Chemo May 2013

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  • IWKCB
    IWKCB Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2013

    I will be starting CHemo at the end of may most likely. I had a double mastectomy

    on April 17 th. I was so looking forward to summer wIth the kids (14, 11, and5) and now I feel like I will just want to hole up at home and do nothing. Hoping I will sail through chemo like some but not planing anything at the moment until I see how I do. I plan to continue working part time and make the most of days I feel good. I cut my hair short before surgery and I actually really like it so I will look for a similar wig. I'll probably buy some scarves as well. Any particular type of scarf needed?

  • IWKCB
    IWKCB Member Posts: 13
    edited May 2013

    Few questions for those going through this? Are you able to drive yourself to and from chemo treatments? I will only be a 10 minute drive from home. I'm sure my husband will come to first one but not sure if he will always be able to. Also, does anyone know how Short term disability will work if used intermittently for chemo? I want to keep working but don't think I will be able to manage full time? My

    Disability pays up to 60%? Would I be able to work the other 40% in order to be able to pay our bills? I meet my onc on Wednesday and will get more answer from her on treatment regimen/when to start?

  • Gully
    Gully Member Posts: 268
    edited May 2013

    Hello IWKB! 

    I can only answer one of your questions about chemo. I live only 10 min. from our cancer center as well. My husband came with me for the first one for emotional support but it really was not bad, everyone is very nice. My infusion nurse said as long as they dont give you meds to make you calm down so much that your are sleepy you can drive yourself. She said one lady drove home with her kayak on top of her car and drove into her garage because of the "happy juice" LOL... I am on day 3 and feeling not normal but ok. Just did a 6 mile bike ride with my hubby....but it did kick my butt!!! Happy to keep moving... I cut my hair short too.. kind of like it! It never gets messed up.

    Thanks for the update Rose57 I am glad you are out and about as well...

  • TinaHoff
    TinaHoff Member Posts: 62
    edited May 2013

    Hi there,

    I started my chemo this week, on May 1.  I came in premedicated, as I was a bundle of nerves.  The infusions look frightening, especially the adriamyacin.  Three syringes of red fluid!  But was glad that the first hour was infusions of antinausea.

    The husband came with me, it was almost like a 3 hour date.  I was dosed on anti anxiety, chatty, a little drowzy, but it was all fine.

    They sent us home with a whole bunch of anti nausea meds and information.  And two prefilled syringes of a colony stimulating factor, which I had to self inject at home the next day.  Scary.  But everything when fine, it didn't hurt, but I did have a little achiness, which is I guess the bone pain they talk about.  Yuck.

    Seriously stressing about my hair.  I guess I'll make an appointment to see the beauty and appearance folks at the treatment center, where I'm told they will help me find an appropriate wig.

    Don't feel really nauseated today, just kind of yucko.  Wondering should I expect this to be an indicator of how I'll respond, or is this going to get worse?  Doing adriamycin and cytoxol every two weeks for 8 weeks, then 12 weeks of taxol.  After that radiation, and likely 5 years of hormone suppression.  They told me that because I'm youngish, the team wants to throw the lot at me.  They feel it will decrease the likelihood of recurrence, and as the radiation oncologist says "you can do anything for a short period of time."

    Still, I'm hoping I can find some new sense of feeling "normal" instead of this slighty "yucko and out of it" feeling.

  • AmyJax
    AmyJax Member Posts: 43
    edited May 2013

    I am joining the sisterhood of the May 2013 Chemo Group. Wow, none of us thought we'd be writing that sentence prior to our diagnosis. Some days I still can't believe it, even as I sit here with "interim" boobs, a drain in my side, and scheduled for chemo on May 15. Pretty sure it will be AC (4 cycles, every two weeks) and then Taxol (12 cycles, weekly).



    I was supposed to start chemo on the 6th but the drain from my lymph node dissection on 4/9 still putting out too much fluid to be removed. Ive had a drain in since my BMX on 3/28 and my PS doesn't want me to shower with any drains in the vicinity of my expanders....I'm going to see if I can get a reprieve on that this week. Shallow baths just aren't the same!



    I'm thankful to all of you May sisters for being here with me, and to all the Pink Sisters who have gone before us and let us know that we will get through it.



    I'm sending my positive energy to all. Keep drinking lots of fluids.....that is definitely a huge common theme in prior month's chemo boards.

  • AmyJax
    AmyJax Member Posts: 43
    edited May 2013

    By the way, you can check out wigs online at www.wigs.com. You have to get a prescription for a "cranial prosthesis." Some insurance might cover. Mine did not. I have short hair and I got the Raquel Walsh "Winner" style. They had a non-profit place in my town (In the Pink, Jacksonville, FL) that I went to and they helped me pick it out. They were wonderful.



    Good night!

  • MariaNL
    MariaNL Member Posts: 118
    edited May 2013

    Hello all

    I start May 9th, ATC 12 doses, 4 of each biweekly.

    The unknown. Is killer

  • Annie54
    Annie54 Member Posts: 247
    edited May 2013

    Welcome to TinaHoff, AmyJax, IWKCB and MariaNL - and any other newcomers! Glad we have this group to support each other, and whine to when needed.

    Thanks for the tip on wigs AmyJax, I'm still looking for one that I can live with.

  • Virginger
    Virginger Member Posts: 111
    edited May 2013

    here's a video a face book friend posted...might help...http://www.wbir.com/video/default.aspx?bctid=2343979839001

  • lpc
    lpc Member Posts: 303
    edited May 2013

    IWKCB I am currently on std do not believe you can work the other 40%. I am going back to work on the 13th - retail mgt - but was told if I couldn't handle it I could go back on with no new waiting period. Physically I can handle it but am worried about all the germs out there and whether I can stay well. Also changed FMLA to intermittent so absences will not count against my attendance record

  • Ukkate
    Ukkate Member Posts: 292
    edited May 2013

    Hey Ladies, Happy Sunday.  I figured I would post all of our names and dates starting chemo so we can keep track of who's where!

    5/1

    Tina

    5/2

    Rose, Michelle, gully, IPC, Young, Jenna, JMR.

    5/6

    Eleanor, Argynnis, Patty

    5/7

    Shelly

    5/8 

    Algranna

    5/9

    Dayna, Maria, Annie

    5/13

    Kate

    5/15

    Debbie, Amy

    We will add new people as they come along!  I hope you all are doing well today and keeping those side effects at bay.  I had a DJ gig last night which was exhausting and I really have to remember that I can't lift stuff and I'm limited in what I can do.  This is my last "night gig" before I start chemo thank goodness.  I also found out that my work deducted pay for the time I was out for my mastectomy recovery :(  I really need to talk to someone about my disability benefits and how all that works - I still have to pay all my bills!

    Today, I finally peeled off the glue from my incision.  The scar actually doesn't look that bad.  I'm headed out dress shopping with my daughter in about 30 minutes for the Bat Mitzvah.  I also ordered a Mastectomy bra and some inserts from Amazon so I'm hoping that works out okay and I don't need to cover up with a scarf or anything.

    Kate

  • jsrose14
    jsrose14 Member Posts: 117
    edited May 2013

    Hi. I just started my chemo on may 1. It will be 8 rounds of cmf every 2 weeks. I was wondering if anyone has taken any natural supplements like astralagus or reishi mushrooms to help with the side effects. So far I've have a few yucky days and some nausea. Hoping it will improve inbetween infusions.



    Thanks!



    Jsrose

  • Annie54
    Annie54 Member Posts: 247
    edited May 2013

    Ukkate,

    Thanks for the list - it helps keep everyone organized...in my mind anyway....and where they are in the chemo parade. Looks like its a growing group!

    Hope everyone who has started their infusions had a tolerable weekend and get stronger through the next week. My turn is coming.....

  • ChickaD
    ChickaD Member Posts: 1,025
    edited May 2013

    Hi ladies.....I am another lucky member of the May chemo group. .woo hoo..



    I should be starting the week of May 20th...my pathology stepped up my aggressiveness to grade 3 and I am HER2+ so the onc is doing more testing of God knows what to get the correct chemo plan...ugh...nervous but ready to start....



    Thanks in advance for all the info for those of you that started already♥



    Dana

  • Annie54
    Annie54 Member Posts: 247
    edited May 2013

    So quiet!

    Hope everyone who started chemo last week is doing OK. Let us know how you are! Sending good, healing positive energy your way........

  • lpc
    lpc Member Posts: 303
    edited May 2013

    Annie - actually up and moving today. I went into work to plan for my return and that brightened up my spirits. Hope I have enough energy to do it.

  • Annie54
    Annie54 Member Posts: 247
    edited May 2013

    Glad you are feeling better! I hear the first treatment is sometimes the worst - because you don't know what to expect.

    As for work - I think it helps to have something other than bc to focus on. Also helps to feel more "normal" being at work. I have to work throughout it all... as I'm a single mom with two teenagers. No one but me bring in the bacon!

    Keep going - get lots of rest and know you'll feel stronger as each day goes by.

  • lpc
    lpc Member Posts: 303
    edited May 2013

    I carry health ins for kids and me so important for me to work. Currently I am on short term disability and it ends may 12th. We would not manage for long without my pay!

  • Ukkate
    Ukkate Member Posts: 292
    edited May 2013

    I had my port put in today and I'm really really sore :(. I'm tired of pain

  • lpc
    lpc Member Posts: 303
    edited May 2013

    Ukkate my port hurt so bad first day I was in tears. Thought something was horribly wrong so called Dr. Ice pack and tylenol helped and second day not so bad. Hang in there!

  • Pattysmiles
    Pattysmiles Member Posts: 954
    edited May 2013

    I finished my first day of treatment.

    My "worst" part was the needle stick, because I hate needles (I'm such a baby! Lol). Anyhow, I didn't really feel it, and as long as I don't look I'm ok.



    I drank three glasses of water this am after taking my pre-chemo steroids. I was still thirsty when I got there, so continued to drink water. Glad those IV poles are movable! Lol



    The chemo nurses were awesome, found out one lives near me, was on the Girl Scout sleepover I did the other night and I placed both her girls into troops (I do recruitment events for scouting). The other nurse was just as nice and friendly. Nit was very encouraging.



    I am glad I asked about the nausea meds I have waiting at home, because I really don't think my oncologist went over them so well (or do I just not remember?). She said first sign of unsettled tummy to take the Zofran, it is is every 8 hours. However she said I could also go to every6 or every 4. BUT might cause a headache and if I do every 4 I MUST call them.

    She also said in between the Zofran I could do the comprazine (spelling?-don't have the bottle in front of me.



    I go back for my Neulasta shot tomorrow. I specifically commented to the nurses about Claritan, they have heard of it, but this place doesn't push, however they agree if its not denied by the dr to do it. Funny enough the dr walked in 2 minutes later to talk about the shot and tell me I might get gone pain! (I won't even bring up the Claritan again with her)



    So now I sit with my giant bottle of water to flush my system out.



    Lined up tonight's steroid pills, stool softener and will add the Claritan to the pile in the am.



    Life is good.

    Pat

  • Gully
    Gully Member Posts: 268
    edited May 2013

    Hello Patty,

    DO THE CLARITIN! I got my shot on Friday and on Sunday forgot to take it which I did not realize until this morning when I saw it was still in its Sunday slot. I was up all night with incredible hip pain. Took it today and am feeling much better. Hope all goes well with you. Its weird how some MO do not suggest things to some people. Obviously they have never had chemo or Neulasta shots! 

  • Pattysmiles
    Pattysmiles Member Posts: 954
    edited May 2013

    Gully,

    Thank you.

    I agree!

    I think the chemo docs should all get a treatment and the nulasta and then tell me I don't need to ice because the neuropathy will go away, or I don't need the Claritan because the bone pain isn't that bad.



    I am one to not take medicines unless I have to. BUT I am also not stupid, if it will AVOID the pain then I sure as heck am taking it! ("Not that bad my a$$!)



    Some man was leaving the chemo treatment today, talking to the nurse, he has to come back for nuprogen(sp?) shots, and I guess that causes bone pain too? No one said to take Claritan. I felt bad, if I wasn't connected to the pole I would have ran after him and had a conversation about it! But, I also don't know if the Claritan is good for that!?



    SO HAPPY these boards are here to learn things. So happy everyone shares what works/doesn't work for them. I have learned so much over the past few months.



    Pat

  • Rose57
    Rose57 Member Posts: 11
    edited May 2013

    Hi Ladies,

    I feel like I am back among the living but very tired; I slept alot the past two days.When I woke up this morning I thought I would make it through the whole day at work but am fading very fast!!!

    I was or have been very fortunate and had very little neulasta pain; very tolerable!  I talked to my doctor about it and he said there aren't any studies (so what) and agreed that if I needed it I could take it; so maybe we have to force them a little!  What made him change his mind was the oncology nurse that visited me in the hospital on the port surgery was all for it!

    Hope you are all feeling better!

    Rose

  • Ukkate
    Ukkate Member Posts: 292
    edited May 2013

    Thanks for the ice pack tip - doing that right now. Don't even want to talk it hurts so bad :( Might have to break out the oxycodone

  • Lily28
    Lily28 Member Posts: 10
    edited May 2013

    Hi everyone, you can add me to the May chemo list! I should be starting in the next week or two. Am seeing the MO again tomorrow for him to check my bloodwork . I believe I'll be doing FEC and taxotene. Followed by Neulasta which I was shocked that it costs $3,000 a shot! Thank goodness it's 80 percent covered by insurance. Then 6 weeks radiation. I've requested STD for 6 months starting May 13 and I can always go back early.

  • gailani
    gailani Member Posts: 15
    edited May 2013

    Hi, I'm new to disscussion boards so bare with me. Thank God this is here, I just wanted to let anyone know who will be starting Their AC portion that you can do it..I am extremely sensitive to any type of motion sickness so I was afraid of the nausea and vomiting factors. Yes I feel queasy but nothing that the meds can't handle. I took compasine throughout the day, (yes it made me a bit drowsy) and lorazapam at night. I'm thinking the Decadron I'm taking on days 2-5 are giving me the symtoms of heartburn, sleeplessness, shortness of breath and temperature flushes. The Nuepogen shots on day's 3-9 gave me severe muscles aches the first time I used it but my body seemed to adapt and every usage after that was way less severe. Your body is stronger than you know. My third AC dose hit me harder and I needed to stay rested for 5 days. I think perhaps because I didnt take the decadron. Well I just finished the AC portion and am taking the last of my neupogen shots. I don't know what the Taxol/Herceptin TX will be like but If I can handle the AC portion, you can too. My onlybummer is that I'm constantly putting things in my mouth to get rid of the metalic taste, therefore I've been gaining 1 lb a week! Oh well better than fighting to keep my weight on i guess. Good luck you will be fine, women have spirits of warrior's..

  • okiecountrygal
    okiecountrygal Member Posts: 25
    edited May 2013

    Ukkate you can move me from the 8th to the 15th.  Ugh!  Just want to get this started so that I can get it finished! Had MUGA scan today so that is reason for delay so that they could have results.  Also, getting my port on the 8th, so that will give me some healing time before starting so that might be better. 

    Glad to see everyone seems to be doing quite well with minimal side effects.  Gives me lots of hope that I will be as fortunate as well.

  • raindeer1217
    raindeer1217 Member Posts: 90
    edited May 2013

    Kate I start this month for Chemo. I get my port this week and also have the TE's that are killing me. The thought of going thru chemo and being tired and maybe toss my cookies sick is very daunting.. Wondering how the port feels? As your post indicates you got it today.

    What gives me hope and strength is reading and knowing that so many amazing woman have forged before me and have come out stronger!

    -Rain

  • Laura5133388
    Laura5133388 Member Posts: 577
    edited May 2013

    Just dropping by to make sure that everyone who is worried about losing their hair is aware of cold cap therapy. I used cold caps and kept my hair. Keeping my hair allowed me the privacy I was so afraid of losing.

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