My Daughter

Options
percy4
percy4 Member Posts: 477

As I said in a previous thread.  I pushed my girl (40) to get a mammo because of what happened to me.  Now; it probably would not be through me, as I am the first and only to ever have BC or any cancer in my family.  Still; on her Dad's side, 2 aunts had BC; that always worried me.  So, they found a lump on the mammo, and clearly on US.  Fine-needle biopsy next week.  Please send healing, positive thoughts for my girl.  Please. - P.

Comments

  • faerywings
    faerywings Member Posts: 173
    edited June 2014

    Big hugs and healing thoughts to you both!

  • edwards750
    edwards750 Member Posts: 3,761
    edited June 2014

    Percy - good thing you pushed her; better to know and be sure. I have a family history. Mother and now sister and I and an aunt on my mom's side. 70% of BC cases are not genetic but then there is that 30%- obviously my sister and I are in that group and carrying the gene. We were not tested for the gene because neither if us wanted to live with that fear everyday. If we got it - we got it and we both did. We were both diligent in having annual mammograms thank goodness. Mind of us really know how long the cancer had been lurking. Mammograms found both our cancers. BC research and treatments have come a long way so there are lots of reasons for optimism. Keep us posted. Diane 

  • april485
    april485 Member Posts: 3,257
    edited June 2014

    Sending positive healing vibes your daughter's way...nothing scarier than when it is your child. Praying it is B-9!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited June 2014

    actually only 5-10% of all bc is genetic (BRCA positive); although they feel there may still be other bc genes not yet identifiedl; the rest is mostly sporadic.

    anne

  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited June 2014

    Percy - Healing positive thoughts for you and DD coming your way. Don't go there 'til she gets there. Gentle hug for both of you. This stuff sucks. 

  • TB90
    TB90 Member Posts: 992
    edited June 2014


    OK, let's use the numbers again to help bring some relief.  80% of lumps are b9.  Keep thinking that for yourself and your DD.  How is she doing through all of this?  It is so wonderful that you have each other.  Keep us posted.  Lotsa Luv for both of you

  • TechLady
    TechLady Member Posts: 39
    edited June 2014

    Percy - hugs, healing thoughts, and prayers to you both...

  • songlady
    songlady Member Posts: 12
    edited June 2014

    Percy, sending lots of hugs and prayers to you and your daughter.  My daughter was diagnosed with bc in 2010 at the age of 36.  She discovered the lump (left breast) during self-exam in the shower.   Was already stage III when diagnosed and underwent a double mastectomy.   My mother was diagnosed in 2008 (left breast) at the age of  76.  Her sister (my maternal aunt) was diagnosed (left breast) at age 34, and two other maternal aunts also had breast cancer.  So, although I'm still waiting for the BRCA results, its pretty obvious it is genetic.  Because of my family history, I had stayed on top of things and had mammos and US every 6 months.  Suspicious calcifications found on mammo in February led to additional US, MRI, and biopsies.  I was diagnosed with DCIS (left breast) and I'm scheduled for surgery next week for bilateral mastectomy.  Was aware of my mother's breast cancer, but never knew about her sisters' and aunts' bc until we started asking questions when my daughter was diagnosed in 2010.  Unfortunately, the older family members lived in distant locations and their breast cancer just wasn't something they cared to share information about.  They probably felt it was a private matter.  My mother and daughter are bc survivors and both are doing very well.  My daughter has 3 daughters.  Her oldest is 12 years old.  At an appropriate age, we will begin talking to them about the importance of mammos and breast self-exams.   I have another daughter who is 31 years old and I have a sister.  I think it is very important that we make sure our daughters and granddaughters understand the genetic implications and the importance of annual mammograms, self-exams, and exams by their gynecologist at least annually during wellness checkups, pap smears, etc.  Early detection makes a difference.  

  • percy4
    percy4 Member Posts: 477
    edited June 2014

    My girl's results BENIGN!  I can't tell you how distressful waiting for her results was, even compared to me waiting previously for mine.  "Fibrocystic changes"; don't get, with all of my knowledge, how that equals a lump, but good.  They are now wanting to see her for a full US, as she is high-risk, and may even give her a baseline MRI.  I'm very pleased about this, but still question why the people I made high-risk because of me can now have alternating MRIs and mammos, and I, who have actually HAD a BC, and, of course, am at the highest risk, do not qualify for that.  Insurance rules (unreasonable) BS.  Thank you all for your good prayers for my daughter. xx

  • TechLady
    TechLady Member Posts: 39
    edited June 2014

    percy4 - GREAT NEWS!!  So happy to hear it is benign!!  

  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited June 2014

    Awesome news Percy! 

  • TB90
    TB90 Member Posts: 992
    edited June 2014

    Two for two!  It is all behind you now Percy.  Hope you are having a great day.  You deserve it.  Luv

  • Ariom
    Ariom Member Posts: 6,197
    edited June 2014

    Fantastic news Percy!

  • LilacBlue
    LilacBlue Member Posts: 1,636
    edited June 2014
  • mrenee68
    mrenee68 Member Posts: 383
    edited June 2014

    That is fantastic news Percy!

  • Mommyathome
    Mommyathome Member Posts: 1,111
    edited June 2014

    So glad to hear the news Percy!!!! I have 3 young children; 10, 7 and 4 years old. I lose sleep worrying about their risk for cancer!!! Glad to hear your DD results were B9!!!

Categories