February 2014 Starting Chemo Club

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  • dancetrancer
    dancetrancer Member Posts: 4,039
    edited February 2014

    My understanding of how the Claritin is theorized to work is that it decreases the inflammation associated with the bones going into overdrive to produce white blood cells.  This decrease in inflammation results in less bone pain.   

    I had Neupogen.  I used Claritin with the neupogen shots, too. 

  • Sicilian
    Sicilian Member Posts: 49
    edited February 2014

    Kaluha and all the others, sending hugs! This is a terrifying time for us all. Don't be afraid to look for a shoulder.

    I ended up in the ER yesterday. I had a low grade fever and a tight chest. My doctor was afraid that I had a clot (I have a history), but they think it was either a reaction to the Neulasta shot or the fact that my port site looks like raw meat. They can't tell if I have an infection, even though my white count is up, because that's what the Neulasta is supposed to do.

    The Neulasta shot side effects got pretty bad. They are a little better today, but they were so bad last night that I had to take Percocet, something I don't do easily.

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited February 2014

    Nuelasta The first shot is the worst. I couldn't even stand up straight for 2 days my back hurt so badly. Wasn't so bad after that. Just took some Aleve with my onc's blessing for a 1.5 days. I don't do well with narcotics. Make me nauseous (yet chemo didn't. Go figure).  I could not take Claritin because my onc already had me on Zyrtec (the entire time I was doing chemo. No break). Be sure to check with your onc about taking anything, even supplements.

  • dancetrancer
    dancetrancer Member Posts: 4,039
    edited February 2014

    I don't know if it has already been mentioned, but I recommend all asking your onc about taking probiotics during chemo.  They should theoretically help with keeping the normal gut flora.  But again, anything you take must be approved by your onc. 

  • kjiberty
    kjiberty Member Posts: 1,385
    edited February 2014

    I took Claritan the day of, and seven days after my Neulasta shot.  I had no joint pain.  I asked my MO about it as she had not mentioned it but I read it on several threads.  Don't know if it helped, but I had NO joint or bone pain with any of my shots.  

  • Siniberry
    Siniberry Member Posts: 14
    edited February 2014

    Hi Ladies,

    I start Chemo Feb17th, getting port put in probably Friday. I am not sure of what meds she is going to be using. I was kinda shocked when she told me that my onco test came back 30. I will be getting 4 rounds of chemo, then radiation, then after all that will go on the hormone blockers.

    Hope everyone has an easy time and gets well soon. I told my sis in law that I am going to rock the bald look. Going to get some temp tattoos and do different ones each time I go in. Good luck everyone.

  • Njmom3
    Njmom3 Member Posts: 143
    edited February 2014

    Lago, thank you for your vast wealth of knowledge, it truly is settling to read it from someone who has been there done that!  With that said, I have very busy weekend with my daughters, running here and there all the time.  I thought Monday would be a good day for chemo, seems like Tuesday is the day they have me scheduled for, will this mess up my weekends?  Am I better off on Thursday?  I know everyone is different.  

    Hope, we are In The same chemo boat!  They cancelled my port placement for the big snow that never reached us today, which meant my chemo got moved to next Tuesday with port surgery set for Friday.  Going to get this last  blasted drain out tomorrow.  The site is sooo sore and irritated I'm sure this is going to be a joy.  I want it out but it hurts to even look at let alone pull out!  Ugh I wish there was something to deaden the pain!  And I hope it's not infected!  

    My mo wanted to start chemo tomorrow as planned without the port, I said no way I have terrible veins and I need them for Fridays surgery, plus I still have the drain, so that was a deal breaker.  I'm scared to begin with don't need IV stress too!  I'm stressed about the prick going into the port I've become very sensitive to pain, plus a chicken.  Instead of getting used to it I'm getting worse.  I psyche myself up that it's going to hurt and I can't stop.  So does accessing the port hurt?  I have the Emla cream, hope it really works.  Do they access it once for blood work, etc or each time?  Can you feel the infusion?  Ugh I need the Ativan now!

  • tangandchris
    tangandchris Member Posts: 1,855
    edited February 2014


    I wondered about the port thing too...does it hurt when they access it? right now I have a PICC line in, so I'm pretty sure they will use that for my first infusion, whenever that will be!!!! My BS doesn't want to do the port surgery until my drains are out, and the PS wont take the drains out until I am 20 cc or under for 48hrs. It's annoying and frustrating. Anyway, I'm stressed because my MX was on 11/27 and still no chemo. I know delays happen, but it is wearing me out.

    I hope to know this week what is going to happen, but I've been saying that for awhile now :(

     

    Good luck warriors!!

  • Holeinone
    Holeinone Member Posts: 2,478
    edited February 2014

    Njmom & tangandchris, 

    Hi there ! They always did blood work first when I had chemo. So they stick a line into the port, and the blood work & then the chemo uses that line. It does hurt a little, not bad at all. I think you get used to it. I am thinking with the chemo, and blood work in between the chemo, I probably used the port 19 or 20 times..sometimes it stings more coming out, sometimes you don't even feel it. I've had that port now 6 1/2 months..ready to say goodbye to it, not that it bothers me, unless I forget its there & run into it...lol..

  • Njmom3
    Njmom3 Member Posts: 143
    edited February 2014

    Tang I had it set that they were going to take drain out during port surgery, but that didn't happen.  My mo wants chemo right away to, and I would like to get it over with as well, but ps is calling shots with the drain as well.  I would love to know how to make removal not hurt!

  • tangandchris
    tangandchris Member Posts: 1,855
    edited February 2014


    Mine haven't hurt coming out, I was expecting it to hurt and I felt nothing. I actually had a drain that came out on its own, the suture got loose and when I woke up it was coming out and DH pulled it out. I've had drains in since 11/27, different ones, but with each surgery I've gotten new ones.

    Hoeloine-I know a lady who's had her port in for a few years!          

  • mazie73
    mazie73 Member Posts: 74
    edited February 2014

    Hi njmom3: My second infusion is on Feb. 20. I was only able to do a couple hours at work today and hit a wall. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. 

    Question for y'all: I've had minimal problems with mouth sores—mostly, my tongue just feels a little raw, but everything tastes fine and I've been using Biotene twice a day. A friend who had chemo a couple of days before me (so, she's seven days out) says she lost almost all sense of taste today. Is this a SE that creeps up on you? 

  • kjiberty
    kjiberty Member Posts: 1,385
    edited February 2014

    I had four rounds of T/C and no port.  I have horrible veins and sometimes wished I did.  My Onc. DX was 27, and I did the chemo to reduce the chances of distant recurrence (it was on the high side of intermediate).  Here's the thing w/chemo.  You can think you are fine, want to go about your day, and then all of the sudden, you may feel like crap.  Don't beat yourself up-it's normal.  I was fortunate that I could work from home most days.  Work, nap, crash, work a little more, nap, etc.  I know most people aren't so lucky.  Time to take care of yourself, ladies, and be selfish.  I know it's a tall order, especially if you're used to taking care of everyone and you've always been on the bottom.  Seriously, I put myself first and did not feel one iota of guilt.  As others who have been through this journey have said--you WILL get through this!  XOXO

  • dancetrancer
    dancetrancer Member Posts: 4,039
    edited February 2014

    RE: ports being stuck/does it hurt, etc.  At my facility they would spray a cold substance that freezes the skin momentarily (fluoromethane) before inserting the port needle.  My nurse would also count 1,2,3 (inserting on 3), and I would blow out on 3.  It made it nearly painless for me, just a tiny pinch.  Many use the EMLA cream prior.  If you don't have access to either, I would ask if you can ice the area a few moments before insertion if you are really squeamish about needles. It should numb the skin.   Oh and I barely even felt anything when he'd remove it.  I highly recommend breathing out when any needle is put in or taken out.  It helps me significantly - I think it is a good distraction effect.

    You can sometimes feel a slight cold sensation as saline is going in, but otherwise, no, I didn't feel anything as the chemo went in.  And at my facility, they always accessed it, took blood to check my counts, etc. before administering my chemo.

    In terms of when the side effects start, for me I was so pumped up with steroids the day before, day of, and day after that I didn't feel many side effects at all (in fact, felt surprisingly good) for 2 to 3 days post chemo.  My worst days started around day 4 or 5.  YMMV. 

    NJmom, I suggest taking a pain pill prior to having your drain removed.  It is a very quick thing, and you will be SOOOO happy when it is out, but why stress yourself out over it?  I took a pain pill and mine didn't hurt as bad as I was expecting.  Pain pill and big breath blowing out as he quickly pulls it out, and you will be just fine and thrilled it is done and out!

    Mazie - I never experienced taste changes, thankfully.  I did have a few mouth sores after my first chemo.  I had chewed a few ice cubes, but was kind of lax about it.  For the remainder of my infusions  I was VERY religious about chewing ice during Taxotere (and 15 min before and after), b/c that was the drug on my regimine known to cause mouth sores.  I never had an issue with mouth sores again!

    Now thrush...that is something I suffered with after each chemo.  That is totally different from mouth sores and is due to my low white count from chemo and also due to the steroids raising my glucose levels and giving the yeast lots of energy to grow on.  They have treatments for that so if you get a white tongue tell your doc. 

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited February 2014

    Njmom3 the Emla cream will help big time but I had a chemo nurse that was so good that when she didn't I didn't feel a thing even when I forgot to put the Emla cream on. You probably could ask for ice to freeze it while you wait. I hope you get someone like her. To be honest it's only a quick prick. I recommend not looking at it when they do it. It looks painful I would rather get a prick from a port than a stick from a needle any day! Remember your blood work should be done through the port too so even less sticks.

    I did not feel the infusion but sometimes you can taste the saline. Suck on some lemonhead candy and you won't notice it.

    I never stayed home on a Saturday. If you looked at my hair link check out the picture of me with my wig. That was a Saturday night a couple of weeks after my 4th chemo treatment at my nieces Bat Mitzvah. After my 1st chemo that Saturday I went wig shopping. Granted I was tired by 4pm but that was because my body wasn't used to the Zyrtec. That stuff always makes my drowsy. Also note that Emmend made my eyesight blurry for a few days. I think it was better by Saturday. But everyone is different and it also depends on what chemo you are doing. I also exercise so I really felt that helped keep my energy up. So for me I wasn't too bad but I would get more tired at the end of the day and need a nap around 4pm a few days after infusion. I never got flu like tired or symptoms that many get on other chemos.

    Drains. Well one came out and I didn't feel a thing. The other came out and I thought they where pulling out the insides of my arm. It didn't really hurt just felt strange and I wasn't prepared for that but it was over so fast that before I could say "You're pulling something in my arm" it was out.

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited February 2014

    If you have a port, you will not be able to use the EMLA cream on the first infusion if the area is newly sutured.  So ask the infusion nurse to ice the area.  The other thing that helped me get pass getting poked ( and actually still helps me) is that I just turn my head the other way and don't look.  I know it sounds way too simple but I've found that I don't need to see everything that is happening to me.

    Here are some tips 

    FOR THOSE WHO HAVE A PORT FOR CHEMO :  You may want to ask your onco for a prescription for EMLA cream (lidocaine) so you can numb the port area before you leave home for your round of chemo.  If you forget to apply the EMLA cream or don't receive a prescription, ask the infusion nurse to ice the area to help numb the skin.  That way you won't feel the poke when the port is accessed. 

    If you receive a generic EMLA cream at the drug store, it may not come with any special coverings (Tegaderm coverings)  for the area to put on after you apply it.  In order to avoid getting the EMLA cream on your clothes and other places, just a 4 X 4 inch square of Glad Press N Seal plastic wrap to cover the area.  Make sure you avoid the temptation to spread the EMLA cream on the port area; I'm told that your fingers will be numb for quite a while!!!!  (FYI  The Tegaderm coverings may be purchased at CVS or Walgreens)

    If you aren't prescribed EMLA cream or not allowed to have the numbing spray at the infusion center, ask the infusion nurse to ice the port area to numb it. 


     

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited February 2014

    Mouth Sores- Here is the basic formula for a rinsing solution that you can mix up for each time you rinse.  I rinsed several times a day and made a new batch everytime.  If I felt like a mouth sore was coming or had already made its appearance, I sometimes increased the amount of salt.

    1/4 teaspoon baking soda + 1/4 teaspoon salt + 1 cup of warm water

  • Melrosemelrose
    Melrosemelrose Member Posts: 3,018
    edited February 2014

    Mazie- I had the same chemo regimen as you are having.  My taste buds would be fine for the first 5-6 days and then be vacation for another 10 days and would return a few days right before my next round of chemo.  The only change I noticed in this pattern was that as the number of rounds went by, the taste bud vacation would occur a day or two sooner. 

    I know that having one's taste buds go on vacation is no fun.  I viewed eating as a means to get nutrition and fuel for my body and not as a means to provide me comfort.  It is true that if you do have some favorite foods, that you may want to avoid them while in chemoland if you want to have stay your favorite foods once you have finished chemo.  With that in mind, I did eat my favorite foods but I ate them when I knew my taste buds were okay and not when they were wonky and everything tasted like cardboard. 

    Wishing each of you an easy time in the Big Girl Chair ( BGC) and minimal side effects.  I know some have yet to start chemo.  No matter where you are in chemoland, please keep coming back and asking questions.  We are here to help you. (BTW- I am one of the gals from the March/April 2012 chemo thread with Kjliberty and Dancetrancer and asked to come here to help).  HUGS!!!!!! 

  • gildedcage
    gildedcage Member Posts: 139
    edited February 2014

    Just wanted to chime in that I finished chemo 8 weeks ago, finish rads today and am happy to be of support to anyone who needs it. PM me if you like. It's a tough road but it will be over soon enough. Good luck everyone!

  • jujubee83
    jujubee83 Member Posts: 30
    edited February 2014

    Got my first infusion yesterday. I went in, they took vitals and then escorted my to my thrown. :) I sat there and the nurse asked me if I had my port in. I told her no. She said it will be very difficult to access it. I told her I had really good veins, she didn't believe me til she saw it. As soon as she placed the tourniquet on BAMM! That lil of thing pooped up so fast. 

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited February 2014

    Yay Jujubee83 you made it! So pretty uneventful. BTW what chemo are you getting? I don't really know the regiments they give to you triple neg gals.

  • Cici566
    Cici566 Member Posts: 22
    edited February 2014

    Hi Everyon, I would like to join you amazing ladies on this next step.  I am starting chemo someitime this month.  I had a double masectomy in January and I am waiting to have one annoying drain removed.  I think it is coming out on thursday.  I tenatively start chemo on the 18th.  NJmom3 we are having the same treatment.  I am doing 4 rounds of AC every fourteen days with a shot of neulastra and then 12 weekly rounds of taxol.  I will also be getting herceptin with the taxol.  I want to get it started so that it can do its job and I can get it behind me.  I was hoping that I would feel stronger going in though.  I feel like the recovery from surgery is really slow going.

    I look forward to sharing our ups and downs over the next few months.  Here's to our success!

  • Gardengirl66
    Gardengirl66 Member Posts: 93
    edited February 2014

    well, came back from the chemo info session  (tears ran down my face driving home)  . Feel better now, sometimes a good cry does help and I was alone (no children home). I will be having taxotere and cytoxan, 4 times ,every three weeks, with Kytril, decadron,Maxeran and Emend with Neupogen  or neulasta  injections.  The extra fun part is it could be in the next couple days or in three to four weeks as they are so busy. ...waiting for a possible cancellation. Forgot to ask about a port. It is the hurry up and wait game.

    Jujubee83, happy for you can cross one off the list, hoping the side effects are manageable for you (hug)

    Gildedage, congratulations on finishing your chemo and rads ! That most be a good feeling having that behind you! (Hug)

    Thanks to everyone on here.... I am so much more informed thanks to all the info everyone share !

  • notes34
    notes34 Member Posts: 1
    edited February 2014

    Hi All,

    Glad I found all you other "newbies"!  I had my first chemo last Thursday, with my Neulasta shot on Friday.  I was doing great until Saturday night and then all of a sudden the bone pain came and crushed me.  I was in horrible pain all day Sunday & Monday and woke up today just feeling miserable.  I know the next time I go for treatment it can be totally different but I was just wondering if anyone had pain the first Neulasta shot and did something different the 2nd time that worked?  Thanks everyone!

    Melody

  • seaniebopp
    seaniebopp Member Posts: 41
    edited February 2014


    Ok Ladies,

    Shiver -Me-Timbers!  I'zz Skared!  Scheduled for my first round on Friday.  I have packed a chemo bag with all of the things that have been suggested to make this a bit eaiser.  Still, I guess the fear of the unknown is haunting me.  Should I take anxiety meds before I get there or will they provide me with something?  I know that this might not sound right but could I also have a glass of wine with that chemo cocktail!  I'm praying for us all.  February Chemo Warriors Woman Up!!

  • kjiberty
    kjiberty Member Posts: 1,385
    edited February 2014

    Notes34 and Gardengirl:  I took a claratin the day of and seven days after.  Don't know if it helped, but I had no bone or joint pain.  Just the regular claritin; not the "D".  I had the exact regimen you are on.  Jut remember, you are 25% done, and the next one you will be 50% done!  

    Gildedcage:  Doing a happy dance for you!  Congrats!  My last rad was probably my most emotional day of my journey.  I cried the entire day.  Didn't know what it was like to not be "In treatment"  It was liberating!  

    Seanie:  As your MO to prescribe an anti-anxiety med for you and take them even the day before and the day of.  It really helped me get through chemo, especially the first one.

  • Summerwheat
    Summerwheat Member Posts: 86
    edited February 2014

    Hello ladies, looks like I will join this club sometime in late February .... had UMX last week for DCIS, path report found a 0.7 cm Stage III tumor next to the DCIS as well. Even though all cancer is out (at least of that breast), I will need to have chemo. Just making appointments with MOs, waiting for oncotype score and hormon receptor test. The diagnosis scared the crap out of me, after the initial diagnosis was DCIS, and suddently you have Stage III cancer. I want to fight this all the way, I have small children and want to see them graduate from college one day.

    Hello Jujubee, I am basically a neighbor, I am in San Jose. All the best for the coming chemo sessions ... I am so grateful for these Board, prior to the MX, all the ladies were so helpful.   I have wonderful friends and family, but only those that have gone this path can understand what's lying ahead and behind all of us.

    Hugs,
    Alexandra

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 17,186
    edited February 2014

    notes34 (Melody) The first Nuelasta is the worst. Not as bad after that. Ask your onc if you can take Claritin. Seems to help a lot of women. 

    seaniebopp No wine, only Whine is allow when doing your first chemo. kjiberty says if you don't get anxiety drugs the ask for them. My onc had them as part of my drugs to purchase. While some of us never needed them many women do. I wouldn't be surprised if it was like 1/2 of us take them at some point. For me it was the MRI. I came really close to taking them but toughed it out since I wanted to be able to drive and not make my husband miss work for just a test.

  • mapgirl12
    mapgirl12 Member Posts: 111
    edited February 2014

    Thank you for sharing your experiences.  Just reading makes me feel "normal".  

    I have just "recovered" from my first chemo treatment.  Day 5 post chemo needed hydration.  Day 8 post chemo still not feeling any better.  My WBC was low so I was grounded to the house for 4 days.  Day 9 post chemo my hair started falling out in chucks.  Day 11 test shows the WBC was good!  Day 12 finally feeling better.  The doctor said I was "sensitive" so the dosage will change for the next chemo in 8 days!

    My recommendations:

    Take the meds the doctor prescribes 

    Take the meds to stay in front of the side effects

    If something feels off, call your doctor

    Stay hydrated - water, food with high water content, popsicles, etc

    Listen to your body - if you are fatigued - rest, sleep

    Clearly communicate what you need

    Just my two cents!

  • Njmom3
    Njmom3 Member Posts: 143
    edited February 2014

    Hi Feb Warriors!  Sounds like we have quite a group. We have people waiting for their first treatment, some who just finished and some who are several year survivors!  What a wealth of knowledge and support.  I consider myself blessed to be part of this group.  If I have to go through this, I'm glad I'm not alone, not that I would want any of you to have to be here...

    Cici, yes we sound the same.  I had my last drain out today, good riddance, and have the green light for port surgery Friday and chemo Tuesday.  I agree I want to begin this battle ASAP and kick it to the curb! Sitting around waiting is not for me.  Don't get me wrong, I'm not jumping for joy about possibly feeling crappy and losing my hair, but let's get it over and done already.  With that said I am still nervous about the whole thing.

    Hey Juju you are my idol!  I have no veins worth talking about, I had one that was good, but since the mx that arm is off limits...  To have the IV for surgery took 4 sticks in my hand, they started looking at my wrist and I was like I don't think so!  Chemo without a port is not an option, unless you have some to loan me!

    I signed up for a Look Good Feel Better program today.  They only take 10 people and it is in 2 weeks the next one is in May!  Initially they told me it was full, but then called back and said ok.  Woohoo free makeup!  It is run by the American cancer society, you can google to and find one in your area.  I believe they cover all kinds of stuff skin care, makeup, scarf tying...  Hey it's two hours and no one is sticking needles in me, sounds fun!

    Good luck to all starting or continuing treatments, congrats to those who are done, and hugs to those who are waiting on unknown se's!

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