Has anyone Declined Chemo?

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redlessi
redlessi Member Posts: 27

I am 51 years old. I went for my annual routine mammogram with required additional views. That required a steriotactic biopsy and pathology showed IDC and DCIS. I had lumpectomy on 11/25/13 and sentinal node biopsy which showed negative nodes but unclear margins. I had re-excision lumpectomy 1/3/14. My tumor was 1.9cm. ER and PR positive but Her2 negative, Stage 1 grade 3.  I had the onco test with gave me a score of 26 with recurrence risk of 17%. I am going to receive a total of 34 radiation treatments, 5 times a week for 6 weeks. The medical oncologist said I am in the intermediate or gray area as far as the benefits or risks of chemo. I am also to receive hormone therapy after radiation. Is there anyone here that declined chemo? What were your results? Just looking for some folks with similar situations to offer some feedback

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  • christina0001
    christina0001 Member Posts: 1,491
    edited February 2014

    I was in a similar gray area when it came to getting radiation, and so I got a second opinion from another radiation oncologist to help make that decision. If you are uncertain about chemo, I would encourage you to consider getting a second opinion from another oncologist.

  • Holeinone
    Holeinone Member Posts: 2,478
    edited February 2014

    red,

    There is a thread on BCO that is called alternate treatment for informed women, something close to that. There are ladies that declined chemo. You might try to check that out.

  • redlessi
    redlessi Member Posts: 27
    edited February 2014

    Holeione I am definitely not interested in alternate treatment. I am just considering that since I am in the dreded grey area that I will decline chemo. There is no known benefit for me to have it or not so I feeling why torture myself.

  • Golden01
    Golden01 Member Posts: 916
    edited February 2014

    I'm a little older than you (was 59 when I was diagnosed) but fell into the same category with an Oncotype score of 27. My oncologist recommended chemo. I went for a second opinion at the National Cancer Institute Research Center in my state and saw the doctor who was the head of their breast cancer clinics. She recommended against chemo indicating that the Oncotype was just one of the factors to consider. I had a small tumor with a "mucinious" label which factored into her recommendations. It was a hard decision but I went without the chemo and know that I made the best decision for me. My oncologist supported it as well after I had gone for the second opinion. My oncologist holds the other doctor in high regard. One other thing that helped me was really studying the Oncotype reports as well as the studies that support them. The wide range of responses for women in the middle factored into my decision. Good luck as you make these hard choices. 

  • Lily55
    Lily55 Member Posts: 3,534
    edited February 2014

    the benefit to me was between 8 and 10% so I declined as risk of complications and problems from it was too high for me......almost two years on now and no regrets, ut was the right call for me

  • redlessi
    redlessi Member Posts: 27
    edited February 2014

     Golden01
    Have you have radiation or tamoxifen? This is the hardest decision ever. I just dont want to live with a guilty feeling of what if? I hate how much power this disease is taking over my life right now.

    Thanks for offering me you experience and opinion, it really helps to speak to someone who knows exactly what I am going thru.

  • edwards750
    edwards750 Member Posts: 3,761
    edited February 2014

    Tough decision - to do or not do. I was blessed that I didn't have to make that call. My Oncotype score was 11. I am Stage II, Grade 1 with a non-aggressive tumor. Wrestling with the anxiety that comes with an intermediate score I know has to be really tough. Some women feel they need to throw everything at the cancer and any percentage of lessening the chance of recurrence is enough for them to do the treatments. We all know there are horror stories about the affects of chemo not the least of which is losing your hair. Just another issue to deal with as if we didn't have enough as it is. The thing is only you can determine what is best for you - after all it is your body and your life. There are no right or wrong answers for you just make sure when you do decide don't second guess yourself or look back. Good luck. Diane

  • Golden01
    Golden01 Member Posts: 916
    edited February 2014

    I did not need to have radiation as I opted for a BMX after having bad margins with my lumpectomy. I am on Tamoxifen and will switch to an AI after two and a half years. My MO had planned on five years of the therapy but indicates we may look at longer (up to 10 years) down the road. Generally they prefer to start with the AI and then do Tamoxifen but I have osteopenia so we decided to start with Tamoxifen first. This was a really  hard decision for me and I am confident in the decision, no matter how it all turns out. Where I may have doubts down the road is that when I went for the second opinion, no one thought I needed to have a second pathologist look at the actual slides from my tumor. A month or so after I had made the decision on chemo, I read on another BCO forum (for women with Mucinous Carcinoma) a posting from a pathologist who strongly recommended all women with mucinous carcinoma have a second review of their pathology slides by a pathologist at a center where they were more likely to see more cases. Mucinous is fairly rare with just around 3% of BC being that type. My MO didn't think it was necessary but I went ahead and arranged for the second review. With the holidays, it was about two months by the time the second pathologist reviewed the slides and I got the results. Turns out I do not have the "pure" mucinous carinoma but a "hypercellular" mucinous variant. My kind does not have as favorable prognosis as the pure version. By then, it was after the "window" for choosing chemotherapy and I don't know whether or not if we'd known what we know now when I had to make the chemo decision that my choice or the doctor's recommendations would have been any different. What I know is that I made the best decision with the information that I had at the time. I wish I'd had the second pathologist look at the slides sooner, but again, until I saw the info on one the BCO forums, that hadn't occurred to me or been mentioned. Long story from me, just know that you are making hard decision. You are clearly giving it careful consideration and you will make the best decision that is right for you. Good luck during this hard time. 

  • Holeinone
    Holeinone Member Posts: 2,478
    edited February 2014

    redressi, 

    If you are being advised that there will be no benefit, than be confident in your decision. Chemo was torture, for me anyway..

    I had alot of cancer in my axillary, busting out of the nodes..Yikes ! I really would not want to go through that again. Best wishes in the rest of your treatment...

  • shoppygirl
    shoppygirl Member Posts: 694
    edited February 2014

    Redlessi

    To do chemo is such a personal decision as it is a very difficult thing to go through. I am finding that it is taking a long time to recover from the chemical assault on your body. One of the moms at my school had a very similar breast cancer profile to me ( hers was slightly more agressive with a grade 3) and she decided not to do chemo and I decided to go for every treatment available.  She has chosen to eat very clean, excersise constantly and completly reduce the stress in her life. She only had a lumpectomy and is not doing any other type of treatment and as far as I know she is doing fine.  Again, it is her educated decision and what works for her life and family.

    I wish you luck with your decision.

  • GrammyR
    GrammyR Member Posts: 702
    edited February 2014

    redlessi - Just take tbe time to get info on all sides. I blindly went along very aggressive chemo , no radiation as suggested. It is back after 6 years. I was led to believe that after no return in 5 years I was clear and free- not so apparently . Radiation just completed late September 2013.  After years of side effects and pain SE of these drugs and HB,  I am done. Cutting hormones out of diet, losing weight. Feel better than  I have in 5 years . My faith in God  has helped me thru it all.   However I will add that if I was a much younger person I may have pursued the more aggressive way. Its a personal choice.

    Hugs to you and just be informed, second or third opinions if desired.

  • wrenn
    wrenn Member Posts: 2,707
    edited February 2014

    i am triple negative metaplastic carcinoma and only had one chemo treatment and then withdrew after developing diverticulitis. My MO agreed that it was too risky to continue.

    Odds i was given was 30 percent chance of recurrence without chemo and 20 percent with.

    A little over 3 months after chemo i have peripheral neuropathy with much leg pain.  My arthritis is much worse and i have no energy.  I can't imagine how people doing several treatments manage and i applaud them.

    It is a difficult decision.

  • redlessi
    redlessi Member Posts: 27
    edited February 2014

    I was told that since I'm in the grey area, it was not sure if I would or would not benefit from chemo . I am definitely to have radiation and tamoxifen.  I am already dreading these 2 tx, I just can't imagine adding chemo to the mix especially if it may be of no benefit. I appreciate each of you and your courage in this journey.

  • SelenaWolf
    SelenaWolf Member Posts: 1,724
    edited February 2014

    I found radiation fairly easy after the rigours of chemotherapy (I was node positive, so chemo was a given, but did have a lumpectomy).  Follow your RO's instructions meticulously about caring for your skin; I had what amounted to a moderate sunburn by the end of treatment, but did not peel or have discolouration.  Tamoxifen has been a non-issue for me; a few minor side effects and - almost three years out - I'm doing well.  With tamoxifen, though, if you find yourself struggling, you can always talk to your MO about switching brands or switching to an AI.

  • redlessi
    redlessi Member Posts: 27
    edited February 2014


    I decided today that I am not going to undergo chemo on the possibility that it may or may not benefit me.  I feel like a weight has been lifted off of my head/shoulders.

    Now onto radiation. 

  • Beanius
    Beanius Member Posts: 1,697
    edited February 2014

    Hello Redlessi,

    I'm so sorry to meet you here but you are doing exactly the right thing to gather information for decision making.

    Chemo was a gray area for me too, here is some of my experience:

    At age 52 I had a 1.1 cm IDC tumor (lumpectomy) removed with clear
    margins, grade 2, ER+/PR+, HER2-, but 2 nodes were positive so it was spreading (stage 2a). My Oncotype score was 6, so a gray area of whether chemo would be helpful, but clearly showing that my cancer had a strong hormonal component. I also had genetic testing which was all negative. I got quite a few opinions and took some time to think of what I wanted to do, what I felt was best for me. Very traumatic time and I'm sorry you have to go through this. One Medical Oncologist described the tumor as being like a dandelion and once it started to spread, poof, the nodes were involved, but no one could know exactly where else it may have already traveled. I had all kinds of tests that were all negative too (nuclear bone scan, PET/CT, etc.) so nothing was showing up as having metastasized. This was significant to me but since my cancer was so strongly hormonal I just was so unsure what to do. Several oncologists were recommending a tough course (ATC or TC) of chemo and finally an oncologist who specialized in breast cancer only reviewed my case in detail. She offered CMF (an older and easier chemo) which I opted to do and it was not fun, but very doable. I was able to keep most of my regular activities and exercise during the 6 months and had minimal hair loss. I also had radiation tx to the cancer breast, 33 sessions which was a breeze after chemo. The breast surgeon took two additional suspicious lumps out of the other breast but there was no cancer. After chemo and rads I took tamoxifen for 2 years (I was pre-menopause at the time of dx) and have been on femara now for a little over a year, so a little less than 2 years to go for 5 years of hormonal tx. I decided against BMX which my breast surgeon recommended but was a gray area with other doctors.

    One of the reasons I opted for chemo was because I had been dx with early stage cancer and the info I gathered showed that kicking it hard gave me a good chance of no recurrence. I read the story of Susan G Komen too.

    It is such an individual choice that my best advice is to continue info gathering until you know in your heart what is best for you. I talked to everyone I know, read here, went to a number of doctors for advice. This is all so un-fun, but necessary to face and get through. I'm four years out now and really and happy with the choices I made. There is a certain level of uncertainty that I've come to be fairly comfortable with. I may not have hit it hard enough, maybe I should have opted for BMX, maybe chemo did damage to my body that wasn't necessary, who knows. But I figure we don't go through life without being changed by our experiences and we just do the best we can. Sorry to get philosophical. When I got the news I had cancer I just kept thinking about my husband and sisters and brother, my best friend who is like a sister, all my loved ones and I really wanted more time with them. All this weighed with not wanting any treatments at all, not wanting to go through any of this.  

    I wish you all the very best and I know you will get all the info you need and make the right decision for you.

    Take care, stay stong and kick it to the curb.

    Love and hugs,

    JeanBean

  • Beanius
    Beanius Member Posts: 1,697
    edited February 2014

    Hi again, I would ditto what SelenaWolf said, her experience with rads sounds similar to mine. Follow the RO's advice meticulously. I got through with minimal problems. I'm very fair skinned and did have a bright pink boob for quite a while and some swelling after treatment ended. I just massaged gently with lotion and now look pretty much back to normal.

    It's all so scary, but doable and you will get through just fine. If I could do this anyone could!

  • Beanius
    Beanius Member Posts: 1,697
    edited February 2014

    Hi again, just a thought that you might want to pop in and talk with the CMF gals at  All TopicsForum: Help Me Get Through Treatment → Topic: CMF Question

    They were extremely helpful to me with chemo / no-chemo decision too.

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