The Hermit Club
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And sing like there' no one listening and I do all of that and no one knows LOL
Nite chocolate talk to u tomorrow-----Spooky little girl like u is going now-I'm doinf my arm wxcercises in dance form LOL
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nite cami--all that singin' and dancin' is gonna help you fall fast asleep!
sweet dreams--see you tomorrow:)
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Love you Skittle....love you all.
XOXOXO
Laurie
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Hi hermits- looks like it did not rain much here last night in the end but some parts of the city got mositure. That is good, but my yard and gardens would like a good soaking rain. Monsoon season will start in another month or so and hopefully bring rain. We are still very dry here. Rainy days make me want to read, write, watch movies too.
I just want to say I love Italy and would love to live in Tuscany. I have been to Italy twice and the last trip there (2009), I went on a yoga retreat and we stayed in an italian villa in Montepulciano. We went to Sienna, San Gimminiano, Volterra, and so many other cool spots. I also spent 3 days in Florence on my own too. If I lived there, I could go visit George Clooney at his estate at Lake Cuomo too!
Time to get my day going. Hope you all have a good day.
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Rumor has it on-line that George Clooney has sold the estate in Italy and has bought an estate in Spain.
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I had some bad foot pain about 10 years ago (maybe more?) and my Mom suggested we try Easy Spirit ones and the difference was amazing. It's the only brand I buy anymore and once you get your size figured out, they are pretty consistent. I buy them online these days. They come in a wide variety of sizes which was great for my Mom who wore size 10.5 medium. I mainly buy sports or walking styles. I'm not a dressy shoe person at all.
I'm doing well. I've been focusing a lot on keeping my Diabetes under control. It feels good to have one problem in my life that I have some measure of control over. I sometimes feel a bit helpless on the cancer front though everything's going well there too right now.
My main hobby/pasttime these days is computer games. It's a great way to just get away from real life problems and just lose myself in the game. I have friends online to play with and most of them don't even know about my health issues though the ones who do occasionally ask how I'm doing.
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I listen to music on-line.
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Jinkala Im glad u have something under control--do u take insulin shots? But I'm happy u'r chemo is going Ok for u and maybe that as as controlable, but it's still a big job taking both diseases to watch about.
Tek u and Jinkala have certain oupassed me in the computer department--but what I know (for know) is ok I'm just happy I have one I never would hae met any of u wonderful women if I didn't. So I'm good and I listen to the 70's and oldies on TV and sing and dance a little then I have to take pain meds. I used to love to dance-if anyone remembers dances with a Harves Room Ball winner and he just glided me across the floor and really made me look good. LOL
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MARKAT if u ever read any of this please let us know how u and u'r mom are doing.
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Wow. Singing, dancing, keep smiling. I never learned to dance. (Too self-critical, self-conscious, hermity early on.) But I love music. (DD2 gave me an ipod shuffle, fully loaded with music for Mothers Day... everything from Bruno Mars to Fred Astaire to classical.)
Laurie-- (thanks!! Love right back to you!) how are you? All ok? Lots going on for you. Prayers to lift and calm...
Camille--Write down your Italian family stories!! You have a treasure for your family in your memories. Joey's children can laugh and learn and enjoy.
Teka--what kind of music do you enjoy? Online has it all.
Markat--we love you. pm if there's anything at all, at all that can be done to help!!
bgirl, blondie, all... good thoughts your way.
On an advice note... anyone have trouble with healing what once would be small issues? Each bruise, scratch, bug bite, anything... seems to become a long-lasting and exaggerated issue. (Played ball with dog, tiny scratch by eye is now blood red, puffed, awful. Smallish bruise on shin has been there over a week. On and on.) sighJust don't know if it's se's or if I'm just old and tender...
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Skittle this is goofy, I had a tiny little thin scratch on my arm, I noticed it whe I took a shower--that's how samll, now it's puffy higher longer everything too. I think it's our bodies from all the junk --really, I used to heal quickly, now it looks like it stays for a long time and bruises hold deep purple forever now and I don't even know how I get them. So whatever it is we seem to have it. LOL
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Camille--at least I'm in good company! We'll just look battered together.
(I used to heal quickly, too. Guess I was just spoiled.)
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Camille - No - no insulin - it was caught pretty early so I'm on minimal drugs and a huge change in diet - I have to eat low carb to help keep it under control.
Skittle - yeah, things seem to heal slower - no idea how long that effect will last. I'm about 6 months PFC now and I'm still seeing that.
My nails seem more brittle now too even though during chemo they seemed fine. I think that the part that grew during chemo is finally out to the end and is just more fragile than normal. I keep getting little cracks and splits in them and have been keeping them really short. I've started considering putting some polish on them just for more strength.
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I love oldies & newbies.
Roy Orbison:
George Strait: Troubadour
Adele: Rolling in the Deep & Don't You Remember
Fun: We Are Young & Some Nights
Macklemore & Ryan Lewis: Thrift Shop & Same Love
Anna Kendrick: Cups "When I'm Gone"
Emeli Sande: Next To Me
Little Mix: Wings
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@jinkala, my nails are doing the same thing. They split and crack for hardly any reason at all, and they used to be so strong
I hope it's only aftereffects of chemo and they will be strong again once the affected part grows out.
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My nails are weak and split easily, did not have chemo think it must be hormones.....
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Teka we could listen to the same music.
My nails were always weak and split easily--now they are so strong I have a hard time cutting them and filing them--they are so long, I have no complaints--but only since all this started has this happened I always wore fake nails cuz they were so bad, but 2 of my nail lift off the beds a little so they are mishapen and all my toenails are sideways for all this time. WTF I'm freaky.
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I lost ALL my nails, toes too from Taxotere. They have come back just fine.
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thanks all, just checking in....ice cream again it is calling me....
have a good one....treasure you all!!
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Hey everyone. I'm sorry I've been MIA. I didn't realize how long it had been!!!
Yay for good test results! Those are the best!
Whaevah I've been so busy I haven't even watched our show from last week.
Mom is out of hospice and back in the hospital receiving more chemo. This surprised me, but it is her wishes. I feel like I haven't sat down in a month! Definitely not a hermit... but like a said before, at least they have good coffee at the hospital.
Huge hugs to all of you! I need new tennis shoes. Sauconys are so cute but my ugly assics are comfy. Love you all!! -
Hi Markat- thanks for checking in with us. Keep us posted on your mom, she wants to be around longer I think. Good coffee means a lot during hard times. It is the simple things that often get us through.
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MARKAT I'm so relieved to hear from u---just cuz u'r not a hermit, don't forget about us--I've learned so much from u and all of u--
But I'll tell u if we have a summer like last year I'm hermiting myself big time--way to how, I hope it's better this yr.
Joey and I are leaving Sat. afternoon and will be home sometime Sunday---Party time for us hahaha. My oldest DD has more of my sense of humor so we laugh alot at nothing. My youngest DD has a very dry sense of humor --she's really funny==so I'm lucky that way their both a hoot, Of course I insist I'm funnier
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Thanks
Camille have fun! These days are running together so quickly! My girls' last day of school is next week but my school still has 3 weeks
Skittle are you all out soon!
Jazzy you are so right. She just isn't ready. Hospice was really shocked that she opted for more treatment and our MO made it clear that it was her choice. The coffee lady remembered meShe thought I worked at the hospital or did rounds there...Nope lol.
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Oh, sweet Markat, so glad you're among us. Worried for you and your mom. Sounds good, though. Prayers are with you!
School ends here May 31, so the "inmates" are restless!! Lots of drama and goofy shenanigans. (The best part, though, is I just learned I don't have to change classrooms. That really helps on packing up the room and prep for next year. And--dd2 did some amazing painting on my walls, so I really didn't want to leave it behind. It's a fire hazard to have too many posters up, so I decided on paint.)
Does your school have a summer "feeding" program? One of our schools always serves free lunch to anyone in the community. The cafeteria ladies who want to can keep getting paid, and those who don't have the summer off.
Love to all. Happy soon weekend.
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My particular school does not (they should!) Our city has a lunch program at local parks though, so the children that can walk or probably take the city bus can go get a sack lunch. It is a volunteer program through a local food bank.
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Markat I love to see 'r name on here. I never heard of these lunch services for kids--I thik it's wonderful.
Skittle good that u'll have the same room--and U painted--How original and they let u. Good thiking. It doesn't seem possible that school will be out soom. Joey gets out at the beginning of June and I'm so excited --I love having hime home.Not my own kids when they were little--I had to work and figure alot out. Now I just enjoy him and we stay up later and talk and cuddle.He's at the garage sale now til he leaves for school.
My GF sent me a Visa gift card for my BD and I'm going crazy with what I want--I saw a cute pair of shoes that I'm going to order and my hair stuff.--so far and I wnt to get Joey 2 sleeveless tees so that should be it.It's just fun to shop for this.
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Cam have a good time
Mark thanks for checking in, sorry about mom...you are a good daughter
Jazzy you are so awesome
skittle you deserve a break, you are not working during the summer are you?
Have a great weekend.....will bbl
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TGIF my hermit peeps! I am working at home today as my client site has driven me to the edge. Cannot get any work done there, so I am staying home and taking care of some things while I work away.
Cami- what day is your birthday? I love that you got a gift cert to spend! Send us a picture of your new shoes! And hope the party is fun! You deserve to enjoy yourself.
Skittle- I am glad to hear they have programs for lunch for the kids. I have heard some don't get a meal any other time, which is so heart breaking. How can this be in our country? I know the food pantries here are always desperate for donations and donate regularly. So many families in need.
Markat- I wish I could send you a nice foamy coffee drink!
Blondie- hope you are doing okay with the chemo.
Gotta get back to work. Love and hugs to all the women here!
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Jazzy my niece's BD is today--she turs 50-ooo and I call her to wish her a HB, mine is tomorrow 68 and then she call me--we have done this for 45 years--2 phone calls--it's so silly.
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Cami- happy birthday! You go girl, and I hope you have a wonderful day. May you have a year filled with much love, good health, and plenty of hermit time!
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