Infiltrating Ductal Carcinoma

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Patti777
Patti777 Member Posts: 45
edited June 2014 in IDC (Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)
Infiltrating Ductal Carcinoma
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  • Patti777
    Patti777 Member Posts: 45
    edited July 2013

    Hi my name is Patti. I just got diagnosed with Infiltrating Ductal Carcinoma stage 2.

    Scared and want to know what is next and what is my chances

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  • BayouBabe
    BayouBabe Member Posts: 2,221
    edited July 2013

    Patti777 - so sorry you have to be here, but it is a great place for support and information. If you can give us a little more info about what you have already been through thus far, we may be able to help. Biopsy, surgery, path report? Sending hugs, strength, and support you way!

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  • Patti777
    Patti777 Member Posts: 45
    edited July 2013

    Thank you. My journey is just starting. A biopsy was done and today I just found out the results. Now I have an appt with oncologist on Friday and a surgeon on Monday. I only know the diagnosis. Scare about what I am facing and every little pain or ache makes me scared this has spread. Lost my aunt and father to cancer. Just hate the unknown.

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  • Cutiekool
    Cutiekool Member Posts: 50
    edited July 2013

    Patti. Did you have Surgery? I was just diagnosed they did the surgery found cancer in the one of the lymph nodes now going back for second opinion. I have a lot of faith and know that God is watching over me and I will get through this and so will you

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  • Patti777
    Patti777 Member Posts: 45
    edited July 2013

    Thank you. I am still in the unknown other then knowing the type of cancer. In  the process of all the other things

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  • BayouBabe
    BayouBabe Member Posts: 2,221
    edited July 2013

    The waiting in the beginning is the hardest part. Luckily, you have your next two appointments soon; many of us had to wait much longer. Some info to get you started - start getting copies of all your medical reports from your biopsies, pathology, etc. Get a notebook or binder to file them in; no doubt you will need to reference them later on your journey. Take someone with you to all the initial appointments if at all possible. Give this person paper to take notes. You will hear much, but retain/process little in the days ahead and this will help. Keep a detailed calendar that lists who you see on what day, as well as a list of all their phone numbers/ business cards. You will find lots of advice here, as well as hope!

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  • RMlulu
    RMlulu Member Posts: 1,989
    edited July 2013

    Patti777 - welcome to these wonderful threads, but oh so sorry that you must.

    Stay on this site...solid good info...review your preliminary dx with the topic here. There are also questions to ask your BS. PS, RO, MO.

    Find an appointed buddy to make sure your questions get asked and answered.

    Set up your file.

    Visit your BC cancer center to determine services provides ad avail yourself of them. Attend a support group and ask questions.

    Form the best BC team to fight for you a team that exudes confidence.

    Then breathe, focus on today and don't get ahead of yourself and rehearse something you may never need to face. You will be fine...waiting and not having a game plan is the hardest:(

    You have pending appointments...that's great:)

    Sending calm confident thoughts and prayers

    (((Hugs)))

    Cindy

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  • Patti777
    Patti777 Member Posts: 45
    edited July 2013

    Thank you so much for the reply. I have been looking through the forum and it is so comforting to see people on here who have been diagnosed years ago and still doing fine. With my family when we have found out it has only  3 months for my aunt and 2 weeks for my dad. That is what has been so scary for me.

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  • carolpr56
    carolpr56 Member Posts: 241
    edited July 2013

    And here we all are at 0530 CST, lol! (Greetings to RMlulu from Austin ; )

    Patti, I think one of the hardest things is learning all the new terminology, slang, abbreviations and how to interpret test results, etc.! You'll pick it up quickly, being quite personally interested!

    Your medical team will be able to advise you on how aggressive you must treat your illness, but there will still be lots of decisions for you to make. You'll be surprised at how there are rarely any hard and fast solutions - waaaay too many "if you do this, then statistics show that", etc. The whole cancer journey is often a waiting game and there are threads JUST on that subject, lol! Wait for appts, then wait for tests, then wait for results, then wait for surgery/treatments, rinse, repeat. Lots of opportunities to worry yourself to a frazzle!

    Researching on the internet and spending alot of time on the discussions boards is helpful, but pace yourself. Also take time to learn relaxation techniques (if you don't already know some), like yoga or meditation. Exercise. Eat better. Rest.

    Anything you can do to make yourself feel more in control of your health is important! If you have faith in a higher power, draw closer and practice trust (this bit is really hard for me - I'm more about control ; ) 

    You may also enjoy the STFU (Shut the F*** Up) thread. It's amazing what people will say and what kind of inane advice well-meaning folks will give you. Suddenly everyone's an expert. If you have kids, it's like the more possibly-terminal version of childbirth - you can hear some horror stories! It's good to learn to laugh about it...Just take deep breaths, we're here and many of us have been here for years after diagnosis of some pretty scary stuff!

    Hugs

    Carol

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  • Patti777
    Patti777 Member Posts: 45
    edited July 2013

    LOL cant wait to read those threads. I think I will stick to the advice here where at least all of you have gone through it. Like everyone here I am the kind of person that says lets find the problem deal with it and go on. By the way. Did I mention I wanted that done yesterday?Laughing Guess I will learn quickly on that account. Any way very greatful for this site and the people on it. Wonderful to have the support so thank you

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  • Bren58
    Bren58 Member Posts: 1,048
    edited July 2013

    Patti & Cutie, Welcome to the threads but sorry you have to be here. There is a lot of encouragement and wisdom on these threads. Since you are just starting out on this journey you might want to to check out this thread. It was put together by someone who has learned a lot along the way. It has a lot of great information.

    What I wish I knew at the beginning of treatment:

    http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/6/topic/797454?page=1#post_3331871

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  • RMlulu
    RMlulu Member Posts: 1,989
    edited July 2013

    Carol - Good Morning from the TX Hill Country...we will have to met sometime! Trying to meet others in area...I did my tx in CA...so home to rest and renew:)



    Patti&Cutie - Be strong warriors! Glean what you can from this site, make your list of questions, set up your file, find an appointment buddy, form your BC team, and then breathe!

    Waiting is hard, but gives each of us the time we need to prepare and regroup and prepare for battle. Best medicine is family friends...laughter and hugs!



    Bren - Great link...



    Happy for today...happy 4th to y'all!

    Cindy

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  • Patti777
    Patti777 Member Posts: 45
    edited July 2013

    Meet with the Oncologist tomorrow. A team was formed yesterday that went over results. My cancer advocate will meet with me tomorrow with the findings. My husband and his sister who will be taking notes and my cancer advocate will be with me. Lots of support. I am a lot more at peace now. So grateful for this site.

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  • RMlulu
    RMlulu Member Posts: 1,989
    edited July 2013

    Patti777 - Congrats on having your team in place and appointment buddies too!

    We will be in your pocket tomorrow (((squeeze)))

    You got ths brave warrior...now go enjoy the 4th...watermelon, shortcake, and fireworks...Ooo...Ahhh! :)))

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited July 2013

    Patti:  Hope your appointments went well.  Let us know what the next steps are....we got your back !  --shelly

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