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  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,539
    edited June 2014

    Alyson, thanks for sharing the wonderful news about your grandnephew.  I know you and everyone else are thrilled, and with just the best reason!!

    Chrissy, you've got good news too, being home at last!  I'm sure you're more at ease there.  You keep on letting DH wait on you, too!

    I never played golf or tennis.  At the time I went to college, we were required to take a form of PE each semester.  My freshman year all the upperclassmen got the best classes, and my roommate and I got field hockey, the only class left which wasn't full.  I remember us hiding under the bleachers when a visiting team made of Amazons (I swear) came to play our team!  The coach later asked where we were during the game and we said we'd been right there on the bench!  In later semesters, I took archery and horseback riding, swimming and basketball.  (And being only 5 feet tall, I wasn't all that good at basketball!)

    Have a great Saturday!

    Kathy

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Member Posts: 6,887
    edited June 2014

    So glad you're back at home, Chrissy!

    Speaking of golf, I bid on a set of used Taylormade ladies irons yesterday on Ebay and won them for a good price.  Hitting irons is a weakness in my game.  This summer my challenge is to develop a better irons game--at age 71. 

    This morning I'm picking blueberries with my cousin and my middle sister at the cousin's ex's house.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited June 2014

    Chrissy, so glad you`re home!! Nice to have your own bathroom back, eh?

    Golf is probably the only outdoor sport I can do without sweating. I HATE sweating!!! I use a cart so I can do all 18 rather than be crippled at the end of the game (which I still am sometimes). I can`t bounce around on a tennis or squash court to this works for me but it can get expensive. I learned by playing the PGA game on Playstation!!! My DH always played and when I learned about the different numbered clubs, well, I just had to see for myself. 

    Carole, get into hybrids. I also have a `rescue`club I use a lot and even use a 5-wood on the fairway! Whatever works.....

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited June 2014

    when I was in college , I was on the basketball team and the softball team. I also got my life saving and water safety instructor credentials.

    We didn't have NCAA. Divisions back then so we played the other colleges in the area. It was great when we played other colleges our own size,  but when we played Ohio State they did have amazons on their team.

    When I was in the Navy,  I found out that if you played golf,  you could get Wednesday afternoons off. So I  signed up for 10 lessons and off I went. Later after I had kids I didn't have the time or the money to play. Then after they were older I took up tennis and played until I was diagnosed with BC.

     Now I should be swimming in our pool, but it isn't heated and I am a wimp.

    Chrissy. .so happy you are home and hopefully on the mend. Do take it easy but do all the therapy. Guess that is an oxymoron. Lol

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited June 2014

    Lisa, I was nervous about golfing again after my double masts and my back issues. It took until last year that I finally picked up a club again - 4 years after surgery and 2 years on disability for my back!! I must admit....I GAINED 50 yards without my breasts in the way!! LOL

    I actually found the swinging to be a good exercise for my back as there is no impact involved. I have only played in 9-hole segments but hope to build up my stamina to 18 again this summer. I can`t image the high-impact of tennis on my poor body! I admire those that can still jump around.

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited June 2014

    glad to hear you are doing some of the golf..I know it must be good for you...maybe my tennis would be better as I had the right mastectomy and I am right handed...but it is my feet that are the problem...too much neuropathy and pain

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited June 2014

    Lisa, have you tried Gabapentin? I`m sure you have, but I just couldn`t NOT answer....  Too bad you couldn`t use a cart in tennis! 

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited June 2014

    I have been on Lyrica for years and it does help lots. 

    Thanks

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited June 2014

    Well day one at home.....DH left to go to Broken Hill (a town about 3 hours from here) long before I had opened my eyes so I am alone but managing.  He left a chair in the kitchen near the bench where the jug is so I can make a cup of tea and then sit and drink it as trying to carry a cup of hot liquid and use a walker cannot be done.  Bread is on hand and there is plenty of yogurt in the fridge and fruit right next to me so it's all good.  I didn't bother trying to dress myself so I am still in my nightie but having said that, I am warm and comfortable and very happy to be home.

    Barbe, the doc added gabapentin to my pain regime......apparently they have found that it works wells with the nerve pain that comes after nee surgery and I believe the pain level and how it feels is very different from last time, much better and I'm saying at this point that it's the gabapentin that has made it so.

    Lisa have you healed and gotten over your fall?

    Well girls, must go as it takes me ten minutes to get to the bathroom and that's where I need to go.......lol.

    Have a great day all!

    Love n hugs.   Chrissy

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited June 2014

    oh Chrissy. .wish you lived next door and I could help you. I go to the PT next week to get a program to help me heal properly. 

  • macatacmv
    macatacmv Member Posts: 1,386
    edited June 2014

    Hi Ladies, just popping in to say yahoo for all the good news!!!

    heal well, Lisa and Chrissy!

    I am still very busy with DD. But we made it home and are trying to get a routine going! I have to inject her with fragmin everyday. It is a trial. She hates it so then I get tense. She is getting more independent, tho/

    I have a good friend coming to visit tomorrow. An old friend from high school, so when I say old I mean old!! lol

    I'll try to add a pic of the house, the windows are in now!!!

    imagethis is taken from the inside with sink placed to see how it will look. We had to take it back out to get the plumbing and flooring installed. It's exciting!!!

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited June 2014

    Wow Nancy!  With everything going on things are still progressing with the house......you are amazing!!   Glad your DD is gaining more independence it will help with her psyche and her healing.

    Keep those pics coming as you are able as I just love seeing all that is happening.

    Love n hugs.   Chrissy

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited June 2014

    my DH seems to be falling asleep more and more as we watch TV.Why doesn't he just go to bed if he wants to sleep. 

  • macatacmv
    macatacmv Member Posts: 1,386
    edited June 2014

    thanks chrissy, I feel like I have "no" time to myself, but I am glad to be well enough to be  busy! I'll post some shots from the outside tomorrow. It is just looking amazing. When my friend leaves, my DD and I will move over to the bigger house by the water. She will still be on crutches for another 2 months. My cough completely went away while I was in CO, so there must be something seeping up from the shop that affects my lungs. Hopefully, I will be able to keep it from coming back!

    Lisa, the best sleep is the unplanned kind. lol

  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 2,859
    edited June 2014

    Lisa I am sorry to hear that you have neuropathy too. So far I only get the pain in bed in my feet. Have you tried neurontin?  As long as I am getting in your business here I wonder if you could add a heater to you pool. It would seem worth the cost for your health benefits. 

    I am so Impressed that you can play golf, I tried once and by hole home I was trying to beat the ball into the ground.

  • Wilsie2
    Wilsie2 Member Posts: 441
    edited June 2014

    Everone sounds as if they are on the road to recovery.  Glad things are improving, Chrissy. You have a special hubby who thinks ahead to make things easier for you.  

    DS spent the night last night so that he could leave his dogs with me while away fishing. I had my usual "punch list" ready,  things I have a hard time doing, like changing ceiling light bulbs.  Doesn't it make you mad that you can't do simple things like that for yourself?  Takes getting used to. 

    We had loud thunderstorms last night. I may need a nap this afternoon!

    Wilsie

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited June 2014

    Lisa, I let my DH snore loud enough to wake himself up while I surf the net...hehehehehe. I refuse to be his mother and tell him to go to bed! It happens when he first starts Marshalling on the golf course for the year as the fresh air just knocks him out until he gets used to it...ehheheehhehehe

    mac that looks STUNNING!! Better even than the shop pic of it. Thank you for letting us join you on this journey.

    Chrissy, my DH makes tea in a thermos like they use in restaurants so when I get up I have hot tea. We`ve been doing this for as long as I can remember! It holds about 1.2 litres so he has what he wants before he heads off and then I can get what I want later. Tea pots just aren`t big enough for how much tea we drink.

    Ginger, I like that `getting in your business`comment...hehehehe. It`s kind of implied here though isn`t it? I`ve been getting in everyones business for over 5.5 years! That is a good idea about the heater, or Lisa, do you use a solar cover? Having a pool and not being able to suspend yourself weightless in it is just a crime. At my bro`s house we just float on noodles for hours as we chat.

  • Wilsie2
    Wilsie2 Member Posts: 441
    edited June 2014

    Barbe, I like your new photo. I need to hunt up a new one, those children must be tired having to hold the jumping pose so long. I have not had a good photo for years. Wilsie

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited June 2014

    Barbe I was thinking the same thought......lol.  In the morning I told him I will be calling him when I woke up as I need his help to shower and missing one day is about all I can do so once that is done he can make a thermos of tea for me and put it upstairs.  I have been thinking today I just may ring Palliative care as I'm registered and see if I can get someone to come in and help as he really does struggle with anything like this as he just has no idea what needs to be done.

    Wilsie I laughed allowed as I read your post about the kids holding their jump for so long.......I love your sense of humor!

    Love n hugs.    Chrissy

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited June 2014

    Thanks Wilsie, my last one was over 2 years ago, but I never get my pic taken!! This was taken at a luncheon bco.org get-together we had in Ontario and Alyson from New Zealand was there! I got to visit with her last summer when she and her DH drove up here, so I was pleased to be able to drive down to meet her near her DD.

    In fact, when my 4th grandson was born and I was visiting him, my son said he looked like his first and I said no way. So my son pulled out their thick family album to show me that I had never seen. The album spanned the last 5 years and I went page by page, closed the book and said `huh, not a single picture of me!` Sad to say, true. EVERYONE else in their extended families were represented at least once. But not a single shot of me. When I mentioned that in an email to my sibs (among other chat) they thought I was too needy. Sorry, I`m his MOM and the NaNa of two of his kids and not a single pic????? Seriously?? My DH (step-father to my son) was in some of the shots for heavens sake!

    So, the upshot of that is I told my DH that if I ever recurred we are not going to tell the kids as then I know it will be all pics of grands sitting on my lap so they can remember me after I die. Sorry, I`m here NOW. We just discussed this last night, in fact. I get annoyed to the point of anger at how lackadaisical they are about me being around forever..... I see them only every couple of months if that and they only live 40 minutes away!!! They visit the other set of parents further north and stay the whole weekend, so those parents see the grands even more than I do, but my kids just don`t get that. I got tired years ago of being blown off trying to arrange barbecues or dinners so this year I`m not even asking. In fact my DD was SO mad at me for wanting to see her family that she didn`t talk to me from June to December one year!!! She said she was too stressed from work (part time) and I didn`t understand. Huh????

    Whew!! My rant is over...sorry, that peeled off a poorly healed scab.  

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited June 2014

    Chrissy, I can see how your DH would be awkward helping you as he would be afraid of hurting you and he could! Someone used to doing a shower or bath for someone would be a better help. Do they charge you or is it part of day-care so you can leave the hospital? Do you have a shower-chair? I have one and it helps tremendously with the hand-held shower I can slot on or off as I use it. Hoping you get freshened up and into a clean nightie today!!! Hugs to you. (A bit annoyed he`s left you at home alone so soon...but hey, JMHO) 

  • Wilsie2
    Wilsie2 Member Posts: 441
    edited June 2014

    Barbe, I think they avoid taking my picture because I look so bad. My hair has never done right since 2nd chemo, my eyebrows and lashes are all but gone, plus it look so tired. When I see a picture of me in a group, I cringe.  I can look pretty good if I "fix up", but don't have the motivation to do that much. Maybe I will cheat and put an old picture up!

    Mind you, I am not complaining, it's just a fact. I used to be "the pretty one". I'm ok being the "sweet, smart, funny" one now. 

    Wilsie

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited June 2014

    image

    50 years ago today I graduated from college and I was commissioned as a Navy Ensign Line Officer

  • Wilsie2
    Wilsie2 Member Posts: 441
    edited June 2014

    Lisa, that's awesome! Thank you for your service. You are beautiful. Wilsie

  • brigadoonbenson
    brigadoonbenson Member Posts: 412
    edited June 2014

    Brains and looks in one package!


  • mema4
    mema4 Member Posts: 574
    edited June 2014

    Lisa, you are beautiful in that picture. It's an honor to see you in uniform. Thank you.

    To all you golfers, here's the picture I found easily, there is a good one somewhere but too lazy to dig out. I just love being in the pool listening to them say bad words when balls and clubs start flying! We have a golf deck beyond our pool to watch but it's good for evenings and nights!

    image

    We've since cut some limbs so the course is seen better from this view. I like sitting on the upstairs deck so I can watch safely! We don't even play golf!

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited June 2014

    Still gorgeous Lisa and Wilsie, we are our own worst critics. I`m not terribly happy with that picture of me, but at least it`s recent! When I look in the mirror I swear I still see a young hippie, not a 56 year old grandma.

    Nice view mema, you are really close!! Do you have to get special insurance for your windows? I laugh when my DH tells me a homeowner comes running out yelling when they get a broken window...hey, you live on a golf course!!!!

    When I was at the tournament on Wednesday I was paired with a non-or-new-golfer (she just bought clubs). We had a tent over us but were on the up hill of a par 3. I told her if anyone yelled FORE to bend over and cover her head as it would be serious (the people teeing off could see us). She laughed. Until the first group yelled FORE!!! and then she ran!! hehehehehhehee (They put our tent at the womens` tees but there were still guys playing for the first hour before the course cleared for the tournament.)

  • SoCalLisa
    SoCalLisa Member Posts: 13,961
    edited June 2014

    Too funny Barbe! !

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Member Posts: 6,887
    edited June 2014

    Lisa, you are a gorgeous young woman in that picture. 

    And what a lovely pool! 

    I was back playing golf as soon as my PS cleared me to play after my BMX with recon.  I think it was about 8 weeks.  But it might have been 12 wks because I had some healing issues with lefty.   I started walking out in my neighborhood after about a week.  At first I must have made a pitiful sight, managing only about a block and my motion was more creeping than striding!  But I wanted to get back to being active asap. 

    I think the homeowner on a golf course has to make sure his/her home insurance covers window breakage.  It's a hazard of living in that location.  The golfer is not liable.  That's what I read, anyway.  It may vary from place to place. 

    I just bought a "new used" set of Taylormade irons on Ebay.  Hope I'm not repeating myself.  They should arrive on Thurs.  And tonight I ordered some Volvik golf balls, a dozen orange and a dozen bright green.  I saw some of the LPGA players using them recently at a tournament in Mobile, AL, and I liked the way they look.  Volvik was one of the sponsors of the tournament. 

    Barbe, the LPGA were playing in Canada this weekend.  I don't know exactly where.  I watched it on tv.  We record a lot of sports events on the DVR and watch them at our convenience.  DH watched a lot of the French Open tennis.  I watched some of it. 

    Today was dh's 75th birthday.  We celebrated it at my mother's house today.  Five of her six kids were there.  It was a nice day.

  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,539
    edited June 2014

    Lisa, what a great picture of you!  Beautiful both now and then, too.  I thought of you last night as I woke DH to go to bed.  He falls asleep on the couch every night.  Then I wake him at 11:00 or so and since he's already slept some, he'll wake up at shortly after 5:00 AM.  Then the whole scenario repeats.  I like to stay up late and sleep late myself.

    Nancy, I really like the sink and the placement.  Our house doesn't have a window over the sink and I do miss one.

    DD's MIL finishes radiation this week, then she starts on Femara.  Her bc had affected 1 lymph node but no chemo was recommended. She had the onco dx test, so that's probably why. I recommended this forum to her but she's never joined.  I have a year and 6 months left on arimidex and hopefully can then tell it good-bye!

    Kept the 2 DGS yesterday and it about did us in.  The 5 year old wants to be outside all the time, and the 17th month old just wants to walk, constantly.  Very active day!

    Chrissy, hope all is still well with you!

    Kathy

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