post a selfie...]
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Grand idea, Selena. I had to go an entire DAY without eye makeup, and let me tell you, ladies, it was tough! Esp with the added under eye circles from chemo, and a heat wave rolling thru the state. I can skip a lot of adornments, but concealer, blush, mascara and shadow are essentials! Oh, and brow stuff now, of course.
Vanity score on a scale of one to ten... 9!
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Hello, is everyone on vacation?
Selena, no cell phone? Landline? You are old school. I hate to talk on the phone, and I rarely answer it, which is rude. I text when I need to communicate.
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i know, i am missing selena, too amongst others.
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I am here. It's been a very busy few weeks for me; as well, I've been felled by a summer tummy bug (likely too much watermelon and cherries), which has been nasty. I hate being sick.
No cell phone. I have a landline, which I rarely answer anymore. It's crazy: the minute I get home from work, the onslaught starts. Telepesters. I hate them. I have a personal email account that I forget to check. I'm known to not check Facebook for weeks on end. I don't Twitter. I don't text.
I read books. Lots of them. I write letters. Lots of those too. Yes, I am old-school.
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I don't use a cell phone and my landline is for my doctors! I use Facebook and email to talk to anyone that interests me. That's it. Not even letters. I don't consider it old-school at all - just a preservation of my "off" time. I hate someone interrupting my computer or (rarely) TV time. I read a couple of books a week - real ones - not on an electric device (though I do have one of those which is never charged or loaded with a book!).
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Hi everyone! Hope you are doing well and the weather has not had a negative impact in your lives.
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Glad this thread is still alive! I had my necklift almost 3 weeks ago. Still some swelling, but already look so much younger, woot, woot! Will post a pic when the swelling is completely gone.
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Yorkie, can't wait to see that! Could you explain, how and what was done too?
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Ariom, it was a 4 hour surgery. I had a lot of pain for about 2 days, but after that just extreme discomfort and general misery for about 2 more weeks. Had a giant bandage on my head, then a sling. Could only sleep upright and on my back until just a week ago. For a long while it felt like I was sleeping in a coffin (couldn't move, could hardly hear). I'm free of all that sh*#t now, so doing well and loving my new face. Another problem was that for about a week I could not chew. Had to drink liquids or eat very soft stuff like tofu. Because my head was wrapped 24/7 my DH had to bring food in. You have to REALLY want this surgery to go through all that. Still sore on my ears and a little swollen on the sides of my face, but hoping that all goes away in a few weeks. Dr. says I am recovering well.
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WOW! Yorkie, thank you for that explanation. That was a commitment, but a worthwhile one!
I have a girlfriend who has real neck issues, she keeps saying she wants to have her neck done, so I will read this, to her.
I wish you all the very best for the remainder of your recovery and look forward to seeing the pics when you are ready!
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I really believe it will take 20 years off my face. I have always looked younger than my years, but gravity was winning the battle before I got this surgery. If your friend can endure about 2-3 weeks of misery, progressively decreasing, I think she will love the results. But a big caveat is that she has to find a great surgeon.
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Thanks Yorkie! I have her on the phone right now, reading this to her. She has had a real change of mind after hearing what it entails. LOL
Thank you for all that information!
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It's good to have the real scoop. Docs of course want our money so tend to minimize all we have to go through. Again, I'm glad I did it, but the experience is definitely not for everybody.
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yorkiemom - can't wait to see a picture when you have the total healing
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Sorry I
haven't been posting!On June 19th I fell on vacation
and suffered a head injury. I thought I would be fine. I wasn't. My PCP
diagnosed Post-Concussion Syndrome. The good news is that she said that it
would take 8 - 12 weeks to recover… other sources say it may take longer.My
vanity is somewhere out there wandering around with my memory......~ ~ ~
Yorkiemom- I
have no desire to get nipple recon, but I'd love to have my turkey wattle
removed from under my neck. Actually, I'd like a body lift, but there's not
enough drugs in the world to make me go through that.Pics!
We want pics!!!
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