Chemo May 2013
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Ok Sounds fun!
Married in 1991 to my dear Hubby.
We have three children, a daughter age 19 and fraternal twin boys age 14.
Originally from western Maryland, we both graduated from UMAB with degrees in Medical Technology. Worked at Johns Hopkins in Toxicology, moved to San Diego worked as a Research Associate for a Biotech. Co, Hubby was Navy Seal, moved to WV to get hubby out of Navy where he was a cop. Worked as Clinical Supervisor of Reference lab. Got pregnant with twins and all hell broke loose. Stayed home for 5 years and worked on Masters in Secondary Ed. Moved to Maine, now work as a HS Biology Teacher. Tired just thinking about this!
Wow lots of police in our families!
Still recovering from exchange surgery. Stiff and sick of being restricted in movement!. Cannot sleep due to my first bothersome tamoxifien SE, started 3 weeks in!. Hot flashes and night sweats are keeping me up! Guess it means the drug is doing its job. I read somewhere that if you are not hot flashing its not working. Not sure if this is true, anyway either way I am covered. 10 years of this seems like a long time right now! I am off work for another week.
Hope everyone else is doing well!
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Still reading each day, but not much to say (I guess that's a good thing!). I love the idea that we're sticking with each other through radiation instead of going to another board!
Here are my answers to the questions-
We got married on Jan 29th 2008. We don't have any children.
We both are classically trained musicians. I tried the audition and apprenticeship program for a while after graduating with my post-masters degree in Opera performance. Landed a temp job at a great company in NYC while pursuing a musical career. I've since stayed with the company (already 6 years, I can't believe it) and am now the exec assistant to one of the Managing Partners. Really a stroke of luck how life can hand you blessings - my boss is fantastic, and I'm really lucky to work for such a compassionate and wonderful family office.
Still singing for fun on the side - I volunteer at my local church as the cantor, and then on Thursday afternoons am the soloist at St. Patrick's Cathedral during my lunch break.
We live in Westchester County, NY. A nice change of pace after living in various parts of NYC for almost 10 years.
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OK - here is my info
Single (divorced) for 15 years.
Two kids, a son who is 18 and in college and a daughter who is 17 in high school. I adopted my daughter from Russia when she was 10 yo (after 7 years in an orphanage). Teaching her how to live in a family has been stressful and an ongoing process, however...no regrets! And....she wants to be a police officer!
I have a degree in Zoology from the Univ of Montana and am a commercial real estate appraiser in Greensboro, NC. I grew up and spent most of my adult life in the Washington DC area except for college, 3 years in LA working in the film industry and the last several years in NC. Looking forward to moving to a larger city again once my kids are up and out - maybe back to DC or to San Diego where I have family.
Annie
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About me.....
I got married at 18 in 1982. My husband passed away at the age of 45 in 2008. no warning. He was standing there laughing with me and friends and just collapsed and was gone.
I have one daughter, she is 24 and got married last year. They are waiting at least another year before having kids.
I live in the Salt Lake area of Utah. My daughter lives about 15 minutes from me and so do my parents, which has been very helpfull during all of this.
I have two dogs, one is a 9 year old beagle and the other is a 14 week mutt. I rescued both of them and don't know what I would ever do without a dog or two living with me.
I didn't go to college and have had several jobs through the years. I am currently an office manager of a small company and have an awesome boss.
I have also lived in Phoenix Arizona for three year and San Diego California for one year.
I am on a few different online dating sites trying to find someone to have a relationship. It is hard.....I did go on two dates in the last week with one guy, so there is hope. Hard to find single men that are ok taller than me.
Anything else you would like to know, please ask. I am an open book.
I will also be sticking with this group for as long as you will have me. Through rads and beyond!
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Kerri...I'm from Kew Garden Hills, part of Flushing, but the extreme opposite end! As I am sure you know. As for Knishes....I now buy them for the grocery store or BJ's and I BBQ them...they are fantastic. So many people near me have never had one and don't even know what they are...now they look forward to when I BBQ. BJ's sells them too.
As for the bagels,there is a place in town that does okay. I grew up in a mixed Jewish/gentile area so really miss those really good bagels. My traditional Christmas breakfast is bagels lox and cream cheese...not easy to get near me, I send hubby to any Jewish deli I can find, usually in Manhattan, to get me my belly lox. YUM! No one else in my immediate fa,ily will eat it (more for me!). Can't say I knew your husband, I did my first 10 years in the Transit police, then we were merged into the NYPD..after that merge I worked in the 94 Pct (brooklyn) and District 12 (transit bronx)then when I was promoted to LT. I worked in and retired from the 49 in the Bronx
Kate, I worked in .greenpoint ,in the 94 Pct for two years as a Sergeant. I had moved to Westchester and was commuting by Metro North, subway and bus...it was miserable but not as bad as the drive would have been for the hours I worked! Thankfully got transferred to the Bronx and was able to drive.
Lisa, glad the "bitching thing" will get better. I handle all the kids better than their dad, and that's pretty scary! Daughter admits to being a "momma's girl" but she is treated the same as her brothers. I think if I lock her in her room for a whole day she MIGHT start to cave and be nice....the drama will be the end of me!
Gully what a great history. Toxicology? As close As I would get to that is in the rum bottle!
I always dallied with the idea of teaching...I often ask myself what I want to be wheni grow up andi still haven't found that answer. I am a fraternal twin! And wheni retired I took. Newborn twins to babysit, sort of because a mom was desperate and no one she could find and trust would watch twins. I can't believe they will be 5 soon, I had them until they were 3. I found twins weren't that much different than having mine (all about 19 months or so apart)...double the work but doable.
Annie, wow! Sounds like you had your work cut out for you. I envy allof you who haved lived in different places. I'm sure it's not easy, but I would love to move around. Tell your daughter to stay out of trouble and she should have no problem.
Teresa, so sorry to hear about your husband. There are no words.
Being near your family during this stressful time must be so helpful. I've commented on the lack of support from mine...use them as I know you would be there for them!
Dating? I was thinking how it must be very different as we get older. Tall? I am 5'11" so I know what it is like to date shorter (hated it) and taller- i could wear heels! Enjoy those nights out!
LJaeger, wow! Sounds like to have the job of your dreams and singing at St. Patrick's too!
I bow to you.
This cold has turned into a chest infection. Of course yesterday was a holiday so had to try to get a doctor via the service. What a PIA. called at 11:00am and then 5:00,6:00 and at 7:00. Finally "yelled" (my voice was gone) at the service that I had waited all day and needed SOMETHING. He got the doctor right on the line! So I have my antibiotic and sent the family out to go to Hollywood Studios. I am sure I will hear all the complaints from DH. Oh well. Wishit weren't me getting sick,I can handle the kids way better. Hoping my head clears up more for the flight home tomorrow. Just "achy ears" and swollen throat and chesty...sigh. At least it was the end of the trip! -
Patty-wondering if your arm is ok from flying. I fly about once a year to the East coast to go on a cruise, from Utah that isn't a short flight. I'm worried about the Lymphedema from my lymph nodes being removed.
I too am 5'11. On my dating profiles I ask for men at least as tall as me. Then I go on a date with men who claim to be 6'1 that are shorter than me. Why must men lie about their height? It is very frustrating and dating is SO much different than when I was in high school. Having my husband gone at such an early age and with no notice was very hard. The thing that kind of comforts me is that he was happy and having a good time when he passed. We assume he had a heart attack, I didn't have them do an autopsy.....that was their guess. He could have been someone that had to undergo lots of surgeries and been in pain for years. I do my best and take life one day at a time. I did learn from that to not wait to do something you really want to because you don't know what tomorrow will bring or if maybe it won't come at all.
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Top things I cant do without fingernails :
1. Pick up that penny I dropped on the floor.
2. Remove the plastic wrap around the bottle of advil.
3. Pick my nose.....just kidding as everything runs out of my nose.
4. Scratch that elusive itch on my mx side.
5. Open the damned bandaids to cover my fingertips!
Lisa -
Teresa,
I visited a lymphedema "specialist" prior to my flight. I had 4 nodes removed during my surgery..she said my risks were so low she didn't think a sleeve was warranted. I on the other hand disagree, as my risks of cancer weren't exactly high, were they? Anyhow, I did not get a sleeve. I did not have any problems...knock wood. This whole bag of crap that comes with cancer sure sucks! Read the lymphedema boards and get a "good scare"...I wonder how many were told to not worry?
I just re-read your stats...go make an appointment, better safe than sorry. The lymphedema board has links for what to look for in a LE therapist. I only went with where I could get an appointment...so did not get "the best trained" person.
Yes, life one day at a time and enjoy it....I think it's my new motto!
Lisa, loving that list.
I can't open my coffee creamer when it is newly sealed.
Couldn't hold the screw for my sunglasses to try and get them put back together.
And all the other things I try to do I just keep splitting and losing them. Can't wait to get home and put some nail polish on them. Taking biotin for hair, nails and skin...can't say it's working, but then again I have nothing to compare it to, so maybe it could be worse!
Pat -
Here's my info-
I got (re) married July 14,2012. 6 months later, got the breast cancer diagnosis.
I am an ER nurse and my husband a firefighter/ paramedic. We met at work. I have 2 boys and a girl- ages 23,18 & 14. My husband has 2 girls ages 16 & 13.
I grew up in Brooklyn & Queens NY. Moved to CT in 1998 with my husband at the time- we divorced in 2003- he went back to NY, I kept the house and stayed in CT.
I was a teen mom- had twins at the age of 18. Got myself through nursing school with the help of my parents. My mom passed away suddenly when I was finishing up my second semester in college in 1993.
I lost one of my twins 6 weeks before his 10th birthday. He had a rare allergic reaction to an antibiotic that caused his heart to fail- that was in 2000.
I come from a blended family- my parents were both married before they met. So- in total, there are 9 of us siblings and we all stay pretty close despite everyone living all over the place.
I've been on medical leave from work since my mastectomy. Couldn't really expect to stay healthy working in an ER and my doctors thought it would be best to stay home while going through treatment. This is the longest I've been out of work. Hoping my exchange surgery will be in the middle of oct and hoping to go back to work November. The exchange surgery has been pushed back 6 weeks because of that infection i got 2 weeks after last chemo and my incisions is still healing from the new tissue expander that was put in..
Hoping this is the last of the complications and I can move on.
This was a good idea! I'm enjoying learning about everyone's background. We are more than out breast cancer!!
Kerri -
Kerri,
I am sorry about your Mom andyour son.
How great to have such an extended family, and a blended family! Happy Anniversary!
Here is a quote I just read, not always easy to do but true!
"Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind." Always.
Pat -
Very nice quote Pat.. It isn't easy.. But this journey has made me see lots of things from a different perspective--
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Kerri - how sad about your son
I can't even imagine And for your other son - it must've been so hard on him. It makes my heart ache to think about it.I always smile when I see your profile because I grew up in Enfield, London, UK. I remember the first time I drove thru Enfield CT I gave a little shreak of pleasure!
Patty - I lived in Yonkers when I worked in Greenpoint and I used to drive in - I went thru Astoria, Queens as I worked right on the edge of Greenpoint. I got so many driving tickets in Astoria!!! Damn borough. I've never been fond of Queens since.
Annie - our next door neighbor in NJ adopted two children from Russia. It was so exciting when she bought them home. They were younger though - younger than 2. We are so close! My friend's son goes to UNC Greensboro.
Teressa - sorry to hear about your dating woes....And losing your husband so suddenly
I'm sure that must be hard - not even having time to say goodbye...LJaeger - your life sounds so interesting. I love all things music - particularly Musical Theater!! I REALLY want to come to NYC and see Pippin. I've seen a couple of Operas at the Met too...
So I had a SUCKY day. I'm still trying to get approval for my surgery and aparently, the docs office hadn't even filed yet. DH got involved today and ended up calling insurance. If we don't get a date tomorrow, we are going to try to personally call our Plastic Surgeon and let him know how inefficient his staff are. I'm not trying to be difficult, but I have a DJ gig on the 21st and then one every weekend after for the next 4 weeks. I told him about this two weeks ago when I went in there and it was him that gave us the time line of this week! I NEED to work to pay all these bills
Our cell phones were all disconnected today because I was late to pay the bill And the reason I was late was because when I DJ'd that gig on the 24th, the dad forgot his check book and the check just arrived today!!!! I was counting on that money to pay that bill...ughhh....So money is soooo tight I can't even afford to take off for Rosh Hashana this year
It's hard to be financially struggling, but even harder to add cancer to that. And my job is being a pain bouncing me back and forth from the call center to the campus. Oh, and I went to the pharmacy to pick up my prescription (poop powder) and had to wait 18 minutes online! I will be glad to go to bed and put an end to this day -
How nice to learn more about everyone....
I met my hubby when my youngest was 3 weeks old (1992) and we married a year later. I was a single mom of 3 girls & he's an amazing dad!
We divorced each other after just a couple of years and were separate for about a year but have been back together since then (soul mates, I suppose). When people ask, I say we've been together for 21 years, minus a pesky little divorce. We haven't re-married... I'm not sure why... Haha
Raised 3 sometimes wonderful girls 26, 24 & 21.... Have 3 grand babies, as you already know, 2 of them during treatment..... What blessings! They all left the nest and haven't returned.. WooHoo! The secret is to make them hate you while they are teens! LOL just kidding!
I too have had several jobs & I've got to say my favorite was when I was divorced & taught country line dancing and couples dancing and DJing at a country bar... I DJd weddings/parties on the side. Since then I've had a couple of jobs as Office Manager in the telcom industry for a couple of bosses I had worked for in the past. I've been very
lucky. I also dabble on the side doing some consulting work from home.
My dad passed away in my 20s... He was only 43 & my mom is still alive, but haven't spoken to her for more than a decade. Too much baggage to let go of in that dept. I hope I don't regret my decision if/when she passes. My sister is my best friend and we talk almost everyday. I cherish the relationship!
Of all my complaints about my sweetie on here, I believe my Dx has brought my hubby, girls & I closer as a family and I'm thankful for that. And I thought I'd never say this, but even though i want my hair back, it's been nice to just shower & go without spending half hour on my hair! Haha I remember being so upset about the hair loss... Now I'm use to it & in retrospect, it was the least of the SEs we faced during chemo......
I feel like I'm on the mend! Yay... The legs are better, but still bothersome by the end of the day. But my energy level is up. I've been so lazy since this started, I asked the hubby to set up the treadmill again (too big for me to do) gonna start getting some stamina back. The lack of exercise has me breathing heavy to just climb the stairs to go to bed...
Haha
Hugs to everyone & thanks for sharing part of yourselves with the lot of us!
Lorrie
And I see little bits of dark stubble on my head with the white fuzz. I swear, if this white fuzz grows as hair........ Ugh! I'll have to start budgeting for regular hair dresser visits! -
Have loved reading about everyone's life. Police officers, musicians, E.R. nurse, toxicology, office manager, line dancing instructor, degree in zoology, D.J., children, grandchildren, Hawaii, CA, N.J., N.Y., Utah. Such diversity. Such fun.
Kerri so sorry about the loss of your son. I just couldn't even imagine.
Teresa sorry about the loss of your hubby. That had to be devistating
Kate- good luck on getting your aporoval for surgery. It's hard enough going through this. You just want to be able to ciunt on your meducal team to follow through with the basics like Scheduling Surgery. And financial difficulties on too if it. I really do feel for you. Hoping you have a good nights rest and some answers you are looking for soon.
Patty- If you can, take something to dry you up. It might help with your ears. High altitudes and colds don't mix. Glad you got some antibiotics.
Teresa-Good luck with the dating. Keep us posted.
Lorrie-So glad you are on the mends. It's good that you can see some of the blessings that have come from the big C. Having a closer family unit is a huge blessing. The thing I will miss when my hair grows back is my hubby rubbing my head. It's funny, he enjoys rubbing my head and I enjoy him rubbing my head. Heck, I enjoy rubbing my head.
Day 7 of my last chemo. Feeling a lot better today. Not nearly as fatigued and yucky. Drove, shopped and did a little socializing. Felt good. I was hot and didn't care to wear my wig so I did it bald today. It felt great.
Carla -
Kate...there is financial assistance on these boards somewhere. Please look Into that.
I agree about getting that date. It really needs to be something that works for you if at all possible. My doctor office has dragged it's heels, so now I'm am 99% sure I'm heading to New Orleans for surgery....I will be calling from home tomorrow to try and firm that up.
Lorrie...not married huh? And your kids are out of the house! AND you stayed together! There IS hope for me! I especially like the part to make the kids hate you so they move out! Jealous about the grand babies, I LOVE babies.
Funny how we all feel about our hair, or lack thereof!
My daughter was picked to be involved in a skit at universal and they asked for her mom to come up and join her! Ta da! What the heck, made a nice memory.
Carla and Lorrie, glad to hear the strength is coming back.
Carla you are right about flying not being good with a cold! AGES ago my date took me to Vermont via an airplane he was flying. I had a cold and was in tears the whole landing. Being in a pressurized plane is no better. Thankfully I have my Claritan with me, seemed to dry the ears yesterday, will be doing that again today. I don't think the whole plane wants to hear me screaming from ear pain!
Can't wait to go home, feeling like crap the past 3 days has not been fun. On the bright side most of the wash is done as there was a washer dryer in the time share.
Pat -
There are lots of information for help with medicines, copays, travel and lodging. The one that looks like it would be the most beneficial at least to me is CancerCare copay assistance. Unfortunately there isn't any funding available for breast cancer right now and hasn't been since I was diagnosed. You would think there would be money somewhere because of all of the walk and races for the cure they do all the time. I know in the Salt Lake area alone there are 3-4 of these events every year. Maybe the money only goes towards research, idk.
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Ladies I need your calming thoughts and words. Last week ro thought she felt something in right breast but she seemed unconcerned so I decided not to worry. Saw mo today and mentioned it during his exam. He too felt a lump and now I will see breast surgeon on mondày. Fuck this cant really be cancer again!? Nothing has ever shown up or been felt on right breast! Not on mammogram mri or pet scan. I am scared out of mind and trying not to spend day crying. I am sooooo very tired of this shit!
Lisa
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Teresa,
When I was diagnosed, 50% of my freakout was that I recently quit a job with great benefits and now I had none. I spent the first 2 months of this stressful journey also looking for some sort of assistance... I either make too much or there is "no funding at this time". I was frustrated as well, since I've donated in the past, yet there's no $ for anyone needing it?
I'm now just making little payments on what will end up being about a quarter million when it's all said and done. At least i got the drugs at my ytreatments for free, saving me about 50k. I figure that as long as they agreed to my payments, I'm not going to stress about it anymore & it keeps them from sending me to collections as long as I make that
payment.
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Lisa-
We are in the exact same boat. I felt something in my right breast and its gotten bigger since chemo finished. I told my oncologist last friday and she said its just a cyst.
Well- got a call from her office today. Looks like she wants to send me to have an ultrasound of my right breast.. I go next Wednesday... I too am freaking out because no way in hell do I want to do that chemo again!!!!
This sucks that this is what we are having to forever deal with.
Are you going to go for testing??
My thoughts are with you... Hugs!
Kerri -
Kerri so sorry you are in same boat as me. Will see breast surgeon Monday and hopefully mammogram right away as they can do it right there. As matter of fact I don't think I will leave until one is done. The uncertainty is horrible. If it is nothing will call insurance and see if they will pay for prophylactic mx for right side. I keep telling myself no way cancer back but I have read stories on boards that tell me otherwise.
Hang in there and I will do the same.
Lisa -
Lisa-
I felt my lump before chemo # 4. Mentioned it to the breast surgeon on follow up. She felt it- said " highly unlikely" anything but a cyst since I was on " such strong chemo drugs"
Noticed it was bigger 4 weeks after last chemo and had my onc feel it.
Feels like the waiting game with this cancer never ends..
Good luck on Monday.. Will be thinking of u!
Kerri -
Lisa and Kerri-I am sending positive thoughts for you both. I thought about having my other breast removed just for this reason. My Onc talked me out of it. Said I should be good and my chances for cancer in the other breast are the same as everyone else. I believed him and hope I don't have any regrets. I really didn't want to have two fake breasts, I have always felt my breasts were my best feature. Good luck to both of you!!!
I am ok money wise, thanks for your concern. I make enough money at my job to pay my day to day bills but that is it. So I used some of my husbands life insurance money to pay for my co pay and max out of pocket. Not what I wanted to do with it, but at least I had it. That money was being saved for vacations and my retirement......it just would have been nice to have some help with things.
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Oh Lisa and Kerri - I'm SO sorry that you have to go through this right now
I am betting it's a cyst too..Teressa, I keep second guessing not having that other breast removed at the same time
It's so hard to make all those important decisions...Ughh.....I"m getting NO WHERE with my surgery. Aparently my docs office didn't submit to insurance til yesterday and insurance says it could be 30 days before they make a decision
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Lisa and Kerri, my thoughts are with you. Praying for benign for you.
I'm in the airport to go home.
Wandered through a gift store and found this quote on a card...
Life is a journey. Bring comfy shoes.
I think for us we need a spare pair!
Pat -
Kerri & Lisa .... My thoughts are with you..... Hoping that it's just another SE we can curse out later, and nothing more!
Had to leave work early. Felt fine this morning and started hurting all over again, can't focus, want to cry..... had a few really good days! What is happening? Hubby called and says "but, you felt fine this morning" and instantly got me in a bad mood. Just when you think it's almost over.... I'm only almost 2 weeks post last chemo, but was feeling better than the last time.... Maybe it was just the thought of not going back again that gave me the boost... I'm so frustrated.... I'm going to bed early if I can sleep..... I'm going to feel better tomorrow, damn it! -
Kerri and Lisa..hate that you have to go through this at this time. Praying the test results come back quickly and benign.
Saw this saying on a decal....
If you do not think winning is everything then you have never beaten cancer! -
I f$&king hate cancer... It has changed my family and my life forever!
Let's post a blurb..... About how we feel about our cancer..... A sort of release..
Here's mine:
ugly
Disgusting
F$CJ you, you piece of shit tumor! I suffered through chemo to get rid of you after surgery & if I ever see you again.... After radiation and the "pill" for 10 years.... I'll kick .... Uh... Someone's ass until they bleed... (most likely my Onc).... So... Uh.... Take that!
I know that's kind of weak...... I'm not feeling good.... But I know some of you can do better!! -
Dear Cancer...
Did I say "dear"?
Listen up cancer. You picked the right person to visit because I am kicking your ass.
I might have been knocked down a few times from side effects of my chemo but each time I dusted myself off and came out on top.
Don't bother coming back again. I have a new outlook on life and don't have time for you.
For 10 years I will be be taking a pill that reminds me I have kicked your ass and am killing off any little offshoots you left behind. Each pill will be a reminder of MY VICTORY.
You think you got the best of me but you didn't.
I now have a better appreciation of my family and friends and I have new friends here on
BCO.
I have seen the dark side and have fought my way out.
FU cancer.
Pat -
Cancer:
You f***ing suck. You took away my mom from me. And you have tried to kick me down. And it's been really hard to battle you....but I am stronger than you are and I'm going to think back on 2013 as the year that cancer made things suck. But every other year is going to be better.
But I still am SUPER angry that you landed on me!!!! Screw you!
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Lisa and Kerri,
I am so sorry you are having to deal with this stress! Lisa, in Maine, insurance must pay for BMX and recon of prophylatic side. You are both so strong to make the decision to save one breast. I was not brave enough to do that. As you know I had the BMX. I freaked out having to deal with both sides and had the surgeon remove the "healthy side" as well even after a neg mammo, neg ultasound, and neg biopsy of a fibroma in that breast. MRI gave a questionable result however. BMX sucks, and as someone said I now have two fake boobs. Its a very personal decision. Having no sensation sucks alot! Surgeon cautioned that even with BMX it can still come back! One positive was that I did not have to do rads.
I think you are both ok. and am praying that your are. If it helps at all, My MO said that even if I had not had the right breast removed that Tamoxifen and chemo would have most likely taken care of it. Dealing with all this stress sucks so much! I see my surgeon in 2 weeks and am already freaking out that she will ask me to have an MRI or something.
I also found a new lump just below my shoulder blade and freaked out. Still freaking out! My MO said that I am ok , but it still is bothering me. To scan or not, I am not comfortable either way! Still cant sleep worrying about it.
Cancer &*%$ you! And I am still so pissed off that you have entered my life!TWICE! I am only 46! But everyday I survive these treatments is one more day you did not win!LEAVE US ALL ALONE!
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