I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Kam - I don't like the look of them - sorry - their ears are too weird. I'm sure they are nice kitties though.
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i love those Devon Rex cats. If I could have a cat they would definitely be on my short list, but allergies preclude any cat in my future.
Kam, we buy our meat from Prather Ranch. It's all grass fed though I think they did something slightly different this year. Not sure though as I wasn't paying a lot of attention when hubby and BIL were talking...
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Kam, he had a cat or cats once who he says tore down the drapes and scratched the furniture. My guess is that they did not have adequate scratching posts. I love my husband, but once he gets something into his mind, you will not convince him otherwise! But we both love dogs so it's OK.
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The kittens are so cute ... but they have huge ears. And I don't think they ever really grow into them. The fur is really pretty, but I bet it would be hard to keep everything swept and vacuumed with all that molting going on. My Maggie molts too and it drives me nuts.
Job update: So far, I love my job. And I'm doing better too. My regular team lead returns from vacation on Monday. Sure hope I get along with her as well as I do the gal that is covering for her. The day just flies by!
hugs to all
Bren
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GG - yes, our local market sells Prather Ranch. Are you impressed with their meat? As I said, it is organic (if not technically), but I'm not so la la on it, but then, I eat beef about 2x a year, if that, so not a good judge. Oh - the good thing about Devons are they are almost, if not 100%, hypoallergenic. This is what Wiki says: They are often associated with being one of the most hypo-allergenic cats available because of their type of coat. However, they are technically not hypoallergenic.
Yorkie - gotta find the common denominator and I'm glad he has you as a good moderator on the declawing!
Suzie - Ya see - I love the big ears. Bigger the better, but I kind of like all cats. I'm treating myself as I think this will be the last one I will ever own in my life.
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Bren - they only molt once. Sometime during their first year. Some never molt. Unlike a regular cat, their hair doesn't have that tiny hook on it that tends to make cat hair cling to clothing. Atleast that was how it was explained to me by the "elite" breeder. They do not have guard hairs, only awn and down hair. As far as their ears - big is good, but as important as where they are set on their head - sort of off to the side of their wedge shaped face. When they are babies, their ears are so big, they flop over. The longer they flop over, the bigger the ears will be - that is considered desirable for the breed.
What kind of cat do you have that molts? When I say molt, they lose all of their hairs.
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Wildstein says Governor Christie knew about the George Washington Bridge Lane Closures. Christie Christe - your pants are on fire now!
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Kam, I like their meat. It is (as is all grass fed) a bit more tough and a bit different flavor from say Safeway or Costco beef. It's not for everyone. My MIL for example, hates it. But I was raised on grass fed beef so it just seems normal to me.
What people say is hypoallergenic and how I react seems fairly different...
for example they say poodles are good for people with dog allergies.... doesn't work for me. I'm still having breathing problems when around tthem. Which truly sucks as I like both cats and dogs. -
Maybe grass-fed is leaner meat? I don't find it mouth-watering, but then that probably means the other option, grain-fed and sitting on their arses equals fatty rich meat. I would probably prefer the latter and one reason for me to avoid it.
That would be tough to have allergies, but love animals. What about the one Obama got - the Portuguese Water Dog?
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Kam .. I think I used the wrong word .. should have said Maggie sheds all the time. She has a real fine down layer of fur under a coat of very fine long hair. She's a border collie mix. Some months she sheds more than usual ... I guess about twice a year it is just awful.
The coat on the Devon is really pretty. They look so soft. Sometimes wish I had a cat or little dog to cuddle with. My sister's wire haired weiner dog sleeps with her and shares the pillow! When I dog sat for her a few months ago, I got to have Don Diego sleep with me too. Geez .. I'd about rather sleep with Don Diego than Mr. Tim ... he is really really noisy all night and gets up and down a million times. Poor guy probably has some sleep apnea.
hugs,
Bren

Me holding Don Diego.
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Don Diego is such a cutie!
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Kam - you are definitely entitled to spoil yourself. They are cute, but I'm in love with my Poppy who doesn't shed much fur at all.
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I shouldn't really join in here as I love them all and don't fuss much with "breeds". I will say that one of our all around nicest and loving cats has been our Shortie. A Japanese Bob-Tail. He is Mr. Mellow personified for the most part. Having said that.....we found him wandering ( lost or abandoned ) near a small creek full of water moccasins. He was about 9 weeks old and he is now 15.
I think the Devon Rex is extraordinary and could easily have a roomful. I do find Bengals stunning. While I really don't know, I just would find it amazing if any were to actually attack. I had two of them ( gal couldn't keep them ) and found them a home together. They did poorly with the "alley " cats already here -- just too high falutin' I guess. The man who took them absolutely adored them and was thrilled. Well -- anyone should be that is getting over $2000.00 worth of cats for the $18.00 boarding bill............but really, it was that he wanted them and would take both....as they had been together always and they actually liked men much more than women.
I hope it all works out for you Kam. Just beautiful.
On another note....sort of wonder just how much we will ultimately learn from Bridgegate. I'm sure much more than we ever thought. Hard to fathom how much corruption really goes on. I'm sure I've been very, very naïve' for a really long time so there will be more jaw-droppers on the way I know.
Jackie
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TEE, HEE..pants on fire! Yeah, Gov Christie, way to go, learning what it feels like when someone takes REVENGE on you..
but no gloating, that wouldn't be polite, giggling allowed...tee, heeeeeeee, teeeeeee, heeeee ;-)
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Hi Friends,
First a word about the wonderful weather today ... in the high 50's. It's a damn heat wave! Just wish it would stay like this until spring, but more snow and icy rain is forecast in the next few days. So, I'm just going to bitch about all the mud. I slipped twice yesterday while walking the dogs.
I am really enjoying my new job. I like the psych work. The only drawback is the pay is bad. So, I'm going to stick with it anyway. My regular Team Lead comes back from vacation on Monday and I will be assigned a new account. Hopefully, I can get good and fast with the new account. It's a good thing I like the work, cause these folks are so excruciatingly disorganized!
Need to get ready and do some errands. I worked for a bit this morning, planned to all day, but my Team Lead just up and disappeared! arghhh.
Kam .. hope it works out and you can get a Devon like you want. They look so huggable and soft.
Jackie .. my ex-husband and I had three cats and four dogs. I'm not sure what kind of cats they were, one was striped orange and one was a beautiful grey color. The other one was white and grey with blue eyes. I found her as kitten on the side of the road. When we divorced, the ex got all the cats and two of the dogs. I took the other two dogs and ran far away from him and California!
Hope everyone is enjoying their Saturday ... going to watch the Super Bowl tomorrow. Yay!
hugs for everybody,
Bren
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Ah, Bren. I lived in California for 25 years. Mainly Ventura, but we were in Santa Barbara for a few years too. I liked it there well enough....especially the early years as it was sort of exciting -- always lived very close to the ocean. I really am glad to have had that long and often rewarding experience.
Still, there is no place like home and the minute my Mom moved back here permanently...California no longer "felt" like home. I was more of a Daddy's girl, but more due to my sister and Dad not getting along well ( she was rather mean to most people ). When Mom came home here I realized almost immediately a sense of loss and so 6 mos. later we had sold everything, had the moving van come, packed up our car and truck.....and came home too. Best thing I ever did. My Mom only lived about a yr. and a half after we arrived ( no wonder I got all the 'mental pushes' to come home ) and I had the wonderful privilege of helping her through to the end. What a gift for me.
Meant to say how cute little D. Diego is in the picture. Your not too bad either. Great Pic. Anyway, the man who took the Bengal's had been through a divorce and his ex took all four cats they had. After about 3 months he kep feeling lonesome and out of sorts. Knew it wasn't his ex he was missing -- so had to be the cats. Originally only wanted one -- a mouser so to speak. I talked him into the two......and he prepared two litter pans, two sets of toys, etc. I still insisted that he meet the cats first......and then decide for sure. I did not want them separated and would have found someone else. It was love at first sight for both the kitties. One was the spotted leopard type and the other....the bigger circles....but both had the higher hind quarters....and bigger foot pads.
Rainy and warm here today -- maybe I should say moist. It is not raining now but I think will do it again later.
Jackie
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My own cat preference is the orange tabby. Preferably a short haired male. I have had special breeds, currently a Himalayan, but they tend to each have their own issues from the breeding.
I have had my last 3 cats declawed. None of them were ever meant to go outdoors so that wasn't an issue. I was concerned about horror stories I had heard about pain and found that they do it differently now. Mine were all done as kittens while they were being neutered. They spent one night at the vets and came home with no bandages or signs of the extraction at all. They were immediately playing and swatting each other with no indication of any discomfort at all. And in the years that followed, I never saw their ability to manoeuvre or jump up on things impaired. The upside was/is that I don't have to clip nails, (occasionally the back ones), no damage to leather furniture, no scratches from playing or medicating, no claw marks on wood doors or drapes. Oh yeah, their ability to catch mice in our old farmhouse was definitely not impaired.
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Pip, maybe de-clawing is better there....not sure it is here. All the ones I saw de-clawed here were not as I recall ( my memory is not what it used to be ) bandaged, but they did for several weeks have to use ripped up, or shredded newspapers in their litter trays. I will have to investigate how it is done here now, though I've never even considered doing it with any of the cats I have. I do have one beauty....a rather big gal too.....and her former owner had ALL of her feet declawed. I was a bit horrified. So...Autumn bites a bit. She isn't too forceful about it thank goodness. The problem is....claws are natural defenses for a cat and they are at a loss for awhile over it.
You are right -- they can damage things not meaning too ( getting a claw or two caught in the curtain or couch fabric ) or other things as well. I don't keep things that I'll "suffer over" if damaged though I do my best to avoid things like that as it is nicer for everyone. Your kitties sound just find.....and of course, if they are 'insiders' and are not called on to defend themselves....its fine. I would want to absolutely know ( its routinely done here too when the cat is being "changed" to non-sexual ) that there would be no pain involved for the animal.
Hope you are all having a bit of a heat-wave. Sure nice outside if moist here.
Jackie
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It hurts my heart to hear of any cat being declawed. I think some Veterinarians will do it, but because they think the other alternative is euthanasia - maybe if the cat is attacking people. Attacking furniture and drapes - there are better alternatives....scratching pads, posts, feliway (they work!) or just not owning cats if possessions are more important than the cat's welfare. I think it is outlawed in the U.K. It is considered torture in many countries (hey, probably the same countries that would never torture people).
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but not nearly as harsh as declawing is on the animal. Cats are not animals that show their pain and discomfort. They would never survive in the wild if they did.
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When I did my research while deciding whether or not to declaw, I found that there are a couple of techniques used. The old way, which used to be the only way, was faster (so probably cheaper) and involved severing a nerve. The nail could also begin to grow again even though it may not be visible. That is something I would never do to my cat.
The newer way does NOT involve the nerve. A block is also given so that there is no pain right after the surgery. And, I would only do this while still kittens so that they don't have to relearn how to manoeuvre without claws. The neutering and spaying are much more invasive and painful procedures.
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Afternoon Buddies,
I think if I had nice things, I wouldn't want a cat to tear them up. That's why we have leather furniture .. easy to clean after the dogs jump on it. As it is, it's just about impossible to keep our little house clean with two dogs. Thank goodness the hardwood floors were not in good shape to begin with. If they were beautiful new floors I'd be upset about all the mud tracked in.
It is a glorious day! I was able to walk the dogs in a t-shirt and yoga pants. Didn't need a flannel or jacket. I even opened a window in the kitchen where the sun was shining inside. Can't believe there is another big storm on the way. wahhhh.
My QA scores at work are all over the place ... but in the upper 90's, so that's good. This company is so disorganized and inconsistent in the QA. I would get marked down for using an abbreviation (AD/HD) in one report, so the next time, I spelled it out the long way ... and wouldn't you know, I got marked down for that. Since I'm making less than minimum wage, I've decided not to sweat these QA reports!
Hope everyone is enjoying the day,
hugs,
Bren
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Wow Bren...about the only thing I can think to say is....if things are so important that you'd feel the need to de-claw a cat, then maybe just sticking with those things ( although they won't purr and rub against your legs and talk to you ) is the thing to do. If other people do it ( I've ended up with more than one cat that was de-clawed ) I can't say much, but it does increase the burden on me as a multiples cat keeper to monitor "spats", be more vigilant that the de-clawed don't accidentally get out and things of that nature. Also, the declawed ( more hissy ) are going to suffer a bit more since they all go through a "hazing" of a sorts when they first come in. Tribal bashing until they "get" the pecking order settled. Much harder for the de-clawed as they start out with a chip on their shoulder from lack of defense.
As far as neutering/spaying.....they make better pets. It also helps cure massive over-population and tends to give us fewer feral societies. I don't know that it is all that painful for them ( I really don't have info on that ) but starving, being abused, used as lab animals, or used as quarry to stimulate fighting dogs and others things, I will always vote for neu/spay. The humane societies, no kill, breed rescue -- all are pretty much over-run with populations as too many owners ( even a couple of my good friends ) thought it horrific to negate the animals hormones...especially a male friend in regard to male animals. These animals go for miles and miles, get lost, hit my cars etc. all because they are "chasing".
I hope you know I'm not trying to be disagreeable, but just presenting this not very pretty side to things. I have far too many for a number of reasons and have beautiful Autumn....with no claws at all so she turned into a biter for a long, long time. It has taken almost three years to get her to stop. She is still a "soft" biter and how do I know but that she might have been one before her claws were removed. I don't know that, but it makes sense to me that it became her "defense" because she lost all the others.
Jackie
EDIT: Also meant to add that I think it is a good move on your part to not be too upset over your work. If they are a bit 'confused' themselves, you'll end up ok. Also a good way to bring in some extra cash. Also, in time you may find yourself sailing through. I use to type about 125 wpm but with the all the brain upsets from disease processes....even though I'm still fast, my accuracy ( often have trouble with spelling now ) slows me down since I often realize I'm not spelling correctly and so I stop and fix it. I think that is called obsessive/compulsive. Sigh !!!!
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Vets are starting to spay females laproscopically. I had that operation and attest it was painless and easy! There may be a propensity to spay and neuter too early in a cat's life, but that is due to the fact that irresponsible owners do not spay and neuter causing shelters to be overcrowded. They want to get those kittens out that revolving door early.
Strategically placed scraching posts, pads and even scratching lounge chairs, prevent 99% at any attempts to intentionally scratch furniture or rugs, though I suspect those that place their furniture at the level of importance that requires declawing may not like the look of scratching posts scattered about the house. My cats are part of my family, and I just look at the few scratches I do have on my leather couch (from having it near a jumping off point for awhile) as the cost of doing business. Life is messy that way.
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Jackie, when I was doing volunteer work at our local animal shelter, they also stated that declawed cats are biters, because they lost their primary defense and rely on the second. No matter how humane, I cannot see deforming an animal by declawing. If nothing else it would make him/her much more emotionally insecure and aggressive. That's why I will stick with dogs.
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Yorkie ... I am also going to stick with dogs. I just don't know enough about cats, but I do know I don't want to clean out a litterbox every week. It's a moot point ... we're not getting any more pets. When these two move on to the Rainbow Bridge, we're done. Maggie is already 13 and I won't replace her just so Tank has a buddy. I'll be Tank's buddy when we lose Mags.
Jackie ... Another good thing about this job is the OTJ training I'm getting. In the future, I'll be able to apply for hospital jobs that pay much better and the work is more consistent. So far today, I've waited 2 1/2 hours for the Team Lead to get back to me with more work. I finally just gave up. I'm really grateful for the chance to learn how to do new transcription .. so that's very cool.
Been missing Blue and a bunch of the other gals. Hope everyone is doing okay. I think Enjoyful is on her way to the horse farm in SC. I'm pretty sure Sampson is already there, so I know she'll be so happy to see him. It was tough for her being stuck in Boston at the hotel and hospital for a whole month.
hugs,
Bren
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Bren, I hear you about the litter boxes. Although if you stay on top of them it's not too bad. I think one more dog is in our future. Assuming that one has a normal lifespan, we will just be too old to take on the responsibility again. Wouldn't be fair to the animal.
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The 1 cat in my life is about 11/12 .I found her the gutter out front. She always used me as a scratching post and chew toy,NEVER anything or anyone, until about 5 yrs ago, then scratching dining table, and soon after the sofa and chairs. I ruined sofa first with my wedding rings always,snag,snag,snag. AND the first time she was vocal was about then.She only purred up until that time.
When I was a wee girl,my Grandmother told me cats were vicious and a man she knew was killed by his cats, when he was asleep. Didn't realize until in my 20's that he probably died and after several days the cats (SIAMESE,PLEASE)probably got hungry? Anyhoo, I love cats and big dogs,but will stick with cats.
BREN-----You took a fall a couple of years ago and I think we all asked you NOT to do that again. Be careful in your walks!!!!
I Love you all and you make me very happy,except we are not on speaker phone.++++++++++ I HATE TYPING++++++++!!!!!
RL----Was it you who use to type 125 wpm? Just so you know I talk FASTER!!
HUGS and SORTS to all Stay warm-------kad2kar
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P.S. THAT TOOK ME 45 Minutes!!!!!!!!
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kad2kar - lauging at your story about the man killed by his cats. I always tell my friends that if someone doesn't find me when I die at home, I'm sure that my (always hungry) cat will have eaten my nose off

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