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  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited September 2013

    OMG....ROTFLMFO....jeannie...."Wilbur was in your lap".........hahahahahahahahaha!

  • Jeannie57
    Jeannie57 Member Posts: 2,144
    edited September 2013

    LOL, Nihahi, maybe saying Wilbur was in my lap wasn't completely accurate....or appropriate! He was there somewhere....I have no idea what ROTFLMFO means.....

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2013

    Nihahi - ROFLMAO....are you "rolling on the floor laughing your foob off"?????

  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited September 2013

    jeannie, I just love you.....!!!! Thank you so much for ALL your "wilbur-isms" they are a perfect fit for us!!!!!

    ROTFLMFO = rolling on the floor, laughing my face off

    YIKES bailey....I sure hope not!!!!!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2013

    Hahahahaha....Ok just your face, not your foob....

    Omg I think I am punch drunk

  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited September 2013

    This is so much more fun than watching hubby snore in his chair, pretending he's watching football, while maintaining a death grip on the remote, WITH HIS EYES CLOSED!!!!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2013

    Wow Nihahi, your DH and my DH are like TWINS

  • Kat-ski
    Kat-ski Member Posts: 212
    edited September 2013

    It must be a man thing!!  Both of my dads do it and the DH!!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2013

    Hey neighbor Aspinner! Have you been to Artprize yet or not your thing?

  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited September 2013

    sigh.....apparently trying to turn the volume down is a no-no....even though it's halftime and it's just a bunch of talkjocks and commercials.

  • Kat-ski
    Kat-ski Member Posts: 212
    edited September 2013

    I love Artprize!!  I am trying to get the other sister to go but she is dragging her feet.  I am going to try to get my mom to go even if I have to push a wheelchair.  She complains she has nothing to do, well here it is!!  Any special exhibits you would recommend!!  I love the pig outside the BOB in 2010(?).  My DH is not into the arts so I have to do it solo.  I could have gone today with a couple of girlfriends but a tomcat attacked my little dog in our fenced area yesterday.  Snickers has stuck herself to me like glue. 

    I can't wait for PRMA consult in November to get the show on the road!!  Hopefully, not too many bumps along the way with reconstruction flaps!!  I have two ducks in a row now!!

    Have a great Sunday and congrats on the 5 k today!!

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2013

    Oh yeah....sit there and SNORE to the point I am considering calling 9-1-1...and no matter how loudly I yell his name he will not wake up, yet should I turn down the TV he wakes right up lol!

  • Moviemaniac
    Moviemaniac Member Posts: 949
    edited September 2013

    Back....almost had to swim home.....yikes!



    Christina....your story brought tears to my eyes......that is wonderful, and it is NOT too much info......it's a milestone on your road to recovery.......you GO, girl! :)



    Man, you guys are a rowdy bunch! Sbe with her fart machine, and Nihahi laughing her face/foob? off.......and Jeannie with Wilbur in her lap! Bailey, I am sure you are in there, somewhere, too..... :)



    BTW Bailey, loved your quotes, and good for you for walking......honestly, I am not a fan of the K.........Pink, but I am def. a sucker for bagpipes........I probably would follow a bagpiper into a dark alley...... :\



    Michelle, I am SO sorry about your poor mother....AND you! I hope you are sleeping even as I type this.......(((Hugs)))



    Jeannie is being too sweet......but it truly was WONDERFUL to connect to another DIEP sister...I feel so LUCKY to have met two of you so far.....will add Sbe (hopefully) in November......my pockets are deep and I would love nothing more than stuffing ALL of you in there......I feel so blessed to make these connections........I think we need to follow Damiana's chemo group's example and rent a large home in Vegas(?) for a looooong weekend....would be SO fun to meet all of you!



    Liefie, I will see YOU in January! :)



    Going to go watch the Ducks beat Cal......(hopefully) if they can hang onto a really wet football.......



    Lots of love to you all......XO

  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited September 2013

    EXACTLY!!!!! Don't you love it when you finally have had enough and turn the tv off, only to have them wakeup and swear they were watching it!!!! (really.....the game ended 30 minutes ago!!!!).

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2013

    I am in for Vegas if I have any vacation time available!

    Yup, it's like that here, too, Nihahi....it must be something on the Y Chromosome.
  • Jeannie57
    Jeannie57 Member Posts: 2,144
    edited September 2013

    Nihahi, spring is often no picnic around here, still gloomy and chilly---but better than what you'll have, for sure! As a California native (been here since 1986, mostly), I gave up expecting April to herald the end of gray skies. I am desperate for sun by then! Anytime to see you will be a good time, though!

  • nihahi
    nihahi Member Posts: 3,841
    edited September 2013

    hmmm....I helped my sister move at the end of Feb a few years ago. MY LORD....the flowers in bloom!!!! azalea, rhodos, tulip magnolia trees, fruit trees, tulips, hellebores, etc etc etc....it was like the garden of eden.....when I got off the plane here it was -32.

  • Moviemaniac
    Moviemaniac Member Posts: 949
    edited September 2013

    Ladies....I forgot to thank you for your kind concern regarding my DGS.....he is doing better this evening, and will probably be released to go home late tonight.....pain was an issue, and when you are only 7, you're still a little guy........anyway, he's on the mend, and surgery was successful, so other than a stent for 6 weeks.....this is behind him.....

    Your good thoughts and prayers were heard, I am sure.......XO

  • Jeannie57
    Jeannie57 Member Posts: 2,144
    edited September 2013

    Nihahi, yes, as a gardener myself, this is paradise. But February is a little early! And we're comparing a Cali girl to an Alberta girl!

  • Moviemaniac
    Moviemaniac Member Posts: 949
    edited September 2013

    Hmmmmm....you two (Bailey and Nihahi) aren't making comparisons of your DH to MOI, are you???? :\. :D

  • Jeannie57
    Jeannie57 Member Posts: 2,144
    edited September 2013

    Hahaha, Movie! Go HAWKS!!!!

  • sweetpickle
    sweetpickle Member Posts: 749
    edited September 2013

    Nahai- My dh does the same dang thing with the remote and is usually poker on tv. LoL I dont have an LE appointment yet, waiting for hthe office to call me back.



    Bailey- You look like someone I just want to give a big ole bear hug to! Your kind soul shines right through. Thanks for posting that and I had a similar talk with dh tonight. I broke down crying and apologizing for me being crazy after treatment has ended. He was totally supportive and told me to just get checked out and slowly work myself back toward health. Its going to take me a while to get going again but I did do 22 minutes on the treadmill tonight. I then promptly ate four oreo cookies right after....lol......and I wonder why Im still fat, sheesh! Its better than smoking though which is what I REALLY wanted to do tonight beause Im anxious. Glad I didnt.



    Goldie- I plan to get my thyroid checked but I have to pick a new primary doctor since we moved so it will take time to get that appoitment set up.

  • sweetpickle
    sweetpickle Member Posts: 749
    edited September 2013

    Christina- That is so wonderful and inspiring! So happy for you and your dh :-)



    Michelle- So sorry that your momis sick, I hope she is o.k. My dad was a diabetic and we lost him due to a urinary tract infection that he ignored, he went septic. Hugs to you!!!!



    Count me in for Vegas :-)

  • sbelizabeth
    sbelizabeth Member Posts: 2,889
    edited September 2013

    Christina, the unconditional love and acceptance of your DH is beautiful.  I bet HE thought you were beautiful all along, but the fact that you can accept yourself to such a degree seems like a huge step forward.

    Michelle, what a wretched thing to have your mom so sick.  And with the flashbacks to your sister's bedside...well, our hearts are with you.

    Sweetpickle, try to get that appointment with your primary care sooner rather than later.  If it's your thyroid you'll feel much better once it's regulated.  For me, it didn't make it easier to lose weight (alas...!) but the weird swelling in my face and legs went away and I felt more like myself.  Not that I really know what that feels like anymore!  What WAS life like before BC?  When the only pill I took was a vitamin and I saw a doctor once a year for my annual T&A check?

    Movie, can't wait to see you in November, and glad your little DGS is feeling better.  It's so hard to watch children endure medical stuff, scared and in pain.  They're so innocent and trusting!  I hope his recovery is fast and uneventful.

    Time for bed, which is harder than it sounds.  Plug in the pumps, find room for them in the bed, make sure the tubing is protected so I don't roll over and yank something out, earplugs for the one that farts (and I don't, for once, mean the DH).  And about that...who takes a farting machine to church? Tomorrow is going to be interesting.  I'm practicing my hurt, "who, me? face.  And maybe a "turn around and listen to the sermon, nuthin' to see back here" look.  

    Sleep well, sisters from all over the world, whose names I might never know.  You mean so much to me.  Katy

  • Janet_M
    Janet_M Member Posts: 1,068
    edited September 2013

    Good Morning Girls, 

    I've been doing my best to keep up with my reading on these boards - but time moves at a different speed in this world! Is it normal to be paying a parking ticket, and checking your iphone at the same time to see if some lovely woman's wound has closed, or if she has a nipple?  But each time I read I'm moved, and inspired.

    Yesterday I was walking down the street at a slow pace (partly me, partly basset hound) feeling a little worse for wear after two weeks of work. Three woman my age called 'excuse us' and then they ran past me, in full running gear, laughing and talking. I was just overcome with self pity. The last two years has been brutal and my body hurts. And  I wanted to be running along the sidewalk pavement and feeling light on my feet. And then I thought - sbelizabeth would NEVER be such a sucky-baby! It would just make her more determined than ever to ditch the machines and get back on her bike. So I buckled the f*ck up and tried to find joy in my slow morning. 

    Christina - Thank you for sharing your intimate story. What a beautiful time for you and your husband. 

    Debdylan - Congratulations on making it through your first treatment. From now on it's a countdown. A countdown to the halfway mark, a countdown to the finish. I was one of the lucky ones (and there are many) who did okay with chemo. Mine was a two years ago, and now it feels like a college exam. I was consumed with it, and scared of it, and then I aced it - and then I immediately forgot all about it.  Well, not quite that simple. But it does eventually become a blip in the greater scheme life. I'm not minimizing it's challenges, and I understand the anticipatory terror,  but once it's underway, and the fear is behind you, it becomes more manageable. Please drink lots and lots and lots and lots of water.

    Michelle - I'm rooting for your mom. And for Movie's little fella too. I hope today is kind to the old and the young, and everyone in between. 

    (By the way, just to make me even more of a sucky baby. I'm not even a runner. And I probably never aced my exams either). Janet 

  • jlbloom
    jlbloom Member Posts: 228
    edited September 2013

    Just want you all to know I'm reading all of your posts and praying for the ones that need prayer, especially your mom Michele.  Christina, you brought tears to my eyes as well.  That is such a blessing that only those that have danced this fandango can understand.  Love to you all.  I want to go to Vegas, too!  ...Julie

  • liefie
    liefie Member Posts: 2,440
    edited September 2013

    Oh, Sbel, now you have me laughing out loud with your current bedtime routine, and your apprehension about going to church tomorrow . . . LOLOLOL!!!!!

     Been awake since two. Got up at four, made tea, and here I am. DH on call for ER, phone rang every few minutes, finally he left. Normally I sleep right through it, but not tonight. Oh well, can always take a nap this afternoon seeing that it is, and has been, pouring with rain here for 24 hours straight now. Nihahi, I can't blame you for not wanting to come to Seattle in January. If this is the start to winter on the west coast, who knows what is coming later? Jeannie and Movie, we better have a boat ready . . . lol. So glad you enjoyed your visit - it is really special to meet somebody from these threads, and I've had that pleasure once. I'm in for a Vegas trip - love that place.

    Movie, glad to hear GS is doing okay. Not cool when a little one needs surgery or stay in a hospital, so I hope he is home safe, and soundly asleep in his own bed.

    Bailey, you are so adorable, and obviously loved by your friends, and by us. Also love that verse - it is worth remembering if only my fried Tamoxifen-fed brain will do so - lol.

    Michelle, best wishes for your mom's recovery. Good thing you trusted your instinct - better safe than sorry, eh?

    Sweetpickle, good for you on doing some 'treadmill time'! It is amazing how much better we feel once we move our bodies a little. You have a kind, wonderful and wise DH too.

    Christina, no need to be shy here, and thanks for sharing that. It was touching indeed. This cancer just comes into our lives so uncalled for, so uninvited, rips apart our whole existence, and leaves us to deal with the aftermath, scarred bodies, changed perspectives, altered relationships etc. No wonder they found in a study that many women suffer from PTSD after bc. This is not for cissies.

    Janet, I enjoyed your post as usual. You, a sucky baby? Never! Slowly does it, and one of these days you will be light on your feet again, and dancing in the rain. Let them run - you will do your own thing, and it will be wonderful.

    Julie, see you in Vegas!

  • Janet_M
    Janet_M Member Posts: 1,068
    edited September 2013

    liefie - Good morning! Thanks for the words of encouragement - I will dance in the rain one day. Speaking of which -  a rainy afternoon sounds perfect for a nice cozy nap - I hope you can find a few hours of calm under a blanket today.

  • Jeannie57
    Jeannie57 Member Posts: 2,144
    edited September 2013

    Liefie, I woke up earlier than usual and I'm listening to the rain through my open window. I enjoyed your post except for your lack of sleep! Hope you get that nap. Wise words about cancer.



    Janet, your posts always bring a smile and touch my heart, too. Like you, the voices on this thread ring in my ears when I'm feeling down or just going about my day. I think you're a rock star, not a sucky baby.



    Sbel, I wish I were going to church with you. People will ask about your farting "friends" and my leopard print compression sleeves and we will find things to giggle about....while listening to the sermon, of course!



    Time to get up and ready for church myself. I will be greeting people with an umbrella unless we have those winds, too, that were forecast....good thing it's a come-as-you-are church and I don't have to dress up.



    I would go to Vegas or anywhere, really, to meet you all!



    Good morning, everyone.



  • Tracy516
    Tracy516 Member Posts: 183
    edited September 2013

    Catching up with my reading here.lots going on!



    Husband- remotes and snoring must be a DNA thing!!;)



    Can't wait to Make love again! Still not healed enough and wish I had my nipples but hubby thinks I look fine!!;)



    I hope all surgeries went well and healing vibes.



    I had a bad night last night. Went to bed fine, but woke a few hours to pain in breast. Had to sit up and take meds. There is nothing there, the pain is deep inside!! Ugh also my stomach felt sore and stinging from the inside. Hate sleep interrupted!



    Had dinner with my dad. It wax nice. He had a cancer scare last week but turned out to be a cyst !!! Happy!

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