My lumpectomy had to be postponed
Hi Everyone,
Just wanted to check in. I was almost ready for the lumpectomy, which was scheduled for December 12, when 3 days before (so on Monday of last week - when the surgery was to be on Thursday), I got very sick. I thought at first it was the stomach flu, but felt a bulge and it turned out that the hernia I'd had for years had become an incarcerated one and I was having a bowel impaction.
I was at our local ER all day before the CAT scan confirmed and they "thought the surgeon could handle it". My family insisted I be taken to the Boston hospital where I was already registered, because of the DCIS. My daughter was in contact with my breast surgeon and she thought that, depending on what happened, I might still be able to have the lumpectomy on Thursday, while still there.
It happened that there was a complication - part of the bowel had died by the time the Boston surgeons could operate. So, I had a bowel resection as well as the hernia repair. It was also a surprise that it was a femoral incarcerated hernia rather than the inguinal they'd expected, which made it more difficult. If I hadn't gone to Boston, I don't think I would have made it.
The breast surgeon was wonderful, coming to visit twice and my surgeons were in contact with her. After four days of recuperation, I came home on Friday and am still recuperating, of course, 4 days later. I've been able to start eating solids and all systems are working. I'm weaned off pain meds (except Tylenol).
My DCIS surgery is now scheduled for the 30th, five days after Christmas, and I have to avoid colds at any cost - which is hard, seeing the whole family. There have been days when I wake up and wonder how I can get into Boston and have another surgery in 12 days. I have to be at the hospital at 7, have a mammogram at 8 (they want to do their own instead of using the one from October 21st), have the wire inserted at 9 and surgery (twilight type) at about 10:30.
I had asked the doctor how I'd do with the radiation which would start soon after the lumpectomy, since I'd still be recuperating from the hernia and bowel resection surgery. Since the site of DCIS is on the upper and outer of my left breast, I've been imagining being prone on a table with my breast on the side - to avoid the rads contacting parts of my body they don't need to. But with the hernia site now, I can't imagine laying on my stomach. The doctor said that by the time the oncology plan is developed and in place, it will most likely be a couple of weeks later, anyway. I was so surprised that this sneaked up on me. One good thing was that I was about as fully prepared for totally unexpected emergency surgery as one could be.
On a lesser note, I had all of my shopping done (expecting the lumpectomy to be on the 12th). Also all wrapping. Also, our two Christmas birthday girls (24th and 26th) had their gifts all bought and wrapped. On a more important note, I had ceased having wine with dinner (this was important for some reason). No anti-inflammatories. I was hydrated, having had lots of water in the previous week. My aunt had died the previous week and I didn't go to the services (my aunt would have understood and my family did, too) because I couldn't risk getting a cold before the 12th. So, I was in good shape for the emergency surgery, because of DCIS planned surgery. Now, as long as I don't get sick seeing the family on Christmas, I'll have that behind me as I begin the new year and I can move on to whatever is next.
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Wishing you all the best Mayanne. It's got to be tough recuperating from surgery knowing there will be more coming up soon.
My tumor was on my left side as well. During radiation you are lying flat on your back on a narrow metal table. The machine is above you and will pivot to the right and left of your breast shooting the beams. It's about one to 1 1/2 minutes on each side. The hard part for me was keeping my left arm above my shoulder, as I was still sore from the lumpectomy. I think here on BCO on the home page you can find more information on the radiation. If I remember correctly, I think there is a picture of how the beams travel across your body.
Hoping you can stay well until your surgery.
Let us know how you are doing.
hugs,
Bren
PS .. here is a link to the radiation page with the pictures.
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You have a wonderful attitude that I am sure will see you through all of this. Some make fun of those who look on the brighter side, but I think it really works. Enjoy your holidays and your family.
Julie E
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Well that's a change in plans that you weren't expecting!
I'm so sorry that all this happened, but I'm glad that it's all over and you've made it through it. Scary though!!
Now on to the lumpectomy. With a couple of surgeries in such a short time you will probably feel the effects of the anesthesia more. And you'll probably be more tired out and take longer to bounce back from the surgery. So be sure to rest up over the next 10 days (while still enjoying Christmas and your daughters' birthdays, of course), and take it very easy for as long as you need to after the surgery.
No wild New Year's Eve parties!
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SO sorry to hear that happened to you, but glad you are healing well.
I did do rads while lying on my stomach, but that was specifically doing them in the prone position. I think regularly, you lie on your back. For the boosts (my cancer was in the same area as yours) I lay kind of on my right side. No matter the position, I didn't start rads until 6 weeks after the lumpectomy, so hopefully your hernia incision will heal enough by then.
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Thanks, everyone.
I must be feeling better. I'm in the mood to declutter. I've been downstairs almost all day. Yesterday I was up and down and sorting magazines was not something that interested me. Of course, I have to restrain myself from all out cleaning as I can't lift more than 5 pounds for 2 months and vacuuming is prohibited.
I keep thinking of the quote that "Life is what happens when you're making other plans."
As of today, I can see myself getting up at 5 on the 30th to get to the hospital and face the other surgery. Beesie, thanks for the advice about resting up. I promise - no wild parties!
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