Chemo May 2013
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Okie country, I did not feel great yesterday (day of infusion) especially as the day wore on. Felt fuzzy and uncomfortably hyped, yet really tired at the same time, and ever so slightly nauseous. Woke up this morning feelin pretty normal. Trying not to wait and watch for bad things to happen......am getting more tired as the day goes on....
Ljaeger - I had my port put in on Monday, and it really hurt the day/night of and the day after ( like two percoset hurt) but then it was better. Much better, and many have said by next week or the week after you completely forget about it. Now I will get all my labs and my infusions from it. Just seems much easier.....especially since I'm having 16 infusions. Well now only 15 more!
Momofsam - I got my neulasta today. Hoping the Claritin works for the bone pain for me.
Ukkate - hang in there. I'm sending you positive energy!
Amy -
So the deed is done and the hair is gone. Kind of like 1st chemo. Glad its behind me! Left1/4 inch on head 1 pony tail to locks of love and mounds of hair on floor. Stylist made some adjustments and it looks pretty much like my hair. Walked in door and promptly removed. Too hot to wear at home! Not ready to go out in public like this but family all agrees not too bad looking.
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Plc. You are brave!!!
This has been my roughest day. I've hard diharea and heartburn and have been in bed all day. I haven't eaten anything
. I was hoping I'd be one of those who breezes through this
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Kate have you called doctor? They need to find you something that works! I am so sorry you are feeling that way. Hope you are drinking plenty to avoid dehydration!
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Lpc makes a good point - if you are getting dehydrated it will exacerbate your fatigue. Hopefully you are taking in liquids. I'm so sorry that you are feeling this poorly!!!
For all interested, I found a neat site re: applying makeup. Really interesting - drawing realistic eyebrows, liquid eyeliner, tying scarves, etc.
See link: http://eyelineher.blogspot.com/
Amy -
LPC, you will get used to your stubble. I've gotten to the point that I go out frequently with no head covering. Went for a mani/pedi today (with no head covering). My middle fingers seem to be more discolored under the nail than the rest. I just asked them to do the minimum on my hands, and it was a bit uncomfortable while they were shaping the nails, but I survived. My feet however, I had them do the platinum treatment. Herbal bath, leg scrub, moisturizer, paraffin, etc. My feet have been very dry since I started chemo so I always get the most moisturizing treatment there.
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Is there a suggested time during your chemo cycle that you should do a mani/pedi? Are there days you should not do them due to infection risk?
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Amyjax-
My onc told me it was ok but not cuticle cutting and to make sure you go to a very clean place. She also told me that your white blood cell count is highest 3 days before and after chemo. I am just going to a polish change of my feet since its summer and play it on the safe side since they don't speak much English where I go!
Good luck!
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Amylax my blood counts were lowest 7 days so infection more likely then.
Gowiththeflow I was told fingernails could turn black. Not sure I can rock the goth look without another wig. Lol. I have a home paraffin bath. Will have to use tomorrow. My feet are dry and peely.
I did see suggestion to take own manicure kit to help avoid infection on a different forum. Wow just reread that sentence....chemo brain induced bad syntax. -
Yay, lpc....
You seem so upbeat about buzzing it off... It makes me feel like a baby! Haha
So far, the hardest part is when people ask how you're doing.. I just say "good" or " just fine"
I'm not, tho! A bunch of little things.... My mouth feels raw, my tonsils feel swollen, I'm tired, I feel achy, my vein from the first treatment is hard and bruised about 8" up my arm..... But ive NEVER been a complainer & I'm sick and tired of complaining! & I don't want to bring others down! My hair is starting to shed... I actually think I'm starting to feel sorry for myself! THIS IS NOT ME! I'm a fighter in everything else in my life!why am I now being a baby? Ugh! I have so much support, but none of them are feeling what I'm feeling.... Thank goodness!
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Itiwhatitis -I am sorry you are feeling so bad. You will feel better over time. See if your MOs office can help with any of the SEs. Mine always did. They dont want us to be miserable. About your vein - it sounds like something I experienced and you should tell your MO about. After my 2nd treatment, my vein was red and hard. It was a superficial blood clot confirmed by an arm ultrasound. I wasnt given anything for it but used warm compresses and it went away on its own but they did make sure there wasnt anything in my deep veins.
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Itiswhatis
Not always so upbeat but I have also not been a complainer either. Go check out the thread. Bonfire of the goddesses. Great place to throw your problems in the proverbial fire! It really does work! As far as hair goes after a few tears discovered I had a fairly nice looking head!! Never thought I would be saying those words. Of course perfectly bald might be different story!
I rinse mouth with salt water a lot. Helps with the cruddy mouth problems. Also use biotene. And sugar free mints.
I am lucky to have a lot of support too and luckily a friend introduced me to a new friend who just finished chemo 6 weeks ago and has become a great resource for me. I do tell my family I will have those pity party days and they can just deal with it! Tomorrow is day 3 of treatment and that is when I feel the worst!
Hope today is a better one for you! -
Kate
Hope you are feeling better today. If not please please call the Dr you shouldn't be suffering.
Lisa -
I'm sorry a lot of us are hitting a rough patch now. Hopefully this means we'll feel better next week.
I was a moron last night and decided that since I was so tired getting into bed, I wouldn't need to take the Ativan generic pill my nurse suggested taking 30mins before bed to ward off the waking up I did the night prior. Sigh. I ended up waking up around 11:15p, and convinced myself to Ativan it up around 1a. Luckily I don't feel that exhausted. I guess the steroids do give quite a boost. Waiting for the proverbial (and hopefully not literal!) sh*t to hit the fan tonight or tomorrow.
So proud of all the ladies here who are going 'commando' on their heads. Knowing me, I'll be whipping off any and all head coverings when I'm not in my office. Too bad for everyone else; I don't want to be roasting under there!
Anyone else having issues swallowing a bit? Forgot to tell nurse yesterday. Can swallow liquids fine and can breathe fine, but occasionally I think my throat muscles are a little high, and then of course I have some momentary panic...probably comes from my neurotic opera singing days...
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Pubic hair going now! Why oh why can't the leg and underarm hair go away already!
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I have round 2 today! I was an original 5/2 girl but my oncologists chemo days are Fridays but she started me on 5/2 because she was on vacation 5/3. So now I'm on a Friday schedule! I'm nervous again even though the first time was nbd. I hope my blood counts are ok!
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Jenna I was 2nd round yesterday thought I wouldn't be nervous but needed that xanax again! 2nd seems much the same as first am up and active today neulasta shot in few hours. Tomorrow should be rough and then all uphill until 3rd. I like having weekend to recover. Hope all goes well today
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I'm still being really pathetic (imo). I pretty much slept all of yesterday day and night - according to DH - I honestly don't remember much. I have diharea and I haven't eat anything at all, and I can't bear to drink any liquids - what things might taste good to me? I feel so week and feeble...all I want to do is lay around and I wish someone would come and take care of me. My head is foggy - probably from the ativan....I can't bear to do the salt water wash as it makes me feel even worse
I feel like a bit usless drain on my family right now
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Oh Kate I am so sorry. Try lemonade...it works for me when I can bear no more water. I am thinking that if you are taking nothing in and still have diarehia you might have to make trip to Dr for fluids. Dehydration can make everything worse! Watermelon works for me and is filled with fluid too. I am sure your family does not think you are a drain on them! I felt same after mx when in reality they wanted to take care of me. It is a role I wasn't used to as I have always been the caretaker of the family. Let them do for you so you can feel good for the Bah Mitzvah!
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So is the routine the same for everyone for chemo? I'm sitting here waiting for them to do my labs and then I go to the clinic to meet with my oncologist, I assume to talk side effects and such. Then I go back to the infusion center to have my chemo. My first round I just went in, got my bed, and they went to work. I guess because my initial labs were already done the week before. This just seems like a process. It's 10:20 am and they don't have me scheduled for infusion until 2:30. I'm just bitching! Hopefully I can go to lunch before my treatment :-)
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Jenna I always have labs wait then infusion. Yesterday got there at 8 done by noon. Sorry your day will be so long...
I go back for neulasta and fluids today. MO insists on fluids day after no matter how much I drink. Guess it is a good precaution but makes chemo feel like 2 day affair. Blah! -
Kate, can you sip some room temp broth or Gatorade? I was told to call Dr if diarrhea is not controlled with over the counter remedies.
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lpc and Jenna, I am glad to see you are getting through infusion two. Mine is Thursday May 23, thought I would not be nervous but am already starting to worry about it!
IPC- My head without hair was way smaller than I thought. All these years I thought I had a big head. Turns out it was mostly hair! Went commando in my exercise class yesterday! I made it half way through with my hat and just got steaming hot so I chucked it off! Nobody around me died of a heart attack or anything. I think sometimes we cover our heads more to make other people feel better! But you are right lpc I may feel much different with actual baldness!
Leg hair is still hanging around...ugh, everywhere else is starting to go! Signed up for a look good feel better class for Monday, I need to learn to deal with eyebrows, I cant even draw stick people let alone brows..LOL
If nails go black maybe we could get one of those shocking pink or blue wigs to try that goth look for a while.!
Take care sisters, thinking about each and everyone of you. So glad I have sisters to talk to here!
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Jenna. I had only one treatment but I think my protocols will be the same each time Lab work, results ok then they call hospital and order chemos. Meet with MO, start premeds, steroid, anti-nautisea, benadryly, then the chemo. About 4 hours. Back next day for shot. Good Luck try to enjoy some quiet time.
I am listening to self imagery guidance meditation specific for cancer treatment. It calms me during treatment. I also listen to it if I walk up in the night. Have my kindle next to my bed. -
Kate I suffered with the diarrhea for a couple of days, it was terrible. I took OTC diarrhea meds (loperamide) I only took one to start with because I was afraid of constipation. Well one did the trick, I should have taken them earlier.
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To the the ladies on the T/C regimen. Are you getting 6 total treatments; 1 every 3 weeks. This is my plan. As long as I Am doing ok we will complete 6 if not then 4. However, my second opinion states 4 is what he would recommend. Just curious as I thought 6 was standard.
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Hi Everyone,
I've just joined the group and find myself in the company of the Chemo May 2013 club. I just got word yesterday that my chemo starts next week, on May 23rd. I'm happy about that but nervous. Also dealing with a bit of info overload after my visits earlier in the week with my Oncology team.
I had a lumpectomy Mar 8 and I'm stage 2, grade 3. My pathology is having them jumping quickly and I'm travelling out of town for my first round to get me started. I say lets go. I've actually been waiting for this so much because I also have severe Rheumatoid Auto-Immune Arthritis and even though in active inflammation - have been off all RA meds since beginning of Feb. Chemo is supposed to kick the RA to the curb so I'm hoping that having that relief will make the side effects somewhat easier for me to mannage.
I've been reading around the boards and picking up a wealth of info and tips. Going to be going shopping for some things like a new soft toothbrush, wipes, themometer and, well I guess I should check that list again, lol. Also need to learn the terminology for all this fun stuff.
Looking forward to sharing the journey with you, wanted to chime in and say hi. Just 6 more sleeps until I start.
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Elkatho,
My treatment is 4x only. Maybe get a third opinion. It might have to do with grade?
Oceanwarrior
Sorry you have to join us.
There is a wealth of info in these boards, which is great to know "what to expect" for the most part, though each of us is different.
Kate, please call your Dr. And make sure you are not dehydrated.
Thanks everyone for sharing the hair stories. I'm on my countdown...will try to keep it through the weekend as Mom will be in from out of town- she doesnt seem to get what is going on, so I would rather prevent questions. Of course I can't stop nature! Lol
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Elkatho- mine is only 4 rounds every 3 weeks. - six was brought up as an option if the oncotype dx came back higher than 30. Mine was 19.
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I had my port put in yesterday, it was horrible! I was nervous and that didn't help. They gave me meds for the nerves and to get me to sleep three times during the procedure but they didn't work. I cried through the whole thing. They had a really hard time getting it threaded up in the neck area. Had to cut me a couple of more times to help get it through there. They claim they had a harder time with me because most all ports are placed on the right side but mine had to go on the left. My neck was so sore for hours later I was in tears every time I tried to move. Amazing how you use your neck for even the smallest of things. Neck is still VERY uncomfortable today. I'm glad I don't start chemo until next Friday so I can get used to feeling this there. I hope everyone else's ports went as easy as they were supposed to be.
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