Younger women with ILC?

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  • BettyBoo
    BettyBoo Member Posts: 72
    edited February 2013

    45 at dx, premenopausal, no history of bc in our family. Don't drink but slightly overweight, although had lost 14 kilograms just before dx. Did chemo on the grounds of having multifocal/multicentric ILC but no rads.

  • lamuso
    lamuso Member Posts: 123
    edited February 2013

    Hello.  I am 51 now but I was diagnoised at age 46.  I was told my tumor was very slow growing and had probably been with me for 8 years or so.  So that would put me in my 30's when my cancer began.  No family history of breast cancer but my father died of pancreatic cancer.  I tested negative for the breast cancer gene.

  • Marls
    Marls Member Posts: 2
    edited February 2013

    I was dx with triple pos ILC at 36, no family history, never drinked any alcohol ever before, never smoked, fit, breastfed babies etc (i.e. NO risk factors).  My lymph nodes were extracapsular and large metastatic lymph nodes in axilla basin.  It's been three years of gruelling treatment, but am NED, though still on Tamoxifen and Zoladex.

  • hlya
    hlya Member Posts: 484
    edited March 2013

    Dx at 43.  No one else in  my family + extended families ever had BC

    Marls: I saw your post and have to say there are really something we do not know.....sigh....

  • lemon68
    lemon68 Member Posts: 684
    edited March 2013

    hlya, please come and join us if you would like at the TEAM ILC Warriors thread. We would love to have you and it is a very active thread.

  • modavie
    modavie Member Posts: 20
    edited March 2013

    Hi, I'm 35 diagnosed with Lobular - 4.5 x 5.5cm and Ductal Invasive 1.5cm - both in the same breast. I got prego last year via first time IVF and miscarried due to fibroid that grew 5 cm because of all hormones given during the IVF. My onco is highly suspicious that these tumours grew due to the IVF treatment. I had a complete mastectomy on Jan 7 and have been freezing embryos. I'm planning one round of collecting follicles and next week and will be starting chemo first week of April. The treatment plan I'll be given is sequential ACT - AC 4 x 21 days + 12 weeks of T - once a week. I'm scared from the side effects of chemo - particularly with fertility :(. Oh I have 1 infected node with lobular cancer cells and Her2 -ve. Both lobular and invasive ductal are 100% ER positive. 

  • lemon68
    lemon68 Member Posts: 684
    edited March 2013

    Hi Modavie

    I am so sorry. Please join us on the ILC Warrior thread, we are here to help.

    Lemom

  • sandersmomma
    sandersmomma Member Posts: 23
    edited March 2013

    I am 44. Still on the young side, especially since I have a 6 year old. Diagnosed with ILC in late January. Started chemo Monday. Despite being 44, I felt like a kid at the treatment center!

  • Kiss77
    Kiss77 Member Posts: 162
    edited August 2013

    Hi

    Dx at 35. Now I'm 36 and I'm in the middle of the treatment.

  • sgreenarch
    sgreenarch Member Posts: 528
    edited August 2013

    Hi. 49 and premenopausal at dx. No family hx, non drinker. Mom took DES while pregnant with me, a known risk factor for BC, but who knows? Taking my Femara and trying to live healthy and positive now. That's the best we can all do, I think.

  • Cris32
    Cris32 Member Posts: 15
    edited September 2013
  • Cris32
    Cris32 Member Posts: 15
    edited September 2013

    My name is Kristal Bondi, I am looking for women on Facebook that are around my age to relate to. I am 33 years old dx with ILC 10cm after chemo, well a mixture of ILC and LCIS. I finished chemo, had the double mastectomy with reconstruction and have 2 positive nodes. I'm scheduled for surgery on the 26th....left axillary dissection and left papilla exertion? Not sure of spelling, lobular is so sneaky!!! I am scheduled to meet with rad doc on the 10th of Oct. I'm a mom of 4 and I love coming to this site, I just know us younger ones are more likely to be on Facebook? I'm only guessing because I never see any on the young BC site. I just would like to have ladies on or around my age to relate to and see how y'all are coping so young and maybe here positive stories on here being dx stage 3a as of this week....I'm strong in my faith, God has gotten me this far, he will continue to see me through. God bless all women having to go through this.

  • mary625
    mary625 Member Posts: 1,056
    edited September 2013

    There are women your age on here, but maybe not in ILC. At 49, even I was young for ILC. You might want to go into the Younger Women forum, the forum for your stage, etc. Unfortunately or fortunately you are not alone. I've met two women in the past month who were diagnosed at 33. Best wishes.

  • Cris32
    Cris32 Member Posts: 15
    edited September 2013

    Thank you for your response😊

  • Brioche78
    Brioche78 Member Posts: 37
    edited October 2013


    hello cris32,


    I've just been dx with ILC , I'm 35. There is one I found for women in the 30's lots of support there too!

  • Warrior50
    Warrior50 Member Posts: 94
    edited October 2013


    I was 49 and premeno (3 days before my 50th birthday, but still...) I was never a big drinker, even socially and no family history.

  • erinm216
    erinm216 Member Posts: 126
    edited October 2013


    46. But I was menopausal though.

  • gemini4
    gemini4 Member Posts: 532
    edited October 2013


    I was 48 at dx, considered "young" because I was (and still am) premenopausal.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2013


    Hmmm. I was 53 but completely premenopausal. My oncologist told me I was "young".

  • NorthwindsGS
    NorthwindsGS Member Posts: 128
    edited October 2013


    Just diagnosed at age 44 with both Invasive lobular and Ductal Carcinomas in left breast. Surgery scheduled for next Tuesday, then chemo and Rads. Never smoked, non drinker, no family history of BC, children before age thirty and premenopausal. Scared and worried for my husband, sons and our Granddaughter who all depend on me. Taking a couple days off for the surgery and then hopefully return to work and keep on working through the chemo and radiation treatments. Would love to hear from others who were able to return to work soon and continue working through their treatment.....

  • asly
    asly Member Posts: 13
    edited December 2013


    I was diagnosed at 26. My surgeon said it was pretty advanced at that point and I had had it for at least a year... Not many of us out there!!


    Amber:)

  • Rakovina
    Rakovina Member Posts: 132
    edited December 2013


    Dxd at 44, premenstrual, 9.6cm tumour. Pleomorphic ILC, IDC, DCIS, grade 3, a bit of everything in there <sighs>. Breast surgeon thinks the cancer could have been there for at least 5 years. I personally think it was 6 years, as at 38 I suddenly started having violent migraines every month. I'm ER/PR + so I think the migraines were hormones gone crazy.

  • Evgeniya
    Evgeniya Member Posts: 26
    edited July 2014

    36 was a smocker though

  • Purplegurll
    Purplegurll Member Posts: 135
    edited July 2014

    I am 49 and in the midst of treatment for IDC and ILC. I had DCIS in my left breast with lumpectomy and radiation five years ago at age 43. Now I have a 3.0 cm cancer again left breast although different quadrant with lymph node involvement. I was having regular mammograms and ultrasounds and even breast MRI's, yet I was the one who found the lump in May that started this new dx, so who knows how long it could have been growing there and why it wasn't detected earlier. Both my original DCIS and now this new cancer are both ER- and PR- so perhaps that has bearing on my cancer re-development. My mom has also had BC three times, although hers was post menopausal and hormone receptor positive. I've tested negative for BRCA1 and BRCA 2. I quit smoking 25+ years ago and drink only occasionally. I exercise and have low BMI. My feeling is there's just no rhyme or reason to this disease. 

  • kareenie
    kareenie Member Posts: 339
    edited July 2014

    I was 39. Suspected DES daughter. 

    Edited to add: btw that was 20 years ago.

  • BlueKoala
    BlueKoala Member Posts: 190
    edited March 2016

    I'm going to ask my question in this thread, rather than start a new one.

    I'm 35, just diagnosed ILC. I'm going for an MRI and CT in a few days, but my breast specialist says I am either stage 2b or 3c, depending on whether they find anything in the lymph nodes.

    She said that the treatment I will need is chemo, then surgery, then radiation, then hormone therapy. The mass is quite large, so she said that I will need a mastectomy, and we can consider a double mastectomy.

    However, I have been getting the impression that chemo first (if at all) isn't necessarily typical for ILC. So I'm not sure if my BS is recommending this course of action because I am young or because the tumour is so large.

    I'm curious as to what treatment other people have had, especially those under 40.

  • Optimist52
    Optimist52 Member Posts: 302
    edited March 2016

    BlueKoala I was 40 at first diagnosis for ILC - 1cm, lumpectomy, radiation and Tamoxifen. I'm curious about why you would have chemo first if you are having a mastectomy. I thought that was for women wanting to shrink tumour so as to have a lumpectomy. Has your doctor explained the reasoning behind the order of treatment? Hope all goes well with you.

  • BlueKoala
    BlueKoala Member Posts: 190
    edited March 2016

    It was information overload with the specialist, but I'm back to see her on Tuesday, and I see the oncologist on Monday, so I will ask again, but I think that she said that the tumour is too large, and she won't be able to preserve my breast. Then I have forgotten whether the mastectomy was a given or whether we will wait and see how it responds to chemo.


    Edit: I checked with my husband, and he remembers the doctor saying that there is a possibility that the chemo will reduce the tumour to a size that will mean a lumpectomy or even make it disappear altogether.

  • vbishop
    vbishop Member Posts: 616
    edited March 2016

    Remember that the oncologist drives the bus, not the surgeon. It seems the surgeon is lumping you in with typical idc treatments, hence the comment of chemo before surgery. i, too, have read studies that chemo is not recommended pre surgery for ilc. Remember that only 15% of bc diagnosis is ilc.

    Definitely talk to your oncologist about this on tuesday. I would be surprised if the MO doesn't recommend a mx or bmx. Chemo may then be determined by lymph node involvement and oncotype score.

    My personal opinion is to avoid chemo if you can. Chemo kills cancer but also damages the rest of your body. I have friends that continue to experience negative siide effects of chemo and will for the rest of their lives. Sometimes it is a necessary evil, though.

    Good luck!

  • toomuch
    toomuch Member Posts: 901
    edited March 2016

    BlueKoala - There have been some studies that indicate that ILC doesn't respond as well as IDC to chemo before surgery. There is a study right now looking at neoadjuvant hormone therapy and it's effect on ILC. Several women have posted on the boards that this was effective for them.

    Here is a link to the thread where John Smith posts about the ongoing study.

    https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/73/topics...

    This is definitely something to discuss with the oncologist. Best of luck deciding on the treatment plan that is right for you.

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