does cancer run in your family ?

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fatimaR
fatimaR Member Posts: 16

Hi everyone,

Lately i have been noticing that cancer is becoming extremely more and more common, not just breast cancer but all types of cancer. I was wondering how many of you ladies have cancer in your family of any type. Mine is as follows:

Maternal Grandmother- Ovarian cancer at 51

Maternal Aunt- uterine leiomyosarcoma at 40

Maternal second cousin- breast cancer at 44

Mom's maternal uncle- prostate cancer at 78

anyone else ?

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  • sewingnut
    sewingnut Member Posts: 1,129
    edited November 2013


    Father- lung cancer at 57


    Paternal Grandfather- lung cancer at 75


    Paternal Aunt- colon cancer at 36


    Paternal Aunt- colon cancer at 65


    Paternal Aunt- breast cancer at 40


    Maternal Cousin- breast cancer at 38

  • fatimaR
    fatimaR Member Posts: 16
    edited November 2013

    thank you for sharing. have you had any genetic testing ? my mom had genetic testing for BRCA but was negative.

  • sewingnut
    sewingnut Member Posts: 1,129
    edited November 2013


    No genetic testing. The family laughs that if the cancer doesn't get us, the heart disease will. I'm angry at my older sister (by 11 months) because she won't get a mammo because "it hurts too much". I would like to hit her upside the head with the wisdom book.

  • fatimaR
    fatimaR Member Posts: 16
    edited November 2013

    lol your family is so similar to mine ! my aunts also say mammo hurts and refuse to get it. And on my dad' s side its a heart attack and stroke fiesta !

  • Dbay
    Dbay Member Posts: 11
    edited November 2013


    It is crazy hu?


    My paternal grandfather lung cancer 52


    Paternal aunt lung cancer 54


    Dad colon cancer 66


    Dad's uncle prostate cancer


    Maternal grandmother lung cancer 75


    Moms aunt breast cancer, an uncle inner ear cancer age 4.

  • lekker
    lekker Member Posts: 594
    edited November 2013


    Hi Fatima,


    I PM'd you with my experience and thought I would copy it here for others, but the main point for anyone who feels that their family history puts them at higher risk is to speak with a Licensed Genetic Counselor. A GC will be able to tell you if you are in fact at risk and for which syndromes (hereditary breast cancer is not always caused by BRCA). You should bring as much medical detail as possible for your siblings, parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles. Include significant non-cancer information too - heart disease, diabetes, bleeding disorders, dental abnormalities, benign growths, physical and mental development differences, birthmarks that run in the family, etc.


    my original response to Fatima... I don't have a big family so it wasn't history that prompted my testing - it was the fact that I had two separate primary cancers (a sign of a genetic cause of cancer) and very young presentations of both (another sign). Do you have a genetic counselor? I think you would benefit from speaking with one. While Lynch is associated with uterine cancer, it is usually endometrial carcinoma, not LMS. Sarcomas are sometimes found in Li Fraumeni families (TP53). Usually, someone who's already had cancer (known as a proband) should be the one tested. It sounds like your mom hasn't had cancer so it would be more informative for your uncle to be tested. It's possible that your grandmother, aunt and uncle all had a BRCA mutation but your mom didn't inherit it (which would be great and would make it impossible for you to have the family's mutation) which is why she tested negative, or it's Lynch or Li Fraumeni or something they haven't even discovered yet. A GC should be able to help you navigate through the process and determine your path forward. I'm sorry you have to worry about this at such a young age.

  • fatimaR
    fatimaR Member Posts: 16
    edited November 2013

    Thank you for sharing that it was very informative. However, unfortunately i live in a country where genetic councelors dont exist !! i had to arrange for the BRCA test to be done for my mom indepandantly and even then the doctor said what is that test !! our medical system and doctors are so behind its truly frustrating. We had to pay the whole cost of the test, and my grandma and aunt passed away so testing is not an option here. The uncle is distant and there is noway he will agree or pay for testing he is in denial of his cancer ! thank u for your concern but i am doing my best to keep my mom vigilent and aware of her risk as well as myself.

  • lekker
    lekker Member Posts: 594
    edited November 2013


    I'm sorry Fatima - I didn't realize that a GC isn't an option for you. I did find this link on the World Health Org website with a pretty impressive woman in Bahrain. http://www.who.int/genomics/professionals/clinicalgeneticists/en/index2.html


    I don't know if this information is current, but maybe you could try contacting her? Her email address is listed. Many scientists have trouble finding appropriate study subjects and love to hear from people who fall into their area of expertise. Your mom is lucky to have you looking out for her! And you're smart to look out for yourself!





  • FairyDogMother
    FairyDogMother Member Posts: 253
    edited November 2013


    Maternal side:


    Mother, 33, breast cancer, gave her 3 months to live lived for 20 years.


    Grandmother, 58, breast cancer stage IIIB still living has lymphedema her left arm looks like a elphants leg.


    1st cousin, 60 breast cancer spread to lungs died


    1st cousin, 60 breast cancer died


    1st cousin, 58, prostrate cancer died


    Great Uncle, 60, lung cancer died


    Paternal side:


    Uncle, 58, prostate cancer


    Grandfather, 60 skin cancer, died


    I"m 36 with breast cancer. My BRCA is negative, but my team believes my cancer is genetic just not in the BRCA genes tested.

  • encyclias
    encyclias Member Posts: 302
    edited November 2013


    Mother, 82, colon cancer


    Uncle, teenager in 1930, Juvenile Hodgkins, cured by rads and lived to 85


    Uncle, 59, lung cancer, smoked like a chimney


    Those are all I can remember. I was diagnosed with TNBC at 64.

  • fatimaR
    fatimaR Member Posts: 16
    edited November 2013

    Thank you for sharing. Both of your uncles with cancer are from your mom's side of the family ?

  • encyclias
    encyclias Member Posts: 302
    edited November 2013


    Yes, they were my mother's brothers. No cancer on the paternal side.

  • micronancy
    micronancy Member Posts: 51
    edited November 2013


    Maternal side--


    Mother - 30's ovarian cancer, 81 ovarian cancer died


    Cousin - 20's testicular cancer died


    Paternal side--


    Father- 50's Hodgkins, 60's prostate cancer died


    Grandfather - 40's Hodgkins died


    Uncle - 30's Hodgkins died


    Aunt-- 40's leukemia died

  • Annette47
    Annette47 Member Posts: 957
    edited November 2013


    Maternal grandmother - colon cancer (once in her 50's, again in her 70's)


    Maternal grandfather - prostate cancer (metastatic, diagnosed in his late 60's)


    Maternal uncle - prostate cancer (in his late 70's)


    Mother - breast cancer (at 75)


    My mom only had the one brother, so that's pretty much everyone on that side. No cancer on my dad's side at all. I am BRCA negative (tested because am premenopausal and an Ashkenazi Jew).

  • TotallyBlessed
    TotallyBlessed Member Posts: 125
    edited November 2013


    My fathers side has no females (he has two brothers). He lost his mom to a car accident when she was in her twenties so I really don't have any history on my fathers side except:


    Paternal G-Grandmother; Breast Cancer in her 60s. Passed from it.


    Maternal G-Grandmother; Breast Cancer in her 50s. Passed from it.


    Maternal first cousin; Breast Cancer age 39, passed 6 months later.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited November 2013


    Immediate family - both parents and one of two siblings plus myself, so 4 out of 5 have had cancer.


    Grandparents - 3 of 4 died of cancer (the 4th died very young).


    I have lots of aunts and uncles and cousins and within that group, quite a number have had cancer.


    I suppose it's a lot, but you have to consider that in North America, 1 out of every 2 men and 1 out of every 3 women will get cancer during their lifetime. So I always find it strange when someone comes here and says "there is no cancer in my family". I always wonder how their family got so lucky because that's certainly not the norm.

  • Jestea
    Jestea Member Posts: 19
    edited November 2013


    Maternal side only as I don't have contact with the paternal side.


    Grandfather: Lung cancer in his 70's and he passed away from it.


    Aunt: Few stray ovarian cancer cells found during a hysterectomy in her late 50's. No treatment required.


    Cousin: Skin cancer in her late 30's and then thyroid cancer in her mid 40's.


    Cousin: Bowel cancer in mid 50's


    Uncle: MDS in his 60's and he passed away from it.


    Myself: ADH diagnosed in my late 30's.


    There may well be a few more as my Mum was one of 11 children so I have lots of Aunts, Uncles and Cousins that are scattered far and wide

  • Blessings2011
    Blessings2011 Member Posts: 4,276
    edited November 2013


    Just Mom and me...


    Mom was dx'd with BC at age 60 - in 1982. We never knew what kind, as there was no extensive testing back then. She had a UMX on the left side, and no other treatment. She passed at the age of 88, with no recurrence of cancer, from unrelated causes.


    I was dx'd at age 60, on the left side, too. My treatment was a BMX and five years of an AI. I plan to follow in her footsteps and die of old age, with no recurrence of cancer.


    (Our family has more incidence of heart disease than cancer...)

  • DiveCat
    DiveCat Member Posts: 968
    edited November 2013


    As Beesie said...1 of 2 men, and 1 of 3 women will get a cancer dx in their lifetime so it IS very common. Especially as people age. Though I too know families that seem to have none (my husband's for example). Some families though have lots of heart disease, etc which mine does not.


    Mother - bc at 48


    Maternal grandmother - bc at 48 & new bc at 54, died at 59 with mets


    Maternal great-grandmother (grandmother's grandmother) - died of extensive bc mets at 70ish (no dx before her death as she despised going to doctors)


    Maternal great-grandmother (grandfather's mother) - bc at 60ish, radical mx without further tx, died of colon mets at 80.


    Maternal grandather - lung cancer at 70, died at 70


    Maternal second cousin - prostate cancer at 40. Still around.


    Paternal grandfather - colon cancer late 70s. Still around. Only known cancer on paternal side.


    Lots I am sure I do not know about. We are scattered far and wide. My more recent maternal family is small in size and proportionally there is a lot of cancer. Older generations (before great-grandparents) had lots of early deaths but of what is uncertain in most cases.

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