Finish my sentence...

hard to remember that far back! I saw Kenny Rodgers and the First Addition in 9th grade, so that was probably the first concert. 

The best concert I ever went to was.....

patti smith at the ford ampithetre, about 6 years ago, performing from her then new tramping album,she is so intense, and charismatic!

someone whom i would still like to see perform

. . .

victor wong. I met him in sacramento where he lived at the time, through his children who were my age at the time (20's). he was in big trouble in little china, other movies like that, and he wanted to take me to china with him for the filming of "last emporer of china, and he was really the character called arthur ma in jack kerouac's big sur book. i could have been the first white woman admitted into the forbidden city... i asked him to take this woman nancy, instead, as she was more his age, and they fell in love for awhile...he was 60 at the time. i met many people through him, and he passed the day after september 11, because he was very worried about his two sons there. he was fun.

someone else famous i met...

elvis costello's drummer, Peter Thomas, and his wife Judy. they just live a couple blocks away, we met through mutual friends, and we did some remodeling work for them at their house. They are so funny! and we have gotten to go to two great parties, because of them! i am not bragging here, i just love almost everybody i have ever met, and am even friends with ruby, the pharmacist assistant, and a lady Nancy, who works at trader joe's, and who walked herself through the whole bc experience, while in her thirties, living alone in new york. I just adopt people with my heart, every where i go. 

Wow 2nd! All those you mentioned are remarkable people whom i have read or studied, even before they were well-known, lucky you! ok, question: if you could heal one aspect of your personality, what would it be?

...i think same as you: altho i seem to be coming out of my shell a little, since bc dx, and sometimes lately, i am beginning to feel i am getting good enough1 lots more work to do on procrastination, and just a little medically paranoid, lately! gonna work on not putting off the things that make me happy, and also a volunteer position, somewhere, cause it does make me feel good about myself! maybe one day, we can get out the train schedule, and we could meet in the middle!

one more self improvement type thing would be...

My humorous side.....I love making my friends & husband laugh and it puts a smile on my face knowing I am still able to do that, despite what I am feeling deep down inside. 

If I could go back in time, I would........

new york! (i did for 10 days, but i was 50). (ruth, it's funny what you said, cause pringles act as a natural laxative to me, somehow1 so if i need help in that area, pringles here i come!)

another place good to go when you are wilder and younger, is

be carefree

For just once in my life I would like to....

have all my extended family together for a reunion

The one person in my family I would not invite is

My FIL, he's the rock that holds us all together.

The next person can't wait to wash her dirty windows.

Ops, sorry!

If I were an animal, I'd want to be a...because....

hahaha...I will have to remember that one!

A frog because then I could say, "Time's fun when you're having flies,"

Another animal....

my friends so we could have fun together

My iPad, cause it's always close at hand

And my fairy godmother so we could have three more wishes

If you got to have a meal cooked by a celebrity chef who would you choose and what would you like him/her to cook....

my brothers: once he told me he sharpened teeth and sold paddles. 

(i think he meant he tried to help people become more aware, and the paddle was for that canoe that was up S**T creek.)(in reality he takes care of a dying man)

if i couldn't be that, then i would choose..