teenage breast cancer possibilities

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stan
stan Member Posts: 5
edited June 2014 in Male Breast Cancer

Hi, is it possible, for 20 years old guy, who is a non-smoker, been drank only twice in his entire life, no cancer history from the family, to develop breast cancer? My son is only 19, will be 20 in october, he felt a lump in his left breast which appears to be painful if he press it, or maybe its because he is pressing but untouched its not painful, can you please help me out, because I cannot afford to visit a doctor, am from Africa and very poor. I just want an advise if I should freak out or its not cancer. please contact me by private message.

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  • stan
    stan Member Posts: 5
    edited July 2013

    I'd be glad if someone who is a professional reply to my question. Or anyone who knows his story

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited July 2013

    stan, we are not professionals here.... we are all just patients who are here to support each other and offer advice on dealing with cancer, dealing with doctors and getting through treatment.

    There's not much advice that I can offer about your son's situation but I can tell you that most breast lumps in teenage boys (and yes, teenage boys can develop breast lumps) are hormonally driven and are not cancer.  Breast cancer in men is very rare, and it's even more rare in younger men or teenagers.  So it's extremely unlikely that your son has breast cancer. 

    That said, every breast lump needs to be checked out.  Is there any free health clinic or hospital that your son can visit?

  • stan
    stan Member Posts: 5
    edited July 2013

    @beesie am really thankful for your reply, am partially relieved from the fact that breast cancer is rare in males especially teens like my son, for now am going to rest on that as I don't have money for checkups and tests.

  • stan
    stan Member Posts: 5
    edited July 2013

    So people is it curable?

  • silas
    silas Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2013

    Male breast cancer maybe rare but I have it. I. had a mastectomy in Dec. 2012. I had 10 chemo treatments before I developed a problem with my lungs and the treatments were suspended. I am now contemplating radiation but I don't know if I will be going through with radiation lots of things to consider.

  • Letlet
    Letlet Member Posts: 1,053
    edited July 2013

    There was a poster here I believe his name was EricV, he said he had his lump since he was a teenager I believe and his doctor dismissed it as a cyst. I believe he was in his 30s and he said he was playing with his daughter and he got kicked in the armpit and he was in so much pain he had to go to the ER. It ended up as metastatic BC. He received chemo but didn't make it.

    I'm sure it is rare that this is what your son has but Eric was very adamant that guys who felt lumps should go to their doctor to have it checked out immediately. No one on these boards can tell you 100% it is cancer or it is not cancer because we simply are not the doctors who can examine your son and order testing to rule it out.

    God bless, I hope you get your answers.

  • stan
    stan Member Posts: 5
    edited July 2013

    Can someone please try to describe the possible texture, shape of the lump and how I'd feel it under my fingers. I searched online and am getting very confusing answer, @silas may you please describe it for me

  • MelissaDallas
    MelissaDallas Member Posts: 7,268
    edited July 2013

    Stan, even with years of training doctors can't tell tell for sure what a lump is by palpating it. It requires imaging and possible biopsy.

  • 1NippledBandit
    1NippledBandit Member Posts: 78
    edited July 2013

    I do not like it when people say that it is not likely cancer because you are a male and young.  That is what 2 different doctors told me and they were wrong.  I could have been treated years sooner.  

    Reguardless of age or gender... lumps need to be checked out.  Ultrasound and Man-o-gram first and biopsy if needed.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited July 2013

    1NippleBandit, it is true that "it's not likely cancer", when someone is male and young.  That's just a fact.  In the "Not Diagnosed" Forum, if someone presents with something that has a 10% chance of being cancer and a 90% chance that it's not, many people will provide the reassurance that "it's not likely cancer".  That's an accurate statement.  The likelihood of cancer in a case like this one - a young male with a breast mass - is probably significantly lower than that.  

    But that doesn't mean it's impossible.  Even if there is only a 1 in 1000 chance that something might happen (that is in fact the approx. risk that a male might develop breast cancer during his lifetime), someone is going to be that one person.  And that's why most of us who responded included comments to the effect that "every breast lump needs to be checked out" and "It requires imaging and possible biopsy". 

    We all agree that stan needs to figure out a way to get his son to see a doctor so that this lump can be investigated further.  Even if the odds of cancer are very low, this is simply not something that anyone should take a chance on.

  • BayouBabe
    BayouBabe Member Posts: 2,221
    edited July 2013

    Just an added fact - being BRCA1+ increases the odds of breast cancer in males. My son will have genetic testing when he is older.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited July 2013

    Good point!  Being in a family where one of the parents is BRCA+ does change the dynamics about male breast cancer completely.

  • 1NippledBandit
    1NippledBandit Member Posts: 78
    edited July 2013

    Beesie, 

    Everything you said is true and I agree with it.  It just makes me twinge every time it put out there.

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