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  • Reality
    Reality Member Posts: 782
    edited April 2013

    Thanks so much for good wishes, Titan!

    Sherry

  • Reality
    Reality Member Posts: 782
    edited April 2013

    There is a Xeloda thread on Stage IV forum - very supportive and informative. Also very honest and not sugar-coated...scary at times, but also encouraging at times. 

  • InspiredbyDolce
    InspiredbyDolce Member Posts: 1,181
    edited April 2013

    OBXK - Did you recently add your photo or have I really been out of it? LOL  I love it - you look great!

  • Reality
    Reality Member Posts: 782
    edited April 2013

    Hello Teresa, My granddaughter just fell asleep, so I will take the opportunity to post info:

    5/11 - found lump during BSE. Could not believe it. Blocked it out for two weeks before calling ob/gyn.

    5/11 - OB/Gyn could see the lump before even examining me. Bx. next day at BS office.

    5/11 - triple negative status confirmed.

    6/11 - 8/11 - preadjuvant chemo - AC/Taxol

    9/11 - lumpectomy - clear margins, negative nodes. Six weeks of radiation, 5 days a week. No problems with rads. 

    6/12 - arm pain lead to bone scan - lung mets suspected - CT scan confirmed. Two lung bxs. One lead to collapsed lung (ouch!!!)

    7/12-9/12 - Carbo/Gem chemo - too hard on blood counts - had transfusion and stopped chemo. 

    11/12-3/13 - completely ignored calls from Onc's office. Had no treatment - needed a mental and physical break!

    3/13 to 4/13 - Gemzar alone. Lung disease progressed significantly. White counts very low - neupogen (awful!) injections at home. 

    4/13 - now: Onc gave me choice to stop treatment or try Xeloda - what the heck, will try it. Onc. is not very optimistic due to agressive, chemo resistant disease. He knows I want honesty, so he gives it to me. I am thankful for that. 

    Sherry 

  • teresa008
    teresa008 Member Posts: 55
    edited April 2013

    Reality, I'm so sorry to hear that. I truly hope that Xeloda works for you. I'm going to keep my fingers crossed for you and please let us know how it goes.

    Take care.

  • OBXK
    OBXK Member Posts: 791
    edited April 2013

    Sherry - I am so sorry you find yourself at the end treatment options. Something all of us at stage 4 know will come, but can in no way prepare for. I just started Xeloda, too soon to know if it's doing anything. I hope it buys us both a little more time.



    Thanks for noticing the photo change.

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited April 2013

    Hello Ladies,

    How are you all doing?  It has been awhile since I've been on the board and I have had my ups and downs for sure.  Still on treatment with some success and some progression.  

    Karen.....I am on 5-FU which is a form of Xeloda.  The fatigue is the hardest for me, but the steroids help.  Little walks in the fresh air seem to help a bit, but napping when you need to nap is the ticket.  Think cat naps.  If you have to take an ativan to get a good 4 hours in.  They make the world of difference.

    How is Luv?

    and how is Cocker?

    I have been keeping up with most everyone else through facebook.  If you would like to friend me please send a private message and I will give you my facebook page.

    Gotta go for now.  Love to you all!

  • bak94
    bak94 Member Posts: 1,846
    edited April 2013

    Linda-Your grandaughter is so lucky to have you. I feel for both of you for what you have been through, so glad you have each other. How nice to see her move forward with her life, yet so difficult to see her go, at least she is not far.

    The other part of your post makes me mad, because the same thing happened to me. My insurance stopped paying for mri's after 3 years of my first diagnoses. I really feel that if I still was getting mri's that my second diagnoses would have been caught much earlier, but they would not pay, even with my doc fighting for it. I did have a mother and 3 aunts with breast cancer and they would still not pay. Now, basically after having late stage 3, possibly stage 4, my insurance won't pay for a pet scan after having a clear pet scan. They did pay for a ct scan. ALthough I am ok with not having a pet scan, it makes me mad that my doctor wants me to have one and my insurance won't pay!

    Reality-thinking of you.

    CS-love all the cute kitty photos! And  the funny posts, always brightens my day!

    Hi to everyone!

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited April 2013

    My mate at work who found a lump last week in her breast and under her arm has now had to travel to her home town because her dad is dying.  I feel so sorry for her.  She has the heartbreak of losing her dad and also has to wait for her results. Must be absolute torture for her.

    Inmate so good to see you posting but sorry you had a progression.  I hope everything works out well for you.  You are such a fighter and never gives up.  I hope you do kick this cancers arse. 

    Bak I really don't understand the insurance in the US. If you have paid in for this how they can refuse you the treatment. Is your insurance pay outs only up to a certain amount and if so why.  How can they only pay for say one MRI and not a further one.  Can you also go on the public waiting list (that's if you have one).

    My wonderful manager at work has now left and we have a new one. Talk about a new broom sweeping everything clean.  This one seems like a tough cookie thats hard to chew through.  So far I have kept out of her way but would'nt like to get on the wrong side of her.  Still we shall break her in no doubt, she won't stand a chance lol

    Good looking hat Karen.  Suits you.  Just love the bow.

    My old fellar has got a pain in his hip.  Been coming and going for a while now.  I thought perhaps its because he is now standing on his feet for a long while at the cafe but now I suspect he may have to have a hip replacement.   God knows who is going to feed me if he has to go into hospital lol.  Well, I have to think of things like that don't I.    Okay Titan enough said!!

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited April 2013

    Oh look ladies isn't this just the sweetest poppet

    Με φώναξε κανείς;;; χαχαχαχα

  • Cocker_Spaniel
    Cocker_Spaniel Member Posts: 1,204
    edited April 2013

    This is so true for all of us but so very hard to do.

  • Luah
    Luah Member Posts: 1,541
    edited April 2013

    Inmate: Thanks for posting... great to hear from you!  So sorry about the progression, but it sounds like, with that indomnitable spirit of yours, you're coping well with your regimen. We're all pulling for you and hoping that it stops that frickin' BC cold. I think of you often. 

  • gillyone
    gillyone Member Posts: 1,727
    edited April 2013

    Inmate - glad you popped in.

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited April 2013

    Ladies,

    Thank you so much for the warm welcome back.  I missed all of you and am glad to have made the jump back in.  You will be seeing many more posts from me.

    Hope all have a great day!

    Lotsa love!

  • minxie
    minxie Member Posts: 484
    edited April 2013

    Dolce - Dr Carey is the specialist I consulted after my local recurrence last year. Kind, smart, very thorough. I left the 2 hour consult (!) feeling like I'd talked to the best there was.

    Inmate - so nice to see you back! Sorry about the progression, but I know you're one tough cookie - looking forward to more of your posts.

    Someone was asking a few pages back about hormonals for low ER+, well I was 1% ER+ and they put me one Letrazole. Side affects were brutal on me, so I stopped. For 1%, it just didn't seem worth it... hope I don't regret that decision.

    I'm healed up from my last surgery three weeks ago, got my implant in and looking fairly OK considering all the foobs have been through. Mentally/emotionally I'm still all over the place. I'm 4.5 years out from original diagnosis and I just can't get over - anything. I'm pathetic! I irritate even myself.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2013

    welcome back Inmate!  Love to see your posts and still love your avatar.

    Phyllis

  • afriday322
    afriday322 Member Posts: 4
    edited April 2013

    Thanks for replying!! It gives me hope to read posts and talk to TN survivors!! Waiting to see Oncologist in 4 days. I'm not a fan of waiting but I have no choice. In the meantime Im self treating with diet, staying alkaline, trying to cut out sugar and red meat. Taking supplements..graviola(guanabana fruit)...breast health vitamin with dim..d3..green tea etc., turkey tail mushroom with other immune support mushrooms...low dose asprin 81mg...vitamin c drip 2x prior to bilateral mastectomy..maybe over doing it but I am too young and have children to care for to not fight this with everything I can both conventional and non conventional.

    Thanks to all who post!!

    Anna

  • LRM216
    LRM216 Member Posts: 2,115
    edited April 2013

    Annie, Titan and Bak- thanks so much for all the kind words.  You gals are so very special to me in all ways possible.

    Bak - it's a damn shame about your insurance company, what with all you have been through.  Has your doctor taken up the fight for you?  Mine told me there were actual "rounds" she had to go in the fight with them (and still lost!).  However, I have had no problems since my diagnose up to the present time of denial, which is a whole lot different than your situation.  I have heard that there are insurance advocates in the insurance company that you could also go to to continue protesting their denial.  Hope it works, because, escpecially in your case, this is just wrong, wrong and more wrong.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Linda

  • OBXK
    OBXK Member Posts: 791
    edited April 2013

    Inmate - so glad you popped in here. Moowah!



    Annie - I love the kitten photo.

  • Lauren15
    Lauren15 Member Posts: 119
    edited April 2013

    Hi All,  I haven't been posting for awhile, but I've been reading the messages on my cell phone.  I want to reach out to all the ladies with recurrences and send my prayers your way.  I'm hoping you will share your stories with me on any reason your doctor may have given for the recurrence or what you think.  I'm at the point where chemo is done  (no tumor left - there is only residual remaining they said after ultra sound), and I meet with my BS and PS on Monday.  Still not sure what procedure, although I'm leaning towards BMX and DEIP Flap (or whatever it's called).  Anyway,  I wanted to ask for help in the diet arena and also ask all you ladies with recurrences if you had changed your diet.  I've never been the healthiest, but I'm not all that bad.  I also had 25 lbs to lose before the diagnosis, and now after chemo it's closer to 50.  I'm trying to switch to a vegan/vegetarian diet and doing a lot of reading that mushrooms are good (conflicting info on which ones), green smoothies (bought a vitamix that I haven't really used yet), and bought some vitamins.  I still need to exercise, which I hope to start tomorrow (even if it's just to walk the dog).  I hate going out looking like a cancer patient and have been hibernating.  Hate wearing the wig.  I'd love to hear what everyone is doing and what they've been advised to do.  I'd like to do whatever is necessary to avoid a recurrence.  Are there any indicators to see if you're predisposed to it?  Thanks!  Lauren

  • Titan
    Titan Member Posts: 2,956
    edited April 2013

    Inmate!  love hearing from you girl!    We mommies worry if we don't hear from our girls..but you have to do what you have to do and respect that...I am on FB with a few others on here...guess I will have to do a search for you.

    Lauren..as far as the diet etc..I would encourage you to do what you think is best for you.....exercise is great...not sure how much diet really helps but eating good will just make you feel better....my dh and I are now doing the meat from a 4 legged animal only twice per week...no more than that...plus I'm always stuffing the veggies down every nite and i love them

  • jenjenl
    jenjenl Member Posts: 948
    edited April 2013

    I've cut sugar down (can't say out bc I have 1 sprite a week), low fat, fresh (not pre-packaged food) and increased seafood meals and chicken and less meat.  The hardest has been to not eat chocolate and cheese.

  • ksmatthews
    ksmatthews Member Posts: 812
    edited April 2013

    Hello Ladies!  I haven't been on in a couple of months!  I still see familiar faces, but lot's of new faces too.  So sorry you have to be here, but trust me you will be glad you found this board.  It really got me through.  I passed my 2 year mark in March and so far so good.  Life is almost back to normal for me.  Still don't have energy like I used to, and still hurt sometimes.  Oh and my eyebrows are falling out again!  

    But I just wanted to say hello!  Stay  strong and fight, fight, fight!!!

  • inmate4232010
    inmate4232010 Member Posts: 310
    edited April 2013

    Just got back from my doctor and the purse is officially off.  No more pump for me.  By my estimation I wore that damned thing for 5 months straight.  That's chemo 24/7 for 5 months.  No wonder I got hand a foot syndrome.  The hand/foot thing is why I had to quit.  The mets on my chest were not cooperating so a change is in order.  I will be starting a new drug called Doxil on Monday.  Infusion every 3 weeks.  Here's hoping that this one works.  I really am running out of options.  Here's what I've taken so far (in order?) A/C, Taxol, Cisplatin, Cytoxin, Methotrexate, Navelbine, Abraxane, Erubilin, 5-FU.  There is one more but I just can't remember.  It was Gemzar.  I took it with the Cisplatin during overnight hospital infusions.  

    In addition to the chemo changes I am getting a brain scan on Monday.  Something isn't right.  I have a hard time reading things without seeming to make up words in my head and get dizzy from time to time.  So for good measure we will scan to be sure we are headed in the right direction on chemo.  Fun times!

    That's all I got.  Except I hope everyone had a great day.  I am enjoying a glass of wine and a little green to relax.  Cheers to you all!  

    Love to you all!

  • Grammy98
    Grammy98 Member Posts: 16
    edited May 2013

    Hi to all of you ladies.  I am new and having stumbled onto this site yesterday spent literally all day yesterday reading the entire 4 years of this string.  I felt like I was reading a series of novels without having to wait for the next book to be published!  You can see my profile details.  I am now 60 years old {me, really, me, wasn't I just in third grade?}, diagnosed at 58+.  As most of you said, I found the lump myself a month before I was due for my annual mammo.  I (now it seems) fortuitously had been experiencing from time to time a muscle spasm just under my left breast (unrelated I'm told) and so while sitting up in bed in my nightgown in Fairbanks, AK while visiting my daughter and reading from my Nook, I lifted up my left breast so I could rub the annoying muscle below.  Lo and behold, as I raised my breast I felt a lump.  My initial and subsequent thought was, "Wow, where did that come from?"  It seemed to appear out of nowhere, as many of you have described.  I was not particularly systematic in doing SBE, but it had not been very long.

    I went through the usual course that many of you describe here and am now 15 months post chemo. 

    The main (and seemingly trivial, but not) reason I decided to post and I hope you have all read to this point is that I have seen nothing mentioned about icing you finger and toenails during treatment.  My nurses told me about this and literally while I received my chemo infusions (nothing at home afterwards), I had ice or icepacks placed over my fingernails and toenails.  I had some slight yellowing of my fingernails, but they really were fine.  Unfortunately, I delayed icing my toes until my 5th and 6th treatments and had more damage there, however, I did not lose any toenails completely.  They turned yellow and seemed to have blood blisters under the nails as well as curling inward.

    I have been so fortunate to have a co-worker to confide in who had TN 7 years ago at the young age of 32.  She is cured today and living a normal life Smile!

  • Grammy98
    Grammy98 Member Posts: 16
    edited April 2013


    Tea tree oil was also recommened.  I rubbed it routinely on finger and toe nails.  I can't confirm if it made a difference as I have nothing to compare to, but I did not have the awful symptoms many of you have unfortunately described.  Try it!

  • Reality
    Reality Member Posts: 782
    edited April 2013

    Inmate - I hope the new med works for you. I also keep trying new meds. Gemzar was great as far as Se's go. The infusion time was short and with neupogen injections, my blood count cooperated. Would'nt you know though, did not do a darn thing for my lung mets. Nope, they decided I was having it too easy on Gemzar and took the opportunity to grow!  I am up so early this a.m. as I am sitting here staring at my "last resort" - Xeloda. It arrived in the mail yesterday. I have it all sorted out in my shiny new pill box, compliments of the mfgs. of X, of course, along with a bunch of other crap in my "Welcome to X" packet. How many darn packets have we had....I just love it, "Welcome to Xeloda", like it's an invitation to a party! Anyway, my wonderful six yr old granddaugher spent the night with me, so I am going to wait until she goes to school this a.m. before I take my first dose. I realize that the nausea may not set in with the first dose, but for some people it does. I try to make mornings fun, so I do not want to ruin it. Hmmmmm, wonder what my excuse will be to wait to take it after she goes to school...oh yes, I have to eat breakfast before I take it, and of course, I need to feed cats, and oh yes, there's the litter box to clean.....

  • jenjenl
    jenjenl Member Posts: 948
    edited April 2013

    GRammy - I iced my finger nails but not my toes.  My finder nails have ridges and some discoloration but that is it.

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited April 2013

    I wonder if taking Taxol weekly instead of DD/Taxol is easier on the nails? My one toenail lifted on one side but my fingernails were fine. I did not ice. I took the weekly Taxol.

  • melissa119
    melissa119 Member Posts: 172
    edited April 2013

    Schatzi14... I don't know. I also did weekly taxol and actually all but 3 of my fingernails oozed and lifted and I lost 1. They r now getting back to normal and the one I lost is almost grown back. My big toenails are black still and lifting but didn't fall off yet. Six months pfc and still dealing with these little reminders!

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