Dream to make my Moms dreams come true- will it b a dream???

I apologize to all for making you'll misunderstand what I really meant by my mother does not know how long she has to live. She is not aware that she has metastatic breast cancer, she is not aware of the term and the doc has not spoken to her about her condition. My mother is an intelligent and smart lady but being a housewife doing only household chores she does not find the need to more informative on cancer and since she has us kids taking care of her she does not bother. I know it is important for her to know her medical condition, but my borther insists to keep it hidden from her...my mother says she wants to get better and be cured (thats why she agreed to go on with aggressive chemo sessions), after knowing this should I still go ahead n tell her that there is no cure and its only a matter of time that she will b us? The doctor said that in her condition she will not be able to travel. Thank you all for replying and I really appreciate the concern and care. Please do continue with it, it is very much appreciated. God bless and give you'll strength.

Hi All,

Again thank you for the care and concern. Firstly, my sister and I did explain to my mom in detail regarding her condition and she did not react to it. This was end of April. But we also told her to believe in miracles and herself and never to loose hope. She was a very strong lady not just in this condition but always. She wanted to live and agreed to all or any treatment the doc would recommend. Apparently in her case neither miracles or medicines worked as her cancer cells were aggressive as stated by her doc.

Secondly and with a very very heavy heart, would like to inform that my Mother passed away on the 28th of May. 27th night she collapsed as she was exiting the bathroom (my sister and I avoided a fall as the cancer had reached her bones), we rushed her to the nearest hospital, they said she needs to be put on ventilator and did a central line procedure. Her feet at the bottom were turning blue and her BP was so low that the monitor could not detect a reading. She was in the ICU and no one was allowed in except if we brought in medicines which the doc asked. Her heart rate kept dropping and 12 hours after admission to the hospital she left us without a word as the ventilator was in her mouth and she was unconcious. The reason, multiple organ failure and scepsis. Her right lung was filled with liquid completely (tapping was done on 22May and 1.2L liquid was extracted), her stomach was filled with liquid and her liver was swollen.

The docs always took an Xray of the chest only, we were unaware of the effects in the other organs. The only reference they made was to a PET scan taken in Jan 2013. My Mother had only 4 months between diagnosis, treatment and the end. I am not sure what to say here, she was to come visit me this May, but instead I was there since Feb and attended her funeral in May. After almost 5 months leaving my husband and job behind I have returned with so many questions and ofcourse a grave loss which is irreplaceable. I returned to my husband and soon to my job too but still dont feel I have returned. Part of me got burried with my mother, my strength and confidence.