URGENT -- uncontrolled pain during biopsies. What's your plan?

bobogirl
bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
edited June 2014 in Pain

As some of my sisters on the bco boards know, I had an extremely painful endometrial biopsy this week.  Even though I communicated with PCP and GYN, my fears were not heard, and no real pain meds were used.  I had .5 mg Valium and Motrin -- that's it.  They did a paracervical block half through, but I don't know if it made a difference.  I was shrieking with pain.  Now I'm scared of the next one (there will almost certainly be more of these).  I feel changed from this.  I don't know what to do.  I'm sweating and re-remembering it.

Anyone here have shocking amounts of pain with a biopsy, breast or otherwise?  My punch biopsies were no walk in the park either -- they numbed the area, then told me to hold still.  What should the plan be for next time?  Anyone taking matters into her own hands with pain meds?  Hoping to get myself together, since neither doctor seems interested in helping me manage this.  I should mention that I'm extremely stalwart and have made it through seven punch biopsies, a partial MX, a lumpectomy and an emergency appendectomy, all with no problem.  Hate when doctors intimate that the problem is actually that you are weak.

Many thanks for your suggestions with this.  XXX

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  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited June 2013

    Why are you using doctors who don't take pain concerns seriously? My first step would be to find new doctors. It is their job to help manage pain and validate your concerns regarding this. I hope you don't have to experience this again.

    Caryn

  • Cowgirl13
    Cowgirl13 Member Posts: 1,936
    edited June 2013

    bobogirl, definitely get a new doctor.  There is no reason to go thru all this pain.  Its enough to go thru cancer without the biopsy pain.

  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited June 2013

    Bobo - my first E B was soooo painful. It was with the OBGYN I had since my kids were born. I switched docs this year to consolidate my care w/in one network. I was not looking forward to any future EB's. Three weeks ago I had my annual appt and she decided to do an EB on the spot. This time SHE talked me through it and it wasn't nearly as bad. I agree - get a new doc.










  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited June 2013

    Bobo - my first E B was soooo painful. It was with the OBGYN I had since my kids were born. I switched docs this year to consolidate my care w/in one network. I was not looking forward to any future EB's. Three weeks ago I had my annual appt and she decided to do an EB on the spot. This time SHE talked me through it and it wasn't nearly as bad. I agree - get a new doc.










  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
    edited June 2013
  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
    edited June 2013
  • lauribob
    lauribob Member Posts: 13
    edited June 2013

    I had 2 stereotactic biopsies on the same breast in one day. It was miserable and I don't know for the life of me why I was not offered valium. When I had to come back for an MRI biopsy (something I would simply NEVER do again) I  insisted on valium. I was given 10 mg. That was about 20 mg short of what was needed for that hateful procedure, and they acted like I was a big baby for even asking. My husband had a 10 punch prostate biopsy with nothing whatsoever. It's something you don't know about until you go through it.

    I think it's complete and utter BS to make people suffer through that kind of pain unneccessarily -they have the solution in their tool box. I personally will not let them jab any sharp instrument into my breast again without valium. I have always considered myself to have a relatively high pain tolerance, but those biopsies were awful. Simply laying on a hard table that is cutting into you with your neck at a 90 degree angle for over an hour without being able to move at all is enough to get you something to chill on all by itself. You get better treatment getting a cavity filled at the dentist for crying out loud - at least they have laughing gas if you want it!

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
    edited June 2013

    Dear Lauribob:

    You are so right!  I don't know how much V it would have taken for me.  The 'punch' biopsy and the MRI biopsy were the worst things I'd gone through until now.  I was just totally sober for them.  

    This is going to sound harsh, but I think perhaps the doctors should 'try' one of these biopsies.  They could practice on one another in medical school.  Maybe then there would be some knowledge of this situation.. meantime, I'm not sure what I'm going to do.  Never have one again?

  • Leah_S
    Leah_S Member Posts: 8,458
    edited June 2013

    Bobogirl, when you are looking for a new doc, make sure you are very clear about what happened and that if you need the same procedure in the future then pain control must be discussed.

    I have always wondered why a D&C is done under general anesthesia but an endometrial biopsy is done with almost no pain control.

    Leah

  • bobogirl
    bobogirl Member Posts: 2,777
    edited June 2013

    Thank you so much, Leah.  I don't know why that is either.  And she took two samples in this biopsy.  

    So grateful for your advice!

  • happyraccoon
    happyraccoon Member Posts: 126
    edited October 2013


    I'm so sorry to hear about your pain, all of you!!


    I got the phone call today about uterus trouble due to tamoxifen, referring me to a GYN. Crying ever since. I just don't want to go! It hurts too much!!!


    How does one find a gyn who will help manage pain during and after procedures? I feel like I need a bodyguard.

  • BrooksideVT
    BrooksideVT Member Posts: 2,211
    edited October 2013

    Sometimes it's not the pain, but the type of pain.  I've had endometrial biopsies, punch and MRI biopsies, and a couple of babies, with no medication, all painful, all perfectly tolerable.  I did, however, ask for, and receive, extra painkiller injections during the MRI biopsies. On the other hand, I absolutely need an injection to have my teeth cleaned and, when I have a pedicure, won't let them near me with an emery board.   Now that you know where your comfort zone is, and is not, just telling the doc that you will need extra medication, and how much extra, should do the trick.  
     I do take ibuprufin, or tylenol, or whatever, before teeth cleaning, but never even thought of something like valium.  Does that help with the pain, or just apprehension (such as I feel even now just thinking about the dental lady)?

  • purplelei
    purplelei Member Posts: 22
    edited November 2013


    I just don't understand all of these procedures with little to no pain control....or even anxiety control. My stereotactic biopsy was less invasive than surgical...but they're still punching holes in you...& we're awake for it & can hear what's going on. I was SO tense on the table that when they said I could get up....I couldn't! I was stiff as a board & hurt all over. When I knew I was going to have wires put in for the wire loc the day of my lumpectomy, I called the radiology place to see if I could take something. They said absolutely not b/c I was going in for surgery. I called my surgeon & she said it's NOT A PROBLEM to take Valium that day....just to let the anesthesiologist know when & how much. Why the huge difference in opinion? Probably b/c the person I spoke to had never had it done to them. Like bobo said above, I think all the nurses & radiologists need to experience the procedures they are doing at least once. They might actually create a stereo table with a place for your head. At least the breast MRI had a face rest. I'm SO thankful I took Valium that day. Instead of laying me on the table like I had geared myself up mentally for, I had to sit in a chair! Seriously? I told them that they should be VERY thankful I took Valium before I came in. I should've taken more....but I needed to be able to walk to my car & get to the outpatient surgery after that.


    I also had a friend who went thru the same type of biopsy (another state) who was not given any lidocaine & was just held down to the table by 2-3 nurses. She's still traumatized by it years later. How barbaric! Where do these people come from? What year are we in?


    When you are new to all this & your head is still spinning from bad news....how can you even process to questions to ask before hand? When you get a diagnosis, your head is spinning & you just nod your head & accept whatever they throw at you. This is where support groups & boards like this come in really handy.


    To the original poster....I would definitely ask around & interview more Drs. Everyone's pain tolerance is different. If you know it's excruciating, then you should be able to request being knocked out...or at least partially knocked out so you don't remember anything. They give you loopy meds for a colonoscopy. Why would an endo biopsy be any less?

  • MelissaDallas
    MelissaDallas Member Posts: 7,268
    edited November 2013


    Purple, I understand your point, but it is a very rare first timer on biopsies who comes back here and doesn't say it was not a big deal after having been scared to death beforehand. The vast majority of us have no problem whatsoever with the breast biopsies. Fun, no, but totally doable. I had an ultrasound guided one yesterday and it was not at all uncomfortable. Do I think the stereotactic table is a little uncomfortable? Yes, but not to the point of having to have a tranquilizer and pain meds. When you start doing that it makes outpatient quick procedures much more complicated and risky and prevents the woman from being able to driver herself home. I don't want everyone coming after us here reading this post and being terrified that her biopsy is going to be awful because for most of us they are not.

  • BrooksideVT
    BrooksideVT Member Posts: 2,211
    edited November 2013

    I'm with Melissa on this.  I would add that when I felt a bit more than I wanted, I just asked the doc for more lidocaine.  At one point, we both laughed at the amount he used.  It was not a problem at all.  I would not hesitate to (hoping, of course that I'll never need it) have all the same stuff (core needle, stereotactic, and wire guides) again.  I'd also suggest, those of you who had a hard time with any of these procedures, to have a nice, clear discussion with any docs before any future procedures, letting them know that you have had some painful procedures in the past and want to be certain that he is aware that you may need more painkiller than average.  That should do the trick.  Knowing that your pain will be managed should take care of most of the anxiety.

  • purplelei
    purplelei Member Posts: 22
    edited November 2013


    Melissa, I can kind of see your point. But everyone's tolerance of stress & pain is different. Mine was a complete shock as this was my baseline mammo I was flying from. My procedures happened so fast that I didn't have enough time to process & slow down enough to ask the right questions. Everyone reassured me that this was done all the time, there was probably nothing wrong & I would be fine. I just nodded my head & cried. I know more now than I did a month ago. I also know that I can take Valium before any other procedures & to bring a friend. No one told me that before. I had to find out myself. I had anxiety before any of this even started, but never needed anything for it until now. Any procedure can be stressful & you don't know how you're going to react or respond until you are in there.

  • cactus
    cactus Member Posts: 70
    edited November 2013


    I totally agree that things posted here can scare people, and I agree that most women (thank goodness!) don't have a tough time with biopsies. Approaching a biopsy is stressful enough, and none of us want to add to that...I sure don't.


    But it's a hard call for me, because my first vacuum-assisted stereotactic core needle biopsy in Sept was, frankly, brutal. That's not my word, it was the word my surgeon used to describe it to my husband and me, in recovery. I was one of a tiny minority with extreme pain, when he collected the samples. After lots of reading, I think my rare experience happened when the Lidocane was unable to fully penetrate into my extremely dense breast tissue, at the very deep location of my microcalc cluster, along the chest wall.


    I'm a total nerd about researching everything, and I fully expected to be able to handle any discomfort. I think I was pretty relaxed, for a first-timer. I think my surgeon was as surprised as I was about my pain. I'm usually a tough cookie, but after four samples, and (sorry to say) a lot of yelling from me, he offered to stop the biopsy. I opted to continue, and he doubled his usual Lidocaine dose. Two more samples, so enough to diagnose my ALH. I was so mortified about my yelling that I apologized to everyone in the room. The pain stopped as soon as the tissue collection stopped.


    Physical recovery was easy, and because I am a tough cookie, I thought I could just put the experience behind me. But for days I had very violent nightmares, even when I tried to nap. I was really rattled by how the experience affected me, many weeks later. This taught me that this kind of pain experience can have real consequences for the very small number of us it happens to.


    Yesterday, I had my first excisional biopsy, and I was downright scared about the wire location process, because of the above experience. I let my surgeon know, and he offered an Atavan IV before the wire loc. We made sure the anesthesiologist took the Atavan IV into account. The wire loc process wasn't bad at all for me, and I think next time I can probably do it without anything. I just had to get over the fear hurdle caused by the stereotactic biopsy. Whew!


    So now I wonder...is it insensitive to discuss a tough procedure, here? I'm hoping not, if I'm careful to stress how rare it is. I don't want to scare anyone, but if there's another person here who has had a similar experience, I think my post might help. They will know they are a rare bird indeed, but that they are not alone.


    The thing is, when something like this happens, doctors naturally hope you're wrong, you're exaggerating, you're over reacting. I heard my surgeon say to the others in the room, "first time in twenty years..." He also said to me, "sometimes, unfortunately, this can be caused by patient anxiety." This was not a very helpful thing to say to me, at the time, as I was hurling swear words at the ceiling, and trying to hang on. But I actually get it. I think he's a kind man, and did not want to hurt me. I get it, but this was real. After lots of searching, I found a small number of posts on the web that paralleled my experience (also extremely dense breasts and very deep lesions.) It made me feel a little better to find others that could validate my experience.


    As Brookside suggested, I plan to always speak honestly with my docs about my fears about pain. My experience base is now a little different from many patients, and I think they should know. I have decided (tough cookie or not!) it's OK to be honest about my fears...even if busy medical professionals don't normally welcome the added complications of anxiety meds or extra pain meds.


    One good thing about going through a tough procedure is we learn how to handle the next one better. I do agree that some of us react differently, and some of us have to find our own road to get through this without losing all our marbles.


    Fingers crossed everyone reading here has normal, routine, boring, smooth-as-silk procedures. I firmly believe that is the norm!

  • MelissaDallas
    MelissaDallas Member Posts: 7,268
    edited November 2013


    Cactus, I didn't mean to discount anyone's experience at all. I was just trying to say it is the exception, not the rule.


    I have a problem with the conscious sedation cocktail they use for so many procedures. Most people don't remember the event, but I can quote back the conversations that took place in the procedure room. I had a lot of these done in a short period. Liver biopsy through the jugular, IVC filter insertion and removal. I found it creepy, though none of those were painful. Then the same thing happened with my first colonoscopy. I watched it on the screen and it hurt. The nurse was holding my hand saying almost done, almost done, because I was crying out from pain. They have blown me off when I've brought it up before, but they are going to listen next time. I'm the only person I know who remembers their colonoscopy.


    I do believe high anxiety heightens pain.

  • cactus
    cactus Member Posts: 70
    edited November 2013


    Hi Melissa, oh no, I didn't think you were discounting anyone's experience, not in the least. Your comments are right on target, and I was actually trying to agree...it's the exception (thank goodness.) Not fun but doable.


    I hesitated to post here because I really don't want to frighten anyone, but I spent so many hours trying to find some kind of validation for my own weirdo experience, I thought I could write it carefully enough to give another "lucky" (unlucky?) person some support, while still saying it's not the norm. Kind of a fine line to walk, in a post.


    I think you're completely right about high anxiety heightening pain. In my case, I was pretty relaxed and joking (told the poor mammographer under the table I needed to send her a fruit basket, as a thank you for all her hard work getting me positioned.) I did not feel the incision, so the Lidocaine worked for some areas. All was great until the surgeon started harvesting samples, then it was a whole different ball game. I just had no numbing in that spot. I could feel it and describe it to him clearly.


    That's upsetting that you respond that way to the conscious sedation cocktails. I've had many colonoscopies (Crohn's) and I never remember anything. Sorry you had the pain during yours. I sure do support your thinking about not letting them blow you off, next time. Do make them listen and adjust for you!


    I hope you get good results from your recent biopsy, I recalled you were having one about the same time as mine. Fingers crossed for a good report for you.

  • MelissaDallas
    MelissaDallas Member Posts: 7,268
    edited November 2013


    Thanks Cactus! I should have my results Tuesday or Wednesday. Since it pretty much collapsed when she took the cores we're thinking it was just an atypical or debris filled cyst. Hope so anyway. Fingers crossed for you as well.

  • cactus
    cactus Member Posts: 70
    edited November 2013


    Thanks Melissa, I hope to know Tues or Wed also. Here's to turkey, cornbread dressing, cranberries and benign results. And pumpkin pie too.

  • MelissaDallas
    MelissaDallas Member Posts: 7,268
    edited November 2013


    A little pumpkin pie with my whipped cream

  • TessaW
    TessaW Member Posts: 231
    edited November 2013


    My first needle biopsy was excrutiating! It literally took my breath away. I couldn't speak or breathe. They kept telling me not to hold my breath but when I didn't I'd scream. I felt all of it. I never ever want to go through that again and wouldn't wish it on anyone. That was performed at a local hospital


    My second biopsy was no big deal. I was so scared. I chattered all the way through it. ( I ramble when I'm nervous.) When it was done I said " Is that it?" The doc said " Yeah, but we've got some sharp instruments over here if you'd like us to poke you some more." " Nah, I'm good." Happy


    I think the difference is that the second one was done at A CANCER CENTER BY THE HEAD OF THE DEPT. I'm assuming I was blessed enough to get him because I had mentioned how torturous the first one was.


    My best wishes and positive vibes to all of you.

  • ziggypop
    ziggypop Member Posts: 1,071
    edited November 2013


    I had an MRI guided biopsy that resulted in a lot of pain - but the story may serve as a reason for not using too much pain medication.


    Usually a biopsy shouldn't cause a great deal of pain. I have extremely dense breasts & when I had an ultrasound biopsy done, the tech bent 5 needles trying to get a sample - still not much pain for me afterwards. Then I had to have an MRI guided biopsy on the other breast, it's basically like a stereotactic biopsy - just uses MRI rather than x-ray (they might even use these terms interchangeably - I don't know).


    The procedure itself was uncomfortable ( I described it as a dystopian amusement park ride) to say the least. Afterwards the tech was trying to stop the bleeding from the site & was having a hard time. She kept asking me if I had taken aspirin prior to the procedure & I kept saying 'no' . It wasn't bleeding a lot, but applying pressure wasn't stopping it. Finally, after about a half hour the bleeding stopped, they put a bandaid on the site, gave me the little ice packs and sent me home (I think they said to take Motrin).


    Anyway, I got home and climbed into bed, because it had been an exhausting week and, yes, it hurt. Several hours later, though, my breast began to really throb - I was sort of drowsing & the pain woke me up. I looked down & saw a couple spots of wet blood on my tee-shirt which seemed really strange since I had a bra and that band-aid on. I striped down & and looked in the mirror. The bandaid was soaked, the area where the little ice pack had been was clear as were areas where my fingers had been applying some pressure - the rest of the area was turning almost black - and was swelling perceptibly. I called the ER and while on the phone with them the swelling increased - it was like a shelf. I went to the ER & they wrapped me in ace bandages to apply compression. I was put in the hospital for the night with preparation for surgery in the am.


    Turns out they had hit either a blood vessel or even a vein & I had a hematoma - which can be deadly. It happens in only about 1 out of tens of thousands of biopsies. Thing is - I would probably not have even noticed if I were on heavy pain meds as they have a tendency to knock me out. I didn't have to have surgery, but would have had it been caught even a half hour or so later.


    Don't get me wrong, I'm all for pain management. I don't think anybody should go through it unnecessarily. But pain is also there for a reason - it alerts us when something is 'wrong'.

  • cactus
    cactus Member Posts: 70
    edited November 2013


    I think that's a really good point. As a bit of a tangent, my family has lots of heart disease, and we always remember that pain can be an alert that something is very wrong. I'm so glad you were aware enough to take action when you needed to, and that you caught it before needing surgery.


    Also, I thank you for making me look up a new word, "dystopian."

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