im at risk for breast cancer! only 30!
Hi, Everyone,Im at high risk! My Mother was diagnoised at the age of 38 with IBC. She passed away at the age of 39 back in 2005. I just turned 30 and the dr told me I should have a mammogram done when im 35! Im terrified im eight years away from my Mamas age at the time of diagnoses!
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Hi Saphire. Have you had genetic counseling? It would be helpful for you to know how high risk you really are. I would want to do this, and then also be referred to a high risk breast clinic to be followed by them. It could also be that you have not inherited a gene mutation and are not at much higher risk than average. Less than 10% of breast cancer cases are from known genetic syndromes. -
Hi, Melissa thanks! I have not had genetic counseling! Or been to a high risk breast clinic not for sure where to find that. Well, she also had cervical cancer when she was 36 but had a partial hysterectomy then 2yrs later she was diagnosed with IBC! Which she passed away from! Ive had a close call was scared to death but at the age of 25 they found a lump in my breast i was terrified but it was just a cyst an a infection! My Aunt also had ovarian cancer but shes still living! im regularally checked but genetic testing is very expensive not for if my insurancewill cover it!
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Are you near a major city where you can find a cancer center? Can your insurance company recommend one? Mine did.
Be sure that you also get a sonogram when you have your mammogram as you may have dense breast tissue which is harder for a mammogram to read. A sonogram penetrates it better to see if anything that shouldn't be there is there.
Younger women tend to have dense tissue, although I still have it at 65. I also suggest that you find out if your insurance will cover the Braca test which screens for genetic markers. It's what Angelina Jolie had done last year.
My OBGYN talks to every one of his patients about their family history as breast cancer runs strongly in his family and his sister is fighting it now. He recommends that those with a family history get the Braca test. My cousin's wife's family also has it running strongly in it - mother, sisters, aunts, cousins. Her 24 year old niece had a prophylactic double mastectomy and a hysterectomy last year so that she could reduce her risk of getting cancer dramatically. She's doing very well after it. -
You should check to see if it does. Was it your mom's sister or your dad's who had ovarian cancer? The cervical cancer is not related, but if was your mother's sister who had ovarian that makes it more likely that it is a genetic cancer. Also, you want to have the genetic counseling, not just ask your doctor for testing. Let the counselor decide if/which testing should be done. Where do you live?
I have read that if your mom had bc you should start your mammograms ten years earlier than the age at which she was diagnosed. -
Since your aunt is still living, it would be best if she could speak with a genetic counselor and consider being tested. If she does carry a harmful mutation, it would be much cheaper for you to be tested for only her specific mutation. I'm sorry you lost your mom so young and I can understand why you'd be concerned about your risk. I agree with Melissa in general about the "10 year rule" (my daughters will have to start screening colonoscopies at 20 - lucky girls), but a genetic counselor could give you specific screening guidelines based on your situation - please try to find out if you can talk to one, especially if your aunt isn't willing to be tested. Check out facingourrisk.org to learn more. I hope you are able to get answers soon. -
MelissaDallas and lekker said what I was going to say. If the aunt who had ovarian cancer is your mother's sister, then together your mother's breast cancer and your aunt's ovarian cancer would strongly point to the possibility that your mother's family carries the BRCA genetic mutation. That's not all bad news for you, however. This particular gene is one that we inherit either from our mother or our father. So even if your mother had this genetic mutation, there is only a 50% chance that you will have inherited it - instead you might have inherited this gene from your father. And if that happened, then you would be average risk, not high risk.
So as lekker said, the best thing is for your aunt to have genetic testing first to see if she has the BRCA genetic mutation. If she does, then your testing would be easier and cheaper (and probably would get approved by your insurance) because they would know exactly the gene variant that they would be looking for. And if you don't have it, then you probably aren't high risk at all.
Talk to your family doctor or your GYN to see if you can get a referral to a genetic counsellor. That's the best first step. -
i want to say that the reason I recommend genetic counseling is because there are other genetic syndromes that raise risk for both breast and ovarian cancer. We shouldn't always just be telling people to specifically get BRCA test. While it may be the most common, the geneticist actually thought based on my family history that it was more likely I had another mutation and tested me for two other genes before she tested me for BRCA. -
Hi saphiregirl.
If you want to read more on Testing for BRCA in the United States, costs, etc. there is an article in the main Breastcancer.org site titled Genetic Testing Facilities and Cost that you might find interesting.
Hope this helps!
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Thanks everyone for your advice! Yes it was my Mothers Sister who had ovovarian cancer! I will check out BRACA testing to see! I would really like to know, just so I have a better understanding on the options I may take if possibly I have the gene! Thanks everyone for your support!!
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Hi Saphiregirl,
I too am 30 yrs old. Cancer runs rapid thru my mothers family. Mother, aunt, first cousin. I have no sisters. I went with a friend for moral support bc she found a lump. We found a free breast cancer screening and made appts together. Like I said I went along for moral support. Well, that was at the end of October, and I was scheduled immediately for a diagnostic mammo, which took place on Friday, Nov 8th. From my mammo the took me straight into ultrsound. I can understand completely about your fear. I'm living it right now! I have 3 daughters that are 12,10,and 4 and not only do they need me, but I need them. I just got a call from the dr and I'm being told that as of right now they are calling my "areas of suspicion" cysts. But I have to return in 3 months for a follow up. Don't understand if is just a "cysts" why I have to follow up at all. Much less 3 months instead of 6. Just want u to know, your far from alone. -
Hi Saphiregirl
You have been given great advice. I will add that my breast surgeon recommends that both my children start screening , mammo and/or ultrasound preferably MRI at age 25. I was diagnosed at age 41. I was brca negative nonetheless she believes it prudent for them to start then.
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