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My DD and I are so excited about the new sink and this is the vanity we found for the bathroom. We'll probably have to use a vessel sink. The rough plumbing went in yesterday.
I now get to wear a soft cervical collar now at night. Trying to get my neck ache to go away. lol I'll be quite the sight, mouth guard, compression gloves, wrist splints while trying to sleep. I'm so use to all the other stuff I'll probably get use to it too.
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Happy Mother's Day to all you lovely Moms out there!!!
I have had a very nice day.......lol.......slept in (always good to do) then did a little laundry (it's never ending), opened up the house to let the weak Autumn sunshine in (it was a perfect day!) and didn't light the fire until about 4.30pm when the sun went and the night air started to come in. Spoke to both DD's and grandsons and then put a chook (chicken) in the oven to roast along with a heap of veg and that will be dinner. I had one of those days where you do heaps but nothing.....you know what I mean?
Girls those desserts, cakes and cookies sound great!
Wilsie and Wirdgirl, welcome! Love having new ladies pop in to share.
Nancy that vanity is gorgeous! Love the colour! It might be your little house but boy! am I getting excited to see it all done!.........lol. Do you get any sleep at all with all that hardware you need to wear to bed? Oh my goodness!
Mmmm smells like the chook needs a look so best go and see that it's not burning.......lol......have a great day all!
Love n hugs. Chrissy
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It was the background noise that bothered me with mine as well, so that's one of the reasons I stopped wearing mine. Also, I HATED when a battery died!!! All of a sudden the world tipped sideways......very nauseating! I loved at night when I took them out and was back to my muffled little world. Funnily enough, now I wear ear plugs at night to drown out my DH's snoring!!
My hearing aids were very expensive 10+ years ago, over $3,500!! They had a little remote to use for "plane", "movie/church" "phone" and "normal conversation" and a volume control. Was fun at first and then I got sick of hearing so much crap. Maybe I'll get back to them if they've gotten better.
I cannot possibly see how you can lose a hearing aid!! Mine went right into my ears (they had made a mold first)...but I guess if one was a wild golfer with their swing and wore ones that hooked over the ear.....but then you'd find it quite easily at the tee....heck, I don't know!!!!!!
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I have the opposite problem. ..I hear too well. All my life I've had to wear ear plugs. Everything is too loud and I can hear conversations that I probably shouldn't. But music is the most bothersome. I buy plugs by the dozens.
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I have the opposite problem. ..I hear too well. All my life I've had to wear ear plugs. Everything is too loud and I can hear conversations that I probably shouldn't. But music is the most bothersome. I buy plugs by the dozens.
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Happy Mothers' Day
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I wear ear plugs at night, too. I've probably lost some hearing but still hear fairly well. I stopped for a free hearing test at Sam's Club some months ago and my hearing was still in the normal range.
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I love the Koalas, Lisa.
I am sure my loss of hearing is from working with very loud sanding machines.
lol, I ended up sleeping in my hearing aids last night. I guess with all the other stuff I didn't notice.
Oh today we had my aunt over for Mother's Day brunch which kinda turned into Linner. My DD wanted to cook a complicated tart, but it turned out so good!!!! Then we had a spinach salad. And for dessert a coconut, lime, zucchini bread. Yummy! Then when we took my aunt home she let us look in her basement. We found a very cute old medicine chest, the pulls are metal roses. She let DD have it. So another fixture for the house. no pics of that yet. Then we went for a lovely walk on the beach with the dog. It was such beautiful weather today. A perfect day!
Hope everyone else enjoyed their days!
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I hear tones that others can't hear. I can tell if a motor is running somewhere, but can't hear cars go by on the street. Stuff like that. I can hear the oven click even when my DH swears he turned it off.....I'm right! I have what's called a cookie-bite loss. I hear very deep and very high and poorly in-between.
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I think that,those of, us who do not have,hearing loss may take it somewhat for granted. Your comments remind me to be thankful. Wilsie
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Ditto, Wilsie. I tend to worry more about my eyesight than my hearing.
WW weigh-in this morning. Acccording to my scale, I've done well this past week. Maybe down 1 1/2 lb. I'm still lbs. away from my pre-bc weight and there are clothes in the closet I still can't squeeze into. I enjoy the WW meetings and look forward to them for the social interaction and support.
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I can hear things like ovens and I listen for foods to cook. I think it's from being extremely nearsighted from grade school on. Until I got contact lens in college, I had no idea other people saw individual leaves on trees. I drew a big green smear because that's what I saw.
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now my DH has the most selective hearing.lol
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I am saving this older, with sense for less intense subjects, like flowers and sinks. If I feel I must post a "downer" I will go somewhere else. You are a nice and pleasant group of ladies and I am glad I found you. Look forward to the posts. Wilsie
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Lisa men are stubborn! My DH has the tele turned up so loud and still asks what was said.........I keep telling to get his hearing checked but I keep getting told there is nothing wrong with it........right!
Wilsie feel free to moan or vent or ask serious questions here as well as we have all been there and understand and our experience could maybe help you to. This thread is for friendship and support not just one or the other but both. I'm so happy that you like being here!
Well, DD has just returned so I'll be back later!
Love n hugs. Chrissy
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well, hopefully I won't have anything serious, but I am anticipating my CT scan next Monday. You know how that messes with your mind
Wilsie
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Wilsie we call that scanxiety and it is more common that one would think.........I always try not t anticipate bad news until it hits me in the face .......lol.......why worry over something that hasn't happened?
Good luck on Monday for the scan and hopefully it will be all good.
Love n hugs. Chrissy
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Chrissy, can't you get "close captioning"? I've been using that for years! I do hate when someone can't type, though, as I see such stupid things typed out and I KNOW that's not what they said!!!!
Wilsie, I'm kind of weird in that once I have my scan I totally RELAX! I figure I've done the brave thing and shown up and now someone else can worry about what they saw before they have to share it with me. That has served me well for the past 5 1 /2 years.
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I use close captioning all the time even with my improved by aids hearing. I have just gotten so use to it. It bugs my kids sometimes. I especially have trouble with accents.
Wilsie, feel free to talk about your fears and feelings. We have all had times that we have received support here. We'll be thinking of you on Monday. Please share with us the results so we can be here for you.
barbe, I know about the typists for the cc. My DS always says that they must have been drinking. Esp late at night or on holidays. lol
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Barbe I would love to use 'closed captioning' but my DH is such a pain he really hates it! I like to watch foreign films and they always run the translations at the bottom of the screen but he won't watch them as he can't do two things at once........you know, watch and read.........must be a male thing........lol.
Well I'm finally home.......again.....lol. My Audiologist was very happy with me and the way I have adjusted to the hearing aid......she said she wished all her clients had my attitude.......lol. I'm really pooped tonight and I really have no idea why but I think an early night will be in order.
Take care all!
Love n hugs. Chrissy
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Wren my DD had the exact experience as you when she was in 2nd grade. We were at the back of the store when she exclaimed, "Trees have distinct edges!"
Barbe I hear the trucks at night shifting. It is so quiet here that we run a fan for noise for sleep. My friend who works in Haiti has a difficult time here because it is SO noisy. In Haiti the roosters crow/scream ALL night long.
Chrissy I like closed captioning too, my DD really objects to the bizarre typos. I would think with the poor job market it would be simple to hire someone who can both spell and type! I will need aids at some point, I find I can hear the tv much better, every single word if I have ear phones on. I miss some words with regular volume.
I think I have a house/pet sitter for the 6 days we will be gone in June. An assistant from PT.
I just found out today that my DH will be gone for 6 days over Memorial day to his moms, then for two weeks in June for work. I am really regretting living in the boonies now. I can walk 2 1/2 minutes on the treadmill before the pain gets too much. I need to think up more ways to manage. My old friend I invited for July has already committed to house sit for her kids then. Maybe we will just do it later, I would like to see her.
Love you all! Ginger
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it's a beautiful day here. I spent 2hours of my morning waiting for Faslodex shots (ouch, bad ouch). Then met DD at an outdoor restaurant, and after went to store to return something. After 30 minutes, I was so tired I could hardly walk. That really discourages me, it has not been that long since I could answer the questionair at the doctors "are you able to walk 5 blocks at a brisk pace" with yes Definately a no, now.
I know I'm not the only one who has "scaniexty", that's a really good word. I am glad I have a place to express this, if I told DD or DS they would just worry more.
Some good thoughts-my son and grandchildren from Phoenix will be here the end of the month. They come every summer for a month, and it's so good to have all my family together.
Wilsie
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My dh got glasses when he was 13. He was amazed that the trees had individual leaves. Some goofy eye dr. tried to make his eyes "stronger" by not prescribing corrective glasses.
I wore glasses through much of high school and through college. When I was in graduate school and earning some money as a teaching assistant, I got contact lenses. They were the solid plastic lenses since the gas permeable lenses hadn't been made at that time. I remember tears streaming down my cheeks for weeks as I adjusted to the contacts. It was so "liberating" for me at that age not to have to wear glasses. I felt much more attractive.
I played in a women's golf event at another club today and was teamed up with my friend who won't wear her hearing aids on the golf course. I had to speak VERY loud to her! She's a very nice person.
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I got glasses when I was in second grade. I remember that I told the boy who sat next to me that I was going to get glasses and he said, "I didn't know you need glasses. Here, try on mine". I couldn't see a THING! I spent the next week terrified that my mother would say I had to wear my glasses and I'd never see anything again. When we picked up the glasses I put them on and I was ASTOUNDED that eveything I looked at was clear! I hadn't seen things that clearly in a VERY long time (probably a few years). Needless to say, I didn't need my mother to tell me to wear them!
Leah
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LOL, Leah! What a funny experience though not funny to you at the time.
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Carole, I think your DH and I had the same eye doctor. Or maybe they just thought they wouldn't get bad as fast if they weren't corrected completely. My 3rd & 4th GS have glasses. The older one never needs to be told to wear his. My DD was farsighted.....and would not wear her glasses. In science they asked them to graph something on paper with squares. She could only see the squares if the paper was on the floor.
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I had glasses at 4 . They were trying to help correct a lazy eye. Then after a couple of years, I didn't wear them again for 40 years.
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My glasses were prescribed for me when I was in my first year of high school.........I was sat right in front (I was a mischief so I was told......lol) under the teachers eye but I used to get so many migraines I was missing a lot of school so my mum took me to get my eyes checked and I was long sighted. I wore my glasses for class everyday to avoid the pain of migraine and it wasn't until I was in my forties that I started wearing them all the time. Over the last twenty odd years they have progressively gotten worse to the point they are now trifocals.........take them off and I see blur!
I have the same sight as my Dad, I remember when I was in high school he would knock on my bedroom door and ask if he could borrow my glasses to read in bed as he had left his at his work........that really was a funny sight, seeing a grown man wearing little feminine colored glasses......hahahahaha!
Well girls, I've had the xray of my lumbar region for the anesthetist and now I only have the blood test to do at the end of next week...........I cant believe it is only two and a bit weeks away now.........the time has gone so fast and the nerves are starting to set in as I remember the pain of the last one......UGH!!! Just have to tell myself not to dwell on it and get on......lol.
Have a great day all!
Love n hugs. Chrissy
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Chrissy, when the surgery is over, the rehab finished and you're running around the neighborhood, you'll be so glad! The time has flown by since you announced you were scheduling the surgery.
Did you ever wear contact lenses?
If I'm repeating myself, please excuse my poor memory. My mother had knee replacement on one knee about 30 years ago. The experience was painful so she didn't go back for surgery on the other knee. As a result, the unimproved knee has no cartilage at all. It's bone on bone. She can barely walk and relies on an electric wheelchair to get around in her home. When I take her somewhere, we use the manual wheelchair. She regrets not having that 2nd knee replacement because she would be able to walk now.
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Lisa how fortunate that your lazy eye was diagnosed. My SIL is blind in one eye because hers was missed in the 70's.
My DD has dry macular degeneration, she is 35 and while they are not seeing any progress it scares me a lot.
Ginger
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