Lumpectomy or mastectomy? How did you decide?

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  • keepthefaith
    keepthefaith Member Posts: 2,156
    edited October 2013
    Thanks for sharing Ruthbru! Interesting info.
    LAstar,
    My nurse coordinator sent me info on follow up care for BMX; it was CBE (clinical breast exams) every 6 mos for 2 yrs, then 1 yr, I think.
    HUGS!!
  • LAstar
    LAstar Member Posts: 1,574
    edited October 2013


    Thanks, Ruthbru! It's interesting that this study contrasts so much with earlier studies. I wonder if it's an issue of sample size (it's a little shocking how small some of the earlier studies are) or improved imaging or surgical techniques.

  • blackcat2012
    blackcat2012 Member Posts: 242
    edited October 2013


    does that study say only mastectomy or were chemo and rads included with mmastectomy?

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited October 2013


    A chemo recommendation has nothing to do with whether you have a lumpectomy or mastectomy. It is a totally separate issue. It is recommended because of stage, grade, hormonal status etc. etc.

  • PRB1956
    PRB1956 Member Posts: 444
    edited October 2013


    Thanks everyone for your thoughtful replies. 2 days ago I was leaning towards a mastectomy... now I have calmed down some and will just do the lumpectomy on the 21st and wait for the results. I suspect there might be node involvement (even though the doctors don't think so) because I have burning under my arm...if that's the case, then I'm sure they will recommend chemo first and that will give me time to think about mastectomy later.


    I'm not so sure I will do chemo if it is offered because I fear the treatment is worse than the disease. I don't want my child remembering me as this sick person with no hair who died. Crazy thoughts I know, but most of you here seem so strong. I am weak. My sister lives 3 hours away and has said she will come down to help me, but I can't expect her to give up her life for me. I have lived on my own my whole life (I'm 56), and the thought of being this vulnerable, sick person is hard to shake.


    Not feeling very positive right now. And btw, can I just say that I haven't told many people about this because I hate the "I'm so sorry" speech that follows. As I wrote to one of my friends, hearing my own fear echoed from their mouth is devastating. Not sure others feel this way, but for me it has been hard.

  • jhawk78
    jhawk78 Member Posts: 17
    edited October 2013


    My decision on BMX was based on a multi centric presentation - 2 "tumors" in different quadrants. I would of considered a lumpectomy if the option was mine to make - based on study results of lumpectomy + radiation vs mastectomy. Good luck with your decision.

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited October 2013


    PRB, take one day at a time, if you don't need chemo, that is awesome....but two things: 56 is YOUNG, and chemo (although not fun) is very doable. I worked full time, traveled some, kept involved with my DS's activities etc. etc. throughout treatment. Nobody knew I was sick unless I told them. If you take a no nonsense, "this is something crappy that happened to me, I will get through it and move on' approach, then that is how people around you will handle it too.

  • keepthefaith
    keepthefaith Member Posts: 2,156
    edited October 2013
    Great advice Ruthbru!
    PRB1956, I am 58 yrs old. I felt the same way when I was first diagnosed. I think it becomes a little easier to accept once you start taking steps towards treatment. I will be having my surgery (lumpectomy, port placement and SNB) on the 18th. I hope yours goes well. I am not worried about the surgery really. Not at least until next Thursday night when I can't sleep...but, what's better than gen anesthesia and pain meds to get some good rest, right?!:)
    I am with you on the worry of the chemo! Don't want it, but will do it if needed. Right now, that's what my Dr's are leaning towards b/c of the grade and aggressiveness of my unwanted tenant! Will be evicting him soon! You might want to ck out a chemo thread or two on the discussion boards. Everyone is different and will react differently to the SE's.
    I was told that I am young and healthy! HA!:) Will probably also do rads and HT after. I will be glad when I can look back, but I know this is a process. I think there are lessons here and will try to learn them as I go.
    Best wishes. Keep us posted on your surgery, etc.
    PM me if you like~
  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited October 2013


    The not knowing is the worst part; once you have a treatment plan in place, then you just do it and get it over with. Everything about it is hard; but you can get through it and come out on the other side being really, truly O.K.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited October 2013


    PRB1956, dealing with this disease and getting through the treatments isn't a question of being strong vs. being weak. It's just a question of choosing to do what you and your doctors believe is best, and then doing it. You don't have to be strong - you just have to show up.


    From the outside it's easy to see "strength" when you see someone doing something that is obviously very difficult. But when you are living through it, you may not feel strong at all. I've had experiences in life, both with breast cancer and another situation, where people have commented on how "strong" I was. But I never felt strong. Sometimes we just do what we have to do because we have no other choice. You put one foot in front of the other and you keep moving.


    As ruthbru said, 56 is young. Make your decision based on what's best for your health and your long-term prognosis. By taking it one step at a time, you can get through anything.

  • keepthefaith
    keepthefaith Member Posts: 2,156
    edited October 2013
    Wonderful words...Well said Beesie!:)
  • Ridley
    Ridley Member Posts: 634
    edited October 2013
    PRB1956 -- a couple of thoughts based on your email -- Statistically, the chance of spread to your nodes is fairly low -- if you are into stats, there is a program on Sloan Kettering's site that you can input your data into (e.g. age, size of tumor, hormone receptors) (search Sloan node involvement). When I was diagnosed, I think my own body when into some hyper-sensitive state -- everything seemed to start hurting. Maybe your body is doing the same thing or you might be having some referred pain from the biopsy. I hope your sentinel nodes come back negative.

    I did not meet with a medical oncologist until after surgery. I guess since I didn't need chemo before surgery, and since chemo and hormonal treatment is not dependent on surgical choice, I didn't need to meet him first. Of course if you want to meet him/her, you should be able to.

    Good luck,

    Ridley
  • PRB1956
    PRB1956 Member Posts: 444
    edited October 2013


    Thanks for those encouraging words. I hope you're right....that once the official diagnosis is in, and the plan established, I will feel more positive about my decision and eventual outcome. Unfortunately, I have never been the 'glass half full' kind of person, and I am scared to death to get the results after my surgery. I guess I am a rare breed in that I would rather not know the results...especially if it has spread. I seriously do not think I can handle any more bad news.

  • keepthefaith
    keepthefaith Member Posts: 2,156
    edited October 2013
    PRB1956,
    It's okay to be scared. Like Beesie said, you don't have to be strong, just show up. Make sure you build a support group around you of friends, family and others who are DX'd. It will make a lot of difference in the long run. I thought I would be fine to go to my first appts with my MO,RO and nurse navigator by myself. Luckily my best friend insisted on going with me. It was exactly one week after my diagnosis. I was a total mess that day! I forgot my paperwork and didn't even know what facility I was supposed to go to. VERY unlike me-the planner of all planners.
    My BFF was my rock and although she didn't do much, but just be there, it meant the world to me. As you go through this, you will realize that you are not alone and there are so many people that want to help you.
    (((HUGS)))
  • sandcastle
    sandcastle Member Posts: 587
    edited October 2013


    "Five Lessons I didn't learn from breast cancer (and One Big One I Did) by Shelley Lewis.....I read this book twice and my husband also read it....I did create a CANCER FREE ZONE and all of that was helpful to my Spirit....to this day I stay away from Toxic people and since it has been almost three years, it feels like it did not happen at this point....I did approach people to walk with me and they were all in the medical field and that was a GREAT help.....I had people who knew what was going on.....right from the get go I did not want to do Chemo or Rads......and I did not......but my oncologist said I did not need to do that, the Mastectomy was my cure....he only suggested I talk with my gyno and he in turn consulted with a gyno onc......they knew it would travel to the uterus so I did do a hysterectomy......and Here I am OK!! You will do well once you make your own decision....Liz

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited October 2013


    Just to clarify again the point that ruthbru made earlier. The recommendation on whether or not chemo is necessary has nothing to do with the choice between having a lumpectomy and a mastectomy. If it's determined that you would be best served by having chemo, having a mastectomy instead of a lumpectomy won't change that. In that case, even with a MX, chemo will still be recommended.


    sandcastle, in your case, with DCIS, chemo would never be required, whatever the surgery. In PRB1956's case with invasive cancer, chemo might be required - that's yet to be determined and is dependent on the final pathology. But the surgery choice won't affect this one way or the other.


    sandcastle, I don't understand your statement about the cancer travelling to the uterus. DCIS cannot move beyond the breast, and even for those with invasive cancer, the uterus is not a usual location for the development of mets. So I'm really confused by your comment (or by what your doctors told you). Can you clarify?

  • cledora
    cledora Member Posts: 24
    edited October 2013


    When I found out I had breast cancer the first time, they said I only needed a lumpectomy and chemo/radiation treatments. I didn't know much and followed what I was told. I met my radiation doctor shortly after I found out. I didn't get to meet my chemo doctor until two months later. I always wished I met him sooner, to answer questions and fears I had. When I had reconstruction surgery and they found more cancer during that surgery. I was told about it the next morning that they got it all and again need to do chemo/radiation. Now, looking back after getting breast cancer in my left breast in 2012 and what my new breast doctor has told me. I wish I did the double mastectomy at least by the second find. By then, my twin and I both went thru it twice, our BRACA test was negative. This information should have prompted the suggestion to remove my left breast. Unfortunately we follow what the doctors tell us and pray for the best. I never imagined even getting breast cancer a second or third time. I am so thankful to be alive and I thank God for seeing me thru. My twin died from the breast cancer spreading. My older sister opted to have a double mastectomy as a precaution. They found out she had breast cancer a month before she was due to have surgery. My older sister said her doctor said she was at a higher risk of getting breast cancer because of the BRACA test I took came back negative. Find out as much information you can, follow your heart and don't let the doctors tell you are crazy. This third time I already said remove breast no matter what results are because I didn't want to take chances. I hope to be of help for you or anyone else.

  • sandcastle
    sandcastle Member Posts: 587
    edited October 2013


    Beesie......My MRI showed A pattern of IDC forming.....with a large DCIS.....the Oncologist I use is recommended by Sloan and NYU.......here in Jersey before they do surgery people do go to this group........and yes he told me it would most likely go to the Uterus.....Liz

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited October 2013


    Liz, that's just really strange. I've been reading everything I can find about breast cancer and particularly DCIS for 8 years now, and I'm a research junkie, and everything I've read says that BC mets to the uterus is very rare. The risk of uterine cancer related to breast cancer relates specifically to Tamoxifen.


    When I have more time I will dig into this more, but if anyone has heard anything different in this regard or has any studies that suggest that this is a risk, I would be very interested to see it.


    The other thing I don't understand is that while the MRI might show something suspicious or concerning, ultimately it's the pathology of the cancer - what's seen under the microscope - that determines the diagnosis and prognosis. So while it may have appeared on the MRI that your DCIS was in the process of converting to become IDC, if the pathology showed all DCIS with no microinvasions or larger areas of IDC, then the diagnosis was pure DCIS, Stage 0, and that means that the cancer cannot move beyond the breast, regardless of what the MRI might have shown. So spread to the uterus (or anywhere in the body beyond the breast) with pure DCIS just doesn't happen, at least not unless you have an invasive recurrence first. What you were told just seems to be completely contrary to my understanding. Very odd.

  • sandcastle
    sandcastle Member Posts: 587
    edited October 2013


    Beesie.......I, used a Oncologist......GynoOncologist and Clarient Diagonostic Labs.....I, at this time....almost three year are happy with my result and choice ... with the guidance of a professional...........I, do not feel I have to disclose more.....you can do all the research you enjoy......my best...Liz

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited October 2013


    Liz, sorry, I didn't mean to appear to be challenging you. I understand that you are happy with your choices and it's great that you are doing well. I was asking the questions because I'm confused by what you were told and I thought that there might be more to it. I also was keeping in mind that PRB1956 is struggling with her decision about a lumpectomy vs. mastectomy and I wanted to ensure that she understood that the need for chemo is not affected by her surgical choice. I also didn't want her to be worried about a risk of uterine cancer, or to be thinking that she may need more surgeries ahead, such as uterine removal. While that may have been recommended to you, from my almost 8 years on this board, I think I can safely say that's not part of the treatment plan for most women.

  • bluepearl
    bluepearl Member Posts: 961
    edited October 2013


    You are right Beesie. Even with two primaries I was not recommened to get my uterus/ovaries removed.

  • Pattysmiles
    Pattysmiles Member Posts: 954
    edited October 2013


    I LOVE what Ruthbru posted from Beesie.


    Everyone should get a copy who has to make this decision.


    I would add a comment, my 2 cents, where it discusses rads being "less time" (dont quote me)recuperating as opposed to mastectomy...the length of time to go throu treatment for rads , for me (6weeks) will be as long or longer than my recovery from mastectomy. With that said, we all heal differently...I am 1 1/2 weeks out from double mastectomy and am feeling great...I did not have SNB or axilliary nodes this go around though, which does cause more pain.


    Also, another method I use when making these big decisions, and I use it in other areas if my life...is the "pros vs. Cons". So make 2 columns for pros vs. cons for lumpectomy and then the same for mastectomy...then weigh the importance of those pros and cons..sometimes the answer is staring you in the face. It helps to get it on paper and out from "swirling in your head".


    Pat

  • uds17
    uds17 Member Posts: 183
    edited October 2013


    Hi.


    I'm sorry you have to go through this. I had a double mastectomy with expander placement 4 weeks ago. Honestly, for me, the decision to do a mastectomy was an easy one. Primarily, it was driven by the fact that despite having a palpable lump, nothing was seen on mammogram. My breasts were very dense and even my surgeon agreed that mammograms were "useless" for me. I had fibrocystic breasts and frequently felt lumps. The thought of continuing to live with my lumpy breasts and have constant anxiety about whether the lumps were malignant or not was not something I could tolerate. My surgeon agreed that mastectomy was the right decision for me.


    I wish you the best of luck with your course of treatment.

  • sandra4611
    sandra4611 Member Posts: 2,913
    edited October 2013


    I had DCIS, stage 2 in one breast and LCIS in the other. I had a BMX with immediate reconstruction 8 wks ago. According to my oncologist, DCIS only occurs in ducts. If you have a mastectomy, you cannot develop DCIS in that breast again. If you have a lumpectomy, you can develop DCIS again in that breast. Yes, after mastectomy there is always a small % of breast tissue left, BUT no more ducts so DCIS cannot reoccur. DCIS is not associated with any other kinds of cancer occurring somewhere else.


    LCIS only occurs in lobules. Most of the same info applies. If you have no more lobules, you cannot get LCIS again in that breast. But LCIS is more worrisome because it is associated with a greater chance of developing a different kind of cancer somewhere else, including the other breast. My oncologist said I absolutely made the right decision by having a BMX instead of lumpectomies and she would have done the same in my shoes.


    If you have invasive cancer, it's a different story. Neither DCIS nor LCIS are invasive. If you have a positive lymph node, it's a different story. Many surgeons do not check even one lymph node if you have DCIS. Mine did a sentinel node biopsy: 1 negative node on DCIS side, 3 negative nodes on LCIS side. My oncologist said there is no need for radiation, chemo, or hormone therapy.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited October 2013


    Sandra, technically your oncologist is right about DCIS but in reality, it is possible to develop DCIS (and I would assume, LCIS) after a mastectomy. After a mastectomy, while most of the ductal system of the breast has been removed, in the tiny amount of breast tissue that remains there may be some remnants of ductal tissue. And DCIS, either a new primary or a recurrence from the previous diagnosis, can develop there. The risk if very low - generally only about 1% - 2% - but it's possible and it certainly has happened to some women who've been on this board.

  • sandra4611
    sandra4611 Member Posts: 2,913
    edited October 2013


    Beesie, my oncologist says you are wrong. I asked today after I read your comment. Although it is possible to develop another kind of cancer in the tiny bit of breast tissue that remains after the BMX, she says there is most certainly no duct or lobule tissue left. DCIS can only start in ducts and LCIS can only start in lobules so there is 0% chance of be developing those two kinds of cancer ever. My sentinel node biopsy was 0/4. Doesn't mean I couldn't get some other kind but it won't be DCIS or LCIS.

  • MelissaDallas
    MelissaDallas Member Posts: 7,268
    edited October 2013


    I have seen numerous women here with recurrence showing up in their mastectomy scar.



    http://ww5.komen.org/BreastCancer/ReturnofCancerafterTreatment.html

  • LAstar
    LAstar Member Posts: 1,574
    edited October 2013


    My breast surgeon has seen imaging that revealed microscopic milk ducts that had grown into the skin layer. He said it made him rethink how DCIS can remain behind after mastectomy. It only takes one DCIS cell left behind which is the basis for the non-zero risk of recurrence after MX for DCIS.

  • MelissaDallas
    MelissaDallas Member Posts: 7,268
    edited October 2013

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