Angelina Jolie's prophylactic surgery

JoanQuilts
JoanQuilts Member Posts: 633

I had a left mastectomy after two bc diagnoses and chose to remove my right breast as well.  I did not have the BRCA mutation.  Here is my take on Angelina Jolie's announcement.

http://www.nj.com/parenting/index.ssf/2013/05/angelina_jolies_choice.html

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  • LizR
    LizR Member Posts: 330
    edited May 2013

    Thank you for the beautifully written article!  You expressed exactly what many of us are thinking after hearing this shocking news.  AJ is an incredibly courageous woman and has done a very selfless act by sharing her story with the world.  This in no way diminishes what we as breast cancer survivors have gone through - instead, it is a possible lifeline to countless women who may not even realize their own risk.  Thanks for sharing! Liz

  • mebmarj
    mebmarj Member Posts: 380
    edited May 2013

    Wow, that was a fantastic article.

    People on these boards have not been very kind on another thread and it really floors me.

    For all we know AJ may be on here with us, looking for support, helping others and bitching just like the rest of us about how scary the cancer experience is. While she may not have had the dx, she is the daughter of someone who passed from cancer. That sucks, it's frightening and any one of us that could do what she did probably would have jumped at the chance to avoid the road we were forced to travel.

    AJ- If you are with us here on BCO, sorry for your loss, glad you have support and thank you for your willingness to share.

    As to the tiny scars remark some people have taken offense to- who wouldn't try to minimize the impact on their children?

    How many of us have glossed over the gory surgical or treatment details in mixed company? How many of us don't want to talk about breast cancer all the time?

    When she is ready, I'm sure she'll say or do more.

    No one of us is perfect, it's easy to be critical and pass judgement, but how often have we all bitched about people's comments and stupidity in the face of our personal challenges related to breast cancer? Cut the woman some slack.

    Good luck to you AJ.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited May 2013

    Joan, what a wonderful article.  I too have been reading a lot of the reaction on-line, and the comments that have been made, mostly (I hope) out of a lack of knowledge, have been shocking to me.  So many judgements.  So much misunderstanding.  So little empathy.  You explained the reality of Angelina Jolie's situation perfectly.  Thank you!

    But here's my confession. I will admit that there are times when I see someone choose to have a BMX and I just shake my head in wonder. Personally, I had to have a single MX and while the procedure and recovery was a breeze, living with the results has been less easy. I've had on-going issues with aches & pains and itching. So I don't under-estimate the seriousness of having a MX or BMX. On this board, I tend to hang around mostly in the DCIS forum. I've seen many women with tiny non-aggressive pre-invasive cancers, and with no other significant risk factors (that's the key point here), opt for a BMX. In too many cases, I've seen them suffer consequences, whether it be on-going pain, or reconstruction problems, or emotional devastation, or relationship/sexual problems, etc..  

    So yes, sometimes I do shake my head and feel a bit sad when someone makes the decision to have a BMX. But this is not one of those cases. To me it's all a question of risk. I hope that Angelina Jolie's discussion having the BRCA mutation and an 87% risk isn't lost as her story makes the rounds in the media.  Because I fear that Angelina Jolie speaking out about her BMX might lead some women who are low risk but scared to choose to have a BMX because "it was okay for Angelina Jolie to do it, so it's okay for me too".  On the other hand, I hope that Angelina Jolie speaking out about her high risk and her BMX will lead more women with a family history of breast and/or ovarian cancer to ask about BRCA testing, and I hope that for those who are BRCA positive and high risk, her example will lessen their fear of going ahead with a BMX as a potentially life-saving procedure. 

  • 3monstmama
    3monstmama Member Posts: 1,447
    edited May 2013

    Joan, what a fine piece of writing.  thank you.

    The lack of empathy for what its like to have six kids and such a risk saddens me. 

  • Lily55
    Lily55 Member Posts: 3,534
    edited May 2013

    I know people often lack the ability to listen properly but to not be able to read? I do not lack empathy for her but as i have written repeatedly she has made mastectomy seem like a simple surgery with tiny scars and it is not like this for many of us....and she had a choice, we did not

  • mrenee68
    mrenee68 Member Posts: 383
    edited May 2013

    Joan so nicely put. AJ has made a very personal decision and has chosen to share her decision with the world. I would have hoped that others could be more understanding and not pass judgement. I only had a single MX and it was one of the most heart wrenching decisions I have ever had to make. I had many women tell me it was a personal decision and something I had to be able to live with, and I'm still working on that. What we have to realize is that what works for one person may not work for another. We have to make a decision with the information we have and what we feel will give us the best life possible. We all have our own journey in life.

  • MelissaDallas
    MelissaDallas Member Posts: 7,268
    edited May 2013

    I am terribly sad that women who have tested positive for BRCA, some of them very young, and are struggling with the decisions they need to make are going to come here & see some of the ugly comments made today. They will not feel welcome here. We get lots of them in the high risk threads. Obviously some people don't read beyond what affects them directly.



    I was very fortunate that I was almost menopausal when I had to have my hysterectomy for ovarian cancer. There was no thinking about it. It had to be done. I can assure you I would have felt very differently about it if I had been 25 with no children and thinking that getting rid of my ovaries might be the only thing that would save my life because of a gene mutation. I think it would take a great deal of courage to go ahead with a surgery when there was nothing wrong YET, because you knew in your heart it was the right thing to do.

  • DocBabs
    DocBabs Member Posts: 775
    edited May 2013

    I just re-read the article by Angelina Jolie to be sure that I didn't miss anything  and no where in that atricle did I see any mention of hiow easy the surgery was and certainly no mention of any tiny scars. I believe that she thought long and hard about not only her future, possibly with breast cancer, but that of her 6 children.That last thought was what probably made the decision for her.She experienced what it could be like and didn't want her kid to have to experience that same thing.Yep, she had a  choice  which most of us didn't have but  that just makes her more fortunate. I cannot in any way be angry or upset with her for that.I wish her all the best for a cancer free future.

  • mumito
    mumito Member Posts: 4,562
    edited May 2013

    I think she is a brave woman.Very glad she went public with her decision and why.

  • rozem
    rozem Member Posts: 1,375
    edited May 2013

    joan - great article - great perspective

  • 1openheart
    1openheart Member Posts: 765
    edited May 2013

    Well said, Joan.

    We should not judge others until we have walked a bit in their shoes.  There is so much ignorance about breast cancer and its risks not only in the media, but also among our medical professionals.

    After my dx, I had the BRCA testing done because of a strong family history and luckily I was negative for both BRCA and BART gene expression.  I had to have the MX on my left cancer side because of the high grade multi focal/multi centric DCIS, but I was hoping to save my right breast.  But, if the genetic testing would have been positive,  I was prepared to take both breasts as well as remove my ovaries.   So glad that I did not have to  make that decision.

    Most of us on this board are here because we did not have the choice that AJ did to drastically reduce our odds of developing BC.  And  for those of us who do not have the BRCA expression,  I think it is important to really understand what the stats are telling us and try to not make these decisions from a place of fear.  I think that there are many women who are choosing to have a BMX based on their desire to never have to worry about cancer again....and unfortunately, there is no such guarantee.

    I, for one, will not second guess another women's very personal decision to try to be around to see her children grow up.  I wish AJ nothing but the best and continued good health.

  • farmerlucy
    farmerlucy Member Posts: 3,985
    edited May 2013

    Thank you Joan. As one who had a prophy mx that wasn't, I can tell you this is a very agonizing and personal decision. Not every PBM woman is as lucky as I was to get immediate validation! Wink

    Also I know that I thought my regular high risk screenings were some kind of safety net, but the reality of screening is that it may not pick up issues soon enough. In my ignorance I figured any cancer would be detected when it was tiny - I'm talking mms and certainly in-situ. When in actuality two of my doctors independently said cancers start to be picked up on screening at about 1 cm. Then there is the whole breast density issue. . .

    Here was my thought process  - Is a PBM extreme? yes! Can I live with it?? YES!!!

    Oh - and I think I heard mention that AJ had some type of nipple procedure a few weeks before the mx. Does anyone know about that?

  • ballet12
    ballet12 Member Posts: 981
    edited May 2013

    Joan--you wrote a great article.  I am also dismayed by comments made on other threads.  For those who already have a bc diagnosis and have endured great suffering, I am sorry.  I was lucky to just have what I have, and I have tremendous empathy for you. Like many others, I do lurk on the Stage IV boards at times, to fully appreciate what women go through in late stage bc. This does not negate, in any way, the tremendous burden placed on those who have received a BRCA diagnosis, both those who have breast cancer and those who fear it.  It forces individuals, many times, very young individuals, to contemplate drastic surgeries to avoid these diagnoses.  The surgeries aren't minor.  I don't care if the scars are small, medium, large, etc.  The surgery, even prophylactic, is very invasive.  As I stated on another thread, those with a BRCA diagnosis have a particular, unique burden because they possess defects in tumor suppression genes that put them at risk for a multitude of cancers;  not only breast and ovarian, but also colon, pancreatic, melanoma, etc (and risk of primary peritoneal cancer--which is the cousin of ovarian cancer).  So, they have the Sword of Damocles over their head even after removing breasts and ovaries. And, as noted by AJ, even after getting the mastectomy, their risk of recurrence is higher than many others for bc (5 percent as opposed to 1 to 2 percent).  So, I won't minimize AJ's situation both pre and post-surgery.  I don't have brca in my family, but several near and dear to me carry the gene, some of whom have suffered greatly.  One of my close friends had both IBC and Triple Negative IDC, and even had a bone marrow transplant when those were done.  She has to have frequent colonoscopies, etc. beyond her fear of recurrence of bc.

  • SarahsMom
    SarahsMom Member Posts: 1,779
    edited May 2013

    GREAT article, Joan!!

    Well I personally love Angelina Jolie because she lives without regrets. We may not agree with some of her choices, but this is a woman who is firmly in control of her life and destiny. She runs her life, it doesn't run her. She never has a "victim" mentality. Why would we expect her to sit idly by when she had the option of removing two now-useless body parts that could kill her?

    Good for her on this decision - watching her mother pass at 57 (sounds like they were extremely close) must have been very difficult and I agree with all of you - an 87% chance is HUGE.  I absolutely loved her statement about not feeling less feminine about losing her breasts, but more feminine because she took control  - YES! Woman power! Wasn't that long ago when this decision wouldn't have even been on the table.  Just two generations ago women weren't even in control of their own health decisions. And we didn't have the BRCA testing.

    Yeah Brad for being an awesome source of support. That makes him even sexier than he was before ;-)

    Good for her and I wish her a long, healthy life filled with love and happiness.

  • QuinnCat
    QuinnCat Member Posts: 3,456
    edited May 2013

    Joan - great piece.

    My own personal experience, just inquiring about the brca test when it first came out, was dismal, so I am very pleased to see someone like AJ come out about the testing and her decision.

    Myriad's stock rose 4% today on the news.  I suppose that presumes more women will get the testing done, but in my case, if it wasn't for a doctor telling me "what would you do different if you find out you are brca+" or "you'll have to go to a big city to get tested and it's expensive," or having an insurance company that only pays for the test "if one already has cancer," I might not be where I am today, worrying about my cancer coming back.

    So perhaps AJ's coming out will enlighten both potential brca carriers and their physicans that both getting the test (including the hows and whys) and doing a PBMX is not some horrible thing or arcane thing to do.  I honestly can't think of a better "role model," given how breasts are tied up with our femininity and who is revered more than AJ, in that department?  Maybe insurance companies will loosen their restrictions on who can be reimbursed.

    Atleast for most brca carriers, we have seen someone in our family (in my case my mother and 2 aunts) die of breast cancer.  We sort of know what a means, though I don't think anything supplants personal experience.  Nevertheless, the "what would you do different" response is uncalled for.  (For one - how about an ooph?)  To those of us who think we are crazy for doing a PBMX (without cancer), I've found they don't have the ability to understand, so it is not worth engaging these folks.

    To FarmerLucy's question:

    Oh - and I think I heard mention that AJ had some type of nipple procedure a few weeks before the mx. Does anyone know about that?


    I have the same exact question!! I was told, unless an A or B cup, you don't qualify for a NSPBMX.

    My own process began on Feb. 2 with a procedure known as a “nipple delay,” which rules out disease in the breast ducts behind the nipple and draws extra blood flow to the area. This causes some pain and a lot of bruising, but it increases the chance of saving the nipple.


    She was treated at the Pink Lotus Breast Center in Beverly Hills.  Is this procedure something only the rich can afford?

    I also have a question about this and anyone who knows the answer, please chime in:

    My doctors estimated that I had an 87 percent risk of breast cancer and a 50 percent risk of ovarian cancer, although the risk is different in the case of each woman.

    Only a fraction of breast cancers result from an inherited gene mutation. Those with a defect in BRCA1 have a 65 percent risk of getting it, on average.


    AJ seems to imply that her particular version of her brca1 mutation has a higher risk of BC than the average for brca1.  Am I reading this wrong.  I never got a set of separate statistic for my 866delGT?? Did she pay for more information from Myriad than my $4000 bought me?

  • Dauvinea
    Dauvinea Member Posts: 1
    edited May 2013

    Nice article Joan :) 

    Angelina Jolie was very brave to share her experience. One of my sisters had a lumpectomy and so did a co-worker, it was hard for me to see them being so scared. Also as a celebrity, her entire life was always an open book and I respect that she kept her ordeal to herself until she was ready to share it. She made the right choice to go ahead with the procedure because she was likely to get breast cancer since she inherited a faulty gene as she called it. I learned a lot today about BRCA1, before her announcement, I never even heard of that. Thank you to Angelina Jolie for educating us. Here's an article you may want to check out that explains a little more about BRCA1: http://www.itechpost.com/articles/9147/20130514/angelina-jolie-bravely-admits-double-mastectomy-nyt-op-ed.htm

  • 1openheart
    1openheart Member Posts: 765
    edited May 2013

    As much as I have had enough of the pink quest for "awareness" at the cost of basic research into the causes and cures for bc,  I think that AJ's story will do a lot to educate the public about the very real risk to a small minority of women who may have the BRCA gene mutations and what their options are for testing and further treatment. 

    Even though she cannot understand how it feels to hear those words, "you have breast cancer", I cannot imagine how hard it would be to amputate perfectly health breasts when there is no guarantee she will or will not eventually get cancer.  I only wish her the best.

  • QuinnCat
    QuinnCat Member Posts: 3,456
    edited May 2013

    kayb - that's interesting, but I'm still curious about the message I got from my PS - NSBMX or NSPBMX only works with small breasted women.  AJ is hardly small breasted.  Perhaps the Nipple Delay mitigates?

    Reminds me of women who go to a PS about reconstruction and DIEP is never mentioned because the PS isn't qualified to perform that procedure.  Maybe Nipple Delay for large breasted women is in the same category?

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited May 2013

    JoanQuilts - I really appreciated your response to this.  I am the 3rd generation with breast cancer, but the only one so far to go to stage 4.  We are BRCA- which makes me worry for my sister even more b/c she doesn't even have the option of making this type of decision even though she is dealing with biopsies every 6 months.  It is such a personal decision, and should be just that - personal.

  • anderson111
    anderson111 Member Posts: 12
    edited May 2013

    The chances of overcoming breast cancer are much better when you learn what needs to be done early on. There are a number of treatments for breast cancer.

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited May 2013

    Wow, anderson111.  That's brilliant information.  Who knew?  

    I did check back on your previous posts and noticed that they've been "Deleted by the Community". I guess that means that the consensus of this community is that you are a spammer and/or you are here only to lead us to your webpage. 

  • Pointvalue
    Pointvalue Member Posts: 146
    edited May 2013

    Beautifully written! Thank you for your eloquent words Joan!

    XO

  • Momine
    Momine Member Posts: 7,859
    edited May 2013

    Beesie, you kinda have to love a medical spammer called Dr. Viral.

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 12,424
    edited May 2013
  • Shayne
    Shayne Member Posts: 1,500
    edited May 2013

    I was also a little taken aback by the critical comments on a lot of news sources online about AJs decision.  Some mention that only the rich can even afford the BRCA testing - but the more it is brought to light, i believe, the better.  Hoping that someday any woman who needs the testing will be able to get it affordably

  • Dyvgrl
    Dyvgrl Member Posts: 471
    edited May 2013

    I've noticed no one on here or in the news articles mentioning that Myriad will only charge the patient $375 if insurance doesn't cover it. I myself had the testing done as I have several people on my maternal side with breast cancer. Fortunately for me, my test came back negative. But if it had come back positive, I would've done a BMX in a heart beat. I want this gone and not hanging over my head for the rest of my life. I will also be having a hysterectomy when this is all said and done. We all have choices whether we've been diagnosed with cancer or not. Insurance is required by law since 1998 to pay for reconstruction. It is up to you to find a surgeon that is good enough to perform a decent procedure. The best thing I can tell anyone is get yourself educated. Be very picky about the surgeons you choose. I live in Alaska where there are few options and I considered going outside - money is a big issue, but I did some research and found a team that has the skill and the talent to do a good job. I'll be having my UMX on the 23rd with recon scheduled Jul 2 assuming I need no rads or chemo. We'll see. Either way, I'll roll with it and as I've gone through this procedure, I've made my choices by talking alot to my surgeons (there are 3 on my team) and my oncologist, reading reading and more reading, and deciding what works best for my lifestyle. That's all any of us can do. Lily - I think you are just really pissed off you have cancer, and aren't happy with the results you've had with your treatments - I totally understand it - and I feel you - but directing it at AJ serves no purpose. We all have to make peace with this demon otherwise we'll be miserable a whole lot longer.

  • Shayne
    Shayne Member Posts: 1,500
    edited May 2013

    well said Dyvgrl!  good luck with everything!

  • Lily55
    Lily55 Member Posts: 3,534
    edited May 2013

    The interview as published in the UK quoted her as saying small scars etc.....

  • Beesie
    Beesie Member Posts: 12,240
    edited May 2013

    Momine, I never even noticed the name.  It's perfect!  Cool

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