September 2013 Chemo Group
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Alfranco I'm giving myself shots of the neupogen - they teach you how and then send you home with them.
Lovewins if you can eat lean protein eat it! I couldn't eat anything of substance for around 5-7 days because of the nausea, but I found I HAD to put something in my mouth every 2 hours on the clock, even if it was an instant breakfast or a few crackers. Also, the weird taste in your mouth will make most things taste differently than you're used to, so this is the perfect time to try something you wouldn't normally - I've discovered V-8 tastes awesome when normally I can't stand it.
As for the fat, I still can't really do much, although I successfully ate a brautworst (sp) today, lol. I got a weird craving for Ding Dongs (I swear chemo is more like pregnancy than pregnancy itself), and even though the nausea has subsided, that didn't sit well in my belly at all. So eat what sounds good, just keep it to small portions so your digestive system can handle it.
Good luck to everyone starting your treatments, you've got this :-)
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Hello everyone, I am from the Sept 2012 chemo group. It is 1 year on the 5th since I had my first chemo . I just want you to know that the girls I went through surgery, chemo, radiation, herceptin with are so special to me, we still check daily with each other even now. We all have our hair growing back, we made it through treatment and we are all still here! A bunch of us are meeting in Vegas next weekend to finally meet face to face....I just want you all to know you will be fine, you will have bad days where you lean on each other and you will warrior your way though treatment....good luck to you all..
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Thank you bearcub!!!
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Hi mamastewart. Reading your post about your children is very inspirational. i have 4 children - 6,9,13,16. They are all self sufficient so im lucky there. They also seem to be coping with all of this quite well - i think.
I seem to be the only one in the southern hemisphere so things are different for me here. there are some things that im not sure on that you all talk about but i am really enjoying reading everyones postings and hearing how everyone is going.
Has anyone whos had a lumpectomy experiencing numbness and lumpiness in their boob? lumps scare me now so im going to call the breast care nurse tomorrow and ask her. I think the numbness is due to the nerves been cut. i had to have 2 lots of surgery - the second one was to take a mm more to get a better margin. Still havent got the results back yet but im guessing its all clear.
My first hat arrived in the mail today. Going to hang onto the receipts just in case i dont need them. HaHa, who am i kidding. I work at a preschool so we are going to get all the children bandanas to wear when i lose my hear.
Good luck to all who are just about to start their first chemo. i'll be thinking of you all.
Jan
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Hi Baby Ruth and all the best to you. I have been lurking since my diagnosis but thought it time to register and participate. This is overall a wonderful forum. I do research in ovarian cancer and have no family history of breast or ovarian cancer, but mu DH and I lost our oldest son to hepatoblastoma when he was three years old, some 21 years ago. This was a whole new learning curve for me to have been diagnosed with breast cancer! I have had a right sided mastectomy, one drain, and started adjuvant dose dense AC last Tuesday (September 3). This will be followed by T plus Herceptin since HER2 was amplified. ER and PR were negative. The doctor also requested HER1 (EGFR) and I am curious why this was done if there are no particularly effective means to target this protein? Anyone else have experience with EGFR testing and how that info is used?
One other question - anyone have trouble with balancing while on Adivan? I have also emailed my MO about this but hoping you all might provide a quicker reply 😉. Thanks so much to all you amazing women for sharing your experiences - reading these forums is a source of inspiration, reality, and provides a sense of belonging, although I suspect none if us really wants to belong here... -
Thanks JellyK...I will take it slow...hope you find something good to eat today that hits the spot.
Thnaks for answering my question.
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bearcub - thank you for your post. I have learned so much from all of the women who have "been there, done that" before me, and although I hate that anyone else has to go through this, it is so meaningful to read posts like yours!
lovewins - honestly, I found that I could eat pretty much whatever tastes good. I have the most awful taste in my mouth, so finding something that actually fits that description is difficult! But I've been able to eat soup, chicken, grilled cheese, mashed potatoes (yum!), crackers, cereal, popcorn, etc. Drinks are the worst for me. Everything tastes oily and blah except for Sprite or lemonade. At least for this first cycle I think I was lucky... I was only SICK to my stomach the first two days, and even then I was still able to eat.
Jelly - I am constantly comparing chemo to pregnancy!! It's crazy....having to eat all the time, being SO darn tired, the weird cravings, the emotions... ugh. I guess instead of a cute little baby we get to look forward to a clean bill of health at the end, huh?
My latest obsession? Cinnamon red hots! It's the ONLY thing that gets rid of the yuck taste.
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Getting my head shaved today
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thanks lhl...i am eating a small scoop of mashed potatoes and rotissier chicken right...could hold off the protein any longer! it does seem like i want to eat more often...never been pregnant! Have a wonderful day!
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Hello Everyone, I'm new to posting on the forums, but have benefited from reading through them. I'm now getting ready for starting light TC chemo tomorrow morning. I'll keep you posted on how it goes. Thank you for sharing your journey and encouraging us who are still acclimating to this season in life.
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What is it about mashed potatoes? That's one of my go-to's too :-) I'm totally trying the red hots...
Positivenegative, you should post a picture once your head is clean - I've managed to keep my full head of hair so far (I'm on day 10), but once it goes and I buzz it I'll post a pic. The August ladies have been doing that and I think it helps - part of me wants to run from that but the other part knows it will be easier once I'm used to it.
Welcome to the ladies posting for the first time!
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Hi I am ER-/PR- HER2+. I will be starting CT for 6 treatments concurrent with Herceptin. Radiation for 5 wks continuing with Herceptin. It is great to join this forum of sharing experiences. I do have mixed emotions..good to know what to expect but scary. I am still trying to wrap my head around the loss of hair. My MO can address most other SEs but not this one.
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Minion-welcome to our September group. I do not know anything about the EGFR testing and believe me I have had my share of testing done. Hopefully someone else will pop in and be able to answer your question.
I love mashed potatoes anytime. My mom used to make potatoe cakes with the leftovers when I was younger and they were so good! Now and days with 2 teenage boys in the house we do not usually have left overs so Ii don't have to worry about making potatoe cakes! Red hots sound awesome too!
Deborahanne-good luck with your first treatment tomorrow. We will be thinking of you and hoping for a easy first day for you. Keep us posted so we can learn from you.
lovewins-how are you feeling on day 2?
For everyone new-come on in ...I may miss the doorbell when you ring it but I know you are here. Please feel free to ask any questions and share any knowledge that you have. We are all here to help and support each other.
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BabyRuth- I agree that it feels good to have so many MO's on the same page and reviewing my case.
HyDavis- it does take a while or the expanders to feel better. In fact, I felt better when the implants were put in. They are foreign objects and it'll take your body some time to adjust to the new normal. The pressure from expanding shoud get easier. Advil helped me. I hope this helps.
I had my port surgery yesterday and that sucker is uncomfortable. I had spasms the last time I had one put in so this isn't as bad but not fun either. I'm able to take Advil with my pain meds today and that seems to be helping. I'm thinking to time for another nap. -
Thanks JellyK my PS decided to not even begin the fills until I have completed chemo and radiation...ugh so I'm thinking r u telling me I have to keep these rocks in my chest for 5-6 months before we begin fills and hope the radiation does not damage my tissue on that side. Does this sound right to any of u ladies on this thread. The expander was put in August 7 2013 immediately following my mastectomy.
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I hope everyone beginning chemo is having tolerable side effects. I saw a question about Ativan. It can make you feel dizzy. The other name for that medication is Lorazepam, if that helps you look it up at all.
I ordered a couple wigs yesterday. I do not start chemo until he 20th, but I plan to shave my head the week before it starts so that I have one less thing to worry about. I will probably let the guys at work shave it for me at our summer picnic on Sept 15. They are all shaving theirs too. Since we eat there, sleep there, and deal with all kinds of unthinkable things at work, they've seen me at my best and worst, they know me well, and are literally my second family.
One of the ladies on the other boards asked me to post a picture of myself in my fire helmet, so I will do that soon. I will post a bald one once we shave it. Maybe I will post a group shot. -
Thanks babyruth I wish I could get some expansion. I will be a month out from surgery with recon on the 7th of September my PS wants to delay fills until after chemo and radiation I don't know if its due to the radiation that may damage tissue
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Millsy1 - yes, my lumpectomy area feels so weird! More lumpy now post-surgery than before. But my surgeon has assured me that this is all scar tissue forming & some extra liquid that will slowly be reabsobed, & it won't feel normal for a while - plus, radiation will make it feel different yet again. And during the last few days when I had major chemo pain, I swear I could feel that lump area feeling strangely numb or tingly so I imagined the chemo attacking the tumor spot
It's frustrating to have our bodies feel so different & strange. The 'new normal' indeed. -
My first post on the site although like many people, I have been lurking for awhile. I was diagnosed in June and had surgery in mid July. I delayed chemo in order to do fertility preservation treatment which I just completed. I am scheduled for my port on Monday and chemo (TCx6) for Thursday the 12th. Crazy anxious but I have done so much research that I feel so much better than I did a month ago. I am going to be on Lupron at the same time as my onc thinks it will protect my ovaries from some of the effects of the chemo. Supposed to give me menopause like symptoms so on top of chemo...woohoo. My mom will be flying in for the surgery and for almost a week after my infusion so I have a lot of help for the first go round. At least I will know (mostly) how I react and can then plan accordingly (I am a big planner). My fiancee is amazingly supportive and I am so grateful for his presence. I also have a 20 month old daughter and am glad that at least she is at the age that I don't have to worry about what to say and how to explain this to her. But I do have a cute story....
I told her after my surgery that mommy has an owie and showed her where, she now gives me a hug and pulls my shirt to see my armpit, points and says owie, and kisses it....what else do I need really.....
Otherwise sad that any of us have to be here but I see this as a wake up call to treat myself better and to Be Present. Wishing all of us an 'easy' chemo.
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Thanks for asking BabyRuth...I feel a little embarressed about being so scared...I mean I know it could get worse and it very well may....but so far I have had tingling on one spot of my head...and last night my heart was beating a little faster than normal. I took my nausea pill and read the list of pills not to combine and ambein was on there so didn't take it...I was out walking around in circle in the drivewat at 2 and then 3 am! Finally I broke dn anf took ambein at 5 am. Today i went to get my Nuelesta shot...the nurses just smile when I tell them about clariton. I founf 3 beautiful beanies at the hospital and I took all 3, couldn't resist!I just feek a wee tired....it is amazing not to be under the stress of my job! Well...guess I had a lot to say huh? I am doing well and I say I owe much of it to all of you wonderful ladies...oh and I took 2 stool softeners
. Hope you had a good day...I haven't read through all the posts learning to post as I go!
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ddfw, I was was also given TCH - H for a year, then rads. Have you heard of cold cap therapy? I used cold caps and kept my hair. My onc had never heard of them, but researched them and wished me luck.
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Yes, I did researched cold caps rental from Pengiuin company. I was a little shocked at the rental fee.
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Chemo class done. Really could have found a better way to spend an afternoon but I guess rules are rules lol
Alfranco I picked up the vials at the pharmacy and have a nurse coming in the two days after chemo for injection lessons. I have a good drug plan thank goodness because 1100 dollars for a prescription is crazy...and this is the cheap one. Don't think I am going to enjoy injecting my abdomen but guess I'll get used to it -
Cold caps - I'm using them! I'm the oddball patient that everyone is talking about at my MO's office... he's never had a patient use them, thought it was "bunk" years ago but wasn't opposed to me using them. They all asked me how it was with my first treatment... I'm like - COLD! LOL I really, really want to keep my hair, but I almost hope they work more just to prove the naysayers wrong!
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getting tired of all this water. It is very frustrating. My head is shaved now and I did it in front of my kids especially my 6 yr old. Did not want him or me to feel scared when my hair started falling out. I got my EMLA so hopefully I wont feel the needle going in no more. Been naping more, don't know if it's good or not. When did you guys start getting nauseus, after the first chemo? Best of luck to all, God Bless.
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hi alfranco...i am no expert...just had my first chemo yesterday and have not felt truely nauseous yet. did you get pills...my nurse said the moment you feel a wee bit nauseous to take it...so yesterday i took one cuz i think i thought i was nauseous...but now i wonder. anyway some one will come along an answer your question...
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My nausea hit about 3 hours after I got home from chemo #1! They told me originally to start taking my anti-nausea meds at dinnertime, but since it hit me so quick, they suggested next time I take them before I even get home.
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they gave me pills, but don't know if i am feeling like this because of all the water or the chemo. I know I have a long way to go still and getting a bit ansy. Thank you for your answers.
lighthouselady- sorry you didn't feel too good.
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Really not firing on all cylinders...Alfranco when you said you were tired of all the water I thought you meant you were in a flooded area...didn't clue in about the water retention lol
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Thanks batcatlady19. I called the clinic nurse and asked her about it. She said that fluid builds up and you need to massage it through. Also you need to massage the scar round and round or along the scar. Don't use any creams. You need to stop the tissue from underneath attaching to the scar. Your skin should move side to side but not the tissue underneath. The massaging seems go be helping. The numbness will stay for a while.
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