Anyone "mature" thought of going back to college????
I turned 60 in July.My delayed recon is scheduled for October.This morning the idea popped into my head that I want to go back to college and complete my degree.I was only a few credits away from my BA in El Ed when my beautiful older sister died of leukemia.I had a very rough time,dropped out of school.Then I started working and never went back to school.I had to stop working 15 years ago due to fibromyalgia and then of course the breast cancer consumed my life.I have always regretted not finishing college.I would need loans and not even sure where to begin.I know I could probably audit for a reduced fee or free and might do that to see how it goes.But I really want that diploma.Any words of wisdom appreciated!!!!
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why not? going back to school is great! I did complete my BA long ago, but when I turned 50 I began about 5 years of taking any old class I felt like. I adored it! I worked hard. I got great marks. I got to use my brain! I did feel a bit odd, sitting among 20 yr-olds, but there were other older people besides me. I took physics for lay people (no math required) then moved into religious studies & Eastern religions. Just loved the whole thing.
Finish your degree. If you liked school before, you'll love it this time around.
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It's never too late to go back to school! I waited until my children were graduated and in college to go back and start my undergrad degree. Was diagnosed three months after starting my graduate degree but was able to maintain school and a part-time job, and graduated last April with my MSW. In three weeks I'll be 50 - and am considering pursuing my doctorate in a couple of years. Cancer taught me I can do anything, and will never take "the rest of my life" for granted. Good luck!!
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I say go for it!
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Thank you!!! I am going in next Wednesday to talk to an advisor.Fall semester has started,but January will be here before I know it.A friend suggested I look into an online course and thinking I will look into that too.I really did love college and now I can appreciate it more without the distractions!!
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maybe consider going to actual classes instead of online? it's more intriguing, I think, and you may have a teacher with an interesting personality who will encourage you...
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I was going to do an online course until I could attend "real" classes.Was thinking I could do a hobby type of on line course..something fun for during the winter.
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I did just that. Luckily, my dx and treatment plan did not jeopardize my ability to stay in my program. I really like being a full time student!
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pandazankar, there used to be a scholarship available for older women (I think it was only women) who were coming back to school -- I think it was about $5000 -- but this was a number of years ago when I was interested and can't remember the details. It may still exist; the counselor will know.
I got my degree long ago, but I started taking interesting courses when I went into my early 50s. A few were to bring me up to date on ones I had taken during the late 60s; in my old Geology class, plate tectonics was merely still a 'theory.' Others were just for fun: History of Architecture (I love 'ancient' anything), Comparative Religion, Nutrition, as a few examples. I usually did one class per semester.
Good luck.
Carol
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Never too late! I wanted to change from a high school to an elementary school teaching credential at age 45. I combined it with a masters degree program and loved it. More meaningful than my original BA. Do it!!
Caryn -
I completed my BA at the age of 43. They accepted my "stale" credits, but it still took me 2 years full time. It was worth it. I had a great time, learned a lot, and although I didn't fit in I still had a lot of fun with all the twentysomethings. And as a friend said, I finally "got that monkey off my back" of feeling embarrassed that I was a dropout. I went to a very small women's college, and they were so thrilled to have a "non-traditional" student that I even got a small scholarship.
I have just signed up for a certificate program in illustration offered through a botanical garden. It's not a degree but it's rigorous...could take me several years to complete (part-time). I'm 56 now. The crowd in this program is a lot more mature...I'm probably about the average age.
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pandazankar - I retired in 2006 after 25+ years of being a University counselor.
Over the years, my students ranged from 17 years of age to 95 years of age. (For a while, I ran a program for students over 60 - they could be admitted, enroll, and take classes for $5 a semester as long as they were planning to complete a degree. There was a group of three guys - all in their late 80's - who used to come into my office on a regular basis to flirt with me.)
My absolute favorite students were ReEntry students - those who were older than 26, or who had been out of school for more than 5 years. Truthfully, the professors themselves preferred the older students.
Most ReEntry students worried about having to compete in the classroom with "younger minds"... let me assure you that "younger minds" may be able to text faster, but as far as critical thinking, you would be amazed at what lifetime experience can do for you, even if you don't know the subject.
Older students aren't as concerned with image, so they are the ones willing to ask questions. (Profs LOVE that!)
They do their homework, they study for tests, they are the ones in the classroom who REALLY want to learn the subject.
And graduation? Now THERE'S a celebration! Such proud families!
One of my students was 63 when she returned to school. She had wanted to become a doctor, but dropped out of medical school when she got married. She became a nurse to support her husband and children. Then he divorced her. Her children were grown, and she decided enough with nursing - she really wanted to teach history. She finished her AA, then her BA, then her MA, and went on to receive her PhD and is now a History professor.
I've got hundreds of stories like this. You just need to take the first step.
A few tips:
Ask the counselor which of your classes still count for your degree. Requirements change over the years. If there are some lower-division prerequisite classes you need, you can take them for a much lower cost at a community college. This is especially helpful for General Education courses.
As far as Major courses go (especially Upper Division ones), your Department Advisor usually has the power to authorize that your prior work in major courses be allowed as credit under the new catalog requirements. Check this out.
Ask if they have a ReEntry program for older students, and what services are available to you.
Financial Aid is always available in one form or another, but the deadlines are VERY early. Be sure to check with the school you plan to attend what their scholarship deadlines are.
FAFSA (Federal Application for Free Student Aid) applications are usually due March 1 for the coming academic year.
A good website for free scholarships is http://www.fastweb.com/ Most scholarship money goes unawarded.
I would be very happy to be your cheerleader. Feel free to PM me with any questions you might have.
Can you tell I'm pro-education?

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Thank you all for sharing, this is really the little push I needed!!Blessings2011,I would love a cheerleader!!!!! I wasn't able to go in as planned,but spoke with an advisor on the phone.She didn't have any experience working with my situation.I was a little surprised,but this is a small local branch and I do not live in an area where education is a high priority.She did say I would need to provide my college transcript,which I knew.They have a big emphasis on technical careers,a degree in education is not an option.I would be happy to have my degree in liberal arts,which they do offer.I am going to call the main campus and see what they have to say.As soon as I have any info,I will post.Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!
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I have nearly finished a diploma in counselling. I am 56 years. I had terrible side effects after Treatment of Her2 Breast cancer. I have had the time of my life. I highly recommend it. So I say go for it.
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Pandazankar....what did you decide to do? Did you return to school? Just wanted to let you know that when I got diagnosed with breast cancer in 2010, I decided to go back to school to get my Doctorate degree. My reasoning was, it would give me a goal, take my mind off breast cancer, and keep my mind sharp. Also, I am an older woman, turning 60 this year. I have completed all my core classes and in the comprehensive testing now, then the practicum and dissertation. So it can be done, and I wish you the best.
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Still hoping,maybe this fall...my husband has been having some serious health issues,so everything else has been set aside.I do love hearing everyone's stories and I am sure they will be incentive for others.
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