I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    BREN!  Fatigue - I know exactly what you're experiencing - I have been SO tired, worn out, and I haven't been doing ANYTHING, but cacn't seem to get enuf sleep!  10 hours!  And I still feel tired.  Was beginning to wonder if my thyroid meds need upping - then I've been thinking it's this BLEAK, gray, damp sometimes too warm, weather, FOG, FOG.  Swear there's something to that - but add me to the list of people who just feel zapped. Not chemotherapy zapped - but too tired to be normal.  No sugar, no carbs, so don't think it's blood glucose - but noticing I have no energy..

    wonder what it is????  Low grade infection? 

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited January 2014

    Sunnyflowers ... I don't think it's a infection.  I did a 10-day course of Amoxicillin before, during and after the tooth extraction.  I wonder if it's just the winter blahs.  I know the Chaplain uses a special kind of light to sit under in the winter months.  If it persists for any length of time, I'll mention it to my PCP at our next appointment.  Just feels like trying to do everything under water.  And I haven't changed my eating habits ... hopefully this will pass quickly.

    Jackie ... MUD is my new four-letter word.  I am so sick of it.  Where you live it's got to be a big problem cause of the long dirt road to your house.

    hugs gals,

    Bren

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    "Just feels like trying to do everything under water."   YUP, zactly ;(  I swear it has for me, something to do with very LOW barometric pressure - I could just crawl into bed ( heavy flannel sheets) and curl up and snoooooooooooze the day way.  If I hadn't been drinking so much green tea, I wouldn't even have had to get up to pee!  SERIOUSLY.

  • kad2kar
    kad2kar Member Posts: 336
    edited January 2014

    Bren and Sunny------The term you are looking for is SAD----seasonal affective disorder----SAD, a real thing and there is special lighting for it.---kad2kar

          Sending everyone HUGS and Sorts

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited January 2014

    Thanks kad2kar ...  I'm pretty sure that's what the Chaplain has, as she has a special light for it.  My PCP really keeps on top of my depression during the winter months.  More monitoring than during the other 9 months.  If I could just make myself do some of the needed yard work in the sunshine that might help.

    hugs buddy,

    Bren

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited January 2014

    Bunged a sicky today - couldn't sleep - worrying about the water we saw coming down the wall downstairs last night - dishwasher must be leaking. I just called a repair service. This sort of thing really stresses me out as we have a few big bills arrived recently and I can't bloody afford to get it fixed!! My next 2 pays will just pay the existing bills. I'll put it on credit - probably only a hose leaking at the back - no water on the floor around it, no water under the sink where it's connected.

    Cranky Susie

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited January 2014

    Suzie .. so sorry about your water problems.  It sucks when your next few checks are already spoken for.  That's the way we live ... it gets really stressful sometimes.

    Hope things get sorted out and it's an easy fix like a hose.

    hugs,

    Bren

  • lassie11
    lassie11 Member Posts: 1,500
    edited January 2014

    Something was leaking in my basement last week. My son in law looked at the many pipes and things above the ceiling panel (hooray for dropped ceiling with pop in panels). In a million years I wouldn't have had any idea what to look for but he quickly diagnosed a leak in something in the dishwasher. Did you know there is a kick plate at the bottom of the dishwasher where a person (anyone who can get down to the floor and back up again) can see what is happening in there?  He undid a couple of screws to remove the kick plate and tightened something. That worked for a while but then he came back and added Teflon tape to the joint. If it doesn't work, I know now which tap to turn off in the basement that goes just to the dishwasher and to turn it on whenever it's time to run the dishwasher.  Or I can call him again.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited January 2014

    Thanks girls - turns out they can't come until next Tuesday - I hate washing up!!!

    I ended up doing a couple of hours work and then stopped - maybe I'll catch up on some sleep later. Meanwhile I just might do the washing and enjoy not working.

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited January 2014

    Good Morning Buddies,

    It's cold this morning.  duh.  What else is new.  I could be a weather girl!

    I sent a follow-up email yesterday to the recruiters of the job I applied for.  Haven't heard anything back yet.  Still hope to though.  It's so hard to find a transcription job in the psych field.  I may do another mass mailing .. just have to wait and see how things go.  It's been years since I've done any orthopedics or surgery, not sure I would even be qualified to do it now.

    hugs,

    Bren 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    Sometimes sad, but not SAD.  I've got regular Ole Fashion Depression, well medicated, and many years of work years ago with excellent therapist, so know the signs, symptoms, etc of that one.

    This is sporadic, not routine, and is changing a bit now - I think it really IS more "barometric Pressure", than the long term SAD, it's been quite light here - and I live in a very VERY small place - mainy ONE HUGE ROOM with 5 large windows facing SOUTH.  Divine,  LIGHT, LIGHT, LIGHT - actually, crystals galore and RAINBOWS at all times of day....but the PHYSICAL exhaustion, felt like early Arimidex days....

    Upped my supplements, and really lightened food intake - that seems to help...

  • IllinoisLady
    IllinoisLady Member Posts: 29,082
    edited January 2014

    Bren....I hear you about the cold and therefore yucky weather.  We got another snow dusting overnight/early a.m., followed by a little more around 7:30 a.m. when it was time to go out and feed the dogs.  I'm becoming anxious to get through this and arrive at Spring.  Even though every season presents challenges.  I do think with some of the super coldish weather so far we may ( oh please ) have a few less bugs this coming warm season. 


    Jackie

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited January 2014

    Jackie .. less bugs this spring would be wonderful!  I have my bug guy come out every month and spray outside around the house.  Hate those HUGE spiders.  Can't remember they're called right now. SMH.

    hugs,

    Bren

    PS .. I deleted the part of my last note where I wrote about what's happening with Enjoyful.  She did not give me permission to write about her treatment.  So very sorry I took the liberty.

  • IllinoisLady
    IllinoisLady Member Posts: 29,082
    edited January 2014

    Bren

    I really am hoping for less ticks this  coming year.  Though there were loads and loads this past season, I did way better than I expected.  The fewer of them the better though.  I think you were referring to what we call Daddy Long Legs spiders here.  Not sure.  We see them mainly -- actually almost totally exclusively outside.  Most of the time they are somewhere around the foundation of the house.  They are I'm told fond of a lot of other smallish critters you would very much enjoy living without.....so we are tolerant here, but that would likely be a whole different story if they developed a fondness for the interior of the house.

    I erased the E mention I made  just on your behalf.  How great to be concerned about things.

    Jackie

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    Bren - just got back from seeing my acupuncturist, and interesting almost ALL of her clients this week - had said the IDENTICAL thing about feeling SO exhausted, and we ( she & I ) agree, it was a factor of the Polar Vortex (extremely low barometric pressure to drag it as far south as it went) combined with 2 of the "darkest weeks" of the calendar year, and temperatures SO FAR BELOW NORMAL.  Even the farmers around me noticed a difference in animal behavior - I feel much more energy now.

    Bren - I understand Enjoyful's reluctance to put information on this thread - we all know there are still women who read this thread ( even tho it hasn't been on the active list for years) JUST to criticize, gossip and talk with each other about what's written here.  Sad to think of anyone with so empty a life, but there we are, they exist.  Rhetorical question...isn't it strange to imagine someone who so hates a place to get banned from participating, would still read & comment on what is written there...whew, would have to ask larry to explain that one ;-)))))))))))))

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited January 2014

    I hear you Sunny!  I'm stuperstitious!

  • gardengumby
    gardengumby Member Posts: 7,305
    edited January 2014

    after checking the weather we decided not to proceed east. Instead we are staying another night in az and then will head back to the California coast and slowly head home so I don't miss my once appt.  Pool wish we could stay warm longer.

  • IllinoisLady
    IllinoisLady Member Posts: 29,082
    edited January 2014

    Sunny, I think you are denying them a great part of the only life they seem to have.  I probably come across as rather mean about it all, but I too see so extremely little purpose.  If I could see how that would help anything, even one little iota --- but maybe when all you have is Rt. Wing Nuts making news so often for all the wrong reasons.  When you start dipping into that VAT of Kool-Aid  --- when you have demeaned and taunted all the elected officials, even the highest office, I think you are neck deep in it and likely couldn't change your viewpoint. 

    Reminds me of that old, old poem for which I basically only recall mainly the gist of it.......of how John Brown died maintaining HIS right of way.  Just meaning to me if you HONESTLY look at all sides and have enough gumption to change when something doesn't work, then you will probably do all right.  If you have allowed yourself to become so solid that you are incapable of change, you may well find your self stuck in a rut you can't get loose from in order to save yourself or at least do better.

    Guess I would just say......if they are kinder, happier, more worthwhile human beings for having nothing better to do,  if it helps the world be a better place, and creates more love and understanding to taunt and belittle individuals you feel you don't agree with.....enjoy the karma.

    Jackie

    p.s.  of course, I'm not Larry who I'm sure has better answers. 


  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    jackie - there is a big difference between being "mean" and being realistic - YOU aren't being mean :)

    Yo, Blue - how you be?  get thee to your acupuncturist....ooooohhhhhhh.....I feeeeel SOOOOOOOOO goooddd....all joints are smooth & wiggly and rested......snore, snore, snore...

  • Bren-2007
    Bren-2007 Member Posts: 6,241
    edited January 2014

    Jackie .. it wasn't the daddy long legs or the brown recluse .. I don't know why the name escapes me since the damn things scare me so bad.  I sure hope we don't have as many tics this year.  I had so many on me last summer, I lost count.  They would fall out of my hair while I was in the shower or be stuck to my belly!

    Just asked Mr. Tim ... it's the wolf spiders that freak me out so bad.

    Enjoyful didn't ask me not to post her status, a dear friend kindly reminded me that it was personal information.  Sometimes I just get so caught up with things, I blabber on too much.

    "If you have allowed yourself to become so solid that you are incapable of change, you may well find your self stuck in a rut you can't get loose from in order to save yourself or at least do better."  Wish we had a "like" button for this sentence!

    Gumby ... hope you have a safe trip home ... and that you'll be somewhere with a T.V. for Sunday's playoff game!

    hugs,

    Bren

  • bluedahlia
    bluedahlia Member Posts: 6,944
    edited January 2014

    The negative vibes are almost tangible!  I can't find one LOGICAL reason why Obama would want to destroy the USofA.  Some people need to give their head a shake!

    Sunny, feeling better, but can't sit in front of puter too long.  Have to make my appointment.

  • QuinnCat
    QuinnCat Member Posts: 3,456
    edited January 2014

    Oh Blue - don't you know?  He's a Muslim-loving terrorist  Atheist.  Wait, can he be Muslim and Atheist at the same time?  Or is that simply being Black while being President?  Oh, wait, he's a Commie too - or is that a Socialist?  You know how "they" use those two words interchangeably as if they mean the same thing - lol.  Last I looked, the government hasn't seized my property for a cooperative yet and where is the state run newspaper, aka Pravda?    Maybe he's destroying the USA by ruining all of their Christian Zionist plans - waiting for the second coming?  Has anyone told them that's like Waiting for Godot?

    Seriously, I'm so sick of this underinformed thinking, I'm saying it out loud.  It's like my surgeon friend who hears complaints from his Medicare patients about Socialistic Obamacare and he'd ask them what do you think Medicare is?  "Well I paid for it."  Like any other "collective" insurance program where you probably get more benefits than you ever paid in to should you be so unlucky to collect from - it's another socialistic program designed to help people plan for the worst case.   It's regurgitated pablum they hear on Faux News and I'm tired of living in a society of ninkumpoops that eat this stuff up.

    There is actually a person on this website who has no health insurance, yet has the ability to pay for health insurance, but refuses to get Obamacare (because she hates Obama so much) and will pay for her "lumpectomy" with cash.  She thinks she is getting a lumpectomy for $899 per a quote from her surgeon.  Has she considered the hospital costs?  Now her lx has turned into a UMX.  I wonder if she realizes the surgeon fee is going to be the smallest part of her bill?  What if her DCIS turns into IDC and she needs chemo.  Wonder if she has considered that?    Does she know that most of us pay $$ for hormonals?  I"m just waiting to see the day she finally signs up for ACA, but she'd probably never admit it.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    Kam - $899. for a surgeon's fee, yeah, right, if it's for a hangnail.  I mean SERIOUSLY would anyone go to a surgeon who only charged that amount of money! 

  • kad2kar
    kad2kar Member Posts: 336
    edited January 2014

    You cant get a new tooth for 899.00.

    Could one of you  dear ladies tell me how WI-FI works on the road, or away from a thing at home?  In a kindergartner way PLEASE and THANK YOU. I just recieved a Galaxy Tab and the Techs speak WAAAAAY above my understanding.

    GG--I didnt realize you were in AZ, that is where I live and  cant comment on the weather, even when I am freezing.

                       HUGS and SORTS------kad2kar

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited January 2014

    Kam - still smiling at your post.  What you forgot, is that all that is because the USA is a "Christian" nation - somebody must've forgotten to tell William Penn, unless the evangelicals now consider being a Quaker being "Christian" - kinda doubt it ;-)  YEAH, Pennsylvania!

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited January 2014

    Imagine not having health insurance and paying for Herceptin - $75,000 here

    Went to the hairdresser this morning and my credit card was denied. Just got off the phone from the bank and there was an attempted fraud last night - someone tried to charge $3,400 to it. Lucky they are diligent, but it leaves me in hole for when the dishwasher man comes on Tuesday - we can use Steve's card I guess - I think I might have enough on my mastercard.

  • GatorGal
    GatorGal Member Posts: 2,550
    edited January 2014

    Good Friday evening all, I haven't been on too much in the past few weeks and have done some catching up .... Which took forever!  You are all terrific writers and I enjoy reading your opinions (which happen to be about the same as mine) and about your lives.  Bren, sure hope you hear something soon about the transcription job.  I hate the waiting part.  I don't have SAD but have been sick since the week after Christmas.  I have now missed 3 chemo treatments which makes me anxious.  I have had a lung infection but it is nearly cleared up so I'm hoping to have a treatment on Wednesday.  I did have a stable ct scan last week so at least the tumor isn't going crazy growing while I've been on this extended chemo break (low counts in December so those were cancelled too).  I am thankful we haven't had much snow in Maryland but it has been gray and foggy.  Today was beautiful and sunny.  The birds and squirrels were fooled into thinking it was spring.  Brenda, I'm with you on those huge wolf spiders.  They are supposed to take care if smaller bugs but if one is spotted in my house I will tear things up til I find it, kill it, and flush it.  I know, Enjoyful doesn't like to kill spiders, but there you go .... I can't let one live if it's big and hairy!!  Enough for now.  Hoping for a good weekend for everyone.  

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited January 2014

    Kam -- What's that expression again?  Oh yes, cutting off your nose to spite your face.  Well, as I always say, you can't fix stupid!

    Glenna -- January has to be THE worst month for flu, colds, infections of all sorts.  A friend of mine had a nasty case of the Norwalk virus and is finally feeling better.  Hope you are too!

    Kad -- love your addition of "sorts" -- we all need some "sorts" some of the time, and some of us need "sorts" all of the time!

    I recently joined a new group of women playing sports at our beautiful community centre, and the conversation turned to breast cancer, so I admitted I'd had it.  Lots of questions followed, and besides questions about the hardest part, someone asked me if there was anything "good" about it.  Of course, I said -- a whole new group of friends I've met via the internet, and many of whom I've had the great pleasure of meeting in person.  You're my silver lining!  Smooches to you all!

  • IllinoisLady
    IllinoisLady Member Posts: 29,082
    edited January 2014
  • lassie11
    lassie11 Member Posts: 1,500
    edited January 2014

    kad - I sent you a PM about wifi.

    C4C - thanks - you said what I feel about this group.

    Glenna - Glad to hear your lungs are clearing and CT shows stability and hope you get back to getting chemo to work for you.

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