February 2014 Starting Chemo Club

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  • Holeinone
    Holeinone Member Posts: 2,478
    edited March 2014

    Atiteca, I had dose dense A/C last fall. My surgeon and oncologist told me I would not be able to work. Or if I could, it would be very few hours. I took a leave of absence, spent many days in bed, or weeks, I should say. 

    Taxol was much easier, for me. The "Red Devil" got its name for a reason....hellish...good luck, one day at a time.

  • Njmom3
    Njmom3 Member Posts: 143
    edited March 2014

    Well the two rounds of iron were not enough last week.  I am scheduled for one bag of blood transfusion tomorrow and chemo is pushed yet another week.  I hope this works!  I am not looking forward to getting blood but they say I will really feel better which I am looking forward to.  I really want to get on to round three of chemo so then I know I'll only have one more left before taxol.  Wish me luck!

  • dancetrancer
    dancetrancer Member Posts: 4,039
    edited March 2014

    Good luck njmom!  I'm sure the transfusion will do the trick - I've seen so many women report feeling SO much better afterwards!  Sorry your chemo has to be delayed yet another week.  I know you want this over with ASAP!  But it is what it is.  

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited March 2014

    Nimom3 that stinks but I know you'll be thinking after you've done it "Why didn't I do this earlier." You will feel so much better. Hate delays but they happen to all of us on this journey. Maybe in different places but many of us seems to get them.

  • h0pe
    h0pe Member Posts: 125
    edited March 2014

    NJMOM - it will do the trick and you will feel much better after! Good luck with the transfusion. :) 

  • tangandchris
    tangandchris Member Posts: 1,855
    edited March 2014


    Good luck NJmom! ((hugs))

  • jbokland
    jbokland Member Posts: 890
    edited March 2014

    My hemoglobin and Hematocrit are in the toilet!  They gave me the option of a transfusion or Procrit.  I took Procrut but have now been waiting 5 days for the insurance company to approve!

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited March 2014

    jbokland welcome to insurance wars. My onc had my estderal levels tested every month after chemo for 5 months (to be sure I stayed in chemopause so I could do Anastrozole). Insurance covered the test no problem... but wouldn't cover the $50 blood draw! I had to call every month and straighten it out. Nuts

  • jbokland
    jbokland Member Posts: 890
    edited March 2014

    2 phone calls and 60 min later.   I got it approved myself. Sheesh!

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited March 2014

    Wow I'm impressed. Yup don't get me started on the support staff at Hospitals. Part of it is they are over worked but there are many that are just incompetent. It takes me at least 3 phone calls to get records sent... notice I said at least 3.

  • h0pe
    h0pe Member Posts: 125
    edited March 2014

    Is anyone else getting freckles on their face?? Strange? 

  • trying2staypositive7
    trying2staypositive7 Member Posts: 96
    edited March 2014

    Hi All! Thanks for all of your posts! Reading them has really helped me so much! I'm currently doing cytoxan with the red devil. I have my second treatment tomorrow. I see that many of you are doing taxol after your dd treatments (I have to do four dd). Question is-do u normally do Taxol after the dd treatments? I don't remember my MO saying that but I was in a daze while he was running down the list! Thanks for any help u can provide! Sending everyone a big hug! Stay strong!

  • Mor
    Mor Member Posts: 30
    edited March 2014

    hOpe....not on my face, but my right arm has freckles.  Never had them before.  Someone told "freckles are cute".

    Mor

  • princessrn
    princessrn Member Posts: 370
    edited March 2014

    njmom... Feel better soon!!

  • Gina2014
    Gina2014 Member Posts: 13
    edited March 2014

    Hi Ladies! 

    I have completed 2/8 chemos (one every other week) and have experienced the nausea when my tummy is empty. I hate taking Zofran, Compazine, etc because along with the chemo cocktail I just feel as if I am drowning in Pharmaceuticals. Does anyone feel a slight numbing of the tongue and sort of at the skin surface all over? Do scents you used to like make you nauseous? I have this bubble bath that I loved before this but now I can't tolerate it. I wonder if some of it is memory driven. As if to say, this was what you smelled when you were healthy and now that is a thing of the past? That probably sounds neurotic. LOL. 

    The loss of my hair has hands down been the hardest thing to deal with. I had an enormous head of hair my whole life. Even at 50 my hair has been thinning due to perimenopause, but I still had enough to cover a few bald heads. After almost four weeks since treatment started my hair is still on my head. The very last layer is still holding on. I am sure it will take the final plunge soon. I just cry every darn time I wash my hair and there are clumps in my hands. I refuse to shave it. I hate short hair. I feel like this is something at least I can control. I can keep my long hair until the last moment, although psychologically it's probably doing me more harm than good.

    Peace and well being to all.

    Gina

  • tangandchris
    tangandchris Member Posts: 1,855
    edited March 2014


    Hi Gina ((hugs))

    I finally shaved my head Monday....or what was left of my hair. Hair loss has been very difficult for me as well, as for many of us I'm sure. I think this was worse than my MX. I was walking around with extremely thin hair and it just looked terrible, and yes the shower thing is the worst. Also, when I did try to wear head covering it would just slip and slide because of the hair that was there....so I shaved it.

    I took my time though getting to this point. I had people actually trying to pressure me to shave it, but I just couldn't do it yet. Bless my husband, he just let me do it in my time. So, if you aren't ready, you aren't...and maybe you won't be. It's okay ((hugs))

     

  • princessrn
    princessrn Member Posts: 370
    edited March 2014

    Gina... Yep, things smell yucky and bother me.  I shaved. But the little bits are coming out still. 

    Tangandchris.,. Hey,  how ya holding up?

  • tangandchris
    tangandchris Member Posts: 1,855
    edited March 2014


    Princess-I'm doing pretty good...feeling good. After 2 treatments it seems like after the first 7-8 days my stomach settles down and I feel better. Fatigue is still bothersome though. I have to go back to my BS tomorrow. I noticed a lump like area where my left breast was Monday evening. I have been having pain when I wake up in the morning and it seems to be getting worse. I'm trying not to worry about that, I'm thinking cancer wouldn't reoccur while I'm on chemo....but again that is where my mind has gone. :(

    Hope everyone is feeling little SE's!

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited March 2014

    tangandchris I think you're proberly right... and grade 2 is moderate growing. But all lumps and bumps get checked out. I had a lumpy thing right after my exchange... My onc wanted me to see my BS if my PS didn't know what is was even though it moved around... It was just some fat that eventually went away.

  • DiabloMom
    DiabloMom Member Posts: 19
    edited March 2014

    Hello everyone! I had 2/6 last Thursday.  I've had a much easier go with this one..... except for a couple of days of horrible stomach cramps that made me cry.

    Sunday night I started getting an reddish flat rash [no raised hives or bumps, not hot] all around my neck and the surrounding skin has darkened.  Although it's itchy and uncomfortable it isn't causing me any pain.  Do you all think I need to call the doctor?  It's not something I would normally worry about but......

  • Gardengirl66
    Gardengirl66 Member Posts: 93
    edited March 2014

    diabloMom, I would call your doctor/oncologist sounds like an allergic reaction...at least they can tell you.

    Hope it goes away ,thinking of you.

  • DiabloMom
    DiabloMom Member Posts: 19
    edited March 2014

    Gardengirl66 - Thank you, I will.

  • Gina2014
    Gina2014 Member Posts: 13
    edited March 2014

    Thanks for the warm responses Tang and princess! Hugs to you both! Ill keep watch here. I hope you both are well as you can be!

    Gina

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited March 2014

    DiabloMom I hope you called your doctor. Let us know what happened. I'm sure they let you know what to do/take.

  • Sicilian
    Sicilian Member Posts: 49
    edited March 2014

    Ladies, so sorry we're all in this boat, but at least we're in it together!

    Saw my onco today and he said that my blood work was good, although my hemoglobin has been slipping downward. Today it was 10, so still ok, but down from 12 a few weeks ago. I decided this means I get to eat lots of red juicy steaks over the next few weeks before my treatment! I also got the name of the radiologist so I can call and make an appointment.

    lago, I know exactly what you mean about doctor's offices and the staff. It's a nightmare at times, between them and the insurance companies. I had one particular beauty call me and say that my insurance company denied my first lumpectomy because they had said I had no insurance. I called the insurance company in a panic and went through the 98 prompts and hold music before I spoke to someone. They said that they had no idea what the doc's office was talking about. They had no record of any doctor's office making an inquiry!

    I know exactly what you mean about how devastating it is when that hair first goes. I wrote a short essay about it called "Me and Jo March" and hope to get it published. If you remember, Jo was the sister in Little Women who sold her hair for her father and then cried afterwards, although she didn't think she was capable of vanity.

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited March 2014

    Oh I forgot to mention that my old insurance refused to pay for my expander placement at BMX. The guy at my PS's office told me he yelling at them saying it's the law... they have to cover it. Well I did get to the bottom of it. Ended up that BC&BC of MA is pickier than BC&BC of IL. The code for reconstruction wasn't specific enough... they wanted a special code for expander placement. 

    Just remember when it comes to insurance they tend to say "NO" right out of the gate. They will even say no if the form was filled out incorrectly for gyno visit if someone checked "male" instead of "female." They like to hold on to their money and if they can't keep it at least hold on to it for as long as possible.

    This is Cancer University with a strong minor in Health Insurance.

  • Sicilian
    Sicilian Member Posts: 49
    edited March 2014

    I find that the insurance companies do eventually pay, but they sometimes will fight you. Like you said, they like to hold onto their money as long as they can.

    I just got a bill from the ER. No wonder hospitals are going out of business. The bill was for almost $8,000 for the day (well, five hours), and yet my insurance paid them less than $400. They are billing me for my copay, which I actually paid that day, so I have to find the receipt and get it to them. I think they send these bills out hoping people will just pay without checking.

  • h0pe
    h0pe Member Posts: 125
    edited March 2014

    Taste is still off on AC#3 - post 7 days. Does it come back towards the end of chemo?

  • Macintx
    Macintx Member Posts: 118
    edited March 2014

    h0pe, was your taste off on AC #1 and 2?

  • Mor
    Mor Member Posts: 30
    edited March 2014

    Taste buds can't come back too soon for me.  A week ago yesterday I had my third chemo.....I go every third Wednesday.   In all that time, I had a total of two days when I could taste food.  My husband says it can't be that bad, and that I am too picky!  Unless someone has experienced it, they cannot imagine how awful it is to go through it.

    Mor

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