Charleston Bound, part 2
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omg, eyelashes! Now I am really freaking out about having an eyeball boob! Brunch at Crave sounds wonderful, my sister will like that, thanks Marty.
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Marty,
Thanks for restaurant tip. I may be staying closer to beach next time, and I'm giving tips to a new patient of Dr. K. Your local knowledge is so helpful to us "patient-tourists!" Someday, I would love to move there!
I was totally bummed when I was just there for an entire month when I found out it was not shrimp season or especially not crab season. I grew up on East coast, 1 block from marsh/bay, and 1 mile from beach in southern Maryland. Was accustomed to fresh from water to our table crab, oysters, and clams.
I called several restaurants just to see if they had any soft shell or crabs, and they said no, but they said they had nicely frozen. No way, I want the real deal. It took me two weeks to get over the nausea, and I was so ready for my fav seafood. So I guess I'll have to wait until this summer when I come back.
Do you suggest The Boathouse? I went there for appetizers at sunset bar, but wondered about their brunch and dinners?
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The boathouse is lovely, but loud and crowded. There are better and less touristy. Staying at Homewood places you at 3 excellent restaurants and a great burger pub within 2 blocks, no driving necessary. Opal is amazing. Basil is upscale fusion Thai, beautiful with excellent food. Crave is really great and accommodates a wide variety of dietary concerns - gf, paleo, crossfit, etc. Calders Pub has great burgers. The sushi at Yamato is also excellent.
A new restaurant will be available front beach on IOP when y'all return, owned by Ken Vedrinski the chef who took the Woodlands in Summerville to a 5 star rating. Also, the Long Island Cafe on IOP in the old Red and White Shopping Center is really good. Nice touch to their food. Such a privilege to live in a foodie mecca, but gotta carefully watch waistlines.
I too, grew up in Northern Virginia and fished the Chesapeake. Lots of trips to the Eastern Shore. Crabs off the dock were my forte when I was really tiny. The good news is that when y'all are back in town, it will be shrimp and crab season. Though they say the shrimp season might be light. We often go to the docks on Shem Creek to buy for a week where I can get large, heads off for $4 - 6 per pound. Yum!
Another fun idea is to take a participation cooking class at Charleston Cooks on East Bay and Cumberland in the historic district. They do a realy wonderful job. There are only 12 per participation class - usually costs about $60 pp. Really can learn some fun wonderful food! Also, there is a fantastic culinary tour. It is a walking tour of either upper or middle King Street. The guide is wonderfully knowledgeable. I have lived here for 25 years and still learned wonderful things about the people and the town. Highly recommended.
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I saw the restaurant but was satisfied by the Homewood Suites food! Couldn't really eat other than that. However will keep it mind for next trip - I had copied a bunch of your suggestions prior to January and think we ate at some then. This trip was shorter and in the window of not very hungry at that point.
Thanks, Marty - how are you doing - was your stage 2 what you thought it would be? Mine addressed the SGAP donor site issues and some fat grafting on front and back. Stage 2b will be just fat grafting both back and front. I turn some interesting colors!! -
An amazing technical woman invaded the IOP. Soon, if turned lose naked, she will cammofloge quite nicely in the woods. Ah, the colors I have turned. We lowered my abdominal incision and removed the dog ears. She also preformed a plication of the abdominal muscles/fascia to flatten the tummy. The left breast was lifted and rotated into place. She broke up a hard area along the IM Fold left over from a hematoma. She also corrected the bat wings that were left by the initial BS 27 years ago and never used by the PS. This resulted in having to draw the scar much further around the back that anticipated, but wings gone. She did a lot of fat grafting on the upper poles of both breasts. The lipo for the fat was limited to the love-handles, back and upper middle flanks. In August she will take the fat from the outer thighs for additional grafting, reserving the inner thighs (which she says is best) for December. It is certainly nice to have a plan and I am glad we will be going every 4th month instead of every 3rd as it gives me much more time to recover.
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🙆That's lots of technicolor for sure, I have some matching outer thighs! Only hurts when I touch it, so I don't touch it if I can help it. Lol
However the part where the magician sawed me in half sure has its moments! Sleeping on and off most of the evening. Hope I can sleep tonight!
If I can ever figure out this avatar thing I will put up my 'unswollen' feet as for a while there I was so pumped up (happens every time) that I had kankles instead of ankles. Cool now though back to almost normal now.
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My next surgery is in two weeks and I seem to be more uptight about this one.
For anyone who has had scar lowered and revised I am wondering what this entails. Recovery? Drains? Compression? I will also have a hooha lift! 😄 I have a family wedding two weeks after and don't want to miss it. Will that be doable? Any info will be greatly appreciated.
I feel great, but not looking forward to recovery again. Dr. M wants to keep me on schedule and does different areas each time. I trust her decision with this. I need to be done this year for insurance reasons. Of course money is an issue and I have met my deductible and copayment for the year. If there are any complications, I still have December, but I certainly hope not to. -
Cherrie,
Is it less costly to have your Stage 2 surgeries with Dr M at Chicago surgery centers or Roper versus at NOLA hospitals?
This is taking into account patients not living close to any of these hospitals so just for hospital costs and insurance coverage.
You all should take your 5 wheeler to Charleston for surgery - so beautiful!
Hope all goes really smooth on next surgery and have fun at wedding. -
Cherrie, not sure what a hooha lift entails if it isn't asking too much, can you explain? My scar from a year ago's SGAP was lowered and revised big time, though, and the 2 seromas I had managed to get a couple of months after surgery were also removed. My husband almost did cartwheels when Dr. K said there were no drains!!!! So, I did not have any drains this surgery! VERY much appreciated but not expected! Little to do after surgery no need for ointments, draining drains, etc, only thing to do is shower, put on the major compression garment (which after getting used to getting in and out of it when needed is a piece of cake). We are all different as are our Drs. and their procedures, but for my experience, there are no drains, no ointments, no more antibiotics as there are no drains (Dr K wants us on antibiotics as long as we have drains). I have some stitches in the back that need to be removed in a few weeks, but other than that, it's doing my part to heal.
I do have pain in the revised area, but it's healing pain that does well with the pain meds. I also itch when I heal, so good thing the compression garment is on, to prevent me from itching the skin raw - and I have one of those backscratcher things that help in the itching department.
I was told NOT TO BEND as in tying my shoes, etc, to help the revision to heal.
I wouldn't be afraid of it at all, (but that's hindsight) it seems like my fears are truly for nothing when it comes time to realize the actuality of the surgery or healing, it all works out and I'm sure you are in good hands so yours will too.
Funny story though: I was a bit out of it when my husband told me I had no drains, so later when he went back to the hotel and the nurses were truly NOT checking drains, I moved around as good as I could (just a few hours after surgery) and called him and asked him if he really meant NO drains!!!!! He was asleep and groggy himself, but assured me there were NO drains! I was prepared for just about anything EXCEPT no drains!!!! LOL. I will not expect that to be the norm for all my surgeries but was a pleasant surprise. I think it was due to the fact that Dr. K took out the seromas and made sure they had no room to come back!
So, Cherrie, while you may or may not have drains, it's all doable, just a bit harder to take long strides walking. I get tired a lot, so when I do, I rest, I'm almost 2 weeks out.
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Cherrie - I forgot to mention that you will be right back in compression. Gotta because of the lipo. My 2c will be here in Charleston in December. She said at that one, the final fat grafing will come from the inner thighs and that she likes to save them because they are the best fat! We will also do nipples. If you end up needing a "final" touch up in December, come to Charleston and we can finish together - just as we started. Too bad we didn't take a photo that day at Fairway, but . . . hmmm don't think we looked too spiffy
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Compression isn't as big of a headache as I thought it might be. Kind if used to it after 2 weeks.
Went to a dinner party last night and came home almost in tears! While DH was parking the car so we could leave early I walked in with a greeting from a Newfoundland eager 125# puppy who looked like a bear and jumped on me! The owner - host - grabbed his choke chain, I screamed NO as his paw hit my right shoulder! I'm not at all afraid of dogs, I had a pet photography business at one point, but new breasts/flaps and a very sutured rear did not bode well for either another paw and/or a trip back down the stairs I had just climbed! The paw hit me so hard my necklace broke (host laughed) and I was paranoid the rest of the dinner.
Had I not had surgery 2 weeks ago Iight have laughed about it or perhaps I just went out too soon - not knowing the bear theses people had as a pet- the host said he hadn't encouraged the 'puppy' not to jump (he's almost 2 yrs old) because the dog sleeps on their bed and its a jump to get on the bed!
I think I'm telling this event because I need it out of my head! I feel shaken and want to get it off my mind! Yikes.
Retrospect would have/should have walked in with DH instead of insisting we park so we could leave without breaking up the dinner party (6 couples)
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Catie,
Sorry their dog put a damper on your evening! I hope you are ok and no physical damage and emotions okay now too. Glad you spilled it -- this is place to do it and accepted and understood. Geez, a Newfoundland!
I'm an animal lover, but partial to cats as I have a side job Kitty Sitter service.
But, with my lymphedema risk to right arm, I always extend my left hand to say hi and pet least I meet a nipper! -
CRS319 from Louisville, KY,
If you've found this thread -- Welcome to Charleston!
Will be thinking of you on Wednesday, May 1, during your BMX and DIEP surgery with Dr Baron, Dr Kline, and Dr Craigie at East Cooper Medical Center.
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CRS319
Yes, our thoughts and prayers for a smooth surgery with happy healing! Your team of Drs are my team and I have never regretted my decision to have them in my corner - best to you also as you make your way to Charleston.
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Catie -
Pink it happened so fast! Just a heads up to me to be extra aware of my surroundings I guess.
Was never so happy to leave a dinner party. Other guests stood outside of the door saying they wouldn't come in until the 'bear' was under control! LOL -
Cascader and Sewanee~
You're both coming up fast, and will be thinking of you in your respective stages of surgery!
Cascader~ Smooth travels, and welcome to sun and sand in the Lowcountry! I'm assuming you are still looking at snow out your window at home in mountains?
Sewanee~ Welcome back to the U.S.! Hope you had smooth travels and jet lag is behind you! Your drive to Charleston will seem so short.
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Bear? I was thinking more like horse.
Good friend of mine had a NF, but she's an advocate of doggie obedience school. Went to a friend's last night who has a so smart, so sweet, incredibly obedient border collie. Almost wanted to bring her home with me.
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Ok I need to vent, cry, a little too. Flew out of Seattle Fri am and fell "up" the escalator! Yes I did. Didn't hurt too much but walked about 7 miles sightseeing in Wash DC and totally injured myself. Can't walk , daughter pushing me in wheelchair. Flying to CHS tonite, should be going to ER. Waaaah!!
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Cascader, sooooo sorry. What a weekend. Hope you will be okay. East Cooper has an excellent ER if you still feel the need.
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Oh no Cascader! Praying you heal soon and that time and rest helps. Is it your ankle, knee? Hope no need for PT, but if so their center is down the hall from Dr Kline office.
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Oh no. Hope it isn't serious and heals soon. I can only imagine why you need to vent and cry. GHEEZ!
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Wow, Cascader - just the thought of falling either up or down sends me into panic mode! And you actually fell UP - did you hurt the flap or legs? Either way big hugs- soft ones and prayers for your soft landing in CHS with healing of all parts! Good grief! Didn't you have a bug of sorts last operation? Hoping your pain meds will ease any sore muscles from the escalator! And so hoping the ER isn't your entrance into surgery.
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Thanks, Pink. Glad to be back - it hardly seems like it is already time for round 2.
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Oh Cascader!
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At airport waiting for flight, ankle huge with strange red rash. WTH?
Arrive CHS @midnight. Emailed dr Kline cuz I can't take anything , ibuprofen etc. he said to go to ER, I went to Smithsonian instead. Will see what tomorrow brings. And yes, had the flu last time. Good grief. Rollin' with the punches -
Now that you have had your cultural experience at the Smithsonian, please go to the East Cooper ER first thing in the morning. You are staying at Homewood Suites? If you need me to help, I am happy to pick you up and take you. I will PM you my number.
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Cascader,
We think alike -- gotta see, gotta do!
Got myself really sick and in pain and spinning with drain gushing going on kayak tour when I shouldn't have. Kim helped me out on that ordeal.
At next follow up Dr Kline's greeting comment was:
I heard you went kayaking.
(busted, but was it ever a beautiful morning on Shem Creek). At least he didnt know I drove myself there...
So you may never hear the end of your Smithsonian marathon.
Kidding aside, Really sorry and really hope you will be okay and please keep us posted.
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Cascader can you take one of the pain meds you are bringing with you from the Rx sent to you to fill at home?
If he said to go to ER I'd go for sure!
Marty are you driving already?
Pink- thought you were in pain with nutty drain now until I read the kayak part- yikes!!
Sewanee it comes quickly! Glad you are home! -
Catie - I quit taking pain meds after the first week. The last of my drains came out Wednesday evening. Most women go back to work at 2 weeks from Stage 2. I have been taking walks as often as I can to keep moving parts moving. I don't do anything that would stress my abs or flaps. Still covered in glue, but Dr M says that should start to go this week. A nap daily has always been part of my life. And yes, I am driving.
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Cascader,
Praying for you right now.
(((Hugs)))
Deidre
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