Starting Chemo, November 2013 Group
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Hi ladies,
I started chemo last Thursday (7th) and I am scheduled for six infusions three weeks apart. Anyone else have a schedule like mine?
After a week, I am finally feeling back to normal. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. Mostly exhaustion and heartburn. No nausea. Now it is just a matter of time before the hair starts to go. (Got a wig to satisfy my 10-year-old, but I think I will be a scarf person.)
After dealing with drains and in-laws for a month after my surgery, I feel like I can handle anything! But March can't come soon enough for me. -
Gia, yes, my first cancer was triple positive so I did AC chemo, 1 year of Herceptin, and 5 years of tamoxifen.... I tolerated all really well so I am keeping my fingers crossed that I tolerate this chemo ok as well...(I'm willing it to be so lol)
MN Mom - I was given 2 chemo options - 4 rounds of TC 3 weeks apart or 6 rounds of CMF 2 or 3 weeks apart. I chose the TC bc my onc in NY called it a "bigger insurance policy" so given this is my second go round I wanted to go as best as I could. I also liked the idea of only 4 cycles lol.
Veronica - best of luck to you tomorrow.
Sorry everyone - will still take me a whole to catch up with everyone's story!!!! -
hi all...gott go back and read how yall are tomorrow Real tired and resting. besides lots of potty tr ips not too many effects yet. they said my hair will be gone by the next round. my insurance doesn't cover wigs. checked out the local Acs place in gville fl...only had old lady wigs so I guess ill be a baldie! il ddrcotate it for christmas! -
I'm on TC four rounds 3weeks apart w/neulasta chaser! -
I asked my onc off ice about the chill cap thing and they said NO. I GUESS that's best....since I have raynauds...so ice on my nails is out too... -
I had my first chemo on the 8th, Cytoxan, Taxotere and Herceptin. I'm going every 3 weeks for 4 infusions so we'll be about the same until the end of Jan. Today is basically a week for me and I finally feel human this evening. I had a bit of nausea, was tired, but the worst was the bone pain from the Neulasta. It felt as if my legs were being crushed. My upper body was ok...weird. Between Claritin, Ibuprofen and an occasional pain pill I managed. The last 24 hours was bad in the diarrhea dept, but even that seems to have slowed down. I'm so excited to start feeling better. We can all do this!!!
I bought a couple scarves and just want to get the hair loss thing going LOL I'm so impatient! -
mandyl....guess your a few steps ahead....just got my neulasta today the decadron isntnt helping insomnia...but steroids are nothing new...just wish the exaustion from the chemo and lupus wasn't counteracting the boost. I'm sure it could b worse. trying to stay ahead of more pain since I already have had that for years! pray your good days hang on! -
my grandsons are gonna shave their heads when mine goes! big thoughts from a 12 year and 10 yr old! sweeties! -
Paulette23 That is so cute about your grandsons. Very supportive. I see we are both up in the middle of the night. I can't sleep but need to go back to bed and try. You are in Florida though so 2 hours ahead. -
Hello all!
Had my 1st chemotherapy infusion yesterday and it was a cake walk! So glad for the port. It was only put in 2 days before so still sore and accessing it hurt a lot but only for a minute.
Some one posted that they do not want a port. Couldn't find it going back through so sorry about that. Please reconsider. Not sure your reasoning but for me, the person the nurses have to call in the expert to find a vein, it is a Godsend. Not to mention that my MO said it will save my other veins so they'll be usable when I'm 72.
The hardest part yesterday was maneuvering the IV pole to and from the bathroom. A nurse told me to "treat it like a Walmart shopping cart. Manhandle it!" That worked and had me smiling.
I brought a cross stitch project to work on, had a healing meditation download from BrainSync that a friend gifted me and watched part of the 1st episode of "Orange is the new black" on Netflixs. Feeling a little queasy today and bad heartburn. Going to take the Pepsid I have in the cupboard. Thanks for the tip. I am worried about mouth sores so will pick up some Biotene today. Thanks again.
My oncotype score was 36 which I considered a blessing since I don't handle fence sitting very well.
I am very lucky in that I only need 4 rounds of TC every 3 weeks.
Wishing all of you a fabulous Friday, a relaxing weekend and the healing touch of God.
Pam in KC -
welcome MN mom,
We are in sync. I also started TC on 11/7 and will have 6 cycles. Unfortunately I have had some side effects that I did stay home from work twice his week. First nausea and vomiting over the weekend, then the last couple of days relentless cramping and diarrhea. I have a great onc doc and they really are doing what they can to help with the side effects. I am hoping next round 11/27 (yes just before thanksgiving....lol) will be a lot better. They are going to add Aloxi and Emend to my infusion which is suppose to last a few days after the infusion. Also got an rx for lomotil for the diarrhea. (very strange drug but it worked...lol). I feel pretty good today considering the week. Achy and tired a little but looking forward to a great weekend! 😄
Hope all have a great weekend!
Also agree on the port issue. If you have ever seen a IV infiltrate especially with chemo, you would be convinced on getting a port. The chemo can be very caustic to the veins and tissue around the site if it were to infiltrate. -
hi All....I totally agree w a port. As a long time IV necessity person and have also had picc lines and a central line... The port is the way to go! My husband is an RN and I both said n harmony when asked whether we wanted IV, picc or port we went port!!! It can be left in 4 years and if God forbid we need a little more treatment we don't have to continually be stucck. -
sorry I have to write separate posts for some reason after I get to a certain point my phone started going nuts and doing all kinds of letters all over the place! Yes Gia I'm a night bird too! I don't think I've had it full night sleep in weeks which I know is not healthy but I can't help it! At least I get to see some good Sun rises! I thought it is most adorable that my grandsons said Grammie we want to be bald with you! I told them they didn't have to but they insist! Now if my granddaughter who has hair to her butt says she wants to I will say no I'll buy her a baldie cap to put on! I miss them so much I live in Florida and they live in California in the middle of a moive desert Edwards Air Force Base. So far I've had off and on since like queasy since my first infusion on Wednesday and the nulasta yesterday and a bit of the go-gos.But it is kinda nice since i generally CANT go!. As far as meds and stuff....One thing I've learned after years of medical treatment it's better to stay ahead of the game so don't wait, take your meds as prescribed and if you feel the slightest twinge .....take something immediately! Weather thats pain or being nauseous, don't wait! Hoping and praying everybody has a good restful productive day and a fantastic weekend! Many -
another quick note! If anybody has to get decadron while getting infusions tell them to push it very slow! It has a reputation of giving you very hot sensation in a very special place, which can be very uncomfortable! -
Paulette, glad to hear you are doing well, I start my first round TC today. They gave me ativan since the dexamethasone keeps me wired and I had a full 8 hours of sleep, I have never taken it but cosidering all we r going through u gave it a shot. That's funny about your grand son. my boys said no way, my 14 yr old said that my life is already established and he still has to establish his, I laughed so hard! But hubby is shaving his with me! We are sending are Christmas cards out like that ,lol. Good luck with your SE , hopefully mine will be minimal! -
I'm the one that is anti port......just the thought of it grosses me out (I am very squeamish). The drains with the mx also completely and totally freaked me out but I managed with them. I'm just a baby and know I am totally unreasonable with this thinking, but it's who I am... I was even freaked getting the tissue expanders for recon thinking I would have plugs sticking out of me (for the fills) lol. Luckily said plugs are under the skin.
Anyhow, I did 4 rounds of AC chemo then a year of Herceptin every 3 weeks all through the back of my hand and I managed ok. So for me, I feel like 4 cycles will be a walk in the park. Thank goodness we have options
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I totally understand being highly squeemish of the drains after mx. Had my husband and mother-in-law (retired nurse) deal with them. Even the sound of them being emptied made me nauseous the first couple of days.
I was concerned about the port, but since I have small veins and only one usable arm, I had one placed. They did it under conscious sedation, so I woke up with just a bump on my shoulder. (Plus they took out my last drains at the same time so I got to miss out on that too! Awesome!) It now takes 2 seconds to hook me up for a blood draw or chemo. I hope they will remove it when I have my implants placed after chemo. -
Quirkygirl, inks, Just got my first infusion yesterday ...was just a little tired nothing else, they gave me an iv med that suppresses nausea for 3 days, but I took a Phenergan with Ativan to help me sleep, still woke up twice for bathroom - from steroids I'm sure and drinking like a camel the whole day yesterday. The only ouchy thing I had was had 2 pokes to get a vein and when they started running Taxotere and then the Cytoxan my veins HURT painfully, like aching not burning...still hurt til later in night.
Today I am just tired and sitting on recliner couch planning to do nothing! I still took my selium husk for regularity as I always do and ate toast and eggs, now stuffed but have 2 waters ready to go....they said hydration helps kidneys, liver, etc as they working EXTRA hard to get these drugs through our systems...
I am really thrilled with minimal problems thus far, but 1 day out, I am waiting for more...not sure ...I did pray HUGE proclamation prayer to God to have 'little or no side effects' so expecting that actually...:)
Got my wig yesterday I ordered online! It is great! I am shocked! Ordered it from Vogue wigs, someone on this site board mentioned them and it looks natural and actually thicker and nicer than my own hair!!! Not sure if I will wear it more or less than winter knitted caps or both...?? We will see when the hair falls out...on that note!
The nurse and iv nurse both told me not everyones hair falls out with chemo for breast cancer!! NEVER heard that before, on Taxotere info. it say it will..so that was weird.
Was very scared and freaked out before the chemo. worried about allergic reaction to Taxotere but was O.K. Infusion room had all types / ages of people...made me feel better...the place I saw 1st opinion oncologist was all over 80's with a limp people...this one had women my age and sadly 2 younger girls...
It was a long day and feel dehydrated yet I drank probably over 80-90 oz yesterday....interesting.. -
Pompom-Virginia37, Virginia t=
That was me, and I just don't want a port. Have had bilat mastectomy and then exchange to implants already within last 7 weeks...didn't want another apparatus/wound..and 4 treatments shouldn't DESTROY my veins...I used to work as a nurse....I think I'm just tired of being poked and having dressings etc...I like nothing coming out of me now...wanted to keep that normalcy...
It sure did HURT my veins though...but only 3 more...we are on same protocol and they gave me some med that keeps nausea away for 3 days...they also said drinking a ton will help with not getting nausea...and eating....they also gave me Ativan and the steroid which I did wake up a few times and tired today....Good luck, let's all get NO side effects !!! -
best wishes PPVIRGINIA we all know our bodies!!! you're in my prayeres!! -
Hi Dellanok, Nice to know someone on the same schedule! I am sorry to hear you had such a rough time with your first round. I was afraid of the nausea. I get it bad from anesthesia and some pain meds so the second my stomach felt off I started pounding the anti-nausea pills. I don't know if I would have gotten worse or not. Besides exhaustion, my biggest symptom was a sore throat and heartburn. My nurse told me to take Prilosec and it really helped me. I did have a little bone pain, but that went away quickly.
I have to go in this afternoon to have my numbers checked. After all the unhappy comments about the shot, I am hoping my white count is high so they don't add the shot to my regimen.
I am scheduled for my next chemo the day after Thanksgiving. It is my family's favorite day of the year and I didn't want to mess it up. The big issue is that it makes my 3rd chemo on the 20th, just a couple of days before Christmas. -
yah, I figure there are some like me and surely do realize the port is the right option for many
I am still getting my fills in my TE's - PS said to schedule the exchange 8 weeks after my last chemo - so I am stuck with these balloons for a while. Wowie Audra - you have already had your exchange!???? My PS said minimum of 6 weeks befor he exchanged the TE's for implants...ll
I am a chronic insomniac (under a good situation) - so I am not sure I could possibly sleep any worse than I do now. These TE's are soooooooooo uncomfortable, but I figure my muscle/skin is still stretching and it will eventually get better (hoping!!!!!) -
Day 3 of tx1: I've got mild nausea, that gets less mild and I take zofran and dex that keeps things calmer. No intestinal distress! So far. My hip hurt a bit walking the dog this morning, but I'm taking my Claritin to head off yesterday's neulasta. Had a bit of a headache thru the day yesterday. Mouth slightly sore, rinsing with biotene. First 24 hours my urine burned my tissues, but that's over.
That's it. Given that I was prepared for the earth's crust to swallow me up and all life to come to a standstill, I'm surprisingly ok so far! -
Pompom 21. You are lucky you can get a port. I asked for one but they said I did not need it with only 4 infusion's and they said my veins were good. They kind of stick up. Not very attractive but they said they are easy to access that way. It did not hurt with the first infusion as they did it in my side arm vein but it did hurt when they use the back of the hand. -
Virginia NJ-
Yep I had the expanders for 5 weeks then exchange. I also had a seroma in one side that they were worried could get infected with the chemo. so that's why the rushed exchange...so I have been BUSY! Glad to get those rocks out though, they felt like they went literally in my armpits...and the drains of expanders at first, and the pain of mastectomy...ewwhhh..seems like a bad dream. But my breasts look great!! AMAZING!
My first chemo. was easier so far anyway. -
TY so much Paulette!!
MN- I was really sick post surgery - not sure if it was the pain meds or anesthesia (or both). Just really hoping I tolerate this round of chemo ok. I was batting about the dates in the oncs office myself. If my blood counts cooperate I should have my treatments 11/18, 12/9, 12/30, and 1/20. It certainly is a sucky time of year to have to go through chemo (not that any time is a good time- but is sucks a little more around the holidays for sure). -
if my hubby shaves all his off he would look like Beeker on the Muppets! !! he doesn't have much of a chin! lil!!! I was surprised that mt grandsons thought it up on their own!!! such sweeties! I hope everyones doing well! I get off and on queezies, dirreah , cramps, a bit fluie feeling. Even though drinking my BIG BUBBA cup filled w H20 Am getting a bit dehydrated. my doc is calling home health since I can't get to office to keep me hydrated. I dont drive much and 45 min is impossible. I think my biggest contributors are all the other meds I take...for autoimmune pbms and systemic damage from that. ..this just added fuel to the fire! Still....I won't complain! God I holding me up and I'm resting in His peace! Things could be a Whole lot worse! I can handle this....ONE DOWN ...three to go!!! Best to everyone!!! This is such a blessing to be able to at least keep in touch with others! Can u imagine how it was before the internet!!!??? special huggs to All!! -
lol PatAlameda - the last line of your post made me belly laugh out loud.
Audra- holy moly that was QUICK! Not an option for meMy PS is very rigid in his practice, but he is amazingly talented (from what everyone tells me lol) so I am hoping it's worth the wait... Baby steps I keep telling myself.
Glad to see all of you ladies with treatments that seem to be ok-ish! You all have such beautiful attitudes!!! Even tho this is my second time for chemo- I still do have the trepidation but you all are giving me cyber strength!!!!! -
VirginiaNJ-
It IS a sucky time to do all of this, but my onc. said this treatment the first week might not be the best but by week 2 and 3 should feel good...we will see...at least it will get cold and we won't miss being outside or at beach,etc...nice winter weather for naps and relaxing... I am going to take advantage of this 'season' as I have running non stop my whole life and 'this too shall pass'...I can do it and so can you! -
yepper-doodle! laughter is GREAT MEDICINE!!If anyone needs help napping in the day. Get some black curtains from walmart! they work wonders!
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