September 2013 Chemo Group

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BabyRuth
BabyRuth Member Posts: 264

I thought I would get the September group going since September is just around the corner. After many delays, I will be starting chemo for a recurrence on September 12th. Any other September chemo buddies out there? Please join in so we can support and encourage each other as we start our chemo cocktail!

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  • lovewins
    lovewins Member Posts: 881
    edited August 2013

    Hello BabyRuth...thanks for starting this thread.  I think I will be starting in 2 weeks.  I have to have an ultra sound on my heart first.

    ready or not....very nervous but I must take care of business.

    I'm in.

  • DeliriumPie
    DeliriumPie Member Posts: 1,370
    edited August 2013

    Hi ladies



    Well I started out in the April 2013 group and now I find myself starting over in September. I didn't achieve a full response to my neo adjuvent treatment. I am 15 days post bmx and scheduled to start chemo again on September 11th. I will be doing a clinical trial this time. I will find out from the RO tomorrow if he approves my doing radiation at the same time as this new cocktail. Babyruth: I am so sorry you have a recurrence. How long has it been? Lovewins: try to stay tough. The stress and anxiety I has about chemo ended up being worse than the treatment itself. What cocktail will you be on?



    Here we go....

  • lovewins
    lovewins Member Posts: 881
    edited August 2013

    I am sorry to hear you both will be going thru chemo again.  What cocktails will you two be on?

    I sure hope you are right Sheila....I know that was true for my lumpectomy.  I will be doing 6 treatments of TCH and herceptin for 1 year. 

  • BabyRuth
    BabyRuth Member Posts: 264
    edited August 2013

    Welcome Ladies!  Sorry you are here but I am glad to have the company.

    DeliriumPie-this is my second recurrence and this one happened a little over a year from my last diagnosis.  I just finished up cyber knife radiation last week and have been dealing with a low heart EF rate.  I was supposed to be doing chemo of herceptin, taxol and perjeta but it has been changed to just taxol to protect my heart.   Sorry you have to go through chemo again.  It is great that you are in a clinical trial.  It looks like you will be starting a day before me.

    Lovewins-that is the exact chemo that  I did 4 years ago.   Herceptin is great for us HER2+ ladies.  I remember thinking that a year seemed like forever but the time somehow goes by pretty fast! Do you know your chemo start date yet?

  • lovewins
    lovewins Member Posts: 881
    edited August 2013

    Hello again BabyRuth...the oncolgist said in about two weeks from last Monday.  I have a heart ultra sound tomorrow amd meet my nurse to go over SE. 

    So glad you have someone to share the journey with although of course I wish it was a journey none of us or anyone would have to take.

  • Moderators
    Moderators Member Posts: 25,912
    edited August 2013

    Thanks for starting the September thread BabyRuth!

    Just stopping in to provide some more helpful links, starting with the main Breastcancer.org site's section on Chemotherapy, including what to expect, types of chemo meds, and side effect management.

    There are some really helpful key threads here in the Chemo forum too!

    Great tips and practical advice on the following discussion board threads:

    Also, Last Month's Chemo thread might be informative!

    Hope you find this helpful!

    --Your Mods

  • ML40
    ML40 Member Posts: 50
    edited August 2013

    I'm so scared but going to will start chemo on Sept 30, get my port in mid Sept..My treatment will have 6 treatments of TCH and 1 year of Herceptin.

  • BabyRuth
    BabyRuth Member Posts: 264
    edited August 2013

    ML40-there are so many unknowns with chemo that it scares all of us. We are here to support you. I did your chemo cocktail 4 years ago and while it is not easy it is doable. The port will make your life so much easier. Sorry that you had to join us.

  • lovewins
    lovewins Member Posts: 881
    edited August 2013

    hey BabyRuth I meant so glad I have someone not you!  Embarassed  My mind is getting worse and worse and I haven't even started chemo...today I didn't take any pain killers to see if I can get a clear head.

    Hi ML40...I am doing the same cocktail...I am nervous too.  We will get through it.  

  • DeliriumPie
    DeliriumPie Member Posts: 1,370
    edited August 2013

    Babyruth I'm so sorry. That just stinks! It is so dismaying that after the hell if treatment we go through, we will never escape the fear of recurrence. Taxol was very tolerable for me. I had a few aches and pains after the first treatment and a lot if fatigue, but it felt like a breeze after AC, in retrospect of course. The only bad part really was the length of the infusion. The taxol alone was 3 hours and I iced the whole time, which was a little rough.



    I will be doing Halaven this time and the infusion and flushes should only be an hour total, so that is good news. I don't know yet if I will have to do neulasta the next day or not. Hoping not!



    Hi ml40. Try not to stress. I know it's hard!

  • BabyRuth
    BabyRuth Member Posts: 264
    edited August 2013

    Delirium pie-you said you iced all during taxol. What exactly did you do? I am assuming you iced your finger nails and toe nails. Just wanted some info because I am interested in icing also.

    Love wins-how did your heart ultrasound go?

  • lovewins
    lovewins Member Posts: 881
    edited August 2013

    Thank you BabyRuth for thinking of me...If all goes well I will start chemo next Wed.  They said they have to get the ok from the insurance.  Not sure how my test came out.

    How are you doing BabyRuth?

    Hi Shelia...well an hour is good...well I mean as apposed to 4.  My first chemo I get a private room...I was surprised they had them.  They said first come first serve after that.  Hope you are doing well.

    Hello ml40...Hope you are doing well also.

    Keeping you ladies in my thoughts and prayers....onward we go....M

  • DeliriumPie
    DeliriumPie Member Posts: 1,370
    edited August 2013

    Lovewins: an hour isn't bad at all. My visit to the cancer center on taxol days were 7 hour affairs! A private room sounds nice. My center has about 30 recliners scattered in groups of 8 or so. It never failed that it was packed by the time I got back upstairs to pick a chair. They had the nicest recliners next to the window in each group. I started thinking during my last two treatments that it was funny I'd never get a "good" seat during my 4 months. On the last day, I sighed and sat down in the darn middle of the room (I HATE sitting in the middle of restaurants!) and waited for the nurse to come hook me up. It was a very busy day following a holiday week so it took a long time. Then a nurse came and unhooked the lady in the window seat on my row and I sure did get up and move to it. Lol. I guess I'll have more shots at the "good" seats now.



    Babyruth: yes iced my feet and fingers. I was and still am terrified if losing my toenails. Don't ask why. I'm not really sure exactly. My bf having a foot fetish could be one reason. Ha. Of course he's a breast man too so maybe the thought of losing boobs and having ugly feet is just too much. Anyhow, my center provided those frozen gel blocks which I used through AC even though they said I didn't need to. I wrapped them around my feet with big rubber bands. I was not good with my fingernails then because I figured since I was probably being paranoid anyway that it would be ok if I texted and emailed and whatnot. By my fourth and last AC, I had a darkened thumb nail. During taxol, I got serious. I filled a small insulated soft cooler, like a lunch bag, with ice from sonic, so I could really get my toes down in there. The ice is also supposed to help prevent neuropathy so I put my feet all the way in. Let me tell you that this is not pleasant! However, I have had no toenail issues to date. My big toes did get sore feeling sometimes and I think I got minor frostbite on the bottom of my feet during the last tx as I was being extra villigent with keeping them in that time. But it went away in a few days. The nice thing about the cooler was I could take my feet out and in when it got to be too much. For my fingers, I tried keeping them in small cups of the ice the first time, but that was just unbearable. I ended up just holding the blocks of ice. I ended up having only minor lifting on two nails and it seems to be growing out ok. I was so glad to read about icing on here because no one told me anything about nail issues. Even when I asked later they just kind of shrugged it off. My NP is a survivor and when I asked her if she lost tie nails, she said no not really, then well I did end up losing two toenails. I'm like helloooo lady, that sounds like an issue to me! But I had similar stories from other ladies I talked to. I now know how insignificant toenails are to a lot of women. I mean I know we're in a fight for our lives here, but if we can fight on with pretty feet, I think it's worth mentioning. I won't even begin on the responses I got when I asked about cold caps. I wasn't in the right frame of mind and had little time left when I found out about them, but just another thing I think people should share with us.



    I'm exhausted today. Not having an easy time with healing from bmx. And I have to work tomorrow. Ugh. Off to bed.



  • BabyRuth
    BabyRuth Member Posts: 264
    edited August 2013

    Thanks for all the useful info on icing. I think I will give it a try. I hope you are able to get some rest. It takes a while to heal and feel better after a bmx. I am looking forward to the 3 day weekend and some much needed time off.

  • Foreverchanged72612
    Foreverchanged72612 Member Posts: 223
    edited August 2013

    Hello ladies!

    Just wanted to 'stop by' and say hello. I started chemo last September. My September 2012 Chemo Group sisters were INVALUABLE to me throughout everything - even today! You are all going to go through so much in the coming months and these discussion boards are so, so helpful. Good luck to you all!!

    Forever

  • soccermomof4
    soccermomof4 Member Posts: 117
    edited August 2013

    Hi Ladies,

           Looks like I will be joining you on this wonderful journey - I am due to start sept. 10th. Getting 8 treatments, every 2 weeks.  I just got my port in on wed. , it is still ouchy. I would just like this whole things to be over!!  Hugs!!

  • hope49
    hope49 Member Posts: 370
    edited August 2013

    Hello September 'sisters'...it makes me sad that there is a new group of us every month, but I am happy you found each other on this forum.  I am from the January group and like Foreverchanged, feel so blessed by the wonderful ladies I have come to know and love in my group - we have now migrated to a Facebook club and I know we will be forever connected.  I wanted to wish you all well - I am almost 6 months pfc and feel wonderful.  Chemo really seems like a distant memory now and sooner than you think, you'll be on the 'other side', too.

    I got a lot of great tips from the boards and had really no major side effects from chemo or radiation.  Feel free to PM me if you have any questions.  I also used the cold caps to save my hair and they worked great...I know they're not for everyone but I wish there were more awareness that it's an option.

    I pray every day for all of us fighting this fight - hang in there, you've got this!  (((HUGS))) to you all!

  • millsy1
    millsy1 Member Posts: 20
    edited August 2013

    Hi everyone. I'm glad I've found this group because I've been reading other groups and knew I needed to get into one. I start chemo - TC, in about 3 weeks. I'm terrified about the side effects. Some good practical remedies would be good. I'm excited to stay in touch with you all. Let's go for it

  • lovewins
    lovewins Member Posts: 881
    edited August 2013

    Hello Sheila....Yes an hour will be awesome if you are used to 7.  I hope you get a good seat next time!  My first treatment will be 5-6 hours they said.  I am unsure of the icing thing...not sure I could do it full time I am there?

    Hi BabyRuth...Thanks again for starting this thread, hope you are feeling well.

    Foreverchanged...your name is so poignant, I know this journey will leave the deepest scar on me to date.  Thank you so much for stopping by for encouragement.  I can't even imagine what my mental health would be like without this place.

    Welcome soccermom...I hope your port is healing well...and you are in less pain now.  It took a week for my pain to go away.

    Thanks for stopping by hope49...glad you are doing well and had no major SE's.  Hugs back at you.

    Hi millsy1...I too am very scared to start my first treatment...I start next Wed.  Today has been very emotional for me.  Together we will get thru this...we know we can because other have gone before us and have marked the way.  This is where I have found a lot of courage...wish you didn't have to be here...but glad you are.

    I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.... 



  • KBeee
    KBeee Member Posts: 5,109
    edited August 2013

    Hi Ladies,

    Can I jump in?  I will begin TC chemo on September 20.  I will have 6 rounds, 3 weeks apart.  I am looking forward to January already!  It'll be nice to have just one last treatment in January and then have 2014 really be a new year!  I have already learned a lot (expecially about icing, etc) and hope to continue to learn more from all of you as I prepare for the next phase of this journey.

    I have good veins and my MO said I could go without a port which thrills me.  We are not going to do Neulasta until my counts drop.  That's all I know for now.  Looking forward to getting to know you all, but sad that we all find ourselves here.

  • lovewins
    lovewins Member Posts: 881
    edited August 2013

    Hello Kbee and welcome....i will start my chemo next wed...i wonder if that means i will be done in Dec?  I hope so...good for you not having to have a port.  Some people have no problems, but I really hated getting mine.  Down the road they say I will be glad, but I just quit smoking 2 weeks ago so I imagine my veins aren't as good as yours.  It will be wonderful to get this part out of the way. 

  • diane49
    diane49 Member Posts: 37
    edited August 2013

    Guess I am in too ladies...first chemo september 9...doing AC-PACLitaxel (dose dense) treatment

    Get chemo over in 16 weeks and then 21 radiation

    I have a few more tests to do, mri of spine and colonography...have chemo class to attend next week and pic line to be put in.

    Cant wait to see how chemo and fibromyalgia get along

  • posnegher2
    posnegher2 Member Posts: 19
    edited August 2013

    Hello everyone,

    Another fellow member of the September 2013 Chemo party. I begin chemo 9/5 - hoping to finish just before Christmas - nice present if all goes well. I am happy to meet all of you - wish we did not have to meet under our current circumstances but I look forward to our discussions and know we will all help each other be strong and win our battles together! 

  • DeliriumPie
    DeliriumPie Member Posts: 1,370
    edited September 2013

    Hi and welcome kbee, Diane, and posneg. It's sad how quickly our little group is expanding. I wondered over my last months of treatment if I am just more aware or if there are if our numbers are growing exponentially. There were so many more people at my tx center each week. So much so that there were literally no parking spaces and they would run out of chemo chairs. Makes me sad. And is it just me or does anyone else see 50 commercials a day for different cancer centers? CoCA even has an infomercial now. Boo.

  • AnnFM
    AnnFM Member Posts: 21
    edited September 2013

    Hello,

    I will also begin chemo in September. AC every 2 wks x 4, then Taxol every wk x 12. I will start Herceptin when I begin the Taxol and will start Neulasta with AC. Had my port put in the day of my mastectomy, I never felt the discomfort, the mastectomy pain held my attention. I haven't gone wig shopping yet, has anyone else? I just have a hard time imagining myself wearing a wig. I have long naturally curly hair. Anyone that knows me will know I'm wearing a wig.

    It's hard to believe that chemo is going to start so fast after surgery. Another surreal event to look forward to.

    I wish everyone the best and hope to give my support to you all.

  • millsy1
    millsy1 Member Posts: 20
    edited September 2013

    Hi Ann FM, Im not sure what Nulasta is? My oncologist hasn't mentioned it to me and not about a port eiter so these things that others are talking about is new to me. Just sounds like i dont really want to have it. Ive decided not to wear a wig because like you, everyone would notice anyway. i got onto headcovers.com and ordered some nice head wear things. Im scared about starting chemo but i looked at the post from the moderators and found the pre-chemo shopping list quite useful. Thats also where i found the link for headcovers. I am in Australia so maybe things are different here for me.

  • millsy1
    millsy1 Member Posts: 20
    edited September 2013

    Hi KBee, im suppose to strt on the 19th Sept so i will be going along with you. i too have been looking at doing icing but i need to find out if the hospital has it or if thats up to me. Funny how they dont give you little tips like that when they talk to you about SE. All i got was doom and gloom. Thank goodness for these chat groups.

  • JellyK
    JellyK Member Posts: 150
    edited September 2013

    Hi everyone, I'm on the cusp, as I started AC x4 on 8/27/13.  This board is great for tips on things like icing, or Claritin for Neulesta - every time I've mentioned things like this to my oncologist's office it's the first they've heard of it.  I think the nurses would pull each other over to my chair to watch if I tried to ice anything, lol.  

    My first treatment was easy while I was there, but I was nauseous (ok grammar police, I know it's supposed to be "nauseated" but I didn't grow up with that word and it sounds wrong, lol) by the time I got into the car to go home.  I had a "last meal" of diner food (grilled cheese, tater tots, etc), and I'm told fat is a bad idea on the day of, so hopefully that was part of my issue.  I've had moments of feeling okay, and moments of understanding why people quit and take their chances with the cancer.  Basically I feel like someone dropped me into the 1st trimester of a pregnancy with particularly bad morning sickness and fatigue, lol, and my biggest challenge has been on the mental end - I have to stop thinking about how long I might feel this way and just take it hour by hour.  I'm a sprinter by nature, and I'm having to learn how to be an endurance runner - it's a steep learning curve.

    Hugs to all - even with everything this last week has brought, the anticipation was by far the worst.  Find something to go do the weekend/few days before your first tx so you can take your mind off of it - I had the opportunity to go to Vegas for my sister's bachelorette and that saved me :-)  I also planned a fun lunch before my tx so I was looking forward to that instead of fixating on the tx.

  • AnnFM
    AnnFM Member Posts: 21
    edited September 2013

    Hi Millsy1,



    Neulasta is a drug used to decrease the risk of infections during chemotherapy. I did buy a few scarves, but have no clue how to tie them. I guess I will have to watch some you tube videos. I'll have to checkout that shopping list to see if it will give me more useful information. Thanks for that information.

  • lovewins
    lovewins Member Posts: 881
    edited September 2013

    Hello and welcome to all...I am thinking a hat will be most comfortable when I am out and maybe a soft cap while I am home.  Guess i should do some investigating.  I guess a wig could be ok but seems like it would be itchy...tomorrow I go pick up supplies.

    Have a nice Holiday...M

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