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  • Wren44
    Wren44 Member Posts: 8,585
    edited September 2013

    I can't see any pictures today. Am I the only one?

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited September 2013

    PG323

    Flowers--pure clinical nutrition---Yay you get to be Sherlock Holmes for people that have something wrong with diet. Way long time ago you talked about this being one of your favorite things to do.  Nothing better when working to be able to do your favorite thing. It's a mental health facility? Our standard nursing student joke was "we could never tell who had the keys". Have fun! You were closing on a house in one of your last missives. Did it fall through?

    Chickie, glad you are unto the next level even though the S.E.'s suck. Chickie talk with doc about doing a C-diff test and C&S of stool. Yes, likely just old chemo poop. But it can change, without periodically testing the poop, it may turn into something that isn't the expected. Prolonged diarrhea can make the lining of the colon unhappy forever, if not managed right. Ulcerative colitis can be a long term consequence. A bit of care, without presuming you think you know what it is, can avoid a chronic problem.

    Chickie study probiotics. All the chemicals kill off the good bacteria that keeps the distal small intestine and colon happy. We'll chat soon. Too much to talk about. You trusted me on other stuff. Trust me on all of this :)

    Foley, you really should be checked by your gyn doc b/c this is a new change. Don't self treat PULESSE. Then when you have a proper dx, then you can add in all the alternative stuff LOL. Probiotics are great in a normal persons diet. Even more important in ours. Probiotics are even being used vaginally in situations not responding to usual treatments.

    Blondie, hope your pain is getting managed better. We never did catch up on that.  How's the breathing? Hope you got a new doc. The last one wasn't doing right by you.

    Chevy, DH thinks there's something wrong with FRESH eggs. Please, get him to describe why? Likely will give us a few laughs :) My sister wouldn't drink fresh milk when we stayed at my uncles dairy farm. She wanted store milk. Sounds similar to me LOL.        I see you like mayo clinic now too. They are great for most anything :)

    Ducky , used to havea pair of crotchless panties LOL. They were the hardest things to try and figuire out how to get on!

    Shells good luck on whatever your choice is :)

    Phylisinthegettingreadyfortheshowmodeworkinghardonherpics

    Julia how's the frosting? Did you try the arm socks on any of your folks?

    Cami,&teka & Sweetpea &Spookie &di & VEGGY &Alyson HUGS

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Member Posts: 19,603
    edited September 2013

    Pocket party @9am thurs. 9/5 biopsy of vulva. BX moved up from next week b/c I was getting wigged out. Doc understood and was sweetly accomodating. 9/6 ultrasound of thyroid (being followed for cell and growth changes) US moved up from november b/c of unexpected changes. Two tests for cancer in one week has me into the Ativan regularly.

  • Marple
    Marple Member Posts: 19,143
    edited September 2013

    Wren, I was wondering the same thing about the pictures and could see no posts about it until I used the search option and typed in pictures.  I can't see any either although I could earlier this morning.

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited September 2013

    Hi Marple!  Thanks for bringing that up.... I just asked the Moderators to check into this.... Cause we all KNOW that these pictures are of some significance....Wink  Maybe....

  • marywh
    marywh Member Posts: 2,280
    edited September 2013

    ok so scans are finally done..You guys behaved yourselves very well, the only problem was they had a new trainee, and while he was trying to show me out, he got lost and I had to show HIM how to get to the door-ha ha. Should find results tomorrow at onc appt. Keep your fingers crossed.

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited September 2013

    Hi everyone, and if they're pics like Chevy prints, they will make no difference-but I can't see them either.

    2 tests this week Sas--no wonder the Ativan is flying. Pocket time for u and no loud noises.

    Now Mary got her test today right? Or was it still broken,?

    Hi Marple, have u been with us ll this time and I don't remember??? (shut up /chevy)

  • Marple
    Marple Member Posts: 19,143
    edited September 2013

    Chevy, I don't think I've posted on this thread before.  If I have I don't remember.  (Lack of memory=common theme.Wink)  I wasn't seeing pictures this afternoon so I searched 'pictures' and found Wren's post. 

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited September 2013

    Marple I just went to print a pic and it didn't print.?????

  • Marple
    Marple Member Posts: 19,143
    edited September 2013

    Camille~I'm so sorry but I am picture challanged.  However, I did start a thread to the Mods saying some of us are not seeing the pictures on members posts.  This could have something to do with your problem but I can't say for sure.  Here is the link to the thread.

    http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/93/topic/810414?page=1#idx_1

  • Marple
    Marple Member Posts: 19,143
    edited September 2013

    The Mods just posted and they are aware of the problem.  It's being worked on.  Smile

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited September 2013

    Thanks Marple--I am picture disabled also, Chevy taught me a link to follow and I do it off if there, but I can't take pics and print them--have no idea how. That's why I have no avatar LOL

  • Marple
    Marple Member Posts: 19,143
    edited September 2013

    The pictures should be back on now Camille. 

  • GmaFoley
    GmaFoley Member Posts: 7,091
    edited September 2013

    Doc can't get me in - still waiting for a call back.

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2013

    Hurry up and wait!Yell

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited September 2013
  • ChickaD
    ChickaD Member Posts: 1,025
    edited September 2013

    Miss Sassafrass......docs are doing a poop test for me...lol....and I have started on probiotics from your earlier suggestion...we did discuss awhile back...xoxo..thank you ALWAYS for your good advice♥

    In your woo-ha pocket for biopsy!   Lol

  • marywh
    marywh Member Posts: 2,280
    edited September 2013

    In your pocket Sas, but dont let Ducky wear that red thing..She got in SOOOO much trouble..

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited September 2013

    U guys confuse me so much---MARY didn't u have a test today?????

  • marywh
    marywh Member Posts: 2,280
    edited September 2013

    I did. Havnt gotten results back. maybe tomorrow.

  • dwill
    dwill Member Posts: 312
    edited September 2013

    Sas, Shellshine, Chevyboy, Maryw and Julianna and any others who have shown me love at this time, I need to thank you and, l can't tell you how much it means to have the comfort and support you have been sending me.  I don't know why God brught a man into my life when I needed him so much and then took him away.  My friend was a man of God, gentle,loving caring, and compassionate.  Well last night, I attended his Wake and today I attended his funeral. I went alone since in the 3 months we knew each other we had not yet introduced our relationship to our families.  Of course we had plans but he and and I never had the chance.  Last night,  I met his children, sisters and brothers.  The family was very warm to me and invited me to sit with the family inside the church. My friend would have been happy to know that I sat right next to his favorite sister. His sisters wanted me to stay in contact with them.  Yes, I did find out more about my friend--like he had pastored many churches and certainly was a true man of God. When he came to me, I saw  a man who made me happy--made me laugh--showed me love and tenderness.  As his eulogy was being read--I realize he was a true godly person.  He did not know he was dying.  He had a heart bypass over 10 years ago and after the bout with the food poison and immune system being depleted, he started to have small light heart attacks.  I don't know if he knew or not but he the morning before he died he texted me how tired and weak he was and how he wished God would restore his energy.  He died the next morning in his daughter's arm of a massive heart attack.  God brought this guy into my life; I don't know why but one day I will find out.  Sas, thanks for sharing your story with me.  I do thank God for giving me the brief time he did with my friend; however I am still unsure of the Why.  I asked god to let up on me--I have more than enough on my plate.  I am trying to hold on.  Went to my GP yesterday and she increased my anxiety and depression meds.  Well will talk to you guys at another time.  Getting ready to go back to work tomorrow.  Dwil

  • ChickaD
    ChickaD Member Posts: 1,025
    edited September 2013

    Miss Dwill...still sending many prayers your way...peace

  • marywh
    marywh Member Posts: 2,280
    edited September 2013

    Oh dwill, Im so sorry for you, but Im glad his family helped you through it, I hope you remain in contact with them. As they say God does work in mysterious ways. Good luck going back to work xoxo

  • camillegal
    camillegal Member Posts: 16,882
    edited September 2013

    Dwill I'm glad u'r here again, this is a sad time for u but maybe u were brought into u'r friends life for his last days on earth, he found happiness, he was thinking things were going good for him--u'r time isn't up yet but since u could make him happy u were his angel that we meet in life to lift us up. God wasn't trying to hurt u, he was showing u u can find happiness and peace again but it wasn't time yet. U'r not done healing and only we can heal ourselves no one else can and u have to know that. Happiness comes from within us not depending on someone else.

    altho they can certainly add to our happyness they can't create it. Please try to find peace in your heart and healing will come for u'r soul and body, Again we all do are about u so we're here for u. )))HUGS)))

  • savgigi
    savgigi Member Posts: 376
    edited September 2013

    Dwill, I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad his family took you into their hearts and comforted you. I am sure you provided comfort for them as well.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2013

    Ms. Dwill, I am so very sorry to learn of your great challenges.  Please take good care of yourself and let us know if there is ANYTHING we can do to help you through this very rough time.  Peace and blessings to you with HUGS!

    Flowers

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2013

    dwill, embraced by a lovely family in time of sorrow.  

    May tomorrow be an easy day at work!

  • Shellshine
    Shellshine Member Posts: 1,039
    edited September 2013

    Dwilette - loving thoughts to you during this difficult time. He has been a blessing in your life, so very difficult to understand why you lost him so soon. We are here for you, please stay in close touch so we can be a source of strength for you.

    Thinking of all of you hoolies. Welcome Marple. Fingers crossed, Mary. In your pocket Sassy.

    The lunch meeting went well: another good position, would be lots of work, salary may be a problem. Also have another hospice  interview on Friday. The blues have lifted a bit.

    Mary, really praying that you have good news. I'm gonna go try to find out where Veggy is - will check back in, if I find her.

  • Shellshine
    Shellshine Member Posts: 1,039
    edited September 2013

    Found Veggy on Thinking Out Loud thread. Veggy and PPK met with Allyson and her husband,  they are delightful people. PPK said Veggy has a lot on her plate and looks beautiful.

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited September 2013

    Morning gals... Dwili, I don't know what to say... except that maybe it was a miracle that you even found each other!  There will never be a good enough reason why he was taken.  It just happened.   You have his family now also, but there are so many "what if's" that it will only hurt you more trying to find out why.  

    We all lose our loved ones...  Even Mom's and Dad's lose their babies and children, and there is NEVER any good reason.  It is just our life, and the sorrows and hurts we have to live, and go on with.   I'm so sorry.....  If you just want to hang around, and talk about all this with us, we can surely lift you up.... I know we can! 

    Try and give yourself a little distance from all of this pain... I mean take a little break.   Sometimes we have so much going on inside of us, that we can almost double over in pain...  It hurts to even think!   Nighttimes are the worst.  But every morning you wake up, you will find things to be thank-ful for.  Like US for example! Wink 

    See?  I can be serious if I HAVE to....  but it's pretty rare.

    Okay Shells.... hang in there kiddo.... your times' a-comin!  Don't be blue....  be HARD and determined.   Be in charge....  Let the opportunities come your way, and take your pick!    Geez, I sound like Steve Jobs!  Or who's that other guy?  The tall one. 

    Good Post miss Cammi... Did you lose your Avatar, or did you ever have one?  Maybe it's something we said?  Ha!  

    Miss whowasitwiththeyuck? I hope you are better....  Was it you Mary??  You were on the last page, and I can't look yet... Yes... You need Monistat, unless it is something we can't "fix"....  You haven't been messing around, have you?   YOU know, like one of those OTHER communicable things? 

    Maybe one of us OTHER gals... not mentioning any names.... but it don't go away on it's own... Gotta get out the big guns for this one.

    Anyone else have any problems?   We should charge for our services......... Cammi.

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