April 2014 Surgery Sisters

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  • carnes
    carnes Member Posts: 4
    edited April 2014

    TB2005,  Jmanningtx & Chiclet92 so glad your surgeries went well! 

    I finally got my surgery date...Monday 4/7...now I have to prepare HappyI have gotten so much great advice from the message boards, DD and I are off to stock up on the essentials I will need. Also I am going to give my house a good cleaning and organize my kitchen this weekend.

    MissMaples, & Cdelv66 I will be thinking about you tomorrow and hope your surgeries go well.


  • vfay49
    vfay49 Member Posts: 101
    edited April 2014

    Chiclet92, Happy to hear you are home and now on your way to recovery!  I do have a question.  Did you feel the need to have anyone stay with you in the hospital room overnight?  My husband has a room at a nearby hotel but will stay with me if I feel it is necessary.

  • happyteacher
    happyteacher Member Posts: 118
    edited April 2014

    Thank you ladies for the responses about the bra.  I appreciate it!  I am going to look for the Bra101 thread now.

    How long is everyone staying in the hospital?

  • Lakegirl1
    Lakegirl1 Member Posts: 316
    edited April 2014

    Vfay49....I had someone stay with the night after surgery.  I am historically very bad with gen anesthesia and narco pain meds. I just wanted someone there to advocate for me re: those issues when I wasn't able.  

  • amyo
    amyo Member Posts: 20
    edited April 2014

    Hello - I'm new to this site. Having a BMX on 4/16. This is my 2nd time with breast cancer had a lumpectomy 5 years ago for DCIS and have been on tamoxafin. I'm told I will need chemo after the surgery : (  

  • Ddkath70
    Ddkath70 Member Posts: 129
    edited April 2014

    I'm home! Wasn't too bad. Whatever "cocktail" they gave me on the way to the OR out me out for about 4 hours. I literally don't remember anything from the hallway to the recovery room. They said that I slept for 2 hours in recovery...LOL. Not a bad day. 

    On the subject of anesthesia and nausea, I stressed the face that I get motion sickness terribly and have a very weak stomach. The anesthesiologist ordered a few anti-nausea shots in my IV and a patch behind my ear. I also got another shot in the recovery area bc I felt a little clammy after I got up and went to the bathroom. And, I'm happy to report virtually no nausea and no vomiting. 

    Now for the real news, my dr said that my margins looked clean and they took out one SN. He had planned on taking one or two of them out before going into surgery. He thought that the node looked good as well. He said he obviously can't know 100% until the labs are in, but he liked what he saw. He also said everything went better than expected, and I will have pathology on Friday. So far, so good. 

    I'm feeling tired, gonna take another pain pill and go to sleep. Thank you so much for the well wishes and kind words!  How did everyone else do today???

  • Chiclet92
    Chiclet92 Member Posts: 14
    edited April 2014

    HI vfay49.  We played it by ear and in the end I didn't have my husband stay over but he stayed until about 8:00.  We live 15 min. from the hospital so I knew I could call him. At the time I felt ok with him leaving. If I didn't, he would have stayed. It is a personal decision - what you feel is best. My sister-in-law came first thing this morning and I was discharged around noon.  Hope this helps!

  • scubalady
    scubalady Member Posts: 109
    edited April 2014

    I'm sending good vibes to all those that had their surgeries today and those coming up tomorrow, with a little extra for their friends and families!

  • noonrider
    noonrider Member Posts: 464
    edited April 2014

    Had my lumpectomy and SNB yesterday. SO very happy to remora there was no cancer found in my lymph nodes! That means in a few weeks I can skip chemo and go straight to radiation. Thank you for all your thoughts and prayers yesterday. I kept thinking of all of you who are going through much bigger procedures - bmx, reconstructions,  etc - and saying prayers for all of you. 

    Edited to add: Dr. isn't sure he got all the tumor because it has lots of spidery things on it, so he said very possible the margins will not be clear. Nodes were in pathology while I was still in surgery so its possible they could hold single cells that are hiding, and will have full pathology back monday or Tuesday. But he's pretty sure the nodes are completely clear. Just hoping I don't have to go back in to get the rest of the tumor!

  • Gracielou4123
    Gracielou4123 Member Posts: 6
    edited April 2014

    lespring:  what great news that your nodes were clear!  What a relief. I sure hope he got it all so you don't have another surgery......fingers crossed. How are you feeling?

  • vfay49
    vfay49 Member Posts: 101
    edited April 2014

    MissMaples and Cdelv66, Thinking of you today.

  • noonrider
    noonrider Member Posts: 464
    edited April 2014

    YAY! My surgery was yesterday. Prelim in the OR was that my nodes are clean, but the surgeon wasn't sure about margins because there were lots of spidery things on the tumor. He just called me a few minutes ago to inform me the margins are clean!!!! YAY!!!!! Feeling SO much better about things! Final staging is Stage 1, grade 2. 

  • scubalady
    scubalady Member Posts: 109
    edited April 2014

    lespring, so glad to hear your margins are clear.  My preliminary staging is stage 1 grade 2, but because of the location, I'm not a good candidate for lumpectomy and am having mastectomy on the right on April 16, and I'm hoping it will stay the same.

    Missmaples and Cdelv66.  Keeping you in my thoughts.

    DDkath70, glad to hear you're home and that things are going well.

  • Debzjourney14
    Debzjourney14 Member Posts: 67
    edited April 2014

    Speedy Recovery to all who have had surgery.  Yay for clean margins!

  • Asb
    Asb Member Posts: 99
    edited April 2014

    Great news about clean margins. That is a fear of mine since my tumor is close to the chest wall that they won't be able to get clean margins. 

    Missmaples and cdelv66, I hope all went well today. Our group is about a third of the way through.

  • Ddkath70
    Ddkath70 Member Posts: 129
    edited April 2014

    I've been drugged up and sleeping all day. Have a lot of pain especially under my arm, and they only took one SN. It's swollen, but not too bad.  

    How are you ladies doing tonight? Missmaples and cdelv66. Yay for clean margins lespring! We had surgeries together. :)

    I'm a little nervous to get my results tomorrow, I'm praying for good clean margins and SN. 

    Good night all!

  • noonrider
    noonrider Member Posts: 464
    edited April 2014

    I was *really* sick from the percoset. Constant vomiting, etc. Just took a tylenol tonight but otherwise haven't needed anything today. But, I only had a lumpectomy and SNB. The doctor did take more tissue than he expected because of the spidery things on the lump. When I unwrapped myself tonight it looks like 1/2 my boob volume is gone. Surgeon said that will fill in with fluid in a few weeks. 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2014

    In the hospital, post BMX done today.  Feeling ok. When I get up to go to the bathroom, I have to call the nurse. I have those electric compression devices on my legs to help eliminate blood clots, plus with

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    all the IV 's (Saline and Antibiotics, plus the morphine buttom, it's just safer to use the call button). When I stand up, I get dizzy & nauseous - that's normal I suppose, but it is easing up some each time. My urine is greenish blue due the sentinel node biopsy injections. They've drained the drains twice already.

    The SNB injections weren't that bad - felt like bee stings for the most part. My surgeon only took one node and the pathology preliminarly was beingn - Woo Hoo!

    The surgeon will be checking (and removing, I think), my bandages tomorrow. Also hoping to get discharged tomorrow as well! I'll keep you posted! Thanks for letting me vent and for your support.
    ~Carla

    You can see the blue markers the surgeon drew on me beforehand and the cleaning solution they use - I'm not turning into a smurf? ... lol

    The drains and axillary regions are the sorest. And I hate how big my belly looks with the tight guaze on my chest. But overall, I'm very calm and content with everything so far, but that could be the meds talking. I'd be happy to answer any questions about my surgery. Thanks again!!

  • Rubiayat
    Rubiayat Member Posts: 144
    edited April 2014

    So glad to hear the surgeries have gone well this week and preliminary pathology reports are coming back negative! 

    Carla (or should we call you Smurfette?) I imagine the dizziness and nausea is normal. I hope you get to go home today.

    Ddkath70 - thanks for the tip on the anti-nausea drugs. Last time I was under anesthesia I had a hard time coming out and vomited for hours. I hope you have clear margins and negative nodes!

    Lespring - that is rough being so sick from the meds. Hopefully the surgeon got everything!

    Yesterday my surgery was scheduled - May 6th. So I am not an April surgery sister now :( but I plan on sticking around anyway! My next appointment with the PS is April 17 and I am going to push for a TUG instead of the DIEP. My breast will end up smaller, but I hope to fill it in with fat grafting over time. It is going to be a long haul. In the end though, I hope for good results and much smaller thighs:)

  • Zeeba
    Zeeba Member Posts: 145
    edited April 2014

    Lespring--So sorry the drugs are making you sick...There are other drug options....I'm very allergic to percoset, but dilaudid works ok for me. Maybe call the docs office and ask for something else? 

  • Ninany
    Ninany Member Posts: 55
    edited April 2014

    Carla- I'm amazed at how well you're doing so quickly.  It gives me comfort as I am unsure how I will do next week. Wishing the best for a speedy recovery..

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2014

    Thanks everyone.  I was discharged today, so only spent one night in the hospital.  I found the weeks leading up to the surgery were the hardest.  It's constantly on your mind and weighing all the options a billion times.  Today, I really feel at peace with everything and happy to get back into a routine.  Best of luck to all of you still waiting!!!

  • TXRangersGirl80
    TXRangersGirl80 Member Posts: 6
    edited April 2014

    I'm trying to get last minute preparations done for BMX in 11 days... Those of you who have survived yours already, what did you buy ahead of time to make post-surgical life easier? Did they work? I'm considering the mastectomy camisole that closes in the front from the American Cancer Society TLC online store. Anyone buy one?

  • sesrn
    sesrn Member Posts: 9
    edited April 2014

    I am having single skin sparing MX with TE, SNB, latissimus flap and an augmentation on April 10. This past week I have eaten everything in sight! Somehow that takes a load off. These forums are so comforting

  • Asb
    Asb Member Posts: 99
    edited April 2014

    TXrangersgirl

    Here is a link from an earlier post that has a great list of what you will need.

    https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/91/topic/699896?page=24

    I checked with my plastic surgeon and he said I would go home in a surgical bra and the nurse navigator would supply me with a cami with pockets to hold the drains. I have a friend who is letting me borrow a drain belt. She said it was very helpful in the shower. I have also seen many people recommend a long shoe lace to tie around your neck and large safety pins to use to hang the drains on. I am going to purchase a couple of inexpensive sports bras from Walmart that close in the front ( I have seen them recommended as well) until I figure out what I am really going to need, and what size I will need. I don't want to spend $70 on a bra I don't need or won't fit.

    I hope everyone recovering is feeling good. I can't wait to hear how the TEs feel.

    Vfay49 will lead off our surgeries this week. I hope you are able to relax and enjoy your weekend.

  • Chiclet92
    Chiclet92 Member Posts: 14
    edited April 2014

    Hi!  Wondering how everyone is doing. Today is my 4th day post surgery. I took Tylenol instead of Percocet this morning. If I move about too much I get pain/spasms. But I know I also need to move around. My drains are decreasing the amount of output. And let me tell you,  I am SO glad I have my sister-in-law to help me with everything.  I have a 10 year old son and a cockapoo puppy (and me being semi-helpless) for her to deal with! My husband is a big help too but he has a demanding work schedule.  

    Good wishes to all who are recovering as well upcoming surgeries. Be mighty!!

    P.s.  Txrangersgirl80 - I made sure I had a few zip up hoodies.  I got a couple new ones that are lighter weight. I have on the wrap I came home in, a cotton tank I pulled up (not over my head) and the hoodie. My drains are pinned to the hoodie. I got one from Hanes and it's soft and lighter weight. I also got a couple of button front pjs. Velcro cami sounds comfy. Just make sure you have stuff you can wear that zips, buttons, velcros, or can pull up.  

  • Rubiayat
    Rubiayat Member Posts: 144
    edited April 2014

    Welcome Txrangersgirl80 and sesrn:)

    For those of you that have already had your surgery, were you in a state to have visitors after leaving recovery? The hospital where I will have my surgery is a couple hours from my house, so my husband, daughter, and I will be staying in the city the night before. At first I thought I would go by myself or with a friend because I didn't want to have to take my daughter out of school. But now I think I would really like to see my husband after the procedure, but my daughter will be with him and she is six and I wonder if I will be in a state to see her. I don't want to scare her. She has never spent the night away from us, so it would not be possible to leave her with a friend.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2014

    2 days post-op and feeling well.  Still sore at drain sites and axillary regions.  I woke up at 5:30 am and was pretty uncomfortable, so took a Percocet, but that's the only pain meds I took so far today.  Been taking some stool softeners, but haven't gone yet :(.  Also, I had to have my Mirena IUD removed after I was first diagnosed in Jan and just got my period for the first time in 9 years…Go figure!  I'm still at peace with my decision to go flat and pleased with the symmetry of my stitches.  Tomorrow it should be a nice day, so hoping to take a short walk outside.

    I had my hubby and 28 y/o daughter with me at the hospital.  They took turns running errands, to pick up prescriptions and food while the other waited for any news.  I'm sure it was a long day for them, but I was glad they were there.

  • aviva5675
    aviva5675 Member Posts: 1,353
    edited April 2014

    I had a bunch of button down shirts that I wore for a few weeks. Soft cammies as undershirts. Check out the link to things to prepare for surgery. I got to room about 10pm and my husb went home. All I wanted to do that night was keep hitting the morphine button. The next day it was better, I got off the morphine day 2, and went home. Every dr is very different- I couldnt shower at all till drains were out. Some say you can. Some say bras , mine didnt care. So see what yours has to say.

  • Asb
    Asb Member Posts: 99
    edited April 2014

    I plan on wearing DH button up shirts. He used to find it sexy when we were first married, not sure it will have the same effect lol! But it should be comfortable.mi have several zip up hoodies and yoga pants/leggings. I am going to look for satin pjs, they are supposed to make it easier to get in and out of bed. I will also stock up on milk of magnesia and prune juice for my White Cows. Someone also suggested a squirt bottle for the bathroom to help keep clean. I am just so ready to get on with it. The waiting is awful.

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