Not quite a horder - decluttering
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So funny, Wren. Your group must have had a really good laugh!
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Wren, that's an amazing story! Let me guess--your boss is a messy-desk type?
Bunkie, thanks for asking. We did clear out some space in the attic. Still have to get rid of the bed, hopefully mid-week, and then we will put everything that's left back and see what we've achieved. I've donated things for tax write-offs a lot, although it's not as good a deal if you don't already itemize. We make a receipt with our estimated market value (we look for something similar on Craigslist or Amazon, depending on what it is) and have someone sign the receipt. We've donated a car, brand new windows, dryer, and $20K worth of my dad's academic books, and we've gotten nice tax refunds from it. The stuff I'm dealing with now, except for the bed, is too small-potatoes and there's too much of it for a thrift shop to want it all, at least our little local one. I will go to the larger one next time I'm in the big city and see if they have enough space for what I have. It can be a real burden on a small place to donate too much, so I'm trying to be mindful of that. As for my other stuff, after feeling better yesterday, my cold is back with a vengeance and my legs look somewhat worse again, with new hivey areas. Pooh. But at least my MO will have something to look at tomorrow.
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We've been a quiet group for the past couple of weeks. Hope all are well. I have been quietly working and today brought 14 large trash sized bags of assorted clothing, books, household goods etc to a local charity shop as well as two computer printer/scanner/copiers and a suitcase. I organized everything so that the charity shop could use it and picked a shop where the things I had would do some good. The printers are fine but I don't need them so I gathered the papers for them and sent them on their way. I still have a long way to go, but it is a beginning. So I wanted to share that with this group. Hope you all have a glorious fall.
Hugs.
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Mandy, FOURTEEN bags??? I hope you are giving yourself some kind of a treat! That is a huge accomplishment! And you included the paperwork with the printers??? Gold star again! Very very impressive.
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Thanks RunFree. I really appreciate your support.
I was prompted to start because I have a house guest arriving in a week---I figure she needs me to have an organized living room, kitchen, bathroom and guest room. I had a friend come over today so we could figure out what I still have to do and I think I will be ready for my guest. And although I have not "treated " myself, it does feel really good to get those things out of my house so maybe that is the treat.
Thanks again.
Mandy
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Mandy, great accomplishment!
I know what you mean about company. I'm hosting my book club next weekend and planning to finish the bathroom before then. We're ready to paint the walls tomorrow.
I have to confess, though. Today I took 3 long-sleeve shirts out of my donation bag. It was so cold here and I don't have any old shirts to wear to paint walls and medicate cats. They were mock necks, which I hate, so I cut the mock off.
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Wow, busy busy ladies!
I have been working as a substitute in the clerical dept of a large school district. I sub at whatever school needs me, but over the summer I worked most of the time at the facilities planning dept. They were going through an audit and with my bookkeeping background I was able to help. Anyway, that work is waning and my boss wants to keep me on as much as possible so he decided to have me help someone who is "digitizing" all of the blueprints for all of the schools.
Yesterday he started me on a related project which is organizing the plan room. This room has thousands of blueprints for over 20 school sites. Hundreds of plans were in the floor, in boxes and on the plan veiwing tables. In one day I was able to look at each plan and put it where it belonged. Why can't I organized like that at home? It does make me want to come home and get something done, but did I???
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Mandy - That is really good. Now I feel behind. I have had a difficult couple of weeks with heath and This Old House but I feel a declutter week end coming on. I have a big bag in the guest room on the floor ready to roll. Need to give away those size 16 pants and jeans still. Time to do it. I keep thinking I will need them again but I doubt it. I have been a size 10/12 for 2 years. Even if I gain some I will be a 14. I have a few of those stashed too but that is it.
Meece - Darn you are good!!!It is always easy to do that stuff for someone else. When I lived in Cali I used to do that for my friends. Go to their house and reorganize the pantry or photos etc. They used to call me and ask when I was coming over.
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I wish I could get all of you to my house and I could go to yours. We could do a decluttering swap. It is definitely easier when it's someone else's stuff. There's a clue in there that should help make it easier to do my own, but so far I think I'm missing the clue. Meece, that is a great day of work. Maybe you should have dragged it out a little bit if you're paid per diem! Bunkie, I'm rooting for a productive weekend. It will feel great to get rid of your bigger sizes!
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BUNKIE10 - We always itemize our taxes and need every write-off we can get. As far as charitable donations go, most places just hand you a blank, dated receipt when you drop stuff off.
I always list each item I donate, and before it goes in the box or bag, I photograph groups of items together. We are some SERIOUS donators here!!! I just want proof in case we're ever audited by the IRS.
As for TurboTax, yes, you have enter each item. But the real benefit to doing that is that they allow you incredibly high prices for each item you donate.
I used to just use yard sale prices as my “fair market value” for an item. But according to IRS guidelines, which TurboTax uses, let’s say I donate a pair of work slacks. I might value them at $2, which I’d sell them for at a yard sale. TurboTax, on the other hand, may value them at as much as $8! (I’m totally guessing here, as I don’t have my tax return in front of me.)
Once we saw how much money we got to deduct on our taxes, we never had another yard sale again. So not worth it!
Teka – “Busy” doesn’t begin to describe it. There are no words for how much crap is stuffed into my in-laws' little house. They lived there for over 60 years, and never threw one thing away.
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Wren, that’s funny…
Mandy1313 – Good job!!!
RunFree – do you still have a lot to get rid of? If it’s too much for a thrift store, perhaps a living estate sale would work for you? They do take like 30% of the proceeds, but they do all the setting up and cleaning up for you, and even take the unsold stuff, itemize it, and donate it for you.
Meece – I’d rather organize anything besides my own home. All my colleagues used to say “You’re so ORGANIZED!!!” but then again, they never saw the piles of unrelated papers and junk crammed into my file cabinets.
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SO – I’ve got the purging bug again. I want new bedroom furniture, which means getting rid of hand-me-down pieces I’ve had forever. Some are even just stored in the shed because there’s no room for them. In order for me to “earn” this new furniture, I’ve told myself I have to get rid of ALL the excess furniture in the house.
Either it goes to our local hospice thrift store, or to one of our local consignment shops if it’s a big piece.
Last week we had the Garage Organizer guy come out to measure for storage cabinets. I’m sure that when we opened the door he wanted to scream and run for his car. Seriously, it looks like a hoarder’s garage.
So we’ve been attacking it piece by piece. Yesterday and today we filled up both the recycle bin and the garbage bin, PLUS the back of the truck with donations.
Fortunately, I’m taking pictures along the way. The “before” pics really do look like crazy people live here. At least it’s just boxes and furniture, and assorted other dumb stuff, not garbage and filth! I took lots of pics to remind us we NEVER want it to get this bad again.
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Blessings, thanks for the suggestion. What we have is mostly really petty stuff, children's games and toys, that level of thing. I love your idea to take pictures of it before donating. I can load it in the car and take it to the bigger Goodwill 45 minutes away, along with my clothes. I love it that you have a garage organizer guy. It would be so great to have someone come in and build shelves. There's nobody like that where I live, which is a rural area. I do take before & after pictures of rooms I'm cleaning. I love that. I haven't found myself looking at them but that's not to say I won't. It's OK to be a hoarder with digital pictures....
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Like Blessings, I made a very detailed list of what I donate. I handed one copy of it (several pages long) to the charity thrift shop and kept a second copy which the the charity had stamped. They did give a receipt that said as per attached list. I never thought of taking photos but with the quanitity that I donated. it would have taken forever. But my thrift shop requires that we estimate the fmv on the list you give them--so I explained where I got my calcualtions from ( amazon for used books for example). This is the first time I have gone over the $500 limit so I see that I will need to show when and how I received the items (bought them all; it is the when that will be challenging)....anyway I plan to keep this up (going through the house and donating items, until the clutter is gone). :-)
I am now organizing the guest room for my house guest. There is some stuff in there that will need to be taken out temporarily. A friend has lent me a luggage rack so my guest will have a place for her suitcase and I don't have to remove everything from the desk. At least there is hope!
I am thankful for all of the support this thread has given me--it helps to know that others are in the same situation and are lending support. And try not to be hard on yourselves if you don't do as much as you think you should. My thrift shop run took quite a while for me to gather up---and then (embarressing to say this), some of the bags sat in my living room waiting for me to move them out for a while.
One thing that I did do which felt good. I came across a book about an artist that had been a private printing by a cultural organization. I knew the artist had sons who were in their 60s now and perhaps even grandchildren. So rather than putting the book in the thrift shop pile, I took the time to locate one of the sons and to send him the book (isn't the internet wonderful for things like that). He has 3 children and did not have enough copies of the book on his father for each to have one. It just felt so right to return that book to its proper home.
Wishing everyone here a wonderful weekend.
Hugs
Mandy
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I finished putting the plans away, but there were boxes and boxes of Submittals, Contract Books, O & M Manuals and papers. I finally got most of that sorted through and finished sorting yesterday. Things were boxed up to go to my other office.
Now I must take all of those plans off their shelf and pull all of the duplicates. we are talking about thousands of plans. Job Security.
We were gone last weekend and my house has not been straightened up in two weeks, so I will try to do that today. Then I need to decide what to organize. I want to get something accomplished at home. -
I got my "room of doom" cleaned up completely finally and got some more exercise equipment to replace the piles of junk.
Now I just have to USE it to lose this post-chemo weight. Ugh!!!
Hugs to all and good luck cleaning -
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Takes my DH about 30 min to totally trash a hotel room. If it's printed, he wants it. Especially brochures for attractions we have neither time nor interest to see. -
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Teka and CCFW - my DH and I learned from one of those "Organizing" HGTV shows that we are "Surface Abusers"....
In other words, no surface remains empty for long in our house. If it's horizontal, it was meant to pile stuff on!!!
Poor DH if he ever takes a long nap on the couch :-O -
Count me in as a surface abuser too. You should see my dining room table!
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We are making some strides, even if they are tiny ones.
The garage clean-out project is temporarily on hold. We are getting some custom storage (cabinets, shelving, desk) in DH's Man Cave. Hopefully, that will eliminate all the piles of stuff on the floor. The designer even left room for his electronic drum set!
When we had the carpet replaced two years ago, everything got boxed up and put in the garage. Now, hopefully, if there is a proper place for things, they can be put away!
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I also have clutter that ends up back on the kitchen counters. It is a never ending challenge...cause because I do not have good storage and also because I somehow tend to clutter things up.
But I am pleased to say that the organizing job I did in my daughter's room for my house guest still looks good. I am determined also to keep doing a little more and hopefully to eventually declutter.
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I am a stockpiler. I have lots of clutter free space and I seem to be very organized....on the surface. I collect too much stuff ...organized or not. I have been clearing out my 6 cans of the same soup and I feel so much better. I am down to 2 boxes of stuffing, cereal, pasta etc.My cupboards look bare to me yet I have plenty of food. -
Bunkie, I think I am a stockpiler too. It was interesting to read what you wrote because I'd never thought about it. -
No actual food in our house, just spices. An entire cabinet of them. I honestly think we could cook any dish from any nation without going to the store for spices. -
Mandy - There are a lot of us. I noticed it when I gave away my dads old icebox in the basement. I used it for storing extra beer and sodas etc. When I gave it away I took all the stuff and put it on the bar. The guy I gave it to was younger and broke and he asked if he could have the drinks too. I gave him most of them but it took several trips to the truck to get everything. After he left I just sat there is shock at how many bottles of soda I had. I do not drink it and I live alone. I do have some friends that come by sometimes but I have a huge new stainless up stairs and do not need the extra storage. That was when I came up stairs and opened my perfectly stacked cupboards. 10 cans of tuna, soups, tomatoes etc. 4 each boxes of rice, pasta etc. 10 boxes of rice a roni. All neatly organized. Like in the movie "Sleeping With The Enemy". I dated a guy once that said I was really too neat. Kinda bothered me. I always liked to have 4 more of what I like and use in case I got snowed in during the winter. Well I never get that snowed in.
Wren - I have 5 jars of black pepper and 4 containers of Mrs. Dash. I am bad there also. -
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