August 2013 Chemo Sisters
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Carolpr56,
As far as the gas goes . . . I'll pass. LOL! I've been there + done that. LOL again!
Lots of prep to do for tomorrow. I'm hoping to be OK with the somewhat heavy lifting; I'll have to make each container a lighter. I have a hand truck but have to carry items. I love vendoring + meeting new people.
I'd like the prayer warriors to ask God to bless my business by sending me customers.
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Hey all, hope u don't mind a July firecracker joining in! I started my chemo 7/19. Carolpr56 - your "chemo fart" story made me laugh! If anyone hasn't taken a look at it yet, and you want some really good laughs, be sure to check out the topic "you know you're a chemo patient when" in the stage III breast cancer forum - it's hilarious! So many funny things only we BC warriors/survivors can relate to. I got my new boob today! Now I can feel 1/2 normal - instead of bald & uniboob - now I'm just bald! LOL. Sending healing thoughts to all!
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Lana, welcome! Always room at the table! Congrats on the new boob, too! Will you do nipple recon or Areola tattooing?
FMGDTR, lifted up a prayer right away that not only would He bless you financially, but that you BE a blessing to those you encounter (as you already are to us here). -
Lisa, it looks like the ends of the wig are pink?! Fantastic!
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You are not gonna believe this . . .
Someone at church has a restaurant so I just went there to support her and get a dinner. Her dad was taking the orders. He mentioned that because of chemo a few of his nails cracked down the middle into the raw skin; that's why his fingers were bandaged.
Me, being the but-insky that I am + since he wasn't talking to me, I asked if he cut his fingers while cooking. He said no that he had just finished 6 months of chemo and told me about his nails + the only other side effect he experienced was metal mouth.
Now I don't know what his cocktail was, this man had a full head of hair, eyebrows, eyelashes not to mention a beard + mustache?!?!?!? He said that everyone was surprised, including his doctors, that his hair did NOT fall out!!!
He might be 1 in 5,000,000 but it's possible.
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Lisa, you look cute, pink tips and all. Have all of the fun you can out of it.
I froze most of the 5 gallon bucket of apples and made a pie. It's in the freezer for later since my wonderful neighbor brought a turtle cake over last night. I swore off sugar when I found out I had BC, but I ate two huge pieces of that cake. It was out of this world. She's going to give me the recipe. So much for swearing.
If you want to count your blessings, the neighbor who brought the cake was bitten by a bug that got to this country on a plane (only thing the doctors could figure). It gave her a deteriorating disease condition. She is in her 50's. She had bone and tissue removed from her hip to make her jaw. She can only drink liquids and will soon be on a feeing tube. She walks around like nothing is wrong with her. She is jovial and spiritual and thanks God for each day. Somehow, when I pray for her, breast cancer doesn't seem so bad.
Wing, I'm sorry your first chemo was so awful. I'm having mine Monday, so I hope it goes well. Was it you who said something about the doctor telling you your system was "clean" so that might have caused it? What did he mean? Did he call it clean because you had never had chemo before? Just wondering, because if that's the case, I guess I'm "clean" as well. That's odd, since I just climbed the hill four times and walked about 8 blocks back home. Sweat is dripping off my hair. I need a shower, but don't want to get in with my husband!
I was told that if I drink 1 gallon of water, that I had to be sure to have some salt or I would start staggering around. I do have salt with my sourdough pretzels. Sometimes I think it's too much salt.
God bless everyone. I have to go doctor my mosquito bites.
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deteriorating bone condition
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ForMyGrand, I'm praying tonight for you and your success with your business. Good luck. God luck.
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Triple Negative Girls: I just read Jennifer Griffin's 11 things to prepare for chemo. I have been following her diet since June, which is a low-fat diet. She also said that following a low-glycemic diet is good because some studies on TNBC are leaning toward insulin as a factor in the disease. I searched the low glycemic grocery list and it looks very much like the low-fat diet I've been on. She had a tumor as big as the palm of a woman's hand. She was stage III and is now in her third year cancer free. Look up her blog for more information. After eating like she recommend for two months, my baseline blood counts were said to be excellent. I hope it helps me get through chemo as well as she did. She said hydration is the key, as we all know. There is hope.
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Sharonannebaker, do you have a link to her blog? I am triple negative and my hubby does all the cooking. Looking for any info about diet and cooking. This week after we got info from the MO pre-chemo he decided to go with something like the Atkins diet ( I want BREAD!!!!). Any info we can get is good. I really love carbs, but he loves me and is making lifestyle changes and sacrifices for me. I am so blessed and thankful!
Martha
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SAB: Thanks for the diet info. I am trying mostly to cut way back on sugar and keep to a low glycemic index diet. A good place to get diet info is at the Livestrong website and its cancer info website (formerly connected to Lance Armstrong). And thanks for the compliment!
Carol, yes the wig has pink tips and aqua blue too! It's my fun wig and I may get another...
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Lisa: I love the new wig. The ends are cool. How did it works ordering online (I presume) do you need a size for your head or are they suppose to be one size fits all. I don't think that would work.
Love, Rayna
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Sharon: I've heard people say "Things can always be worse" and I guess the story of your neighbor would fit the bill. Thats just horrible whats happening to her.
What kind of foods have the glycmeic thing? is that sugar? I started out by cutting out all sugar from my diet but I think when chemo started and I just wanted something to taste good I got back into the sugar, I have to discipline myself and get off of the sugar again. But I love the icey, sweet frothy drinks, they are soothing on my sore mouth and don't taste like crap.
Lana - Welcome and congratulations on the new boob. Boy we says the funniest things on here don't we.
Rhody - Is your avatar a picture of a dog or your dog because he is beautiful. I had a yellow Lab years ago and what a smart girl she was. I have a Rotti now and she is just a big baby, not the scary beasts people make them out to be.
HVV - Glad you found out about the black tongue.
Carol - I was just saying that we say the weirdest thinks on here dont we. Like your sloughing story or congratulating Lana on her new boob. lol
Hope everyone is staying strong or as strong as can be expected, remember Keep The Faith and Believe.
Love, Rayna
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Hi ladies, yes I have to drive 3 hours to MO for every treatment, spend the night to get my shot 24 hours later then we drive home🚙 All part of the journey owing to where we live, when I do my radiation it is in the same city so I will have it 5 days a week for 6 weeks so we will bring the RV and I will basically be away from home for 6 weeks, cuz I ain't driving 6 hours a day for 6 weeks😛Saw MO today said I looked good even with LWC put me on antibiotics and I have moved from my A/C and cytoxin to every 2 weeks instead of 3 so we will be back up her next Thursday for round # 2 of Dancing With The Devil. I hope everyone has a peacefull weekend.
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Lisa-love the wig!
All these posts about desserts are getting my sweet tooth up.
I finally got my wig today. My BF went with me to ensure it was passable and my family said it looks good so I'll feel better going out to events and work when the time comes.
It is now nearing the end of day two after chemo and the SEs are kicking in more now that the steroids are passing out of my system. The tongue/mouth thing-I am trying to keep on top of. It just feels so weird. My head gets spacy, but I went for a walk and that helped some. Trying to stay hydrated as well.
For those of you about to start, relax. It really does seem to be different for everyone so be proactive, buttry not to dwell on negative thoughts and fear of the unknown.
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GashGold: I like eating mashed potatoes. I'll make a pot and whip them really good then just heat up as I need. I usually am bad and put some butter and sour cream on them, they just feel good everywhere, mouth, stomach and fills me up.
Love, Rayna
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EYES - Is anyone else that has started their treatments having problem with their sight? I wear glasses for seeing far away but my glasses arent even close to what they should be since I've started chemo, I'm wondering if its age (46) or something else. My eyes seem to have gotten worse very quickly. Anyone else?
Love, Rayna
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Thinking Ahead: I noticed that many of you are inteh metro - NYC area. I am also and have loved going to the various Korean spas in the area for the wonderful scrubs. I went jsut before havign my port placed thinking, I'll never be able to go again given a bmx and no recon. On a whim I asked the young woman attendant and she said, Oh, no Miss. We have many women who've had surgery (bmx/umx) come in. They often tend ot cover up witha towel for their own comfort but that is theri perference. So my question to everyone is, would oyu go to a spa in the future given that ou've had breast surgery? also for those less familiar, the ones I mention often require a bit less modesty as the idea is a public bath house in the Asia tradition. See this link... and the scrubs are amazing.http://www.nytimes.com/2006/12/28/fashion/28SKIN.html?pagewanted=all
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What is a turtle cake?
Rayna- I let myself have some mashed kumara today ( local sweet potato) I thought potatoey things might block the pipes more but I was getting desperate for something other than fruit, green veges, soup and prunes.
It's only been a few days for me but I'm a lot more spaced out than I thought I'd be so early. The painful port is stopping me moving around much but we went for a walk on the beach with the dogs - 1/2 hr and I came home and slept for 3 hrs!!!
Too early to say about eyes-but a bit blurry ...maybe just part of general spacey ness. -
I'm on a different drug regime than most of you though called FEC-T. It seems to be the UK/European/Australasian norm. Ellence is epirubicin which I'm guessing is similar to adriamycin. So at the moment I'm on the FEC part of the treatment. I have that 3x then 3x of taxotere. All 3 weeks apart. Anyone else on this?
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Hi Rayna, to answer your question the avatar is my dog Rhody. She is 13 and the best dog ever. Unfortunately I think her days are numbered. She is fading fast, but and this point is almost seems day by day at times. It is heartbreaking to me with my current situation, but she has been by my side through the surgeries and I expect she will be too as soon as I get started with chemo. She always knows when something is wrong. Hubby says there is no doubt that she is my dog. Lately she has had many days when she won't eat her diinner; I think she may be diabetic. But she has had a good (SPOILED!) life and I am enjoying every day that I have with her!
Martha
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Martha, Rhody is a beautiful gal! I have an 8 yr old chocolate lab who has stuck to me like glue since I've gotten ill. You're both lucky.
Hey, Gashgold! That's an interesting combo we'll see how people chime in! The fatigue is normal, you know of course. Hopefully it will lighten up. Plus sweet potatoes are pretty full of fiber, go for it!
Turtle cake, is - I believe - fashioned after a candy we call a turtle. No amphibians involved! But it looks kina like a turtle, cuz it's a combo of caramel and nuts, covered in a stiff milk chocolate - and it's typically rounded with little protrusions on the bottom edge, like turtle feet. So a turtle cake most likely has that combination of things as a topping. Also often done on the top of cheesecakes, which are called - you got iit - turtle cheesecakes.
Also, my port is just now 2 weeks after insertion not hurting when I move my arm or chest. Still sensitive to the touch. I haven't eve tried to go for a walk yet, not with the WBCs so low, but hopefully can be more active soon. I have gotten my taste buds back and am appreciating why they say 50-96% of women gain weight on chemo.
HVV, never heard of the Korean scrubs! We don't have them here in austin - although we have a nude beach on private property called Hippie Hollow. No one with sense goes there, it's pretty icky. I think if I had the opportunity I would probably go no matter the state of my chest. Women should know. But then I've never been particularly modest as an adult, in locker rooms and saunas and what not. That may change once I go completely flat, and I admit I've not been in the situation since my umx. Might surprise myself.
I DO intend, btw, to eventually have the 3d Areola tattooing done, as a totally blank chest will weird me out in the mirror, I think! I left my right one blank, and it's always like my chest is winking at me!
Rayna, I have heard there can be vision changes. I sure hope it doesn't happen to me, as I just got new glasses that are supposed to correct me to 20-15, before I was diagnosed! -
rayna, someone else mentioned eyes, but if it is related to age, I'm in trouble...I'll be blind if you young whippersnappers have blurred vision!
Tanya, thanks. I start Monday. I know everyone reacts differently, so I'm trying to stay positive and not imagine that I'm going to get every side effect possible. We'll see, won't we?
HVV, I've been praying extra for you for some reason. Go to Jennifer Griffin's blog and get the diet she uses. She's triple negative and stage III (can't remember if you are negative) but the diet is good for ANY kind of cancer. I use it because I have triple negative, and my baseline counts were near the top of the charts. Rhody asked for her link, so I'll get it and post it.
Rhody, I'll get the website link and post it.
God bless everyone today. Feel good/Look good.
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For triple negative breast cancer women (also good for other kinds of cancer)
Her blog: www.jengriffinblog.blogspot.com
Her biography: www.foxnews.com/on-air/personalities/jennifer-griffin/bio
Jennifer had a tumor as big as the palm of a woman's hand. She is three years out now because of her diet, exercise, and positive attitude.
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Good morning Sharonanne! Thanks for the links for us TN gals!
Oh, and HVV, up above where I said I "would go if I had the opportunity" I meant to the scrubs spas, NOT the nudie beach! -
Lana, you look like a fun-loving kind of woman. You're in the right place. I'm relatively new, but you're newer, so I can welcome you. We're both young and old, so join the fun. Well, as fun as chem can be, that is.
My brother-in-law went to a nude beach in Aruba and his wife ran down to the beach and stole his clothes and his towel! They're divorced now!!!!
Gashgold, you were asking about carbs. The TNBC food list includs whole grain breads, whole wheat crackers, etc. I eat pita pockets, whole wheat bread, whole grain oat-type breads, and those little flatbread rounds. I make organic egg sandwiches, tuna sandwiches with organic egg (instead of mayo, I use olive oil w/ rice vinegar and sweetener-it's great), toast w/ cinnamon and sweetener (Splenda), etc. I also eat shredded wheat and grape nuts cereals. There is a type of cracker/cereal? in the cracker aisle that is called Spooners. It is not the spooners that you use with dips. It looks like shredded wheat, actually, but it was the only such snack that I could find that didn't have the bad oils or sugar in it. Also, I found sourdough pretzels by Snyders that have no oil. I'll mail you some if you can't get them where you live.
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Oh, and here I found a link for those of us with low WBCs, and what foods to eat and not eat. I really needed to read this, as I will have to buy pasteurized honey for my morning tea!
https://www.seattlecca.org/client/documents/practical-emotional-support\HSC-Diet-Immunosuppressed-Patients-032508.pdf
Sharonanne, that's funny about your BIL ( not the divorce part ; ) someone brought me a berry crumble last night - I thought about your apple pie while I enjoyed some with ice cream. I know you had the turtle cake instead - chocolate at night keeps me awake, and right now the steroids are doing a good enough job of that! Have a blessed day. -
Thanks Carol for the link! After some diarrhea last night, I was wondering if it was something I ate at my birthday dinner. I had some hangar steak cooked medium (better than medium rare, which I usually order) and now I know it should have been well done!
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Yeah, I may have to give up red meat if I have to have it well done, Cougar! You 're one of us birthday gals, did I know that? Someone's the 27th and two on the 30th and then me.
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Gashgold: I didn't realize that you were just a few days in to this hell. It's good to take those naps, I've had a few that I've would up around 6:30 at night and think its morning, I don't normally sleep that sound. Make sure you do nap when you are feeling tired, your body is screaming at you to lay down so do what it says. I hope the potatoes didn't plug you up. I think the eye thing might be the meds too as a few of them say that they cause dizziness. Let us know how your SE's are, I know we cant make them go away but for some reason it helps when you know that others are going through the same thing. I guess its the saying "Misery loves company" lol
Love, Rayna
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