Feeling like I am under a microscope (UGH) friends

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Nel138281
Nel138281 Member Posts: 2,124
edited June 2014 in Mental Health: Because Cancer Doesn't Just Affect Your Breasts

I had several appts over the last several weeks as my onc and others try and figure out what is happening. In all likelihood I have either a new cancer or stage 4 BC.  The adrenal glands are hard to dx.  I have a great support netowrk , but right now they are all irritating me.  Everyone wants to get together NOW.  No matter what the dx is, I am not dying today or next week.  And when I am with friends,  it feels like they are just watching me to I don't know what, explode, die, breakdown etc. I hate this.

Right now I feel well, we don't know what it is yet and please just treat melike you have every other day

Anyone else feel the same way.

Be well

Nel

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  • ReneeinOH
    ReneeinOH Member Posts: 511
    edited July 2013

    I'm sorry you're dealing with a second round of all this.  I had similiar reactions and feelings when I was with people.  Seemed over time people chilled out.  They are freaking out because they don't understand/have a good understanding of how BC works, how it's treated, etc.  They hear the Big C word and it scares them. 

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