Positive for BRCA
I do not have cancer, but I just tested positive for the BRCA 2 mutation. I was wondering if there are any other BRCA+ women on this forum and what they have done about it. I am only 31, but the cancer history in my family is crazy. My grandma and 8 of her siblings died of cancer. My grandma was only 40 at the time. I have one aunt that died of ovarian cancer and one that died of breast cancer. My mom is BRCA+ but no cancer yet. She is doing all of the preventative surgeries in the next couple months. I assume that I will do all of the surgeries eventually, but struggling to know if I should do them this young. I have 3 children and don't want anymore, so that isn't a concern with my decision. Anyway, I would just love to hear from anyone else with this mutation, especially any younger women. Thanks!
Comments
-
Marie - I am not BRCA 2, but BRCA 1. Sorry you have to deal with this as well. Please be sure to check out the FORCE website, www.facingourrisk.org if you have not already found it. I am sure some BRCA2+ women will be around soon to help you and answer questions. Hugs!
-
Hi Marie, Sorry about your test results and all your family history. I have the BRCA2 mutation too, I'm 41. Following the meeting with the genetics counsellor where I learned the results, appointments were made with a doctor at an Ovarian Cancer Clinic (for testing and consultation on potential next steps like oopherectomy), and with a breast cancer doctor. I then had a mammogram and MRI, just for a baseline, but breast cancer was found from this exam and here I am.
When I got the BRCA result, it took some time to sink in, but at some point I realized that my life was going to be different from now on. Either I was going to need more tests for the rest of my life, or go through surgery, or whatever. But life is different and I still have a hard time accepting it. Me, sick? Nah! I get strength from knowing that I am actually lucky to have found this BC early on, because of the BRCA. Same with the potential ovarian cancer - once I have a oopherectomy/hysterectomy (later this year?), I won't have to go through ovarian cancer like one of my aunts did. I also get strength for knowing that I have to go through a tough 1-3 years, but after that, my life won't be consumed by cancer anymore -it will always be there (the monitoring, etc.), but it won't take over my life.
Your children give you this reason to live, so whatever you choose to do in the coming months, you know it will be to ensure you are there for them for the long term.
Here's my limited knowledge - for breast cancer, you basically have 3 options: prophylactic mastectomy, tamoxiphen, or regular mammograms. BC is relatively easy to detect, so I personally don't think you need to rush for surgery if you're not ready (of course, assuming you have no BC already
). For ovarian cancer, it is supposedly difficult to detect and when it is detected, it is often at an advanced stage. This is why oopherectomy was strongly suggested to me. However, I was told that women with the BRCA2 mutation have a higher chance than the general population of getting ovarian cancer mainly once we turn 40. So ovary removal might not be something doctors will urge you to do yet. However, please consult your doctors, this is just the little info I have.
I hope you have access to knowledgeable genetics counsellors and cancer specialists where you live. Try to obtain as much information as you can, and choose what is right for you. The FORCE website (http://www.facingourrisk.org/) is a good place to read up on all this.
Keep in touch and good luck!
-
Hi Marie,
I tested positive for the BRCA1 mutation at age 44, almost 6 years ago. My paternal grandmother, her two daughters, and my sister all developed breast cancer (my sister tested negative for the BRCA mutation). I pushed my results out of my mind the best I could, but I always remembered that the results of my test indicated a 50% chance of breast cancer by age 50 (and a staggering 87% by age 70). When I went to my gynecologist 2 years ago with complaints of never-ending bleeding, pain, and anemia, she diagnosed me with fibroids and adenomyosis. She sent me to see a surgeon, a gynecological oncologist. After speaking with him and learning of his experience with attending to women with ovarian cancer, I decided to have an oopherectomy/hysterectomy. He performed the surgery laparoscopically, using the DaVinci surgical system. I was back at work in three weeks, and I'm glad to have it done. I turn 50 next month, and I have scheduled a prophylactic bilateral mastectomy. I'm a little nervous, but I'm glad that I won't have to constantly worry if each test I have will be "the one."
-
Hello just tested positive for BRCA 1.
Have had breast cancer twice and chemotherapy and radiation twice in the last 4 years. Finished Herceptin in December 2013 .
Just about to start finding out about my surgery options. Really feels like this constant nightmare is never going to end.
Any treatment recommendations are appreciated. Feels like my local hospital is my second home.
-
mz6507 - so sorry you are finding yourself here. If you go up to the top of the page and click on "my profile" and fill in some of your stats, we would be better able to help you. We do get to be experts on hospital/doctor waiting rooms, don't we?
-
Hey Marie,
I am/was in a similar situation. I'm 24 (25 in August) and my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer 3 years ago. She went through chemo and radiation and she's doing really well right now, but her family has a full history of breast, prostate, and ovarian cancer. She tested positive for BRCA2 and I did as well summer of 2012. At the time I was living in Japan (I got tested when visiting home) and knew that I wouldn't be getting anything done while living out of the country so I spent that entire year researching and reading blogs and came to the pretty solid decision that I wanted to DO something about it.
When I moved back to the US this past August, freshly unemployed and happily single, I immediately (ended up being a 2-month process) got myself back on my parents' insurance and started setting up all the necessary appointments to speak with people.
It seemed the general consensus was that tamoxifen wasn't really something anyone recommended for me because of my age at the side effects so: 1) surveillance or 2) Prophylactic surgery
I didn't feel that surveillance was right for me. My priority wasn't catching cancer early, it was not getting cancer at all. So we started talking about surgery.
It's important to note that I've always been pretty uninterested in having kids and those moments where I think I might someday want them usually involve me heavily considering adoption. In other words: Having biological kids has never really been a priority for me and getting to breastfeed is even lower on the list. And then, taking into account my currently unemployed/living with parents who've been through similar&WORSE/on my parents' insurance, it made sense to do it immediately when my life was already at this inbetween moment where all I needed to do was delay the job search for about a year.
TL;DR
My genetic counselor, ob/gyn, BS, and PS were convinced I had thought through everything thoroughly and agreed that a prophylactic double mastectomy with immediate reconstruction was the best choice for me. Everything moved really quickly for me. My MRI was on New Year's Eve and I got a phone call from my BS discussing the results on Jan. 7th & during that same call my PS had a cancellation so she scheduled me for my first surgery exactly a week later. My BS and PS decided that, because I was young, healthy, and had large and dense breasts (44DDD), a staged mastectomy/reconstruction would be preferable.
The agreed-upon procedure (highly recommended by both surgeons) was to first get a simple breast reduction to get size and shape and then when that healed ~3 months later they'd do a full mastectomy with direct-to-implant reconstruction. They called it a 'staged mastectomy' for the sake of insurance.
This past Tuesday (Jan. 14th) I had the breast reduction completed and am feeling great. My surgeons are really thrilled and excited for me and the only sobering comments have so far been about the next step: my ovaries and tubes, but that's a decision for another time and I can only hope I'll feel as confident about it as I did about this.
-
thank you all for your responses! Truly these forums and the FORCE forums have been such a lifeline this past week since finding out I was positive for BRCA. There are so many strong women dealing with such difficult decisions. It has been so helpful to see women following what they feel is right for them. I am gaining the confidence I need to start moving forward and making decisions about my health and what I want to do to ensure that I am around to see my kids grow up. Thank you all for your input!
-
Hi Marie 82. ...and everyone else,
I just turned 34 and I have BRCA 1. I was planning to have a double mastectomy in the next couple months, but I find myself stalling the process. My mom died from Breast Cancer when i was 19 and I have two little girls (3y & 8mo.). I am still breast feeding and am not wanting to stop even though my plan was to stop after 6 mo. Once I stop BF I have to wait 6 weeks before I can have surgery. im not sure I am done having kids but feel a pressure to have the surgery sooner than later. As a mother, what is your opinion? Thanks so much
-
Hi all-just wanted to share my experience with those of you torn on what to do. I am 37 and was diagnosed in August with BC and then learned weeks later I was BRCA 1 positive. My mom & 2 sisters were tested in October and one of my sisters and my mom tested positive too. My mom had BC 16 years ago and had a unilateral mastectomy & chemo. I had a bilateral mastectomy in Sept with one step implants and am currently on my 12th round of chemo out of 16 rounds. My sister (32) decided to get the BMX when I am done with my chemo after seeing what I have been going through. She began pre-tests in Nov and first had a clean mammo. Then she had breast MRI which showed 6! suspicious areas. My breast surgeon met with her immediately and told her she needed a biopsy & should bump up her BMX. She went for a biopsy, but panicked during it and couldn't go through with the procedure so we had to wait until pathology report after BMX to know if she too had cancer. Waiting 6 weeks for her surgery was absolute torture, but she had it 11 days ago and her pathology report came back all benign! My mom has been told she needs to remove her one breast too, but had a heart attack 2 years ago so they don't know if she could handle the surgery. Needless to say this whole BRCA thing has been a nightmare, but having actual cancer is even worse. I would never want to live my life knowing I had a 80%+ chance of getting it and just get monitored every few months. If someone had tested me (and my family) 16 years ago when my mom was diagnosed, I would have opted for the BMX and maybe spared myself what I am going through now. The BMX was hard, but it's nothing compared to chemo. Obviously this is just my experience and only you know what's right for you, but for those of you that want kids, or have children and lost moms, sisters, etc., to this disease, please consider my experience. Also, for those of you that want kids or more kids, once you are diagnosed with cancer and have to have chemo, chemo kills your eggs. It is unknown how many eggs are destroyed and while some women do get pregnant after chemo, many don't. In addition, once you are told you need chemo everything happens so fast and if you want to freeze eggs (expensive) that has to be decided quickly because it takes weeks. I didn't even have the chance to get into all that beforehand. Now I am experiencing hot flashes and night sweats and haven't had my period since I started chemo, so I am probably going through pre-menopause which means it's highly likely no kids for me. Also, I will have to get my ovaries out soon too, which is certain infertility. Just wanted to give you things to think about that some docs may not explain. It really stinks to have to think of all these things, but unfortunately it's the BRCA reality. I wish you all luck with your decision making, recoveries, etc.
-
I am 36 and got diagnosed BRCA 2+ about 8 years ago. My great grandfather and aunt died of breast cancer. My mom has been going through BC for 13 years now. Last April I decided to do a bilateral mastectomy with immediate reconstruction. Seeing my mom go through the pain of expanders made me realized I didn't want to go through the same thing. So I opted for DIEP reconstruction. This is where they use your own tissue to make a breast. It is considered microsurgery, since they have to attach the vein vessels from your abdomen to the ones on your chest. The surgery is long, usually 6-8 hours for a bilateral, but not really risky. I am very happy I chose to have this done. I don't need to worry about having BC in the future and my breast look so real! And..., I got a tummy tuck on top of it! I hear so many stories of women that get implants and how painful and uncomfortable they are. Mine feel so real, soft and warm. I couldn't imagine having implants in my chest, but not everyone is the same. I would advice any woman with this mutation to really think hard about the decision they have to make. I think for us is not IF we get cancer, but WHEN! Our risk percentage is so high, and I wasn't willing to take that chance, specially having kids. I feel horrible that I might have passed the mutation to my children, but not much I can do about it now. My doctor told me that I can have them tested after the age of 22, but of course by then it will be their decision.
Categories
- All Categories
- 679 Advocacy and Fund-Raising
- 289 Advocacy
- 68 I've Donated to Breastcancer.org in honor of....
- Test
- 322 Walks, Runs and Fundraising Events for Breastcancer.org
- 5.6K Community Connections
- 282 Middle Age 40-60(ish) Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 53 Australians and New Zealanders Affected by Breast Cancer
- 208 Black Women or Men With Breast Cancer
- 684 Canadians Affected by Breast Cancer
- 1.5K Caring for Someone with Breast cancer
- 455 Caring for Someone with Stage IV or Mets
- 260 High Risk of Recurrence or Second Breast Cancer
- 22 International, Non-English Speakers With Breast Cancer
- 16 Latinas/Hispanics With Breast Cancer
- 189 LGBTQA+ With Breast Cancer
- 152 May Their Memory Live On
- 85 Member Matchup & Virtual Support Meetups
- 375 Members by Location
- 291 Older Than 60 Years Old With Breast Cancer
- 177 Singles With Breast Cancer
- 869 Young With Breast Cancer
- 50.4K Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis
- 204 Breast Cancer with Another Diagnosis or Comorbidity
- 4K DCIS (Ductal Carcinoma In Situ)
- 79 DCIS plus HER2-positive Microinvasion
- 529 Genetic Testing
- 2.2K HER2+ (Positive) Breast Cancer
- 1.5K IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer)
- 3.4K IDC (Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)
- 1.5K ILC (Invasive Lobular Carcinoma)
- 999 Just Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastasis
- 652 LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ)
- 193 Less Common Types of Breast Cancer
- 252 Male Breast Cancer
- 86 Mixed Type Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned
- 189 Palliative Therapy/Hospice Care
- 488 Second or Third Breast Cancer
- 1.2K Stage I Breast Cancer
- 313 Stage II Breast Cancer
- 3.8K Stage III Breast Cancer
- 2.5K Triple-Negative Breast Cancer
- 13.1K Day-to-Day Matters
- 132 All things COVID-19 or coronavirus
- 87 BCO Free-Cycle: Give or Trade Items Related to Breast Cancer
- 5.9K Clinical Trials, Research News, Podcasts, and Study Results
- 86 Coping with Holidays, Special Days and Anniversaries
- 828 Employment, Insurance, and Other Financial Issues
- 101 Family and Family Planning Matters
- Family Issues for Those Who Have Breast Cancer
- 26 Furry friends
- 1.8K Humor and Games
- 1.6K Mental Health: Because Cancer Doesn't Just Affect Your Breasts
- 706 Recipe Swap for Healthy Living
- 704 Recommend Your Resources
- 171 Sex & Relationship Matters
- 9 The Political Corner
- 874 Working on Your Fitness
- 4.5K Moving On & Finding Inspiration After Breast Cancer
- 394 Bonded by Breast Cancer
- 3.1K Life After Breast Cancer
- 806 Prayers and Spiritual Support
- 285 Who or What Inspires You?
- 28.7K Not Diagnosed But Concerned
- 1K Benign Breast Conditions
- 2.3K High Risk for Breast Cancer
- 18K Not Diagnosed But Worried
- 7.4K Waiting for Test Results
- 603 Site News and Announcements
- 560 Comments, Suggestions, Feature Requests
- 39 Mod Announcements, Breastcancer.org News, Blog Entries, Podcasts
- 4 Survey, Interview and Participant Requests: Need your Help!
- 61.9K Tests, Treatments & Side Effects
- 586 Alternative Medicine
- 255 Bone Health and Bone Loss
- 11.4K Breast Reconstruction
- 7.9K Chemotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 2.7K Complementary and Holistic Medicine and Treatment
- 775 Diagnosed and Waiting for Test Results
- 7.8K Hormonal Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 50 Immunotherapy - Before, During, and After
- 7.4K Just Diagnosed
- 1.4K Living Without Reconstruction After a Mastectomy
- 5.2K Lymphedema
- 3.6K Managing Side Effects of Breast Cancer and Its Treatment
- 591 Pain
- 3.9K Radiation Therapy - Before, During, and After
- 8.4K Surgery - Before, During, and After
- 109 Welcome to Breastcancer.org
- 98 Acknowledging and honoring our Community
- 11 Info & Resources for New Patients & Members From the Team