When Doctor's Disagree!!!
My dr's are not on the same page when it comes to RT for me, my breast surgeon say he doesn't think I need RT my MO says I should. So I met with a RO today and she is also leaning towards no RT, she says that with my DCIS being low grade, very small and with no family history that I could be over treating in my situation. She stated that she is always aggressive with treatment and thinks she tends to over treat, but in my situation she feels that I would be better off with closer watching with my screening and she also concurs with my MO about the tamoxifen. But the choice is mine and I am leaning towards no radiation, I feel like the risk of RT out way the odds of it coming back, one never knows and even with RT there's no guarantee that it won't return.
Decisions decisions, it's so hard to know the right thing to do, I have been praying about all of this and what to do and my gut (Holy Spirit) says to pass on RADS. So I will believe in my choice and not look back once I make it. Oh, my RO also felt I would benefit better with 10 years of tamoxifen rather than 5 (YIKES!!!). I thought I would be joining the summer 2014 RADS group but now I may not be.
Has anyone else here been given this choice by you dr's, I know the final choice is mine but just wondering if anyone else has had a similar situation?
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Hi Mouche: This is a very difficult situation and one that I too experienced, but for a totally different reason. After my mx, I had a very small positive margin due to the fact that I had very small breasts and there was very little tissue to work with. My bs insisted that I still did not need radiation, but I could not stand to leave it at that and after a lot of research and soul searching (because it really is about what you can live with), I decided that in my case, the radiation would give me peace of mind. This was not a decision I arrived at lightly, as the possible SE of radiation also scared the beejeezes out of me. My RO supported my decision only in that IN MY CASE, there were some studies that suggested that I would benefit from radiation and if I was the type that needed to know that I had done all that I could, then this was how I should proceed. I agonized over this decision for a number of weeks. I am now very satisfied with my decision. But there were also just as many studies that suggested radiation was not really needed after a mx. Although I hated the idea of radiation, in my heart, I always knew that I would have them.
Your situation is quite different, so my story is irrelevant except for the struggle to make a decision, especially when drs disagree. The research also supported both positions equally!
Good luck with you decision and it does get easier once you have made up your mind. (((((hugs))))) -
Thank you TB90, it truly is hard and especially when all dr's are not on the same page, I was fine when I met with my MO and she said yes radiation is needed. But with follow up with BS and him stating that he thought I may not need it, that threw me into turmoil so when I met with RO I felt a little better. I will make a decision and like you said once I make it, it will be easier to deal with and I will try not to second guess. Thanks again!!!
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Mouche - I had the same problem with my doctors. My diagnosis was the exact same as yours. My surgeon, after the lumpectomy (with good margins), said I probably needed no further treatment but talk to the radiologist - he of course, insisted I needed 7 weeks of radiation-the last week with boosts. I asked my bro-in-law who is a surgeon at Mayo if he thought it necessary and he said it was standard treatment so I went ahead and did it (w/NO side effects). After I was finished my radiologist said I needed nothing more but go talk to your oncologist. She decided I needed Tamoxifen. I started it and had too many side effects to finish. I quit a year later. I do think I was probably overtreated but I was so scared and upset at the time that I thought they knew best. Once diagnosed my twin went to her gyn and asked if she was more at risk. Her doctor told her that they (a smaller medical community) would do surgery but probably not offer any other treatment.
My sister-in-law had my diagnosis 20 years ago and had the same radiation treatment-but no hormonal therapy. She was diagnosed two years ago with lung cancer (small spot) related to the radiation. I realize things have changed a great deal over 20 years but that's frightening to me as well. I had no history whatsoever in my family and was 60 when diagnosed - very highly er/pr positive. I just hope I made the right decision in agreeing to the radiation.
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Twinmar, I totally understand but one never knows, all we can do is make the best decision we can at the time we have to make it.
I question my MO after I decided not to do RADS as to why she said I needed RADS and she also said standard of care. Butt after I had a LOOOONG consult with RO and she gave me my numbers on benefits and risk (long & short term) I was okay with skipping RADS. Who knows if it was a right choice or not, only time will tell but I try not to worry and just go on with life. I did choose to take the Tamoxifen as I am 100% ER/PR +, not to happy about that either but I felt I really should not skip out on that. I took my first pill last night, praying I will be okay with no side effects
I am so sorry about you SIL, 20 years later, I have to admit, that is one of my biggest fears, not knowing what lies ahead, I have to remind myself to live in the now.
If you don't mind me asking, what size was your DCIS?
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Each of situations is so unique. My DCIS was small, but it was Grade 3 and my margins all the way around were only 1mm. That still frightens me (I'm small, not a lot of tissue). I am only 46 and then I'm ER+, but PR-. Still considered +, but I've read it may not have the same full effect as someone who is fully ER and PR+.
However, what I wanted to chime in on. I go to MD Anderson and I asked about the 10 years as the study was making full steam in May. I went on Tami almost a month ago (knock on wood, no SE's). My oncologist said the change from 5-10 years was based on one study and as an academic hospital they are not going to change the protocol based on one study. If in the next 5 years more come out, I could be on it for 10 years, but for now it is 5.
So certain area's standard of care, but there is still a lot of gray area. 1mm margins for many is too close? -
momto3boysa, yes each case is different, I think in your case with grade 3 DCIS and 1mm margins, I would have for sure had the RADS, my RO stated that in fact.
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Ladies,
This has been a very helpful thread. I am in the same situation with my doctors. My surgeon said I only really needed tamoxifen, but to see a radiologist and an oncologist. Both of these doctors were emphatic that I needed RT, as well. I am a reader/researcher, so I've looked at multiple articles about DCIS. But with the mixed advice of my doctors, I am still left with a huge sense of unrest - which I don't really need right now.
I did decide to start RT. I have had three treatments. My team gave me all the info on possible side effects that could develop after 2-3 weeks: pink/red skin, itching, achiness in the treated area, minor swelling, and fatigue. Well, I am having all of that now! In fact, my breast felt like it had a slight sun burn after the first treatment. This is causing me to second guess my decision again. What if I am causing myself all of this discomfort (and possible future issues with radiation) when I didn't really need it?
I am also worried that I have just read so much that some of this is psychosomatic. To top it all off, because I need to start tamoxifen, I have to go off my Zoloft. My family and friends are totally supportive, but they have no idea what I am going through. My husband initially sided with the surgeon, but now I think he is afraid to say much of anything.
Here are my reasons for choosing RT:
I found my lump around May 1st. I couldn't tell much unless I was laying down. I hadn't had a mammogram since 2011. Up until then, they were always clear, and I had no family history. That means this started and grew to something I could measure in three years. My doctor did a physical and breast check a year ago and didn't notice anything. I think the lump was easier to detect by the end of May when I saw my regular doctor. He acted immediately, and I had a mammogram, ultrasound, and biopsy by the end of the week. The lump was out by the end of the next week.
The first biopsy caused a lot of bleeding and bruising, but came back benign. That radiologist said he wasn't really sure what he was looking at and that the bleeding prevented him from getting a needle sample.
I had a lumpectomy of a large, papillary tumor with DCIS and some LCIS. The entire lump was about the size of a golf ball by this time. I can tell you, I did not have a golf ball in my breast six weeks earlier (perhaps the biopsy caused swelling). My surgeon said he hadn't seen anything like it - big with a lot of vascularity. However, the margins were completely clear and there was no necrosis. The pathology report lists it as 2.7 cm. He is confident that it was totally removed.
My husband and my surgeon think that because the margins were clear and I have no family history I would be better off with tamoxifen and regular check-ups. And, IF anything comes back I will be getting a mastectomy, anyway. My radiologist and my oncologist say that it is a clear case for standard treatment. I finally decided that because it was larger than most and it grew within three years or less, I would go with the standard treatment.
Thank you for reading this whole rant of a post. I know this really has two issues: RT effects and treatment decisions. However, I would be thrilled to have feedback on one or both. I really need some reassurance. Thank you.
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@Wyowild, sorry you have to go through all of this, if my mass had been the size of yours and grade 2, there would be NO QUESTION, I would be having RADS. I am surprise your surgeon said only tamoxifen. My surgeon said if my mass had been a few mm larger he would have insisted on standard of care, but with a very very small foci of DCIS he felt R/T would only have been of min benifit and my RO cuncured and that's how I made my choice of no RADS and also after looking at my risk #'s.
I didn't want to take the tamoxifen either but after all three, BS, MO and RO pushed that issue I agreed. It has been two weeks and side effects have only been the hot flashes.
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wyowild, did you go to a general surgeon? Or how did you come upon the surgeon you used? I had a lot of bleeding from my biopsy and ended up with a large hematoma that was removed during my lumpectomy. I can't imagine a 2.7cm grade 2 tumor not having radiation?
My tumor was fairly small, the bigger issue for me was that it was grade 3, small margins, near my chest wall and I'm PR- which seems to put me in a category with a more aggressive tumor. I ended up having to do 7 weeks of radiation and 2 of those were boosts.
The imaging center where I had the biopsy gave me a referral to a breast surgeon, etc. But I had a friend who had just gone through this and asked her who she had used. She went to MD Anderson and I went there and have had a multidisciplinary approach that I think benefits any and all cancer patients. Everything is under one roof, your team works together and if there is any question about treatment it goes to the board.
RADS was not to bad and amazingly I am normally hypersensitive to drugs, but have had virtually no SE's with Tamoxifen and have now been on it about 6 weeks. I take it at night and was having insomnia, but MO NP said that isn't normally an SE and we (both of us) attributed it to my my mind not being about to shut off. She said to take .25mg of Benadryl before I got to bed and that seems to be doing the trick.
Good Luck! -
Thank you for the replies. Your support for my decision really does help. I am now into week 2 of RT.
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