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  • Stupidboob
    Stupidboob Member Posts: 345
    edited March 2014

    Hey Gang,
     Wow am I behind.   I hope to get caught up but please do not beat me with a wet noodle, if I skip over something.   First I want to say I hope all is well and if I missed something extremely important someone will let me know.     Second have any of you heard of H-86 (I am reading on it now) someone Face booked me a message about it. 

    A little catch up and forgive me if I repeat.  My colonoscopy and endoscopy had to be moved because they could not access a vein so I have to go to the hospital to have it done.  I wanted to do both the same day so I have to wait until there is not cramping (due to inflamed colon).  I should have it at the end of this month.  We shall see.    My brother had his surgery on February 14th and he came home for a few days and had a set back and went back in the hospital and then they sent him to a rehab and so he just got home Friday.   Depending on if the medicine can fix things he may or may not have to have a defibrillator put in. 

    I go to see my oncologist the end of the month..............though not sure why............they don't do anything except examine me......

  • journey4life
    journey4life Member Posts: 517
    edited March 2014

    Titan - congratulations! I look forward to saying that one day!

    Cocker - heard anything from our gambling Kathy? I hope everything's okay...

    Cat and Fighter - thinking of you both and sending strength to help you fight. Please visit when you're able to let us know how you are.

    To the newbie(s) - glad you found us. We all need what this group offers - support, compassion and knowledge just to name a few...welcome!

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited March 2014

    Journey no nothing from that gal who has gone AWOL.  She will probably tiptoe back in here shortly with all of her news and hopefully news of her casino wins. 

    Titan - great news.  I have been waiting for March to come around cause I knew it was five years.  Now you are over the hill {{{just sayin}}} and can put this dreaded cancer further back in your mind.

    Cat how are things going with you.  I'm sure the next lot of treatment will kick this to the kerb once and for all.  Big hugs.

    Stupidboob good to see you posting.  Glad your brother is doing ok now.   You say you now have to have your gastro/colon in the hospital now.  Do you mean you wasn't going to have it in the hospital all along, surely not the doctors surgery.  Where else could you have it done. We always do ours in the hospital here.   

    Have a good day ladies. Thinking of you all, going through treatment or not. Big hugs.

  • LPBoston
    LPBoston Member Posts: 89
    edited March 2014

    Cat - lots of hugs and prayers coming your way. 

  • LPBoston
    LPBoston Member Posts: 89
    edited March 2014

    Has anyone heard from Curlylocks?  I know she was starting treatment in February.  I haven't seen her post in a while and am worried about her.  Thinking of you Curlylocks if you are out there!

  • Titan
    Titan Member Posts: 2,956
    edited March 2014

    thanks everyone for the good wishes..glad to be over the hill...just want to take a minute to remember some old friends on here..Jenn, Blonde Lawyer, Suze, Laura, Mary and Just Payton and many others...I miss you guys soo much....you were always, always there no matter how badly you were feeling...will never, ever forget you.

  • Stupidboob
    Stupidboob Member Posts: 345
    edited March 2014

    thanks Cocker.............the gastro we use have their own center where they perform them.   A lot of the bigger places here are building their own centers.  

    when I went to the ER a few weeks ago, they could not get a vein either, and so they sent in the artery specialist and she could not get it from an artery either, they could not get my port to work.  I think that was part to having it flushed and for some reason that time it swelled up some, I really think that the girl did not hit it correctly.  So, they kept at it until they got just enough to blood to run test (I mean a very little amount) and one shot of pain meds via IV and then they could not get it again.  Since, chemo I have gotten so much harder to access.  I told them at both places to take it from the feet, but for some reason no one likes to do that and most the time if it is done the doctors do it.  

  • TifJ
    TifJ Member Posts: 1,568
    edited March 2014

    Can't forget Karen (OBXK).

  • FierceBluebird
    FierceBluebird Member Posts: 758
    edited March 2014

    STILL READING AND THANK ALL OF YOU. BRAIN NOT WORKING QUITE WELL YET, BUT USING ALL CAPS HELPS IF YOU DON' T MIND ME SHOUTING AT YOU. IT JUST TAKES SO LONG TO FIND THE KEYS OR PUNCTUATE SO THIS HELPS ME POST FASTER. GETTING STRONGER EVERYDAY AND WILL UPDATE YOU ALL AGAIN SOON. HUGS TO EVERYONE AND THANKS FOR ALL THE POSITIVE MESSAGES. LOVE AND HUGS TO THOSE WHO NEED EXTRA. AND HAVE THEIR OWN BATTLES RIGHT NOW.  WILL SEE DR ON WED AND HOPEFULLY HAVE A PLAN. GOT ALL THE TUMOR AND ALL SCANS CLEAR. HOORAY!

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited March 2014

    REPOST FROM INSOMNIA THREAD :) HI FOLKS DOING THIS FOR BLUEBIRD IT WILL REALLY HELP HER. SASSY

    BLUEBIRD.........IT LOOKS LIKE YOUR SIGHT IS GOOD.....WHEN YOU SAY IT IS AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO WEAR GLASSES TO SEE... WE WILL GO BACK TO NORMAL

    IF YOU HAVE TO WEAR GLASSES TO READ ......YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE THE GLASS ARMS ANYWHERE NEAR YOUR INCISION........ CAN BE CAUSE FOR INFECTION

    LARGE PRINT WILL HELP YOU BE ABLE TO READ WITHOUT GLASSES.

    MAY TAKE A FEW DAYS FOR EYES TO FOCUS RIGHT

    ZIGGY AIN'T WHISTLING DIXIE......YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN MY TYPING AFTER BRAIN SX IN 2012......TOTALLY NEEDED THIS.......

    SPELLING.......OMG.........NOT EVEN CLOSE.........BUT EVERYONE HAD A GOOD TIME TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT I WAS TYPING

  • journey4life
    journey4life Member Posts: 517
    edited March 2014

    remembering Dawn (Inmate) also...

  • TifJ
    TifJ Member Posts: 1,568
    edited March 2014

    Thanks for the reminder Journey- we will never forget Dawn. What a shame it is there are so many, we have trouble remembering names sometimes! Let's blame it on chemo brain.

  • Paintingmywaythru
    Paintingmywaythru Member Posts: 317
    edited March 2014

    Hi All,

    Hopping in as I knew our loyal leader Titan has hit the 5 year mark. Congratulations are in order. 

    I also have been thinking of Suze, Dawn, MJ, Love Irving,  Laura and now Karen and  everyone else that Titan mentioned. We all   know what a tough battle this is.

    I will be 3 years in October and so am not on here often but this site was my life-life in 2011. I want to thank you all for that.

    Love to all.

  • journey4life
    journey4life Member Posts: 517
    edited March 2014

    Wow, how unreal...after Titan's remembrance, I started to think about the ladies who've been on the thread around the 2012-13 mark...

    Painting, you were one of the first ladies I thought of! And now you've posted! I'm thrilled to know you're doing well and glad you checked in. 

    I hope some other "oldies" will also check in...it'll be like a family reunion!

    I'm with you, Tif - chemo brain at its best.

  • christina1961
    christina1961 Member Posts: 736
    edited March 2014

    Cat, I really hate hearing this news.  I was so hopeful that it would not be a recurrence.  There is a mets thread on the triple negative foundation.org website tnbcfoundation- dot - org. They discuss specific chemos and I think there is one woman on there who may have been on that same trial.  

  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited March 2014

    Hi Everyone!  I often visit the Calling All Triple Negative Breast Cancer Survivors in the UK forum, to see what additional information I can read about nutrition and health.  I came across an excellent post from Sylvia in Sept, and so I'm attaching several of the links and I've listed them with the title of the page it takes you to, so that you can decide which links are of interest to you. Lots of information, so I haven't read through it all, but looks to be a little something for everyone. If you don't know Sylviaexmouthuk ... she is an 8 year survivor of a very large TNBC tumor!  

    I'm also starting the post with one of my very favorite reference links in lifestyle management.

    "Practical Principles of Some Lifestyle-oriented Breast Cancer Risk Reduction"

    1. It is you and your body that beat cancer

    "Living Proof You Can Beat Cancer" - Link to Book Titled: "Everything You Need to Know to Help You Beat Cancer"

    2.  You have the potential to increase your own survival

    "American Cancer Society and Complementary Therapies"

    "Light Daily Exercise Prevents Cancer and Increases Cancer Survival"

    "‘Bioactive’ Foods Tackle Cancer Stem Cells"

    "Is Curcurmin a Natural Cancer Treatment"

    3. Ignore your friendly gut bacteria at your peril

    "The Microbiome"

    4. To survive cancer longer, cut your glucose and carb consumption

    "Starving Cancer Cells with a Ketogenic Diet"

    "Hyperbaric Oxygen in Cancer Treatment"

    "Research shows Ketogenic Diet and Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy in combination prolong survival"

    5. Stop the spread of cancer

    "Resveratrol - Many Actions Against Cancer"

    "Sodium Bicarbonate Increases Tumour pH and Suppresses Spontaneous Metastases"

    "Aspirin, Eicosanoids and Cancer"

    "Vitamin D 'Enormous Potential to be Cancer' "

    6. Stress management helps you survive 'significantly' longer

    "Stress, Mental State and Cancer"

  • gillyone
    gillyone Member Posts: 1,727
    edited March 2014

    I have just looked at the first article and am not impressed at all. Even the site it is from does not instill me with confidence - junk science indeed. I found the article very condescending, sarcastic and "fluff". Not a science article at all, and in my opinion, not worth reading. All the other articles are from canceractive which was mentioned in the first piece. I have to also say that I used to visit Sylvia's thread, as I am a Brit living in the US and left as I found myself questioning some of the information there, which was not appreciated. Sylvia is a very nice lady with excellent intentions, but, for me, the thread was a bit too alternative. But if that's what you like - it's a great place to visit.

    Inspired - thanks for caring about us to share the information.

  • gillyone
    gillyone Member Posts: 1,727
    edited March 2014

    Titan - great to see your recent posts. Navymom and I will be right behind you. It is sad to see names of those who are no longer with us, but I'm glad you did. We don't forget, but we don't talk about them openly very much. Navymom and I knew Jenn very well as she was the "leader" of our chemo thread. Others I met here. I remember how sad it was for Blondelawyer. She was young, her husband had died recently (then) and she was all alone with her stage IV dx.

    I hope newbies don't get freaked out, as most of us do survive. But this is the reality too.

  • Allydp
    Allydp Member Posts: 520
    edited March 2014

    Hi everyone, I just love this thread! 

    I'm 33 years old and was also diagnosed at the age of 33. Triple negative, IDC, 2.4 cm, stage IIa, grade 3, node negative. I found a hardening 3 months prior, but thought I'd keep an eye on it as I've always had fibrous breasts. Even had a clear mammogram in 2012 after finding a suspicious lump. Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years all passed and time slipped away from me. By the time I felt it again in January, there was a definite lump and it felt very different from anything I'd had in the past…deep, against the chest wall, firm, immovable, etc. 

    Hubby and I had done two IVF's in 2013 in hopes of conceiving our first baby, so I was sure it was ER+ or PR+, but low and behold, it came back triple negative and had nothing to do with any of the fertility drugs I took. (Although I can't shake the feeling there's still a connection!) 

    My onc originally suggested neo adjuvant TC for chemo, but after much research and several opinions from onc's at Sloan Kettering, I decided to go with the big guns and do ACT - ACx4, Tx12. I'm an all or nothing person, so this route made the most sense to me. Still went the neo adjuvant route since I could start chemo sooner than surgery. I just couldn't sit around doing nothing any longer! I'm a week into round 2 and despite a few symptoms creeping up, I feel good. I've decided to go with a BMX with expander/implant reconstruction, which is happening in August. I'd love to do the DIEP, but I'm intent on carrying a child after I beat this thing and was also told I was too thin…although after this chemo, that might change. Grr. 

    I'm waiting on results of genetic testing, but the counselor gave me a 66% chance of carrying the BRCA gene. My paternal aunt was diagnosed triple negative in her early 40's, after having 3 children. She had a recurrence in her 50's, but is now a long-term survivor at the age of 71! She and I are the only females on my father's side, so 2 out of 2, BRCA would make sense. But there goes my theory on the fertility drugs! 

    Just this week I mustered up the courage to feel my tumor again and I'm ecstatic to say it's definitely smaller! Such a huge relief to know the chemo's working! 

    Wishing you all the very best. 

  • Allydp
    Allydp Member Posts: 520
    edited March 2014

    Sorry, ladies. I just realized there's 800 pages to this thread! I only noticed the first few with the introductions. Apologies for my lengthy intro post!

  • tekwriter
    tekwriter Member Posts: 216
    edited March 2014

    Allydp I am following the same routine as you.  My tumor has disappeared and prior to starting taxol. Best of luck to you also.

  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited March 2014

    Oh Gillyone, I do agree with what you said!  Different strokes for different folks, as they say. So far I've only read the bacteria in the gut one but found that article really helpful! I have just read that first link you mentioned and removed it - it seemed to lean towards casting doubt on the effectiveness of chemotherapy.  I have instead replaced it with a link that I really like to refer to called:  Lifestyle Principles for Risk Reduction.  Also, I've gone ahead and edited the post to show the names of each articles, so that anyone can see at a glance what the topic is before they read it.  I really like this feature in our posts.

    For anyone who wants to know how to do this - it is as follows:

    Prepare to type your post.  Press the link button (it is next to the image icon on the post tool bar).  Then a box comes up.  Cut and paste any sites http: address into that field and then provide a title for the link.  I like to use the actual title of the article as it appears on that page. 

    Have a nice day everyone!

  • FierceBluebird
    FierceBluebird Member Posts: 758
    edited March 2014
  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited March 2014

    Ally, hi and welcome!  When are your BRCA test results expected back?  It sounds like you have everything moving right along and congrats on your tumor shrinking!!  I like your statement that you couldn't sit around doing nothing any longer. I was from the same mindset as you, and as soon as I was dx'd with bc, I met my surgeon 2 days later, and 5 days later was in surgery for BMX.  I was not going to sit around and wait either!  I think it is very encouraging for all of us to see that your Aunt is a long-term survivor of TNBC and after a recurrence as well.  I'm glad you were having mammos early, even if it was you who first detected the lump.  I also found my lump myself and it was not detectable on the mammogram (but on the u/s it was).  I also had the expansion and then the exchange surgery, and like you wanted to do the DIEP but was told saline implants would look best on me, due to being thin.  I did gain 10 at chemo, but after chemo it went right off, plus another 8 due to exercising and an upgrade to what I thought was healthy eating. 

    Best wishes to you as you go through treatment!

  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited March 2014

    Is anyone taking vitamin C as a separate supplement (not part of a multivitamin)?  Someone told me that Lypsomal Vitamin C is best.  Do you know if vitamin C supplement from whole food is as effective as Lypsomal Vitamin C? 

  • Allydp
    Allydp Member Posts: 520
    edited March 2014

    Thank you so much for the warm welcome, ladies. I was extremely embarrassed by basically crashing this thread. I can't believe I missed 800 pages. Chemo brain for sure! 

    InspiredbyD, thank you so much. They told me 3 weeks on the genetic testing and it's been exactly 3 weeks as of yesterday. So I should be getting results any day now. I had a full panel done, which also included a gene called Li-Fraumeni's. It's a very scary cancer gene that I came back at a low risk for. I'm more concerned about this than the BRCA, even though my chances for that are higher, so I'm anxious to hear back at this point. I see in your signature that you're eating such a healthy diet, which is so great. After diagnosis, I tried to go gluten and sugar free, but just fell off the wagon this week. I don't understand what it will take for me to eat healthy?! Obviously not cancer! I've been a pescatarian for years (no meat, but still fish), but my diet has always been full of carbs and processed foods. I need to make a lifestyle change for sure. I'm hoping it's the evil steroids I get in my chemo IV that are crushing my willpower, and that once I'm cancer free, the fear of recurrence will keep me on the right path. 

  • gillyone
    gillyone Member Posts: 1,727
    edited March 2014

    Ally - no need to apologize. If you ever read more of the 800 pages (!!!!) you will find new people dropping in all the itme. That's one of the things that has made this thread successful - new people coming, oldies offering support, finding others with the same dx, tx etc.

  • journey4life
    journey4life Member Posts: 517
    edited March 2014

    Welcome Ally - it's okay to crash here...this is a great place to get support, answers and compassion! Hope you'll let us know the results of your test...I'm keeping my fingers crossed!

    Good to see Christina & Gilly. Hope you're doing well these days!

    I have a procedure on Thursday that will hopefully take care of the hydronephrosis. I have this feeling I'll be uncomfortable for several days...I'm not looking forward to it at all!

  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited April 2014

    Ally, I have not heard of the gene called Li-Farumeni's.  Are you also doing the The BRACAnalysis Large Rearrangement Test (BART) test?  

    Ally, if you want more nutrition info and other stuff, please PM me privately your e-mail address. I have lots of nutrition info I send the girls and have an e-mail all set up with lots of information. The nutrition info is from a TNBC survivor who shared with us the nutrition info her cancer nutrition specialist recommended for TNBC.  Also, in the e-mail are other attachments, Including literature from the TNBC Foundation titled:  "Guide to Understanding Triple Negative Breast Cancer", and in it:

    Page 33 - "Most women
    with triple-negative breast cancer never have a metastatic recurrence or a new
    cancer."
    It's nice to have that to refer to, if you have a worrisome day and a doubt pops up in the mind!

    There are also some books that I found great to reference for healthy eating in general:  Cancer-Fighting Kitchen and Crazy Sexy Diet 

    I made many changes, include completely eliminating diet coke, coffee, etc ... all drinks except spring water and organic green tea. I also made other slightly obsessive changes such as throwing out old pots and pans with teflon coating (switched to stainless steel), replacing plastic with glass, switching to organic and pba-free shampoo, conditioner, lotion, and no longer using the microwave for anything.  At restaurants, I'm detailed and communicate exactly how I want my food prepared (no oil, poached or steamed, no grilled black marks on fajitas, etc) and I ask questions like: are your beans out of a can, are they homemade, do you add oil?  I've become a little high maintenance but now that we know what our favorite restaurants use for ingredients and how they prepare it, I'm able to feel confident with eating out at certain places.  

    The changes took time, but the worst offenders I did instantly.  I started off with a few changes, and each week added a new change, that way it wasn't drastic and not all at once.  It helped to do it in steps, so as not to feel deprived while switching out and replacing previous choices with better ones. For the workouts, I keep a list on the fridge and I joined the "Let's Post our Daily Exercise" thread, which helps me conquer the exercise on the days when I don't want to go. I started out slowly on exercise as well, and gradually increased my miles until I found a regimen that I could adhere to and was secure with.  

    In my opinion, that's the key in a lot of survivorship plans - finding a balance that works for you and your body.  Everyone is so unique and what is a concern in one area may not be a concern in that area to someone else. 

    Over time I've added in a few splurges and treats to the eating, and I prefer to make myself earn it, but sometimes it's not worth the extra energy working so hard for it. Except dark chocolate and McDonald's $1 Unsweet Tea ... I can get through a really intense work out if I know I have either one of those treats waiting for me afterwards.  :)

  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited March 2014

    SimpleLife:  You are so beyond my abilities ... being able to juice broccoli sprouts!  Regarding the taste ... what about a slice of fresh ginger?  What type of juicer do you have?  Is it easy to use?

    I wonder if Garden of Life has something with a high quantity of broccoli sprouts in it.  I do use a protein power from Garden of Life after some workouts, and it's made from 100% sprouted stuff, and I think I've seen broccoli sprouts on the label (not to be confused with brussel sprouts).  Maybe you could throw a dash of the powder into your final juiced product to help with the flavor? Also I think flax seed adds a unique yummy flavor to stuff.

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