September 2013 Chemo Group

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  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited November 2013


    josgirl - try to avoid skin to skin contact during rads - if you are large breasted and the breast touches the skin below it you may have discomfort from the damaged skin from rads. The ladies on Triple Pos and TCH threads who had rads recommended getting a handful of inexpensive white tanks (like from Walmart or Target) and wearing those under the bra after putting on the aloe, or whatever cream you use.

  • lighthouselady
    lighthouselady Member Posts: 752
    edited November 2013


    At the chemo bar right now. God this place is packed to the gills - no chairs available so I'm in one of the two private rooms in a bed. So sad that so many people need chemo. :-(


    Luckily my MO dropped the benadryl from my premeds so hopefully I won't have restless legs this time. . He also gave me a prescription for medicine to take at home as needed for my RLS. Hopefully it works and I won't be pacing my living room every night!


    Blood work was all good. Still anemic but it didn't drop so that's good. Two more weeks I'll be sitting down here for my LAST chemo!!!!

  • josgirl
    josgirl Member Posts: 231
    edited November 2013

    LHL - Here's hoping the meds work!  And woohoo getting it done!

    SpecialK - thanks for the advice - would never have thought about that on my own (tank top under bra) but makes sense. 

  • mercedes60
    mercedes60 Member Posts: 171
    edited November 2013


    hey alberta, poor u, i know that ugh feeling im on day 7 from my last AC and boy this is one if the worse, my se usually start hitting me day 4 and last, besides the really i cant function feeling, the taste in my mouth is lasting longer than usual. Salty metal ugh, anyway, try popsicles, actually they temporary mask that taste, i have been having chicken noodle soup for lunch, also an apple cortland everyday thats the only thing that tastes normal, drink lots of water, even with a straw, keep the electrolytes up also. Hope u feel better

  • BabyRuth
    BabyRuth Member Posts: 264
    edited November 2013


    Happy! Happy! Happy!


    My scans all came back clean. I am officially NED! I have so much to be thankful for. Thank you all for the prayers! I will be starting herceptin again for a year on Monday. My port will be with me for a while but I am okay with that.


    LHL-I hope your chemo goes by quickly. I agree that it is sad to see so many people having to deal with cancer.


    70charger and BetterDay-hope you all feel better soon!


    Everyone remember to get plenty of rest and keep hydrated. Keeping everyone in my prayers for good days ahead!

  • knightzoo
    knightzoo Member Posts: 171
    edited November 2013


    Yeah for NED!!! Such great news for you! Hopefully the Herceptin alone is tolerable for you. Congrats!


    Good luck today/this week LHL. I go tomorrow. I finally feel normal today - one good day this time around.

  • lighthouselady
    lighthouselady Member Posts: 752
    edited November 2013


    knightzoo - I was the same way... Felt GREAT the day before chemo.


    WOOHOOOOOO for NED. Clean scans must be such a relied!

  • Art123
    Art123 Member Posts: 115
    edited November 2013


    good afternoon ladies, I hope you are all doing well with minimal side effects and towards the end of chemo.


    My wife just finished her last taxol/herceptin and starts AC on 12/3. Any pointers? Only side effect she had was elevated BP due to steroids which is now being managed.


    We already saw a plastic surgeon and he said that she is not a candidate for the tummy flap because there is enough for one but not for two if it recurs. And the back flap is out, she doesn't want muscles compromised and her butt is a work of art so don't want anyone messing with that! Since she is her 2 +, I guess we have to worry about recurrence issues. My wife has been leaning towards bilateral mix anyway just because she does not want to have to do this again. So that would leave implants, the new gummy kind. However , still don't know if she need rads, which can be issue with implants. Her lymph node biopsy was negative and pet scan showed no metastasis. We meet with breast surgeon tomorrow so I have to ask more detailed ?s. I also saw an earlier post about doing sentinel node biopsy prior to mx.


    Any help or suggestions are appreciated.


    Be well.

  • alfranco
    alfranco Member Posts: 200
    edited November 2013

    BabyRuth so happy for you. Whoo hoo.

  • BabyRuth
    BabyRuth Member Posts: 264
    edited November 2013


    Art123-"her butt is a work of art" LOL! That is too funny!


    I did the Lat Dorsi flap and it completely compromises your muscles in your upper body. That has been the hardest thing for me. I have no upper body strength at all. Hopefully the breast surgeon can give you some good options. Good luck with the AC. I am sure with your support she will do fine!

  • VintageGal1111
    VintageGal1111 Member Posts: 705
    edited November 2013


    YAY BabyRuth! Good for you, congrats!!!!! :>)

  • KBeee
    KBeee Member Posts: 5,109
    edited November 2013


    babyruth, Thrilled for you!!! That is great news!


    Knightzoo, I hope you have minimal side effects from the chemo bar tomorrow. I am headed there as well. Sigh. I have been feeling better the last 2 days than i have in weeks...not excited to get kicked to the curb again...especially since my parents are here for the next 2 weeks. that means I need to pin a smile on my face and pretend i am feeling good, even when i am not...or they will get all sad and teary-eyed which I do NOT need in front of the kids.


    So tomorrow I will see MO before chemo and get oncotype results. It is hard to mentally prepare for this next round not knowing if it is my last. I am mentally preparing for 6 since my gut feeling says he wants me to do all 6. My gut is usually correct. I am hoping that for once my gut is wrong! We'll see. No matter 4 or 6, I am just hoping to not have a high recurrence score!

  • knightzoo
    knightzoo Member Posts: 171
    edited November 2013


    Art - I love that you love her butt! Too sweet. I don't know the answer about node biopsy first. My guess would be that if the PET scan showed nothing and now you've done chemo, they won't find anything. I think implants are my only option too (I'm also against moving muscle) - and I know I will have radiation, so I guess I deal with the risks (I had + node biopsy and 2 nodes show up on PET). Maybe I should try to gain 10 pounds in the next 2 months so they have enough fat tissue to move?!


    Hang in there KBee, I hate not knowing too. One minute, one hour at a time. Tomorrow WILL come, no matter how slowly it seems.

  • audra67
    audra67 Member Posts: 521
    edited November 2013


    Yay Babyruth! That is fabulous!!! You must feel wonderful!


    Good luck Kbee and Knightzoo, you are inspiring to us , I am wiped out by my first time - wondering how to make it 3 more!! I feel like such a wimp!


    Art- you sound like my husband- too funny! I am small and didn't have enough fat to use anywhere and I got the gummy implants also fat grafting(liposuction) added to the breasts where they needed filled, they look great (says my husband)


    I got a call that my wbc are 2.0 and I have to go back next week for another blood draw! Still icing my infected arm! Do they always check it weekly or is that too low?

  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited November 2013


    audra - a normal WBC is between 4-10, so, yes, yours is low, but to be expected. A low WBC makes you more susceptible to infection. I had weekly CBC throughout chemo, some oncs do it weekly, others just before the next chemo.

  • josgirl
    josgirl Member Posts: 231
    edited November 2013

    BabyRuth - congratulations!  Always happy to hear good news!

    Hang in there everyone - hopefully ina year we will all look back and say....Wow that all feels like a long time ago!

  • Art123
    Art123 Member Posts: 115
    edited November 2013


    knight,


    That's funny. Natalie was like what do u mean there's not enough.


    I told her I always thought u were crazy when u said u were fat.


    Anyway, I wish you well & happy turkey day

  • Art123
    Art123 Member Posts: 115
    edited November 2013


    Audra,


    I'll ask about the fat grafting


    Thanks

  • simplelife4real
    simplelife4real Member Posts: 563
    edited November 2013


    Babyruth, Hooray for the NED!!! You must be on cloud nine right now. I'm really happy for you.


    I finished my 12th weekly taxol infusion yesterday, and now have a two week break before I start AC. Other than the increasing fatigue over the last six weeks and the steroid crashes that occurred either on day 2 or 3, things went very smoothly. I feel very fortunate. I'm a little nervous about the AC, but I figure I can get through 4 infusions of anything. It's nice I won't have to make the two hour drive to my infusion center every single week too.


    I'm getting neoadjuvant chemo and can feel my tumor shrinking each week. It's great to know the chemo is working....now if the AC will just make it disappear all together. My chances of survival willl shoot up like a rocket if I get a cPR. I'll find out around Valentine's Day when I have my surgery. Any other Triple Negatives on this thread?

  • KBeee
    KBeee Member Posts: 5,109
    edited November 2013


    Munch, munch, munch. That is me eating my words. About 6 weeks ago when it was 85 degrees, I mentioned that I was looking forward to cooler weather and wearing hats. I take it back. I hate the cold. I hate itchy hats. I am grumpy when I can not go for a walk because the sidewalks are a sheet of ice. I am very happy walking in my wig or cozy workout hat. I am thinking thoughts of a warm winter ... i will be very content wit 35 degrees and no ice.


    Hope everyone who hit the chair is week is getting through with minimal side effects. I am not very patient in meeting MO tomorrow. I have a laundry list of questions. First thing in the morning is a trip to PS for a fill... then i head across the city for MO appt and chemo. Whew...fun filled Friday for me!!!!!!

  • lighthouselady
    lighthouselady Member Posts: 752
    edited November 2013


    Kbeee - I can top that. Today our high was 81 degrees. Tomorrow the high is going to be 33 (at midnight tonight) with sleet & freezing rain possible, and 25-35mph winds. Going to be like that all weekend. Holy winter overnight! I'm a NY girl so I'm glad when we get a little bit of winter in Texas. And since I'll be cooped up on the couch popping pain pills all weekend anyway, I'm like "bring it on!" :-)


    So my infusion went SO much better today. Since I haven't had any reactions to the taxol, my MO agreed to cut out the Benadryl pre-med. I had NO restless legs during my treatment. The place was so full that they were putting people in the hallway in upright chairs! I was lucky and got put into one of the private rooms (although there was another lady in there with me in the chair) and I got the bed. I was pretty comfy and mostly private. :-) I ended up snoozing through most of the day. It was so nice not to have to pace with my IV pole! MO also gave me a prescription for medicine for my restless legs to take at night, so hopefully that helps. Last night I ended up walking around at midnight. So frustrating and exhausting. My blood work was good - still anemic but hovering around the same count. WBC and RBC were good, and my weight stayed the same. So that's good.


    This time two weeks from now I will be a chemo graduate. Woohoo!! Hockeymommy - how'd you do today?

  • Viji
    Viji Member Posts: 195
    edited November 2013


    Congrats Baby Ruth!


    Thanks for the update 70charger. Sorry you are not feeling well and hope you recover soon.


    I have been sick for a week and started on antibiotics and ventolin yesterday. Doc said blood counts were okay but I am worried about being delayed on my last TC. Keeping my fingers crossed. Can't wait to be a chemo grad!!!

  • LisaSp
    LisaSp Member Posts: 253
    edited November 2013


    Viji, best of luck to you crossing the finish line. Feel better soon.


    BabyRuth, hooray NED!!!! Many congrats!!!!


    70charger, my RO approved of anything I wanted to use as far as lotions, so I use emu oil (from Amazon), Fruit of the Earth 100% Aloe (from Walmart) and Miaderm (a gift). I was told to use a natural deodorant if I wanted, so I use Toms of Maine and a powder that has arrowroot and cornstarch. A lot of people use plain cornstarch. Everything has gone well and today is no. 20 of 33 rads. Going everyday has gotten to be a drag but it's all good.

  • KBeee
    KBeee Member Posts: 5,109
    edited November 2013


    Viji, Hope you are feeling better, so you can get that last chemo and have this in the rear view mirror.


    LHL, A 50 degree temperature drop,is crazy!!!! I think we sent our cold weather straight down I35 at you! It is 17 degrees this morning. Brrr. Hope you are feeling ok after your taxol. 13 days...probably time to get a ticker going with days, minutes, and seconds!


    At the PS office waiting for my "fill". If only it were this easy to grow breasts when I was a teenager, maybe I would not have been so flat chested my entire life!

  • Deborahanne
    Deborahanne Member Posts: 181
    edited November 2013


    AnnFm - I'm leaning towards no reconstruction. I met with a Plastic Surgeon before my mastectomies and my surgeon performed my surgery so that reconstruction is an option, but now that I'm 4 months post op, I am enjoying full range of motion, being able to sleep on my side and stomach, I don't want to risk changing that. And on top of that I feel great as if I never had the mastectomies. I'd rather look as I do than risk the complications of reconstruction that come early or many years later. Here's a website that I've found helpful and informative.


    http://www.breastfree.org/


    BabyRuth - I'm so happy for you that your scans were clear!

  • KBeee
    KBeee Member Posts: 5,109
    edited November 2013


    I am over the moon excited. My oncotype came back low, so MO said that 4 was absolutely the way to go...6 would do far more harm than good. So I am sitting in the chemo chair for the last time. Can you see my smile?????????

  • josgirl
    josgirl Member Posts: 231
    edited November 2013

    Simplelife - here's to the A/C!  Three different drugs that kill the cells differently - here's to complete pathologic response!

    I went out to a young survivors coalition support group dinner last night (hosted almost monthly) and wow I realized how much I needed it.  It could have been us if we were all in the same town but last night just 5 women that have breast cancer and are currently in or completed active treatment.  Just being in a place where I wasn't worried about pity faces or 'just be positive' was just so lightening.  I came home on a kind of high to be honest.  Just so nice to be out and with people who share such heart wrenching disease and brutal treatment protocol and then to sit and be strong and fearful and inspiring and honest and supportive - just really brought me back to me.  I feel like between work and school and my family and cancer appointments I am just a million peices (barely keeping it all together before cancer) and this made me feel like a solid being again.  And it was over a fabulous and shockingly good tasting healthy restaurant meal!  Best brown rice I even had...just saying... 

  • josgirl
    josgirl Member Posts: 231
    edited November 2013

    KBEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!  SO HAP HAP HAPPY for you!!!!  YAY for both last chemo and YAY YAY for what the oncotype test means for long term!   I think you should do something a little nice today (or when you feel well) to celebrate the results.  We need to acknowledge the 'well it's not bad news' as good news.

     

    Just curious - mine finally came back 31 but my onc did not want to order it at all - I insisted!  But he was always going to order 4xTC so just curious I guess difference in docs always interesting...

  • PeacockGirl
    PeacockGirl Member Posts: 162
    edited November 2013


    congrats Kbee! You are done with chemo!


    Good to see baberuth again, was wondering about you..congrats on NED!


    I'm in the chair this morning, my hemoglobin came up a tick to 9.7 instead of 9.5 like last time. Taxol #2 is being mixed as I type.


    Have guests coming today thru Saturday after thanksgiving...they know I will not be the hostess with the mostest. At least my husband will have a reprieve with some guy time with his best friend, and his friends wife has offered to cook up a storm and freeze meals for us...if she asks about helping out I've got some serious house scrubbing and leaf raking I can sick her upon :) she's a total busy body.


    The Ativan and Elavil are working great. Haven't slept this well since chemo began, and the too hot too cold intervals have settled down...or I'm too gorked to notice hahah


    Simple life ..I am triple negative.

  • alfranco
    alfranco Member Posts: 200
    edited November 2013

    Congrats Kbee!!!! So happy for you

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