Help Me Help My Mom

You can do a fundraiser but I would suggest having your mom work with the social workers at the hospital or talking to the local American Cancer Society. They have programs to help patients who qualify.

I agree with jgr...a fundraiser might be a little too public for your mom's taste.

I can understand what you're going through, though...my mom has recently been diagnosed, and she seems very sad and lost, and she seems like she really doesn't even want to talk to me these days. It's weird, because we've always been close. It hurts that she doesn't seem to want to share much with me. I have to tell myself that right now she's overwhelmed and stressed, and soon she'll come around. It still hurts, though.

I've heard that the Komen Foundation does some financial assistance of some sort. I'm researching this sort of thing for my own mom; she has no insurance and is very stressed over her finances.

Just wanted you to know you're not alone. Just be patient...your mom is dealing with a lot right now. Give her time, and just let her know that if she ever needs you, you're always there for her no matter what.

Mymothermyhero and pumpkin05

I can totally identify with both of you. My mum is having to pay for private treatment I know she can't afford. Her first call to tell me about the cancer was to say that she wouldn't be calling me as much in the future. I know she doesn't want to call me when she is down, oh I wish she would but that's mum's for you! Even at their lowest, they still have that maternal instinct to protect. It does feel like being shut out but you have to consider the strength it has taken them to reach their decision, and that has to be respected. If it helps at all, try putting yourself in their situation. I know I would try to portray a positive attitude to my children to protect them.

I'm sorry MMMH, I don't know much about fundraiser, or what charities support what you need, but will try to find out for you.